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Oh, cool, a thread dedicated to my dearly departed gramma Kitty. May God rest her spiteful soul, because I sure as poo poo won’t.
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# ¿ Sep 4, 2019 19:45 |
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# ¿ Apr 28, 2024 23:35 |
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I would blow Dane Cook posted:Is this something to do with Christianity? It is, at least for certain American Protestant denominations. God forgives sins unconditionally and good works make no difference re: your salvation. God is above all, therefore if I am forgiven by God, I should be forgiven by all. Since my personal actions do not affect my righteousness before God, making amends or redress (especially being forced to face consequences) is superfluous. I've seen this mindset lead to things like believing someone shouldn't be punished by the law if they've already been forgiven for a crime they committed, often related to finances, adultery, and molestation. A contrite heart is what matters, y'know?
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# ¿ Sep 6, 2019 02:56 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:I was a little fattycakes when I was young, but from swimming and eating smaller portions rather than clearing my whole plate and asking for fruit instead of chips or cookies in my lunch, I shed a lot of weight. The rest of my family was overweight. Ur dad was just mad he couldn’t stop being fat, lol
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# ¿ Sep 6, 2019 17:00 |
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Picnic Princess posted:I get compared to her best friend's kids, because they have a good relationship with their mother. All the things my mom refuses to do with me, like interacting with my social media, texting me, saying yes when I ask if she wants to go do something, she does with her friend's kids. So while she's ignoring me on purpose to prove how lovely I am, she's actively participating in a relationship with other people's kids like they're her own. She also does the same with my sister. Apparently it's just me who who gets to be ignored deliberately to prove a point. Which at this point is perfectly fine. I'm 100% done trying to manage her emotional baggage for her. Let your mother and her friend know that co-parenting is much simpler, legally, if they marry one another. Then never speak to your mother again.
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# ¿ Sep 11, 2019 15:56 |
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Miss posted:It's been 19 years and she's clearly still absolutely livid that her child drew that picture. lol she mad because she fat BIG PANTS!
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# ¿ Sep 27, 2019 12:29 |
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Veni Vidi Ameche! posted:Yeah. You can forgive your best friend Lucas's guinea pig Danger Mouse for biting your finger hard enough to draw blood, but that doesn't mean you have to shove your finger back into her habitat. I hope the lawsuit settled in your favor for a ton of greenbacks
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# ¿ Dec 10, 2019 18:40 |
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If those kids get killed by a drone strike, they’ll be classified as enemy combatants. No war crimes here!
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# ¿ Dec 24, 2019 13:49 |
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RoboRodent posted:Yeah, twelve through fourteen is a rough age. You're pretty sure you're an adult because you're definitely not a kid, but not everyone treats you like an adult, and also maybe you still like playing with your dolls or your action figures or whatever (which absolutely no one at school can EVER find out because someone found out that your classmate Jimmy still sleeps with a teddy bear and that was it for him, socially), and maybe for the first time sex is starting to sound like a good thing but you don't know how to navigate that entire sphere of your life. I never stopped playing with toys or playing pretend. Miniatures games and tabletop RPGs own bones.
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# ¿ Dec 27, 2019 13:04 |
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My first concert was Garbage with Lit as the opener. There were less than a thirty people in the audience which was weird as gently caress since it was a free concert (I think so, at least), in a college town. This was when Lit was kinda popular. Garbage was amazing, obviously. E: I’m not counting the Christian praise bands I was dragged to see when I was younger, because they were all terrible
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# ¿ Dec 29, 2019 12:22 |
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She types like I talk when I’m manic
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# ¿ Dec 31, 2019 21:28 |
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Upstaging a pregnant woman at her party celebrating said pregnancy upset her? Truly, DIL’s reaction is baffling!
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# ¿ Jan 14, 2020 04:36 |
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Tin Can Hit Man posted:Same thing with my biological mother from what I've heard. She just... became her own mother. I’d like to turn out like my parents because then I’d be a doctor, carpenter, musician, artist or traditional housewife, coupled with having a stable and satisfying relationship. I’m over here failson-ing like a champ due to faulty brainmeats and personal foibles.
