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MysticalMachineGun
Apr 5, 2005


I love that figure of 0.2% "even all the homosexuals in Australia don't want to get married! There's only 40 000 odd people in Australia who want it!"

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Starshark
Dec 22, 2005
Doctor Rope
I'm trying to figure out what they mean by 'hold the rest to ransom'. THEY'LL MAKE US WATCH THE GAY WEDDINGS

Zenithe
Feb 25, 2013

Ask not to whom the Anidavatar belongs; it belongs to thee.
Please never stop tying to make rainbows sinister.

gay picnic defence
Oct 5, 2009


I'M CONCERNED ABOUT A NUMBER OF THINGS
I don't suppose anyone thought to mention that the aim is to make SSM legal, not compulsory?

Cleretic
Feb 3, 2010


Ignore my posts!
I'm aggressively wrong about everything!

gay picnic defence posted:

I don't suppose anyone thought to mention that the aim is to make SSM legal, not compulsory?

You never know which way the slippery slope will go until it starts.

Anidav
Feb 25, 2010

ahhh fuck its the rats again


The Brisbane River? No mortal can survive such acidity!

Knorth
Aug 19, 2014

Buglord
I believe it.

starkebn
May 18, 2004

"Oooh, got a little too serious. You okay there, little buddy?"
I can't help but think if they just improved the rights of a Civil Union to be equal to that of mawwiage there wouldn't be all of this garbage going on. For a lot of the idiots opposing this it is purely about that word.

Teddybear
May 16, 2009

Look! A teddybear doll!
It's soooo cute!


starkebn posted:

I can't help but think if they just improved the rights of a Civil Union to be equal to that of mawwiage there wouldn't be all of this garbage going on. For a lot of the idiots opposing this it is purely about that word.

The problem is that it's a very "separate but equal" ideal. When that came up here in the states studies showed that people didn't respect it enough or didn't understand the concept enough to allow for enforcement of its protections.

Marriage also carries great social and cultural weight behind it, whereas a civil union does not.

NPR Journalizard
Feb 14, 2008

starkebn posted:

I can't help but think if they just improved the rights of a Civil Union to be equal to that of mawwiage there wouldn't be all of this garbage going on. For a lot of the idiots opposing this it is purely about that word.

The process to get a civil union certificate is roughly the same as getting a dog licence.

DancingShade
Jul 26, 2007

by Fluffdaddy

NPR Journalizard posted:

Anyone who says this had exactly zero intention of voting yes and was just looking for an excuse to justify their bigotry.

Correct. And too cowardly to just come out and say it.

gay picnic defence posted:

I don't suppose anyone thought to mention that the aim is to make SSM legal, not compulsory?

Since when have facts been a consideration for bigots and religious fanatics?

JBP
Feb 16, 2017

You've got to know, to understand,
Baby, take me by my hand,
I'll lead you to the promised land.

NPR Journalizard posted:

The process to get a civil union certificate is roughly the same as getting a dog licence.

Pretty sure I could rent a hall then invite all my friends and family to dress up and celebrate my dog licence.

Anidav
Feb 25, 2010

ahhh fuck its the rats again
Brisbane City Council reveals what they expect Brisbane will look like in 2022:




racing identity
Apr 5, 2017

by FactsAreUseless
It should be compulsory for no voters to marry someone of the opposite sex when they lose

JBP
Feb 16, 2017

You've got to know, to understand,
Baby, take me by my hand,
I'll lead you to the promised land.
Looks like a cheap casino. Very fitting.

DancingShade
Jul 26, 2007

by Fluffdaddy

Anidav posted:

Brisbane City Council reveals what they expect Brisbane will look like in 2022:

They may as well post screenshots from random city builder games on Steam.

Anidav
Feb 25, 2010

ahhh fuck its the rats again
I'm the patch of grass on a high rise building.

DancingShade
Jul 26, 2007

by Fluffdaddy

Anidav posted:

I'm the patch of grass on a high rise building.

I'm the giant purple lights helping people to think they are in a red light district.

JBP
Feb 16, 2017

You've got to know, to understand,
Baby, take me by my hand,
I'll lead you to the promised land.
The purple lights reflect Brisbane's deep connection to the 1980s.

Knorth
Aug 19, 2014

Buglord
Can't wait to avoid being in the city even more

Anidav
Feb 25, 2010

ahhh fuck its the rats again

DancingShade posted:

I'm the giant purple lights helping people to think they are in a red light district.

I'm the weird sky balcony that totally won't be used for suicides.

