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Caganer
Feb 15, 2018
It comes up a lot in the /r/relationships thread. Guy meets girl, girl likes guy, girl demands passwords to guy's email, Facebook, and Reddit accounts to monitor for untoward behavior - after all, if you've got nothing to hide amirite?

But this isn't just a millennial issue - George on Seinfeld famously kvetched about giving his fiancé his ATM pin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_f5hwzHJSc

I've seen that some of you goons have kids (congrats on the sex!) so I assume that means some of you are in commited relationships as well.

Do you share passwords? ATM codes?

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Shania Twain
Aug 25, 2008
If anything was demanded of me I'd slap my significant other and leave her but i don't need to worry about that as our relationship is perfect and I can freely share everything with my love pillow kamiko

Cinaedus Defututus
Mar 21, 2018

by FactsAreUseless
this was a long while back. there was this girl who i semi-regularly engaged in sexual intercourse with and i was very close to making my girlfriend.

i gave her the passwords to my porn site accounts so that she could see premium poo poo i'd bought, but she also went through my comments history and private playlists and thus i had to leave her once those things were brought up.

all my passwords are now hexadecimal and changed on a rotating basis. my sensitive files encrypted and browser history never saved ever. i use duckduckgo for search and sensitive searches are done from a safe computer in my safehouse out in the sticks.

i won't repeat peter madsen's mistakes.

Cinaedus Defututus fucked around with this message at 00:40 on Jun 15, 2018

remigious
May 13, 2009

Destruction comes inevitably :rip:

Hell Gem
No, but it’s never really come up. I don’t feel like I need my husband’s passwords for anything. I learned like 10 years ago that nothing good comes from snooping anyway.

its all nice on rice
Nov 12, 2006

Sweet, Salty Goodness.



Buglord
We share PINs and passwords yes. We trust each other and have nothing to hide. We also know the other person isn't going to go snooping into Facebook accounts and whatnot.

E: that's not to say that people that don't share these things don't trust each other. Sometimes it just doesn't come up.

Caganer
Feb 15, 2018

Cinaedus Defututus posted:

this was a long while back. there was this girl who i semi-regularly engaged in sexual intercourse with and i was very close to making my girlfriend.

i gave her the passwords to my porn site accounts so that she could see premium poo poo i'd bought, but she also went through my comments history and private playlists and thus i had to leave her once those things were brought up.

all my passwords are now hexadecimal and changed on a rotating basis. my sensitive files encrypted and browser history never saved ever. i use duckduckgo for search and sensitive searches are done from a safe computer in my safehouse out in the sticks.

i won't repeat peter madsen's mistakes.

i dont think sharing content passwords is a big deal. i've shared my netflix password. never shared a porn password cause LOL at paying for porn when there's hundreds of reddit chicks stripping for upvotes but id share if i had one

one gf had a meltdown because she realized it's "actually over" when I changed it.

(i had forgotten but she logged in on too many of her devices and i got locked out so i changed the pw)

Away all Goats
Jul 5, 2005

Goose's rebellion

I don't even share my account names with her

Almost Smart
Sep 14, 2001

so your telling me you wasn't drunk or fucked up in anyway. when you had sex with me and that monkey
I don't remember most of my passwords. Once my cache gets cleared or I get a new phone, I'm probably as good as dead on the internet.

Kirk Vikernes
Apr 26, 2004

Count Goatnackh

No, not really. My wife knows my pin, but we have a shared account now so it doesn't really matter. Otherwise, we don't really know each other's passwords other than things like streaming services and even then, I have to tell her every time she gets a new phone/device and needs to log in to it. We also don't have an "insecure couple shared Facebook account. Those are the worst.

Tetramin
Apr 1, 2006

I'ma buck you up.
We do but it seems my wife isn't very popular, her phone hasn't had a single text in its history every time I check!

Rasta_Al
Jul 14, 2001

she had tiny Italian boobs.
Well that's my story.
Fun Shoe
Phone password is about the only thing we share & that’s cause we like to listen to tunes when we cruise the streets lookin for people to engage in random sex with

Caganer
Feb 15, 2018
https://twitter.com/phil_lewis_/status/1007358337317588992?s=21

Sophy Wackles
Dec 17, 2000

> access main security grid
access: PERMISSION DENIED.





I share my crunchyroll password with my waifu.

Fashionable Jorts
Jan 18, 2010

Maybe if I'm busy it could keep me from you



Away all Goats posted:

I don't even share my account names with her

I don't even use the same websites as her.

FAGGY CLAUSE
Apr 9, 2011

by FactsAreUseless
I will give her constant yeast infections by eating out her rear end then moving onto her beef curtains but were not allowed to see eachothers digital content

Lord Frankenstyle
Dec 3, 2005

Mmmm,
You smell like Lysol Wipes.
Oh Yeah. I don't think my wife is gonna want to read email from my girlfriend.

TopHatGenius
Oct 3, 2008

something feels
different

Hot Rope Guy
Only things that are of mutual importance (Banking info, airline sites, etc). We know each others phone passwords but we never go on each others devices.

Stalizard
Aug 11, 2006

Have I got a headache!
My girlfriend knows most of my passwords and I know hers and her social cause we're lazy and we don't give a gently caress

If in the case of a potential breakup you expect the other person to ruin your life, don't date them imho

Worf
Sep 12, 2017
Probation
Can't post for 2 hours!

