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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. Hello what kind of recovery are you meaning? Edit: Oh from being a nice guy, never mind.
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. Maybe realizing that everyone is kinda poo poo, including you, and that if you give people a chance to gently caress up proper before you give up, rather than dismissing them immediately, you might enjoy your life more might help?
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Sep 13, 2016 22:40
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WrenP-Complete posted:Hello what kind of recovery are you meaning? Abilitation, Healthy Love, Unconditional <2, Peaceful Rehabilitation, Consensual Enjoyment, Adventurous Amazements. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QsWbrkHQVDQ (USER WAS BANNED FOR THIS POST)
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Sep 13, 2016 22:42
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. Massive amounts of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy?
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Sep 13, 2016 22:47
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Thank you for writing that out...in this thread cbt could go either way.
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Sep 13, 2016 22:54
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. seems like an opposite response people tend to be more attractive when i think they want me.
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Sep 13, 2016 22:55
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. Yeah I do that. "She seems to like me. Uh-oh, what's wrong with her?" But luckily it's all in my head and I can just push it away tater_salad posted:Thank you for writing that out...in this thread cbt could go either way. what's the other one?
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Sep 13, 2016 23:00
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tater_salad posted:Thank you for writing that out...in this thread cbt could go either way. Tried the other one and it didn't work
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Stinky_Pete posted:what's the other one? Cock and ball torture.
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. Years of therapy and learning to love yourself. I guess you could try shrooms and intense introspection as a really ghetto option.
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. Noticing that people have flaws is not unreasonable. But you're not just not giving them a chance by letting whatever negatives, real and imagined, crowd out all the more obvious good stuff and the prospective positives, but you're actively doing it in a way that seems like conscious self-sabotage. You either feel lovely enough about yourself that you feel you have to make other people seem lovely, in your mind at least, to feel like you're somehow on par with or better than others, and in doing so you quash any attraction to them because you've put so much effort into making them unattractive. Or you feel lovely enough about yourself that you feel you're undeserving, but narcissism keeps you from saying "He/She's out of my league"/"I don't deserve to be happy" and has you performing the mental gymnastics of needing to make them seem lovely to avoid completely destroying what little sense of self-worth you have left and slumping into full blown misery/depression. Those two assume that you are/were a run of the mill self-aggrandising narcissistic "nice guy", whether the narcissism is inbuilt or developed as a coping mechanism I have no idea, but you should probably get some therapy to work through your issues. Get a job and do some exercise if you don't already, they will do wonders for your self-esteem, but mostly get professional help.
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Travis343 posted:Nice and kind: Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra I can't officially reward you in any way, but that was masterful.
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Sweet As Sin posted:This just came up on my facebook feed That thumb is hosed up.
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WrenP-Complete posted:Oh it just occurred to me that my work email is public here because I'm recruiting for my study. You can message me at psychedelicsresearch@gmail.com, it's a team email, so just explain who you are and I'll contact you from my personal address. Does this mean that you'll send me psychedelics to take if I offer to be a guinea pig for you?? I'm in
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God Damnit even loving Ancient Rome had Chadius Thundercockus:Pompeiian Graffiti posted:"Floronius, privileged soldier of the 7th legion, was here. The women did not know of his presence. Only six women came to know, too few for such a stallion."
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The Saurus posted:God Damnit even loving Ancient Rome had Chadius Thundercockus: At least back then you might have a chance at tasting the thunder uourself.
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o poo poo they had nice guys too:quote:Cruel Lalagus, why do you not love me? quote:Let everyone one in love come and see. I want to break Venus’ ribs with clubs and cripple the goddess’ loins. If she can strike through my soft chest, then why can’t I smash her head with a club? quote:Sarra, you are not being very nice, leaving me all alone like this quote:Take hold of your servant girl whenever you want to; it’s your right And More Chads quote:I screwed a lot of girls here. quote:Gaius Valerius Venustus, soldier of the 1st praetorian cohort, in the century of Rufus, screwer of women quote:On June 15th, Hermeros screwed here with Phileterus and Caphisus. Pretty amazing to see the exact same poo poo going on thousands of years ago. Nothing is new. The Saurus fucked around with this message at 03:53 on Sep 14, 2016 |
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The Saurus posted:Pretty amazing to see the exact same poo poo going on thousands of years ago. Nothing is new.
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A loose female acquaintance of mine sends a slave messenger at 1:00am today and asks me if I could chisel something on a Tabulae for her and bring it over in the afternoon. "Hey yeah sure sure, whatever you need I'll help you, I'm all yours," I tell her. She sends me this diptych and lo and behold I can't chisel it. It's written in Greek with circles and curves and I only have a straight chisel so I begin panicking, trying to find a greek slave or a way to chisel the letters. Scouring the vicus yields no results and I do my usual pacing in my Insula. I finally come up with an idea and I tell the girl, if I can proceed with it. The plan was I would carry my stone tabulae about 2 miles to her house, chisel out the needed letters, maybe talk to her a bit while I was there. I was hoping for at least a hug out of this ordeal. By the time I get there, I'm wet all over from sweating in the malarial swamp and carrying a heavy motherfucking stone tabulae. The first thing I see upon entering her room (my first time in a girl's bedroom) is a mamillare on her bed.
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Let's form a Phallanx, baby. From thigh to neck, sugar.
