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I got bullied at school, I moved past it. I plan to go to a school reuinion later this year with some of the people who bullied me, I will probably have some drinks with them because I don't hold a grudge for what people did when I was 10 years younger. I don't know if bullying made me stronger, but I haven't run away from life because of it.
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ActionZero posted:Okay shrimpy let's do this. I was bullied quite a lot at school for things that in retrospect I really couldn't have done anything about, I don't think it was as much as you've described happening to you but it did get pretty drat bad at times. Now I'm not going to say I'm glad these things happened, but they did and there's no way I can change that, but I did learn from these experiences and I am pretty drat sure that I would be an entirely different person than I am if they hadn't happened. I was bullied at school until I did the weediest fat nerd half-punch in the world and tapped him on the jaw and then ran like a little bitch, I was then forever the guy who punched brian, who it turned out absolutely nobody liked in any way and it got me minor props for the rest of my school days.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:19
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Artum posted:I was bullied at school until I did the weediest fat nerd half-punch in the world and tapped him on the jaw and then ran like a little bitch, I was then forever the guy who punched brian, who it turned out absolutely nobody liked in any way and it got me minor props for the rest of my school days. lol
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Mar 31, 2015 00:21
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Artum posted:I was bullied at school until I did the weediest fat nerd half-punch in the world and tapped him on the jaw and then ran like a little bitch, I was then forever the guy who punched brian, who it turned out absolutely nobody liked in any way and it got me minor props for the rest of my school days. nice
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Mar 31, 2015 00:21
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Artum posted:I was bullied at school until I did the weediest fat nerd half-punch in the world and tapped him on the jaw and then ran like a little bitch, I was then forever the guy who punched brian, who it turned out absolutely nobody liked in any way and it got me minor props for the rest of my school days.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:23
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you embraced toxic masculinity you monster
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Mar 31, 2015 00:24
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ActionZero posted:Okay shrimpy let's do this. I was bullied quite a lot at school for things that in retrospect I really couldn't have done anything about, I don't think it was as much as you've described happening to you but it did get pretty drat bad at times. Now I'm not going to say I'm glad these things happened, but they did and there's no way I can change that, but I did learn from these experiences and I am pretty drat sure that I would be an entirely different person than I am if they hadn't happened. But if I were to take it as your guy's experiences are the ones that matter, doesn't it invalidate how I felt?
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Mar 31, 2015 00:25
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Artum triumphed over adversity, but at what cost!?
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Compendium posted:you embraced toxic masculinity you monster I spend my days accosting women in the street for how they dress and nights sobbing since none of them will sleep with me.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:25
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Artum posted:I was bullied at school until I did the weediest fat nerd half-punch in the world and tapped him on the jaw and then ran like a little bitch, I was then forever the guy who punched brian, who it turned out absolutely nobody liked in any way and it got me minor props for the rest of my school days. And then everyone stood up and clapped.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:25
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Namtab posted:I unironically want Shrimpy to watch and review K-ON. Making the dude watch some mecha anime was the wrong move. Make him watch some shoujo stuff, I hear My Love Story!! is all the rage nowadays.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:26
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ZenMasterBullshit posted:And then everyone stood up and clapped. EVERY element of that paints me in a bad light, the guy was even a foot shorter than me. How is that a stdh.txt.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:27
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Clawshrimpy posted:But if I were to take it as your guy's experiences are the ones that matter, doesn't it invalidate how I felt? What if......both experiences matter
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Clawshrimpy posted:But if I were to take it as your guy's experiences are the ones that matter, doesn't it invalidate how I felt? Your experiences are valid. My experiences are valid. Artum's experience of giving a lovely punch is valid. Everyone's experiences are valid without invalidating other's experiences. Get this through your thick head.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:28
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Namtab posted:What if......both experiences matter That's crazy, it's completely impossible for somebody to be something other than 100% right or wrong.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:29
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What if.....context existed What if.....you could be wrong about some things and right about others What if....your nightmare is real and that's ok What if....life wasn't black and white
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Mar 31, 2015 00:29
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Clawshrimpy with the whole talk of toxic masculinity and patriachy and all that jazz you sound like you would enjoy some shoujo fluff.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:30
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Clawshrimpy, watch Revolutionary Girl Utena.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:31
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It really should have been nozaki kun instead of mecha.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:31
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a cartoon duck posted:Clawshrimpy with the whole talk of toxic masculinity and patriachy and all that jazz you sound like you would enjoy some shoujo fluff. Watch Sailor Moon
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Mar 31, 2015 00:31
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Artum posted:EVERY element of that paints me in a bad light, the guy was even a foot shorter than me. How is that a stdh.txt. Almost too bad a light.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:32
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Namtab posted:What if......both experiences matter That's impossible. It would mean that other people actually exist and aren't just constructs created by my own mind and projected on the wall of Plato's Cave to keep me from feeling lonely.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:32
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Namtab posted:Almost too bad a light. Am I seriously being told that I must actively defend my assertion of how pathetic I was as a young teenager by the internet.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:33
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Namtab posted:What if......both experiences matter But you're all trying to treat me like I'm horrible for being a coward and hiding. If both experiences matter, why is my mindset considered to be the wrong one?