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# ¿ Jan 23, 2020 20:43 |
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That70sHeidi posted:That is an oddly adorable mental image, thank you! Sea Monkeys were a Nazi plot.
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# ¿ Feb 14, 2020 10:27 |
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Foam Monkey posted:I found this on /r/regretfulparents and holy poo poo. Death Grips are taking their music in an odd direction. E: imagine that poem delivered like Takyon https://youtu.be/89F5fpvwPr0 Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 00:16 on Apr 13, 2020 |
# ¿ Apr 12, 2020 23:57 |
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AuntBuck posted:It's disappointing how often those "turned 18 am being kicked out" posts show up in r/personalfinance I guess some people don’t like building generational wealth? Also, “every man is an island,” has been part of the American psyche for a very long time. It’s the myth of being entirely self-made, so naturally you want your progeny to have the same lack of advantages that made you the Randian superman you are today.
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# ¿ Apr 15, 2020 23:59 |
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Shirec posted:Also it's super gross that these full grown has lots of life experience adults are trying to argue semantics of why a 16 year old child tried to kill herself. Like, this is not the time for you to try and win an argument, or even a little bit about your feelings. It's a hosed up layer cake of selfishness A friend of mine had a son who committed suicide. He had no contact with any of his children after his son, the eldest, turned 6 or so, as per his ex wife’s wishes. At the visitation, his ex wife screamed at my friend that he was the one responsible for their son’s death, and afterward sent many emails and texts saying the same thing. That was 5 years ago now, and it still hurts him. I don’t really know anything about his history with his wife or kids, but even if he was a terrible partner and father, that’s some vicious poo poo to hear when you haven’t even seen your kid in over a decade. I hope it made her feel better, because it made my friend suicidal. I’d hate for all of that pain to amount to nothing.
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# ¿ Apr 21, 2020 03:39 |
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BrigadierSensible posted:I think a lot of that is vanity and/or 'face'. If they really cared about saving face, they’d disown their disrespectful children and bar them from the ancestral shrine. Wicker Man posted:This is right on the nose. I'm also willing to bet a lot of these same parents probably don't even know who their child is as a person outside of the most superficial things("You always loved drinking sprite "). They were expected to pop out some kids and get the white picket fences but they can't be bothered to do any of the actual work in maintaining. These people are also very jealous of others and what they have but they absolutely refuse to better themselves, even when presented with tools and instructions. I remember my horrible grandmother telling me once that she married my grandfather because he was just kinda hanging around and she needed to get married, so might as well. That explained so much. Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 19:15 on Apr 26, 2020 |
# ¿ Apr 26, 2020 19:12 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Haha, just remembered this. I left the aforementioned job after four years for better pay and a better position as warehouse manager for another company. I called my father to tell him the news and his first response was “So I guess you got fired, huh?” You: I got a great gig in my field, better pay, better position, way better than the last pl... Your dad: I can’t believe how much of a fuckup you are
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# ¿ Apr 29, 2020 13:50 |
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Axqu posted:I figured if there's a place to ask it'd be here-- do any of you have frustrating experiences with trauma groups, OR know of a place I can go to/ reach out to for a trauma group focused on people who have been through some egregiously heinous poo poo? I know the party line in trauma group circles is "everyone can get trauma from anything and everyone's traumas are vaaaaaaaaalid." And I get it. I do. I understand that a sexual assault victim can get good coping skill advice from a bullying victim and that workshopping trauma trigger reaction steps doesn't always depend on trauma levels. I wish I could just hold you and cry for an hour or two. I’m sobbing right now. Your feelings about group therapy are plenty justified. Most people aren’t comfortable with even hearing about extreme trauma, let alone discussing it or trying to sympathize. You’re not a burden or a liability, goddamnit. Know that at least one strange internet man cares about your happiness and healing. The only group therapy I know how to do is tabletop roleplaying games, sadly. I hope you can find someone like me near you to just accept you and hear you out.
