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Named after the city and county in Texas, naturally.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:12 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:Berth el pup. I hate this poo poo. There's definitely times where you want to carefully plan who will be within earshot of certain conversations, but who gives a gently caress if that racist old hag's reputation is ruined in front of her lovely family?
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:21 |
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On a tree by a river, a little Throck sits Throckmorton, Throckmorton, Throckmorton
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:22 |
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massive spider posted:The simple answer: watch peoples actions not their words. The apologists for this guy in this thread enable behavior like his and it's gross.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:23 |
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My[35M] brother[30M] wants a part of my inheritance in order for us to have a relationship My brother and I have only come in contact recently. When he was born my parents adopted him out to a good family because we were poor and living in a homeless shelter. We never had contact with him till recently. My parents turned their lives around at that point and worked very hard and I'm now inheriting a few million dollars from their success. But the most important thing they provided for me was stability and education to allow me to create my own successful life. My brother and I came in contact 2 years ago when he found me. My mother had already passed and my father was ill. They did communicate a little bit but not a lot. My father passed away recently and he told me that everything was coming to me except an obligatory 5k which he passed to my brother. My brother was furious and felt slighted once again. I do sympathise with him but my father told me not to give him any money. His real parents are well to do and have supported him and loved him, so he wasn't missing out on that department but I feel bad. He's demanding I give him half if not all the inheritance because he was given away. I think it's ridiculous to give him anything more than half. I asked him when his parents passed would I get an inheritance as well, to which he got snarky with me and stormed off. I don't know what to do now. TL;DR My brother is upset my parents left him nothing Should I be as uncomfortable as I (24F) am with my bf's (24M) reationship with his mom (45F)? I'll start with some background story. We've been dating for 6 years but it hasn't been until we moved in together, that it got really bad imo. We've been living together for 9 months. Here are some things that make me uncomfortable about their relationship: - calling each other twice a day AT THE VERY LEAST - usually it's even more - their phonecalls end with thousands of kisses and 'i love and miss you's - he relays on her opinion more than anyones (including doctors) - it has happend several times that he's talked to her on facetime while sitting on the toilet - once during such phonecall I overheard them talking about our sexlife which has been miserable to say the least - he was telling her that he's never in the mood and she was joking about it - everytime we visit her they throw themselves a pity party about their health (which according to doctors isn't bad but they know better right?) but when I tried to get them to turn off a video that was triggering for my mental health i heard that 'i read about it too much on the internet and i should stop', then I had a whole meltdown and never heard sorry or anything - he borrows her lots of money and she never has to give it back (i'm talking thousands) - he transfered her like a hundred dollars for shoes without thinking twice but refused to pay 50 for fixing the light in our bathroom for like 5 months when I didn't have spare money for that - i havent heard him doing it, but she somtimes talks to him in like baby talk which grossed me out real bad bc that's what I did (might be cringy idk) - as far as physical touch goes - that may not be bad but taking everything above into perspective it just messes with my head. Long hugs for hellos and goodbyes and ofc kisses on the cheek, but a couple of days ago we were sitting on a couch and he was complaining about it being hot outside or something and she just came up to him and pressed his head to where like her lower stomach?? idk how to explain it but i thought i was gonna get out of there Well having written it down I don't think I need your answer to the title, I am open to hearing your opinions tho. I'm going crazy. Woodchip fucked around with this message at 16:34 on Jun 21, 2021 |
# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:28 |
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Who's being his apologist? I think some of you people suffer from brain worms where people who do bad things are forever evil and can never atone and never change, like some sort of Christian zealot. Even if this guy is posting for a self-serving reason, so what. What does it matter? You got an inside track to his mind? Those words could be the cautionary tale for somebody who thinks along the same lines as they did, nothing wrong with that.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:33 |
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Dik Hz posted:Totally agree. What strikes me the most is that he should be embarrassed by his actions. Instead, he's gotta make this big reddit post to make sure people know he's not really the bad guy. Yeah, and those are the actions I've based my opinion on. As usual, some of the opinions in this thread are baffling. They're literally reading a public performance from this self absorbed stalker and saying "awww, he's grown so much!"
