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girls  (it's still gay im nonbinary shhh)
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https://twitter.com/halomancer1/status/1579540890359848961
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Oct 11, 2022 19:09
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carry on then posted:* gym fit bod only it's very easy to be a slut no matter what body you have, assuming your tastes are wide enough.
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Oct 11, 2022 19:31
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yeah, one of the hardest lessons for some people to learn is that you kinda have to meet the standards you're setting for other people i know a lot of perfectly good single people who have been extremely unsuccessful romantically because they just dont understand what a realistic partner looks like for them
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Oct 11, 2022 22:07
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a fun experiment would be to start swiping left when you want to swipe right and vice versa, just to see how much changes
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Oct 11, 2022 22:09
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dammit i tried so hard to keep it vague and then i said "looks like" 🤦♀️ its not hot-dates-hot but if you're not conventionally attractive and also not particularly interesting to talk to and you don't have your life together you really can't expect to pull khatia buniatishvili with a "hi..." on okcupid
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Oct 11, 2022 22:09
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there is no explicit rule that hot ends up with hot and ugg ends up with ugg. that’s just what usually happens.
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Oct 11, 2022 22:13
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a friend likes to point out that i'm a 2000's-era sitcom guy since i'm a dumpy overweight white dude with an inexplicably hot skinny wife
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Oct 12, 2022 00:16
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yes that was in fact the most pathetic humblebrag ever
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Oct 12, 2022 00:16
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just got told there's openings for weekly voice training sessions as soon as Thursday, instead of having to wait for next spring! yayyyy a budget-tightening $85 a session tho, since insurance won't pony up - i swear the gender-dysphoria-related coverage exceptions in the plan ought to be illegal but still! 
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Oct 12, 2022 00:34
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Ciaphas posted:just got told there's openings for weekly voice training sessions as soon as Thursday, instead of having to wait for next spring! yayyyy uh. that sounds really bad. congrats and all but i would actually figure out if those exceptions ARE illegal if you're still in CO.
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Oct 12, 2022 06:56
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i was thinking about that as i wrote the post, but kinda dismissed it at the time as "oh lord i have enough to think about as it is, let's not go there" still true, tbh, but i'll keep it in the back of my mind (e) it's doubly weird because said insurance covers all my prescriptions, including the explicitly-for-gender-dysphoria HRT, without complaint or question - or at least less question than I already get for the fuckin adhd meds lol Ciaphas fucked around with this message at 07:11 on Oct 12, 2022 |
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Oct 12, 2022 07:08
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Ciaphas posted:i was thinking about that as i wrote the post, but kinda dismissed it at the time as "oh lord i have enough to think about as it is, let's not go there" yeah i get this. medical care in america is so hard you really really gotta pick your battles  so i guess just glad you're continuing to power forward 
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Oct 12, 2022 19:34
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yep, onward and upward frankly wrt insurers I count my blessings that anything gets paid for. right now Labcorp's after me for $400 for... ordinary thyroid testing, for some reason???????? definitely fighting that lol
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Oct 12, 2022 21:28
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0pPPkkT7GI
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Oct 12, 2022 23:34
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when i met up with these two boys for uhh Stuff i planned on meeting them at a convenience store but they couldnt find it so they just found somewhere to park and told me what street they were on they had parked directly outside my house, without knowing my address pretty funny in hindsight
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Oct 13, 2022 00:03
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hbag posted:when i met up with these two boys for uhh Stuff i planned on meeting them at a convenience store but they couldnt find it so they just found somewhere to park and told me what street they were on 
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Oct 13, 2022 00:17
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there were a few of those too yeah
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Oct 13, 2022 00:17
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weird gay sex, is good
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Oct 13, 2022 00:26
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i have a second date with a lesbian librarian on sunday
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Oct 13, 2022 15:34
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I’m cooling off on the dating stint, or at least OLD. I don’t think it’s an effective way to date
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Oct 13, 2022 16:38
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Im gay and u can be gay in stardew valley and also there’s plants
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Oct 13, 2022 19:08
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Pollyanna posted:I’m cooling off on the dating stint, or at least OLD. I don’t think it’s an effective way to date online is hard and all the dating apps are designed to keep people around as long as possible to spend money, not to actually try to help start a relationship
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Oct 13, 2022 19:45
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Feeling the gender dysphoria set in again. And here I thought I could successfully bottle it all up without any issues.  What the heck life
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Oct 13, 2022 20:38
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Lain Iwakura posted:i have a second date with a lesbian librarian on sunday how the gently caress didnt i notice your av and username earlier twinsies
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Oct 13, 2022 21:37
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Improbable Lobster posted:online is hard and all the dating apps are designed to keep people around as long as possible to spend money, not to actually try to help start a relationship yeah I’m honestly not impressed. gently caress it
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Oct 13, 2022 22:53
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Pollyanna posted:yeah I’m honestly not impressed. gently caress it i met my husband randomly in a discord server when we hit it off, just keep open to new people and you'll eventually find the right person
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Oct 13, 2022 22:57
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I should talk to more people then
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Oct 13, 2022 22:58
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apparently we find each other on fuckin twitter and discord
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Oct 13, 2022 22:58
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the internet is for the gays
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Oct 13, 2022 23:04
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i have never met a gay person (that i know of) IRL
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Oct 13, 2022 23:07
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Improbable Lobster posted:the internet is for the gays
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Oct 14, 2022 00:38
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hbag posted:i have never met a gay person (that i know of) IRL turn off your monitor
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Oct 14, 2022 01:44
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Pollyanna posted:apparently we find each other on fuckin twitter and discord Online games of D&D for me, mostly. Most good things in my life result from people being impressed at how good I am at being consistent at being an rear end in a top hat.
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Oct 14, 2022 03:04
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Pollyanna posted:apparently we find each other on fuckin twitter and discord this is true, I met my current primary partner off discord. tho the majority of relationships and hookups I’ve had just sorta happened as a result of socializing. or less than socializing, in mundane every day life encounters id never met up with someone off dating apps specifically but I’d prolly have fun with them if I tried again. the last time I tried it was a lot of attention and kind of overwhelming. that was egg me tho, I am better equipped now to deal with that tho the whole ‘self commodification’ thing still doesn’t feel great
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Oct 14, 2022 15:20
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hbag posted:how the gently caress didnt i notice your av and username earlier lain good
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Oct 14, 2022 15:21
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Snuff Melange posted:Feeling the gender dysphoria set in again. And here I thought I could successfully bottle it all up without any issues. welcome! keeping it bottled is a fool's errand
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Oct 15, 2022 02:41
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Snuff Melange posted:Feeling the gender dysphoria set in again. And here I thought I could successfully bottle it all up without any issues. literally can’t look at myself in the mirror. hurray!
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Oct 15, 2022 06:03
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i need to get my legs and uh that stuff lasered at the very least everything else i can handle waxing probably but i would need way too much wax to do my legs
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I like "dating" apps because I like hookups, but I don't expect to find a long-term partner on them
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