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# ¿ Nov 16, 2020 22:09 |
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Tunicate posted:psych students are so different from the normal population that there have been repeated attempts to make psych professors stop using their students as subjects in studies My brain is broken. If I were able to function properly for extended amounts of time, I'd consider psychology or psychiatry. I mean, I've already experienced one side of the subject, why not the other? E: I also would consider it because I genuinely want to help people.
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# ¿ Nov 22, 2020 00:11 |
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ohnobugs posted:He might have gotten phished too. He's really quick to be angry at his daughter for something she'd have no power to do. Also he's not cheap he's in fact very, very generous and she is ungrateful and terrible and woe is me. $3,000 got me through 6 years at Yale!
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# ¿ Nov 24, 2020 02:09 |
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Why would you use “haircut” as a euphemism for getting a tan? Are we supposed to gather that the neighbors are running a brothel where everyone bangs in a sun room on the pretense of getting hair done? Is solarium slang for a giant hookas full of turbo-weed? Are they farming organs for extraterrestrials?
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# ¿ Nov 27, 2020 21:57 |
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Ohhhhhhhhh. Here in Murka, you’re free to sun poison yourself as much as you want.
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# ¿ Nov 28, 2020 03:16 |
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Mak0rz posted:The ozone layer is thinner in the southern hemisphere so yeah skin cancer is a much more serious risk there than here in northern regions. Didnt Straya start using CFCs or something worse not too long ago, weakening said ozone layer?
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# ¿ Nov 28, 2020 05:09 |
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Tunicate posted:If we're thinking about the same recent CFCs thing I think they eventually traced it to some assholes in china Yeah, I just half-remembered something I guess. Maybe the gist was that somebody else was loving over Australia re:cosmic rays of death, or my brain is just falling apart.
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# ¿ Nov 28, 2020 15:43 |
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Pththya-lyi posted:It is relevant. To the letter writer's mind, they're just another example of the kids' failures. Right? “We tried so hard, but they still turned out broken! Halp!”
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# ¿ Dec 7, 2020 23:09 |
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Poo In An Alleyway posted:Today in college was fun. We were learning how to develop 35mm black and white camera film, which involved having to roll film spools in a tiny cramped dark room. Our lecturer stressed how important it was that we don’t panic in the dark room. So I went in, the door was shut behind me, and I was left in 100% total darkness to roll film. And I realised I honestly wasn’t frightened, being in a pitch black room not much larger than a coffin, because I had spent many moments of my childhood hiding in my wardrobe so my mother couldn’t find me to scream at me about something innocuous that had made her fly into a rage. Not a nice thing to realise, and certainly not something I was up for explaining to my lecturer when I came out of the dark room not all that freaked out by being confined in a tiny pitch black room. Maybe you could harness this ability and channel it to become a caving vigilante, avenging spelunking crimes and protecting innocent cavers from the grimlocks (the D&D monsters/90s horror movie Grim monster/the morlocks).
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# ¿ Dec 8, 2020 18:53 |
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CherryCola posted:haha by trying to go no contact with both of my parents, I'm somehow now also in a fight with my brother who used to be the person who got how hosed up our parents are? Next time you discuss your parents with your brother, communicate in baby-talk. Maybe he'll humor you.
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# ¿ Dec 16, 2020 02:18 |
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This lady needs to mail an envelope to her mother. There should be no return address. The contents should be one piece of paper which, in massive comic sans font, reads “get hosed”. No further correspondence should be made. Drop the aunt to be safe. Callous? Sure. Parents that boot their children at the age of majority as if they’re retiring from a job they don’t like (which, I guess they are) don’t get to beg for favors as if nothing happened. BaronVonVaderham posted:Zero attempted communication from my father, the last I heard from him was when he sent a happy birthday on the wrong day. Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 08:14 on Jan 1, 2021 |
# ¿ Jan 1, 2021 08:12 |
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# ¿ Apr 28, 2024 23:35 |
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110 posted:hmmm today I will have sex with The Fist Well, I’m sure pregnancy from sex with a fist seemed unlikely.
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# ¿ Jan 2, 2021 06:10 |