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She's 48 yrs old She likes video games... WiiU, Zelda games, Rayman, etc. She likes the Pittsburgh Steelers but pretty much has every Steelers thing made. She likes old British movies, like Pride and the Prejudice and the thousands of PBS type movies like it... She cooks alot but has everything. She refuses to go clothes shopping with me... I refuse to buy her clothes she will hate and I will then have to return... She probably needs a new boyfriend...
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Dec 12, 2016 16:27
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Take her to a nice restaurant, then go home (clean that poo poo first) and give her a massage. A real massage, go buy some oil and candles and poo poo. Then when y'all do it make it all about her. Maybe throw in a gift certificate for a spa or something, but give her that poo poo at dinner in a nice card, either a funny one from online (not some hallmark cornball bullshit) or something really sweet.
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Dec 12, 2016 16:53
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tektronic posted:Take her to a nice restaurant, then go home (clean that poo poo first) and give her a massage. A real massage, go buy some oil and candles and poo poo. Then when y'all do it make it all about her. Maybe throw in a gift certificate for a spa or something, but give her that poo poo at dinner in a nice card, either a funny one from online (not some hallmark cornball bullshit) or something really sweet. that's a loving date mother fucker not a christmas present OP get her tickets to a Steelers game and book a weekend around it
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Dec 12, 2016 19:23
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Budget?
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Dec 12, 2016 20:12
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does she have this sweatshirt already?
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Dec 12, 2016 20:46
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Seconding the tickets for a steelers game and making it a weekend thing. Also, if she wants new clothes but you don't want to buy them because you're bad a clothes shopping (what's up bad a clothes shopping buddy) you could get her a giftcard or two to her favorite stores* *do not make giftcard(s) your only gift like an asshat.
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Dec 12, 2016 21:21
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tektronic posted:Take her to a nice restaurant, then go home (clean that poo poo first) and give her a massage. A real massage, go buy some oil and candles and poo poo. Then when y'all do it make it all about her. Maybe throw in a gift certificate for a spa or something, but give her that poo poo at dinner in a nice card, either a funny one from online (not some hallmark cornball bullshit) or something really sweet. not her
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Dec 12, 2016 21:26
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Aesop Poprock posted:that's a loving date mother fucker not a christmas present done that before... and will probably do it again... but not for xmas
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Dec 12, 2016 21:27
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Dr Cox MD posted:Budget? doesn't matter really... $500...
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Dec 12, 2016 21:28
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Earwicker posted:does she have this sweatshirt already? no... I dont think... I'm a Bengals fan so buying her that stuff makes me sick... I do it... but I try to let everyone else do that...
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Dec 12, 2016 21:29
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FrankeeFrankFrank posted:doesn't matter really... $500... Jewelry.
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Dec 12, 2016 21:40
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Kind of lovely since it means nothing at this very moment, but maybe put money down on a pre-order for a Nintendo Switch if you'd think she'd like that.
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Dec 12, 2016 22:22
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Sole.Sushi posted:Kind of lovely since it means nothing at this very moment, but maybe put money down on a pre-order for a Nintendo Switch if you'd think she'd like that. My daughter said pre-order the new Zelda that comes out in March I guess... but yea I deemed that too lovely
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Dec 13, 2016 03:38
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Welcome to GBS posted:Jewelry. she would probably like jewelry... but if she doesn't tell me exactly what to get I don't even want to try... which is horrible of me I know.... I also hate giving jewelry because I hate jewelry... I know its not about me.... etc...
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Dec 13, 2016 03:41
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Experiences can be more valueable than anything. If she'd love a Steeler's weekend holiday, that'll likely be your best bet. I don't know if she's interested and dates/locations are limited but you could look into this; http://zelda-symphony.com/pages/schedule If there's things you know she'd like to do (Dancing, plays, specific events, concerts) that could be cool. Ballroom dancing classes are usually super fun, I recommend Venetian waltz over box though. I hate Jewelry so I feel you, but if she likes books you could look into getting her signed copies of things by her favorite authors or rare zelda poo poo she hasn't seen before. Other than that, you can try looking up individual events through sites like Goldstar and Groupon. Or just listen to what she talks about wanting/needing and try to glean something you can get her that'll actually be specifically tailored to her and prove you're actually listening to her.
