Shaquin posted:

an empowering bit of information if it is within your means and doesn't sound like total derangement when you say it out loud, it doesn't matter if something you wana do is a little weird or whatever. Most humans on this earth are very much concerned with their own business and while they might silently cast a judgement your way in their inner monologue ultimately they will not give a poo poo. there will not be a secret cabal of people meeting to talk about the weird guy who reads a book while nursing single malt at the older folks bar.

as long as you are good with the people you care about and the people who care about you please just be the person you want to be.