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:33 |
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Woodchip posted:My[35M] brother[30M] wants a part of my inheritance in order for us to have a relationship He only tried to reconnect for the money OP. Whatever decision you make he's going to find an excuse to cut contact afterward. Give half to an orphaned kid charity if you fel bad about not giving him anything.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:34 |
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Dik Hz posted:Totally agree. What strikes me the most is that he should be embarrassed by his actions. Instead, he's gotta make this big reddit post to make sure people know he's not really the bad guy.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:36 |
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:I found the deleted update from the way back machine! This is adorable because he genuinely thinks she died but doing the right things. Like at the end of this he'll self actualize into a great person, meet a woman and start a family and never tell his kids he sees the ghost of his ex everywhere shouting at him "I'm not dead you stupid rear end in a top hat!"
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:44 |
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Dik Hz posted:Totally agree. What strikes me the most is that he should be embarrassed by his actions. Instead, he's gotta make this big reddit post to make sure people know he's not really the bad guy. Except for the part where it says he is the bad guy? It's just dipshits like you who simultaneously can't read and read way too much into things.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:47 |
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Let's play "guess the search string" AITA for 'emasculating' my husband infront of his parents? quote:I(25F) have been dating my husband (30M) for five years and we've been married for two. He is very much a traditional 'man's man' but it never bothered our relationship till now so i didn't care. AITA for wanting him to prepare dinner with me? quote:My new boyfriend (34) and I (29) keep fighting over this topic. AITA for arguing with my parents that being a man and doing your eyebrows isn't gay? quote:Disclaimer on mobile , first time posting on this sub etc etc AITA For "Embarrassing" My Husband In Front Of Our Friends? quote:This happened recently and I have been wondering whether I was being an rear end in a top hat. I am a stay at home mom to two children under 5 and my husband works full time. My husband is a wonderful companion and an amazing father but he can be very frugal at times. AITA for emasculating my fiance? quote:EDITED TO ADD: it was his idea to be a SAHD. He was fed up with HGV work and stressed, missing time with the kids and we were paying out MY arse (he refused to pay any childcare) of £1000 a month. He stopped working October 2019 and had an MI January 2020. AITA for suggesting to ask our neighbor for home improvement help? quote:My husband (35) is not handy. When it comes to anything that requires tools he doesn't know which one is required and most of the time will take the cheap way which always has ended poorly. I (31) happen to be very handy around the house, but I know my limits and when to ask for help.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:51 |
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Tarkus posted:Who's being his apologist? I think some of you people suffer from brain worms where people who do bad things are forever evil and can never atone and never change, like some sort of Christian zealot. Even if this guy is posting for a self-serving reason, so what. What does it matter? You got an inside track to his mind? Those words could be the cautionary tale for somebody who thinks along the same lines as they did, nothing wrong with that. Aramoro posted:Except for the part where it says he is the bad guy? It's just dipshits like you who simultaneously can't read and read way too much into things. I don't care if you agree with me or not, but your instinct to go straight for personal attacks is the grossness I was referencing.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 16:55 |
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AITA for letting my 14yo wear flip flops when the bride requested heelsquote:My daughter, 14, was invited to be a bridesmaid in my niece’s wedding last minute. One of the bridesmaids backed out and they needed a replacement to make it even.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:06 |
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Dik Hz posted:Y'all should probably look inward as to why you're getting so angry at a couple people pointing out the similarly between that dude's stalking behavior and that post. Lol, the poster who does personal attacks all the time getting sanctimonious about personal attacks. Fact of the matter is that I am being introspective when I talk about people changing because I've done lovely things in my life and have done my best to change as a person. I'm glad for your sake that you're a paragon of virtue but many of us aren't and all we can do is try to be better and be cognizant of people who are trying to change.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:07 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for letting my 14yo wear flip flops when the bride requested heels Ban weddings
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:08 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for letting my 14yo wear flip flops when the bride requested heels
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:12 |
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Ban weddings Noooooo! My thread content!