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Dec 13, 2016 06:33
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is your wife a yinzer?
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Dec 13, 2016 19:29
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Earwicker posted:is your wife a yinzer? nope... when she was growing up the Steelers were winning a bunch of superbowls... I tell her how lame that is all the time...
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Dec 13, 2016 22:59
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FrankeeFrankFrank posted:nope... when she was growing up the Steelers were winning a bunch of superbowls... I tell her how lame that is all the time... buy her weekend trip to the burgh to show her what its all about. dinner at primanti bros etc.
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Dec 13, 2016 23:29
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I found out after moving in with my long term boyfriend that knowing someone and knowing what to get them for Christmas are two completely different things, not to mention that people who need practical things buy what they need when they need it. He has the same problem with me though so I wouldn't call it far fetched to assume she's having similar difficulties with you so I wouldn't feel so bad about having trouble thinking of a gift. The main problem with shopping for significant others is that you just can't distill your feelings for someone down into one or two practical gifts. If you can land on something you know they'll enjoy but haven't thought to buy themselves already then you luck out, but personally I think it's easier to go with things that are more representative of a person's interests rather than a practical addition. If she likes video games buy a co-op game and offer to play with her. If she likes the Steelers see if you can make her something one-of-a-kind that's team related, like etching a logo into a set of glasses, or making a fleece throw with team branded fabric. If she likes old tv and movies, ask her friends and family something she likes but might not have seen in a while (or get them to drop hints so she'll tell them) and then grab the series from Amazon and offer to watch it with her. If she likes to cook...well, that's trickier since chefs are pretty particular about their equipment. You could still do something like personalized oven mitts or an apron though. Basically, anything that shows you not only put thought but effort into your gift. If you're set on practical, I'd see if she has a Nintendo 3DS. If not get her a "New Nintendo 3DS" (yes this makes a difference, thanks Nintendo for consistent and non-confusing product branding) and Zelda: A Link Between Worlds. Or if she's a cook who likes to prepare meals and is still using rusty rear end Ginsu knives from the stone age get her a really nice set of quality chef's knives. It's spendy but she'd never have to buy another set. For suggestions on what makes a good knife and what brands to look at it's worth taking a field trip. For next year make a pact to not buy yourselves things 1-2 months before December and then start listening every time she says "I wish I had...." Makes things a whole lot easier.
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Dec 14, 2016 02:03
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Jacobus Spades posted:I found out after moving in with my long term boyfriend that knowing someone and knowing what to get them for Christmas are two completely different things, not to mention that people who need practical things buy what they need when they need it. He has the same problem with me though so I wouldn't call it far fetched to assume she's having similar difficulties with you so I wouldn't feel so bad about having trouble thinking of a gift. Thanks ... this is all really good... but... my mom has already made the steelers blanket thing for her years ago... this year my mom already gave her a game-stop gift card... (we had my families x-mas this past weekend)... so today she got a bowser action figure and reserved Mario Party 10 or something... I dont know she said she had to do it cause it was a great deal... she has every cooking thing known to man... from woks to an ice cream maker... it seems I have been a very good and generous gift giver in the past and now I'm simply running out of stuff to get her... I'm going to look into the 3DS and Zelda game... that might work...
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Dec 14, 2016 03:56
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I just found out google maps basically tracks your movements, so I took 9 memorable days from our relationship and printed out the maps and put them into a picture frame thing. I have no idea if this is of any interest for your girlfriend, I really just wanted to brag about my great gift idea.
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Dec 14, 2016 03:59
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Do you guys text a lot, or use some other variety of mobile communication? I bet she would like it if you stopped using so many ellipses when you type.
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Dec 14, 2016 05:55
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bewbies posted:I just found out google maps basically tracks your movements, so I took 9 memorable days from our relationship and printed out the maps and put them into a picture frame thing. that's good
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Dec 14, 2016 14:06
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Yorkshire Pudding posted:Do you guys text a lot, or use some other variety of mobile communication? I bet she would like it if you stopped using so many ellipses when you type. This is the gift that will keep on giving, OP.
