Lil Swamp Booger Baby posted:

He's a virulent misogynist projecting his own beliefs onto all men and boys and thus "protects" his daughter from youthful manifestations of his own beliefs. He treats anyone who might approach his daughter as a predator because his own attitudes towards women are predatory and degrading and he assumes every other male is like him; in fact, he believes that his misogyny and predatory beliefs are in fact natural and the fundamental state of men, their natural instincts. That is how "protective" fathers are, they consider it part of the natural order that boys can't control themselves and thus it is the father's duty to protect his daughter since "boys will be boys." Female sexuality on the other hand is aberrant and promiscuity is the sign of a lost and unnaturally decadent girl so he gets her "checked" to make sure she hasn't been sullied or corrupted.

Mix that with a heaping dosing of making sure your daughter doesn't "shame" you by becoming a whore in your eyes and you have a recipe for massive insecurity becoming an abusive and controlling behavior pattern concerning his daughter.

Sexually protective fathers are loving creepy lunatics.

MustardFacial posted:

While true, sexually predatory boys do exist (largely because male culture is loving poison when you're a teenager and you are indoctrinated into thinking acting like this is the right way to be) and teenagers make stupid decisions all the time.

Having said that, there is a world of difference between sitting your daughter down and having a frank and honest discussion with her about the dangers that are out there and taking her to the doctor to check her loving hymen.

Lil Swamp Booger Baby posted:

Yes, but the answer to that is emotional support, preperation (teaching safety, what warning signs to look for, telling them that saying no is always okay and to set boundaries) and developing a rapport and relationship with your child that if they ever feel threatened, uncomfortable, or that something happens, you will not judge and will focus on helping them and being there for them rather than raging and punishing them; and if punishment is warranted, that you do so coolly and calmly without emotional or physical reprisal. Kids often fear the emotional aspect of punishment more than the actual tangible consequences. They aren't really afraid of being grounded, they're afraid of being screamed at, hit, or degraded by someone who ostensibly loves and provides for them in an environment they can't easily escape.

Additionally, the typical parental methods of making sure you know where she is by communicating with her, giving her a time table to be home by, and getting to know any potential partners in a reasonable fashion so you can figure out who they are and tell if they potentially are a shithead since browbeating does nothing but either make them dishonestly obsequious or defensive, oftentimes the most "respectful" boys are only that way because of their parents, and those parents might be fundie, conservative asswipes with terrible ideas about women that the kid then ends up internalizing. Countless rapists are "good boys with a lot of potential." Unless the warning signs are exceedingly obvious you literally can't tell, but you also can't become overbearing or deny your daughter a life because risk exists. They're teens, if they really want to, they'll find a way to get around you and lie to you about it and entrench themselves in situations they then feel they can't come to you about.

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sitting your daughter down and having a frank and honest discussion with her about the dangers that are out there

MustardFacial posted:

When I said:


I had taken everything you said as rote, because really you can't have a frank and honest discussion and expect them to listen to you unless you've laid the years of groundwork of everything you've said above.

But I often forget that this is GBS where you have to be very specific about how you say things or else or you'll be faced with a literal two paragraphs of "Being a Decent Human Being 101". But then again, my daughter is only 3 and I'm just making this poo poo up as I go along. So really, what do I know.

Big Beef City posted:

How does "voting rights", exactly, protect a minor of any sex, under care of a licensed physician asking them to perform an exam?



Please dear GOD don't get started on abortion rights by the childs' parents or determining who knocked up their baby-daughter and all that entails. Please believe me when I say that I understand that.
In the case of a minor, being brought in under the umbrella of their parent's medical care, ARE there tests the doctors cannot or will-not do upon request? Are you SURE of that? Even if creepy as poo poo?

What I'm trying to state, is that "If you're a minor, and subject to your parents health care laws, and this is a stipulation that they can ask for" what legal recourse would ANYONE have? As much as I'd like to blame one thing or the other, "Exclusive voting rights because you want them" isn't the answer, no matter how painful that sounds.

wa27 posted:

1st_Panzer_Div. posted:

It was a lame women's suffrage/slippery slope joke.

Cause it's about a woman's slippery slope.

Lil Swamp Booger Baby posted:

Fool I was agreeing with you and elaborating on the right thing to do. Quit FREAKIN and GEEKUN

mobby_6kl posted:

I'm a good daddy to your daughter, OP. At least that's what she says.

Burt Sexual posted:

Yo

Big Beef City posted:

so no, then.

Colonel Cancer posted:

There oughta be some kind of prostate hymen

vyst posted:

There isn't. I've checked

Colonel Cancer posted:

There oughta be some kind of prostate hymen

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When King told his father at 14 that he was sexually active, the rapper wasn't happy but laughed it off.

"I don't want any of my children to have sex before it's time for them, but who's to say when it's time?" he said.

"However, I will definitely feel different about a boy than I will about a girl. 

MikeJF posted:

Now his boys, on the other hand...