WampaLord posted:

As a Floridian, I just get to sit back and chuckle at all this effort towards snow removal.

Gaunab posted:

gentle pete posted:

IncredibleIgloo posted:

Good advice. At the last company Holiday Party I attended I felt it was a great time to ask, rather loudly, why my co-worker had my (soon to be) ex-wife as a friend on Fetlife, and if she enjoyed his sex dungeon.

Gluten Freeman posted:

i love this one because all the comments are saying "your family is right and you should have a long engagement because you are very young and things change"

Agentdark posted:

I would imagine that the relationship is much more hosed up and one sided then they admit to. I meet alot of Poly people who desperately try to defend their dysfunctional relationships with the weirdest and worst logic.

Groovelord Neato posted:

on what planet is garlic bread a bbq food.

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

Does my [32 M] girlfriend[32 /F] owe me sex

loquacius posted:

I do not understand why the mother of the kids who pushed a younger kid into an open grave for over an hour is mad at the mom of the victim.

WampaLord posted:

What kind of gag reflex prevents cunnilingus and kissing?

WampaLord posted:

That's weird, was it a genetic thing or something?

WampaLord posted:

The Rifftrax commentary tracks for all the Twilight movies are amazing.

mobby_6kl posted:

Do it dude, live the dream and then and take half her poo poo!

Subjunctive posted:

Or it's still in a restricted trust.

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

Me [32/F] have been chatting with a Redditor [31/M] for 40 days and only yesterday just discovered he's been lying about his identity.

not a really ridiculous story, I just find it absolutely crazy that someone would go to a personals subreddit to look for a spouse

Cough Drop The Beat posted:

Girlfriend [19F] of 9 months cancelled our anniversary trip because I[20M] bought a different cell phone than discussed.

well why not posted:

we need a bigger SEVER for the holiday period

Gaunab posted:

poopnanners posted:

Employable adults are incapable of consuming alcohol responsibly.

Not a Children posted:

I keep asking my older coworkers what it was that made our company switch from nighttime christmas parties with booze to dry luncheons

Nobody has given me a straight answer yet but I assume it's gotta be a hell of a story

HardDiskD posted:

Google is giving me 1.5m for 5'10'' and that's not tall at all?

Groovelord Neato posted:

he was referring to the height of women.

HardDiskD posted:

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

here's a content posted on a non-fake account with lots of activity

Me [F17] with [M25] I met online a few days ago, should I enter a side chick type relationship with this man?



Only at this:
did she for some reason realize it's a bad idea

Professor Shark posted:

She saw the big and jumped, drat

quote:

My (M29) fiancee (F22) and I just broke up because she cheated on me and may be gay she thinks. We have a son and house and I could use any emotional help. Worst day of my life.

My fiancé told me Christmas day that she isn't happy with our relationship anymore. She told me she has feelings for a woman and thinks she might be gay. Our entire relationship is now over and we have to start the process of selling our home and figuring out custody of our 1 year old son.
She says it's all her fault this happened but that dosnt change how I fell and that I no longer can trust anybody. I'm just looking for any thoughts or support emotionally from you all as this is the worst moment of my entire life.
tldr fiancee might be gay and our relationship and family is now destroyed

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I [F/19] read text about how my boyfriend [M/21] wanted to have a New Years Party with "hoes" and I don't know how to feel about this

So I went through my boyfriends (of 1 and a half years) phone out of curiosity, which I know I shouldn't have done but I did anyways. I will be honest, I am insecure and I felt as if he was hiding something from me when he decided he was going to the mall with his friend (early in the day) and then was staying in the city for one of his old hs female friends party. But he ended up not going to the party but stayed the whole entire day in the city.. I was kind of suspicious because it didnt make sense to me. So I went through his phone. ( he was telling the truth)
I saw him telling his 2 friends in a group chat how he wants to throw a New Year party with the "hoes" (as in girls, but I guess you can't say that around your guys smh ) , atleast 10 of them. His friend responded, I don't have any, Jake doesn't have any and you don't either. (lol). Jake said he does he just doesn't gently caress them but he could. My boyfriend responds with we've all had that opportunity. They start talking about 2 of their HS friends they know that gets of girls I would assume, (he owns a clothing business and has a lot of money) and my boyfriend tells them don't worry their time will come. (Assuming once they have stable jobs/ graduate college they will be able to get girls as well). My boyfriend is also telling how he has 4 of them he's met just this month and he doesn't even really go out like that, but how he doesn't really try. He also says something to Jake around the lines if he met a attractive female would he gently caress her raw, and Jake says no, with a condom, and he said that it would be no point.
They are all in relationships, and the fact that my boyfriend could even think having unprotected sex with someone else while in a relationship is beyond disgusting to me, it also has me worried that someone could be so careless about their (and mines) health. Like who knows what he's doing? The fact that I know hes a broke college students who hates his job and I know he's struggling to make things meet and his grocery store job makes him feel horrible, but he's going to have a really good job in the future. we barely go on dates, for the most part its always dutch and I understand that he's not at a point to be able to do nice things for me because he cant afford it, but I would have assumed if we were together once he had a stable job he would want to treat me like how women would like to be treated, not worried about when his "time will come" and he'll have money for girls to like him. (i assume)
thats so freaking backwards to me and I never knew my boyfriend even thought like that. I'm really assuming that maybe this way "guy talk" but the fact that he was the one who initiated it makes me less to think that. I feel like I love him but I do envision us in the future with and him having a stable job and kids and really just living life. Like he's even brought up a couple of times how he could see us being married in the future and all.. But now after seeing his comment I feel very turned off and on edge from him.
I had no business looking in his phone and I did and I don't know how to go about what I saw, is there anyway I could bring this up and have a conversation with him about this without telling him I went through his phone. Am I looking into hard into this and maybe it was just something minor, or does my boyfriend really just sound like an rear end in a top hat.. Idk I can't even really talk to him today after I saw what I saw he know's I'm upset with him too..
TL;DR - My boyfriend was talking about throwing a party and wanted females there. He talked about how once his time will come.. makes me not understand if we should be together.