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:12 |
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Dik Hz posted:Y'all should probably look inward as to why you're getting so angry at a couple people pointing out the similarly between that dude's stalking behavior and that post. You initiated the personal attacks by calling people apologists for abuse. Based seemingly in you being unable to read, just projecting what you want to be true onto him. So I'm gonna have to stick with calling you a dipshit.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:16 |
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:Let's play "guess the search string" Also, lol at the dude who doesn't even know what tools to use feeling emasculated about it. It's 2021, you can literally look up YouTube videos to show you how to do everything from hammering in a nail to building your own house from scratch. If you feel emasculated or whatever, maybe take some responsibility for yourself there buddy. Hell, when we're talking about "hanging a shelf", you can straight up do calculations on various websites indicating the weight that can be supported by a nail compared with various types of screws/supports/etc. MagusofStars fucked around with this message at 17:20 on Jun 21, 2021 |
# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:16 |
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If the weird personal sniping doesn’t stop I’m putting on slow mode. I would like to inform you all my period is NOT GREAT with this muggy rear end weather rn so my patience is thinner than societal body norms. Act accordingly
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:25 |
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:26 |
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:this is how my first habbo hotel gf died.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:26 |
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:Let's play "guess the search string" the least men
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:29 |
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MagusofStars posted:I'm assuming it's "less of a man". strong throughline on those posts of being totally unwilling make any effort on their own part to man up and do the stereotypical man things but being extremely willing to reassert their masculinity by mewling pathetically about it
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:30 |
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If we’re diagnosing people with incurable personality disorders based on their posting now why does everyone here want to gently caress their mother? Very curious.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:30 |
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:If we’re diagnosing people with incurable personality disorders based on their posting now why does everyone here want to gently caress their mother? Very curious. I was adopted by Microwave's mom as a child and thus, tragically never had a chance
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:32 |
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Microwave's mom is hot dude
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:35 |
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Barudak posted:I was adopted by Microwave's mom as a child and thus, tragically never had a chance
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:39 |
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How to approach someone when the only time you see them is at their workplace?quote:So I met this girl a couple weeks ago while taking my cat to the vet...she works there as an assistant and immediately she seemed as someone I really want to be a part of my life - not necessarily romantically, but even just as a friend. I rarely have the opportunity to meet someone new, especially someone so seemingly likeminded and compatible as her.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:44 |
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Happitoo posted:How to approach someone when the only time you see them is at their workplace? No. Just no. Stop.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:50 |
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Happitoo posted:How to approach someone when the only time you see them is at their workplace? Mid-life crisis combined with the guy having manic pixie dream girl delusions. This is ugly.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:51 |
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Happitoo posted:How to approach someone when the only time you see them is at their workplace? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TYv2PhG89A
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:51 |
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It came from r/legaladvice (paragraph breaks added). (NY) Is it a crime to pierce a baby's ears without permission and can custody get denied over it ? quote:My niece is 2 months old. My brother is going through a divorce from his wife, she filed for divorce 6 months ago. Custody hasn't been decided yet but she hasn't stopped my brother from seeing my niece.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:52 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:strong throughline on those posts of being totally unwilling make any effort on their own part to man up and do the stereotypical man things but being extremely willing to reassert their masculinity by mewling pathetically about it Yeah its beyond pathetic. Like the guy whose wife can chug beer better than him, he has a complete breakdown and flees to his brother, who then calls the wife in the middle of the night to yell at her for making the husband feel like less of a man. These dudes are chuds. They have something severely wrong in their brain that makes them act like this.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:52 |
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If you're being a creep already enough to look her up on Facebook, just add her as a friend on Facebook. That is outside of work. If she adds you back maybe contact her at some point. If she doesn't take the hint.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 17:52 |
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The moment I realized that there is literally no female equivalent to the concept of 'emasculation' was the moment I realized patriarchy is embedded in the English language. I've being thinking about in on and off for years now, and cannot think of a matching word that describes a female person being denied power and respect that is due to her entirely because of her gender.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 18:07 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:It came from r/legaladvice (paragraph breaks added). quote:My sister-in-law already took her and gave the bill to my brother. The piercings/earrings where were removed entirely. I know my brother is protective of our mom because after the incident with the doctor he disagreed with my sister-in-law but he never expected her to file for divorce and the suddenness threw him off kilter. He never expected an ultimatum. I would just like for him to have custody time with my niece. I'm not in agreement with my mom as much as I love her. quote:My brother had a lawyer but she couldn't represent him anymore so he's in the middle of retaining a different lawyer right now. I'll tell him to to talk to that lawyer once the paperwork is signed even though I'm sure he knows but just to be safe. For the other incident with my mom as I said she recognizes that she was wrong and I don't condone nor defend her there. I don't think she should have pierced my nieces ears. I'm just hoping for my brother's sake that he isn't denied custody time by the court. lol mommy's boy was blindsided by a divorce after defending his restraining order getting mother Kind of curious just how his lawyer can't represent him anymore, but I'd be willing to bet it involved the mother interfering.
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# ? Jun 21, 2021 18:16 |
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Woodchip posted:On a tree by a river, a little Throck sits
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Pookah posted:The moment I realized that there is literally no female equivalent to the concept of 'emasculation' was the moment I realized patriarchy is embedded in the English language. It is called being a woman I think.
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