Stalizard posted:

My girlfriend knows most of my passwords and I know hers and her social cause we're lazy and we don't give a gently caress

If in the case of a potential breakup you expect the other person to ruin your life, don't date them imho

i can only cum if theres the chance of being fired from my job while dozens of credit cards are opened in my name

OB-GYN Kenobi
Dec 4, 2017
Not anymore. After having her read something, read into it wrong, then speculate on the worst possible scenario....no more, never again.

Just because I wrote once, FLOTUSILF, doesn't mean I actually would. Kinda gross to think about actually. I just thought it was funny.

mom and dad fight a lot
Sep 21, 2006

If you count them all, this sentence has exactly seventy-two characters.

Women. :rolleyes:

Caganer
Feb 15, 2018

Fashionable Jorts posted:

I don't even use the same websites as her.

Men are from Something Awful and Women Are From Fark

Burt Sexual
Jan 26, 2006

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Switchblade Switcharoo
I learned from SA that account sharing is verboten, do you guys not read the rules?

Edgar Allan Pwned
Apr 4, 2011

Quoth the Raven "I love the power glove. It's so bad..."
its been awhile since ive seriously dated someone, and i didnt share passwords before. i dont know if i have new insecurities though.

i think if i was married or long term partnership i would share my atm pin. i guess a lot of accounts would get consolidated, and i dont really use social media, so i guess im just guarding my computer and SA passwords...

pixie delights
Mar 31, 2005
oy.
We both share passwords and PINs freely, but we've never asked each other to give them. It's generally a laziness/convenience thing("hey check this for me pls").


I have no desire to know his passwords, he has no desire to know mine(if either of us did, we would be in counseling).

We both know each other's PIN. We're married with kids, it's just practical.

pixie delights fucked around with this message at 02:31 on Jun 15, 2018

Burt Sexual
Jan 26, 2006

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Switchblade Switcharoo
I don’t share a checkbook after 25 years, she getting my grindr account I don’t think so.

blugu64
Jul 17, 2006

Do you realize that fluoridation is the most monstrously conceived and dangerous communist plot we have ever had to face?
No because I don't use Facebook/Reddit/etc

Spagghentleman
Jan 1, 2013
I’m married, my wife makes next to nothing salary wise and every cent I make goes into a joint account we both use and she has a credit card that is also joint with me.

But I’ll be loving damned if she’s getting my phone password.

numberoneposter
Feb 19, 2014

How much do I cum? The answer might surprise you!

hahahah what SO????

Burt Sexual
Jan 26, 2006

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Switchblade Switcharoo

Spagghentleman posted:

I’m married, my wife makes next to nothing salary wise and every cent I make goes into a joint account we both use and she has a credit card that is also joint with me.

But I’ll be loving damned if she’s getting my phone password.

Way to lay the law down.

ElectricSheep
Jan 14, 2006

she had tiny Italian boobs.
Well that's my story.

pixie delights posted:

We both share passwords and PINs freely, but we've never asked each other to give them. It's generally a laziness/convenience thing("hey check this for me pls").


I have no desire to know his passwords, he has no desire to know mine(if either of us did, we would be in counseling).

We both know each other's PIN. We're married with kids, it's just practical.

This except minus the kids.

Basically it's an equivalent exchange of laziness and the ability to have them do/check/pay something for you

ClamdestineBoyster
Aug 15, 2015
Probation
Can't post for 10 years!
Siri is my gf so she doesn’t need my password. :colbert:

Caufman
May 7, 2007
0451 smashthestate

CRIP EATIN BREAD
Jun 24, 2002

Hey stop worrying bout my acting bitch, and worry about your WACK ass music. In the mean time... Eat a hot bowl of Dicks! Ice T



Soiled Meat
I don’t even let my girlfriend have my wifi password

Hector Beerlioz
Jun 16, 2010

aw, hec
this may come as a suprise but i do not have a significant other

Mr. Creakle
Apr 27, 2007

Protecting your virginity



I don't share any account info with him, and he doesn't with me. That being said we trust each other and leave our phones lying around, knowing that neither will snoop. I respect his right to privacy and the feeling is mutual. (To be completely honest I don't care about him seeing my messages, but wouldn't want him seeing my weird porn)

Light Gun Man
Oct 17, 2009

toEjaM iS oN
vaCatioN




Lipstick Apathy
I have all of hers now. Cuz she's dead. :smith:

We generally kept our stuff separate but sometimes would share stuff if it was cheaper / more convenient, whatever. I think it's one of those things that's just a case-by-case basis but the people that let SO's have full access to poo poo like your mail email is like uh...kinda weird. At least in my opinion. I wouldn't stop her from browsing my email if I left it open or whatever, but she was chill and didn't really go diggin through my poo poo ever anyway so no big deal.

Caganer
Feb 15, 2018
i have 2 factor code generator + work email on my phone so i don't share access. i had someone get really salty when i explained this once. later a friend texted me he saw her making out with not me at a bar in the next town over :shrug:

Worf
Sep 12, 2017
Probation
Can't post for 2 hours!
SO what

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Burt Sexual
Jan 26, 2006

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Switchblade Switcharoo

Light Gun Man posted:

I have all of hers now. Cuz she's dead. :smith:

We generally kept our stuff separate but sometimes would share stuff if it was cheaper / more convenient, whatever. I think it's one of those things that's just a case-by-case basis but the people that let SO's have full access to poo poo like your mail email is like uh...kinda weird. At least in my opinion. I wouldn't stop her from browsing my email if I left it open or whatever, but she was chill and didn't really go diggin through my poo poo ever anyway so no big deal.

Whoa sorry dude, I can’t imagine talkin Pw stuff

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