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Mar 31, 2015 00:35
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Artum posted:EVERY element of that paints me in a bad light, the guy was even a foot shorter than me. How is that a stdh.txt. I'm just messing with you cause it just kind of came out of nowhere. No real problems here.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:36
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Clawshrimpy posted:But you're all trying to treat me like I'm horrible for being a coward and hiding. It's possible for an experience to matter but for the opinions you form as an outcome to be incorrect.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:37
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Artum posted:Am I seriously being told that I must actively defend my assertion of how pathetic I was as a young teenager by the internet. Welcome to the clawshrimpy thread.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:38
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Clawshrimpy posted:But you're all trying to treat me like I'm horrible for being a coward and hiding. Because you're not doing anything to overcome it. You're latching on to the pain and suffering like it's a life preserver, which isn't healthy and something you should be taking up with a therapist. Hiding is a temporary solution, it's something that's OK to do in the moment--like taking shelter from a tornado or an Earthquake--but when the trouble's past (and it seems like it's what, 5-10 years past?) it's safe to stop hiding and start picking up the pieces. Even if the first thing you do with them is reinforce your tornado shelter you're still making your life better.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:39
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Clawshrimpy posted:But you're all trying to treat me like I'm horrible for being a coward and hiding.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:39
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Clawshrimpy posted:If both experiences matter, why is my mindset considered to be the wrong one? Are you happy with how you are now? Namtab posted:Watch Sailor Moon You should definitely do this though.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:42
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You should definitely watch Sailor Moon and just forget about this thread. imo. I think this thread is giving you bad advice, sincerely.
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Mar 31, 2015 00:43
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Stalin-Chan posted:You should definitely watch Sailor Moon and just forget about this thread. imo. I think this thread is giving you bad advice, sincerely. Not the lame remake though, the original.
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Clawshrimpy posted:But if I were to take it as your guy's experiences are the ones that matter, doesn't it invalidate how I felt? No, absolutely not. Clawshrimpy posted:But you're all trying to treat me like I'm horrible for being a coward and hiding. Because you are saying that your experiences are absolutely right and it's everybody else's mindset that is absolutely wrong. Also, PoptartsNinja posted:Because you're not doing anything to overcome it. You're latching on to the pain and suffering like it's a life preserver, which isn't healthy and something you should be taking up with a therapist.
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Re: sailor moon, what the fucks up with the music? Early on its all cool funky poo poo and later on every transformation has the same "~sailor mooooooon~" bullshit.
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mikeycp posted:No, absolutely not. I'm not trying to say that, I'm just saying that I disagree with the assertion people think about their situations apply to me as well, or that everyone who was ever bullied and abused needs to view it that way or they're wrong. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Stalin-Chan posted:You should definitely watch Sailor Moon and just forget about this thread. imo. I think this thread is giving you bad advice, sincerely. I still want to at least ride this thread to the end of King Gainer to show my willingness to try. :3
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Clawshrimpy posted:I'm not trying to say that, I'm just saying that I disagree with the assertion people think about their situations apply to me as well, or that everyone who was ever bullied and abused needs to view it that way or they're wrong. Your posts, or at least the way you are wording them are suggesting that exact same thing you are saying you disagree with.
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ZenMasterBullshit posted:I'm just messing with you cause it just kind of came out of nowhere. No real problems here. People were sharing bullying stories. 
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Clawshrimpy posted:I'm not trying to say that, I'm just saying that I disagree with the assertion people think about their situations apply to me as well, or that everyone who was ever bullied and abused needs to view it that way or they're wrong. Nobody said either of those things. What people are saying is that, x-years later you should start to let it go instead of keeping your life paralysed. Other than scrambling to avoid losing $10 on the anime forum and endlessly rewatching a particular anim we don't mention, what do you do with your day?
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Artum posted:Re: sailor moon, what the fucks up with the music? Early on its all cool funky poo poo and later on every transformation has the same "~sailor mooooooon~" bullshit. I dunno man I think that was only for Sailor Moon's transformation? All I remember is that poo poo-gets-real theme that plays only once at the end of every season. Clawshrimpy posted:I still want to at least ride this thread to the end of King Gainer to show my willingness to try. :3 You can watch two animes at the same time. You don't even have to write your thoughts on Sailor Moon in here or anywhere, you can watch it just for yourself mate.
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