Zenithe
Feb 25, 2013

Ask not to whom the Anidavatar belongs; it belongs to thee.
Looks like a poor mans Singapore.

DancingShade
Jul 26, 2007

by Fluffdaddy

Zenithe posted:

Looks like a poor mans Singapore.

The parts of Brisbane in the background look a bit like a distant favela. Maybe a hint of South American slum with a rich/poor divide illuminated in lurid purple?

Just so long as the road to the airport is in good condition they can always put up visual barriers in front of the rest of the city.

Precambrian Video Games
Aug 19, 2002



Wow, the Utopia season finale must have had quite the CGI budget.

Cartoon
Jun 20, 2008

poop

NPR Journalizard posted:

The process to get a civil union certificate is roughly the same as getting a dog licence.
I hope they draw the line at micro-chipping but it can only be a matter of time

MysticalMachineGun
Apr 5, 2005

starkebn posted:

I can't help but think if they just improved the rights of a Civil Union to be equal to that of mawwiage there wouldn't be all of this garbage going on. For a lot of the idiots opposing this it is purely about that word.

Nah. It's all about people who are different from you having less rights under the law. Call it whatever you like, allowing people who are different to have the same things as you lessens you personally, don't you understand?

John Howard would've done the same thing to civil unions if he had to back in the day. It's a culture war all the way done, and old white guys think they're the most put upon people on earth.

MysticalMachineGun
Apr 5, 2005

In other news the SA Electoral Commission redistribution is heavily tipped to hit Mayo. Why can't they hit up my seat? It's been safe Labor for so long we get absolutely 0 pork barreling :argh:

open24hours
Jan 7, 2001

What rights do married people have that those in a civil union don't? I mean, other than the right to call yourself married.

foot
Mar 28, 2002

why foot why

Teddybear posted:

The problem is that it's a very "separate but equal" ideal. When that came up here in the states studies showed that people didn't respect it enough or didn't understand the concept enough to allow for enforcement of its protections.

Marriage also carries great social and cultural weight behind it, whereas a civil union does not.

You also have to amend a ton of laws to say "marriage or an equivalent status" or you can just amend marriage to say men, women, whatever.

open24hours posted:

What rights do married people have that those in a civil union don't? I mean, other than the right to call yourself married.

It depends on how laws around visitation, inheritance, adoption, etc. are worded.

MysticalMachineGun
Apr 5, 2005

open24hours posted:

What rights do married people have that those in a civil union don't? I mean, other than the right to call yourself married.

This covers it pretty decently I think http://www.australianmarriageequality.org/faqs/12-civil-unions-are-not-enough/

quote:

To address the practical legal problems faced by unmarried same-sex partners, some people advocate civil unions.

(“Civil union” is a generic term that includes a registered partnership, a civil partnership, and all other formally-recognised personal union).

However, civil unions do not offer the same legal benefits as marriage, even when the law says they should. This is because they are not as widely understood or respected. Several recent reports into the operation of civil schemes in Europe and North America confirm that civil unions are not always recognised by hospitals, schools, insurers and even government officials.

Lack of recognition is also a problem when civil union partners travel inter-state or internationally. But even if a solution can be found to these practical problems, legal unions other than marriage do not give same-sex couples the same social and cultural recognition that comes with marriage. In the words of American marriage equality advocate, Beth Robinson, “nobody writes songs about civil unions”.

Worse, according to the reports mentioned above civil unions may actually encourage discrimination against same-sex partners and downgrade the status of their relationships by entrenching a second-class status .

Civil rights historians like Barbara Cox have drawn the parallel between civil unions and former “Jim Crow laws” in the American south.

“…restricting same-sex couples to civil unions is reminiscent of the racism that relegated African-Americans to separate railroad cars and separate schools. Our society’s experiences with ‘separate and equal’ have shown that separation can never result in equality because the separation is based on a belief that a distance needs to be maintained between those in the privileged position and those placed in the inferior position.”

Civil unions have not only not fulfilled their promise of equal rights and respect for same-sex couples, they appear to have made matters worse. Instead of eliminating discrimination they have entrenched it. Instead of removing stigma they have inflamed it. Instead of being a step towards full equality they are a step away.

This is probably why same-sex couples consistently show they prefer marriage to other forms of legal recognition. In US states where both marriage and civil unions are available to same-sex couples the result is always a higher take-up rate for marriage.

This is consistent with Australian research which shows that only 25.6% of same-sex de facto partners would chose to be in a civil union, and only 17.7% would remain as de factos. Of those currently in a state same-sex civil union 78.3% would prefer to be married under Australian law.