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My [27F] boyfriend's [30M] friend [32M] "accidentally" left a USB stick plugged into my laptop which contains hundreds of pictures and videos of me.

Hi, Reddit.
I've been with my boyfriend, Brady, for three years now, living together for one. He's amazing and makes me a better person. We connect in so many ways and I'm very excited to spend the rest of my life with him (we've been talking about marriage heavily lately). All is well in that department!

My issue is with my boyfriend's friend, Kyle. Kyle has always been friendly enough and we have always gotten along well. Kyle and Brady have been friends since high school and they have a very close bond. He pops by the house once a week to shoot some pool, have dinner or drinks and just hangout. I haven't had any issues with Kyle thus far, except for one incident when he said that "Brady must love to hit that" (referencing me) when we threw a house warming party. I pulled him aside and told him that language was unacceptable and objectifying and he apologized. Brady was made aware of the situation and also told Kyle not to talk to me like that and it would not be tolerated inside or outside of the house.

Today, Kyle came over in the morning to use my laptop to transfer some photos of a vacation a bunch of us went on earlier last month. Nothing was really out of the ordinary but I did notice Kyle kept sneaking glances at me and I deduced it to my bedhead. Shortly after we all had breakfast, Kyle and Brady left to go play hockey and I've been at home since.

I went to use my laptop to look through the photos and noticed Kyle left his USB plugged in. I went to go remove it when I noticed that there was a folder named after me on his USB stick. Curiosity got the best of me and I opened it. What I saw seemed to be straight from the movie "Love Actually" and I actually couldn't believe it at first. There were over 200 pictures and a handful of videos of just me, sometimes with others in the background. Me eating dinner, dancing at a bar, jumping off of a cliff, lying down on the couch, reading a book, laughing, on Brady's lap. There were videos of me doing various things too, like changing out of my beach cover-up during our trip last month, chewing on a pen. I was floored and felt really creeped out. Like, who does this? Did he want me to see these? I have a hard time thinking this was a mistake, he's pretty tech-savvy and if he didn't want me to see it, I highly doubt he would name the folder after me.

Now, normally I would have noticed if Kyle was just taking random pictures and videos of me because that's really strange behaviour, but Kyle is a famous YouTube Vlogger who vlogs daily and does pranks and whatnot. He does this full-time now and makes a comfortable living out of it. I'm used to him having his camera out to film and it doesn't bother me, but now that I'm thinking back, a lot of the time he wouldn't be speaking as if it were a voice-over, he'd just be filming and now I'm starting to wonder if he was just filming me at that time instead.

I don't have a good feeling about this. Although I gave him permission to sometimes vlog when he's around (specifically when we are out doing something fun) I did not give him permission to vlog me changing into a bikini, kissing Brady or other weird instances that wouldn't warrant filming. That, in conjunction to the hundreds of pictures that were taken over the last few years, makes me feel really uncomfortable.

Brady and Kyle are due back in a couple of hours. I know I need to talk to Brady about this, but I'm not sure if I should bring it up when Kyle is around? I have a nagging suspicion that he left the USB in on purpose. I just feel really gross right now.
Reddit, do you have any advice?

Thank you.

tl;dr: My boyfriend's best friend (a YouTube vlogger) left his USB plugged into my laptop. On it was a folder with my name on it that includes hundreds of pictures and videos of just me. I find it creepy and I'm not sure how to bring this up.

Nissin Cup Nudist posted:

How many people have a sibling 16 years apart from them? Family dynamics

54 40 or gently caress posted:

I'm kind of competitive to a fault and one time we were playing risk with someone who instead of saying where he was attacking would tap his index finger hard on where he was intending and I swear I just about loving lost it on him

monkeytennis posted:

It really isnt difficult to be a decent gifter. Here's what I do. I snoop, and I listen.

I listened to my wife after wearing the lovely brown Pixie boots I bought her from Dune London when she said 'these boots are so comfortable and stylish and I love wearing them, if they ever brought them out in black I'd absolutely love a pair. This was in September.

I snooped through her perfumes and noticed. Huh, she's nearly out of Chanel Allure. Looks like her Chanel Chance Fraiche will only last until Xmas.

I make a note on my phone of all these things and anything else she mentions that she likes, whether while we are out shopping or watching TV, whatever.

Come November I only need half an hour on Amazon and a quick trip to town to grab everything. I know there's no risk that she won't like any of the gifts.

That guy is just a douchebag who doesn't deserve her.

Gluten Freeman posted:

I feel really bad for this girl! Like, you can say "all guys watch porn" all you want but knowing for a fact your dad watches porn specifically with girls the same age as you would be awful.But honestly she should see a therapist about it if she still feels this way four years later, it's not going to just go away.

naptalan posted:

That's so utterly disgusting I couldn't finish reading. Here is a palate cleanser:

Me [20M] with my friends(?) and housemates [20M&F] of nearly two years keep calling me an egg?

Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:

It's okay if the animal is murdered by someone else.

Pvt.Scott posted:

Any hunter I've know donates a good deal of meat to charity and/or was generous with the bounty among friends and family. What else are you going to do with 150 lbs of meat in a food-rich society?

Getting clean heart or lung shots so the animal dies quickly is important, both to minimize the suffering of the prey and the hunter. Do you want to chase a game animal an extra two miles through trackless terrain just so you can drag it back out again? gently caress no, you don't.