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lohli posted:Get a job and do some exercise if you don't already, they will do wonders for your self-esteem, but mostly get professional help. Have both already. Not claiming to be some kind of adonis or anything but I'm ok physically and apparently put out a decent personality online because I get a decent amount of matches or whatever online and pick up a number every now and then at the local bars (one weird trick: talk to women like they're people instead of trolls guarding the precious vagina. this will make the troll guarding the precious vagina more likely to give the precious vagina). After doing some soul-searching bullshit maybe it's more that I chicken out and then try to think of excuses. Sorry, this is not my personal E/N thread and really this derail is less interesting than the accents one. But also thanks I guess? vvv: will do, thanks. Grand Prize Winner fucked around with this message at 05:31 on Sep 14, 2016 |
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Sep 14, 2016 04:53
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Try pretending to be an Australian man named John.
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The Saurus posted:A loose female acquaintance of mine sends a slave messenger at 1:00am today and asks me if I could chisel something on a Tabulae for her and bring it over in the afternoon. "Hey yeah sure sure, whatever you need I'll help you, I'm all yours," I tell her. She sends me this diptych and lo and behold I can't chisel it. It's written in Greek with circles and curves and I only have a straight chisel so I begin panicking, trying to find a greek slave or a way to chisel the letters. Scouring the vicus yields no results and I do my usual pacing in my Insula. This isn't getting nearly enough love.
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i posted some bs in this thread like a month ago. have yall autismal mfers figured out how to talk to a female yet
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Sp1r0_Agn3W posted:i posted some bs in this thread like a month ago. have yall autismal mfers figured out how to talk to a female yet I think we scared all the girls out of here, (kicks can, adjusts backwards cap, and walks with hands in pockets )
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One of my loves came to me today to engage my services as an orator. It was the delectable little Carthaginian specimen with the perfect amphora figure and that cute little nose ring that I met last time I went to market. Well, I flubbed a joke about doing a little "orating" on her after the job was done, but she just looked sort of confused and changed the subject. She handed me a few vellum sheets and I was devastated to learn that they were missives from my little Aphrodite's lover. Yes, she has a lover! What's worse, is now I had to read this insipid drivel out loud in front of the woman I love! How mortifying! I am a professional, however, so I took my coins and read the letters from some "Caius Priapus-cock" despite how much anguish it caused me inside. I delivered my services with such fervor and passion, it was as if Eros himself were reciting the phrases, praising the beauty of my precious darling, and not faltering even when the words turned to describing vulgar acts I'm certain she's much too pure to partake in. Ophelia, I learned her name from its repeated use in the letters, stood spellbound as I executed my contract. I was so caught up in the emotion of the moment that when the final letter was ended, I embraced my fair Ophelia and kissed her passionately. We hung there, suspended in ecstasy for a moment, until her cruel knee smashed into my groin. She gathered her letters as I lay on the ground and she left without a word, looking terribly embarrassed. I tried to apologize for my forwardness but only croaks came out of my throat as I lie curled on the ground. Oh, why are girls so gods damned complicated! I was so mad that when I got home I punched a hole in my slave. Diary of Scorus Nihilus, Orator Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 05:32 on Sep 14, 2016 |
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Wicker Man posted:I think we scared all the girls out of here, (kicks can, adjusts backwards cap, and walks with hands in pockets ) dont fret friend, your queen is just around the corner (of gamestop)
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Pvt.Scott posted:Diary of Scorus Nihilus, Orator Cicero's brother wrote a go-to book on defaming your rivals. Apparently it was good enough for Cicero to refer to himself. Mr. Scores-None could prolly take a page out without goin' Cato on poor Breakshisbacksimus.
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phasmid posted:Cicero's brother wrote a go-to book on defaming your rivals. Apparently it was good enough for Cicero to refer to himself. Mr. Scores-None could prolly take a page out without goin' Cato on poor Breakshisbacksimus. Ovid's Wraths is a good poem, lots of fire and brimstone.
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Mods please change my name to Caius Priapus
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I'm Gaius.
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The Saurus posted:o poo poo they had nice guys too: Most of those are gay. I'm a huge prick
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The Saurus posted:Does this mean that you'll send me psychedelics to take if I offer to be a guinea pig for you?? Nah, sorry, that would be illegal. I do survey research on people who do psychedelics. You are welcome to join our control group if you like, though.
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. everyone has flaws, everyone looks like poo poo unless they've showered/put on make-up/etc/in the morning/etc, everyone hates themselves, etc.
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i love myself if there was a clone of me i would prob buttfuck myself until i died from exhaustion
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. Hey there, I have self-esteem issues but I'm not really sure if I'm in recovery so much as a downward spiral
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Any other nice guys in recovery have real weird self-esteem issues? Every time a girl's into me I immediately start trying to spot flaws in her character/appearance. If I don't spot any I start making them up. Once I've made a big enough list I drop all communication. This usually takes about 4-6 hours from first meeting her. You need to focus more on your own flaws. Do that enough and soon you won't labor under the false illusion that a girl is actually into you and you'll realize that at best you're misreading the situation and at worst the girl is making fun of you. Youre welcome
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Should i make another r/relationships thread?
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You whore bitches don't deserve another thread. This thread has been here the whole time, bringing you quality content and now you want to start another thread where Chad Thundercocks whine about their relationship issues? gently caress YOU LINDA!
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