Alternatives to marriage are important for providing legal security and/or formal recognition for those partners who do not wish to marry. In Australia we are lucky to have strong legal protections for cohabiting de facto couples and some of the best state civil union schemes in the world. But there is one piece missing from the jigsaw of legal options available to Australian couples. That piece is marriage for same-sex partners.

I would blow Dane Cook
Dec 26, 2008

DancingShade posted:

The parts of Brisbane in the background look a bit like a distant favela. Maybe a hint of South American slum with a rich/poor divide illuminated in lurid purple?

That's just Logan.

open24hours
Jan 7, 2001

MysticalMachineGun posted:

This covers it pretty decently I think http://www.australianmarriageequality.org/faqs/12-civil-unions-are-not-enough/

quote:

However, civil unions do not offer the same legal benefits as marriage, even when the law says they should. This is because they are not as widely understood or respected.

Doesn't this imply that they do have the same rights? I understand that they might get hassled by people who don't know the law properly, but that's a different problem and one that will probably continue even after SSM is legalised.

Tokamak
Dec 22, 2004

starkebn posted:

For a lot of the idiots opposing this it is purely about that word.

Imagine if a women couldn't get a drivers license, but instead had to get a 'womens road license' which were equal in every other way besides name. Do you think society would treat women drivers as they do today, or would there be some additional baggage in having a women's license? People wouldn't tolerate this sort of discrimination in any other form of official paperwork. So you have to question why this is the one exception.

The civil union argument only sounds good on paper because people only ever frame it as an ideologically pure, abstract hypothetical. There is this bubble where A = B ipso facto, logically the human brain will treat A = B. But even in the best case scenario it isn't true, since the people who strongly prefer different terms are acknowledging a semantic difference between the terms. There is social baggage in the term marriage that isn't in civil union, and as a result are treated differently. It gives the person who perceives a difference a justification for perceiving the difference, when there legally isn't one. Also creating two functionally identical terms creates confusion and implies a difference to someone ignorant of the issue, or simply doesn't have the time to give it enough thought (mistakes get made). People's brains don't work like machines, so if there is a difference in language people are going to wonder why the language is different.

starkebn
May 18, 2004

"Oooh, got a little too serious. You okay there, little buddy?"
My idea would be that the government only ever issues Civil Unions and if you want to get "married" that is something a church does purely as a symbolic ritual.

Completely pie in the sky but I also have no idea why people want to get married apart from the legal rights anyway

Teddybear
May 16, 2009

Look! A teddybear doll!
It's soooo cute!


starkebn posted:

My idea would be that the government only ever issues Civil Unions and if you want to get "married" that is something a church does purely as a symbolic ritual.

Completely pie in the sky but I also have no idea why people want to get married apart from the legal rights anyway

The civil concept of marriage as a joining of two people is much older than any modern religion's concept of it.

open24hours
Jan 7, 2001

If you're going down that route why even bother with civil unions? Defacto couples have the same rights as married couples so there's no need for the government to be involved at all.

starkebn
May 18, 2004

"Oooh, got a little too serious. You okay there, little buddy?"

open24hours posted:

If you're going down that route why even bother with civil unions? Defacto couples have the same rights as married couples so there's no need for the government to be involved at all.

That's how I live my life but what is it with everyone else.

Precambrian Video Games
Aug 19, 2002




Regarding the international bit, how many countries that don't allow same-sex marriages still recognize those from other countries? Even relatively progressive Germany didn't recognize any kind of civil union (same-sex or otherwise) presumably until they approved same-sex marriage two months ago.

Teddybear
May 16, 2009

Look! A teddybear doll!
It's soooo cute!


eXXon posted:

Regarding the international bit, how many countries that don't allow same-sex marriages still recognize those from other countries? Even relatively progressive Germany didn't recognize any kind of civil union (same-sex or otherwise) presumably until they approved same-sex marriage two months ago.

I seem to recall a couple did. Israel, maybe?

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ewe2
Jul 1, 2009

Teddybear posted:

The civil concept of marriage as a joining of two people is much older than any modern religion's concept of it.

open24hours posted:

If you're going down that route why even bother with civil unions? Defacto couples have the same rights as married couples so there's no need for the government to be involved at all.

Ding! and that's why, absurd as it is, the importance of the marriage debate is about legitimacy. Marriage legitimises the relationship in the eyes of many (especially the No camp), and one would hope those benefits trickle down through civil unions to de factos.

Nevertheless, the No campaign understands very well that this is a fight for legitimacy and not about the words, hence the preemptive squealing about religious "freedom".

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