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Dec 14, 2016 14:06
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Yorkshire Pudding posted:Do you guys text a lot, or use some other variety of mobile communication? I bet she would like it if you stopped using so many ellipses when you type. I'm guessing this is really funny... but I dont get it.
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Dec 14, 2016 14:07
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FrankeeFrankFrank posted:I'm guessing this is really funny... but I dont get it. Is your period key jammed? Maybe you could ask your gf for a new one for xmas.
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Dec 14, 2016 14:23
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Scudworth posted:Is your period key jammed? Maybe you could ask your gf for a new one for xmas. no... it's just how I like to type... I guess ellipses is a phone thing? I'm on a good old fashioned desktop keyboard...
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Dec 14, 2016 14:35
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FrankeeFrankFrank posted:She's 48 yrs old 48, likes video games, football, cooking, and doesn't drag you clothes shopping? Get her a ring.
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Dec 14, 2016 16:03
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FrankeeFrankFrank posted:no... it's just how I like to type... ellipses is the name for when you put three periods in a row. it has a specific meaning but you seem to be using it as a substitute for a comma or regular period. it's ok though, do you're thing.
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Dec 14, 2016 16:14
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Buying gift certificates to a nice spa are always good. I usually get my lady enough to get a hot stone massage and get her hair done. You can never go wrong with a simple pearl necklace either. Assuming she has her own car a remote starter, backup camera kit, or a modern Bluetooth head unit could be good. If the seats are poo poo then get her some seat covers. If she's always cold blankets are good. There are some really nice electric ones out there. An entirely new set of sheets, pillows, and comforter? She may have all the video game poo poo in the world but does she have decent surround sound? At least your... Is a triple ... And not a double.. Or God forbid a............ EdwardSwifferhands fucked around with this message at 19:02 on Dec 14, 2016 |
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Dec 14, 2016 18:53
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Earwicker posted:ellipses is the name for when you put three periods in a row. it has a specific meaning but you seem to be using it as a substitute for a comma or regular period. it's ok though, do you're thing. I use them as a comma... it kind of makes incomplete sentences ok....
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Dec 14, 2016 19:05
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Tinfoil Papercut posted:48, likes video games, football, cooking, and doesn't drag you clothes shopping? I know... but....
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Dec 14, 2016 19:07
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Snorkzilla posted:Buying gift certificates to a nice spa are always good. I usually get my lady enough to get a hot stone massage and get her hair done. You can never go wrong with a simple pearl necklace either. Assuming she has her own car a remote starter, backup camera kit, or a modern Bluetooth head unit could be good. If the seats are poo poo then get her some seat covers. If she's always cold blankets are good. There are some really nice electric ones out there. An entirely new set of sheets, pillows, and comforter? She may have all the video game poo poo in the world but does she have decent surround sound? Cant put remote starter on manual jeep wrangler
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Dec 14, 2016 19:07
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Stop using ellipses constantly. You might think your girlfriend is okay with your heavy use of ellipses, but once you stop she'll suddenly confront you about how wonderful things have been lately. vvv - See, this post is what your girlfriend is secretly thinking. Ytlaya fucked around with this message at 01:01 on Dec 16, 2016 |
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Dec 15, 2016 02:21
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stop putting three fuckin periods after every other word like you're some lovely deviant art novel come to life. the problem probably is you, and she should probably leave you for someone who's most egregious punctuation sin is neglecting the oxford comma
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Dec 16, 2016 00:28
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yeah im sure a steelers fan cares a lot about punctuation and has words like "egregious" in their mind, totally
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Dec 16, 2016 01:08
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Earwicker posted:yeah im sure a steelers fan cares a lot about punctuation and has words like "egregious" in their mind, totally Hahaha yeah handegg fans are so dumb
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Dec 16, 2016 06:10
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i love city sport team
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Dec 16, 2016 07:10
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Yorkshire Pudding posted:Hahaha yeah handegg fans are so dumb  I wasn't making a comment about football in general
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Dec 16, 2016 15:38
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Is the three dot thing a real thing that pisses people off or just a goon thing? or are you loving with me? if a real thing why? I seriously do this everywhere all the time
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Dec 16, 2016 19:06
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