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Splash Attack posted:i had been thinking findom was some sort of misspelling of femdom this whole time and i finally googled it It basically sounds like my relationship with my bank, except they are the ones with an erection.
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I thought findom was something to do with fish, or perhaps dolphins.
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Paying for attention and not sex is not new, ("let me buy you a drink?") Not sure where sociopath comes into it, not having sex and getting paid is a winning strategy or everyone sex work or not.
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Splash Attack posted:i had been thinking findom was some sort of misspelling of femdom this whole time and i finally googled it It exists to be parodied. 
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Parakeet vs. Phone posted:And not a drop of white wine. I know personally at least one goon who's on again off again SO was (an apparently non sexual?) legit cam findom, but there are a lot of things I question about him not the least of which is one of the reasons I haven't talked to him in over half a decade so details are shaky to say the least
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Magna Kaser posted:I haven't lived in the US for over a decade now but can someone remind me why everyone from landlords to cable companies need your SSN when it's the Not only that but with enough background info you can basically guess it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Erp8IAUouus
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grittyreboot posted:I think they're pointing out that all incels have low self esteem but not all people with low self esteem are incels Yeah its this, when i think of incels, i think of dudes who post on incel forums and call themselves wristcel or skullcel or currycel, etc. Those dudes have usually completely given up on actual women and retreated fully into hentai or just pure misogyny rage. Their most famous member, Elliot Rodgers, had completely given up on even the fantasy of having sex with women by the end. His manifesto had fantasies of what he would do if he was god-king of earth, and it wasn't "establish a harem", like you would expect for a frustrated horny dude. It was "banish all women underground, like Morlocks, and erase the memory of them from men forever". And yeah, to the goon above, findom feels like something you'd need to be in a dark triad personality disorder to actively pursue. Primarily because getting started in it seems like you'd have to actively be trolling for vulnerable folks to exploit for cash.
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grittyreboot posted:There are people whose survival strategy is to hopefully be Elon Musks footstool when he declares himself God Emperor of Mars. There was also that time he took all of the drugs and made a 420 joke on Twitter in an attempt to get Azaelia Banks to join him and his girlfriend for a threesome and ended up with blue balls and a $20M fine from the SEC because he declared that his stream-of-consciousness Twitter account was an official channel of Tesla's financial statements, and after that he started using his mom's Twitter account to whine and rage at whatever he was angry at. Magna Kaser posted:I haven't lived in the US for over a decade now but can someone remind me why everyone from landlords to cable companies need your SSN when it's the
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Sloth Life posted:Paying for attention and not sex is not new, ("let me buy you a drink?") Not sure where sociopath comes into it, not having sex and getting paid is a winning strategy or everyone sex work or not. If it helps you out, I've been thinking about buying a PS4 and I am happy to give you my PayPal if that gives you a thrill. As a bonus, if you are into edging, it's a 3-4 business-day delivery time.
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One More Fat Nerd posted:
If you meant the person I was talking about, they weren't a cammer and they didn't seek out a relationship with the cammer. It just kind of happened and he found out later she did the findom poo poo. He was just hosed up in general and some abuse happened that I won't comment on. However he managed to explain everything elegantly in the end with his own actions. Dark triad sounds pretty up his alley though and I wouldn't doubt that
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Syd Midnight posted:I've heard that findommes tend to display the hallmarks of sociopathy and are not really accepted as part of the organized bdsm community. I have no idea if there's truth to that, but I've never seen a bit of evidence to the contrary, especially for the first part. I guess I must be a sociopath then cause I'd findom the hell out of any pay pig who'd go for it.  ...I think that smiley is more Devo than I was hoping, but close enough. e: hosed up if true that the bdsm community kinkshames humble findoms like that. It's okay to put a collar on someone and ride them around like a pony, but make them buy you a real pony instead and suddenly you're the bad guy! Telemaze has a new favorite as of 07:52 on Apr 21, 2020 |
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Syd Midnight posted:I've heard that findommes tend to display the hallmarks of sociopathy and are not really accepted as part of the organized bdsm community. I have no idea if there's truth to that, but I've never seen a bit of evidence to the contrary, especially for the first part. I haven't heard that specific accusation, but sociopathy and narcissism are not uncommon in the community. It doesn't sound unusual at all for a sociopathic or narcissistic person to become abusive in how they try to dominate people or seek sexual behavior for financial gain; a recent Let's Read thread I did dealt with that kind of person and he freely engaged in findom as well as extremely abusive BDSM.
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GWBBQ posted:There was also that time he took all of the drugs and made a 420 joke on Twitter in an attempt to get Azaelia Banks to join him and his girlfriend for a threesome and ended up with blue balls and a $20M fine from the SEC because he declared that his stream-of-consciousness Twitter account was an official channel of Tesla's financial statements, and after that he started using his mom's Twitter account to whine and rage at whatever he was angry at. This is more hilarious than the time the WWE had to cancel a storyline about Donald Trump “buying” Monday Night Raw because the stockholders totally bought into kayfabe.
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The bigger issue is that a lot of findoms are just people who know they can get people to give them money, and act in ways that are irresponsible and harmful to the sub. It's the difference between ethical kink and abuse.
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I also hear that many smaller time online sex workerd get screwed over by skeevy companies that take huge margins and are ran by fly by night assholes. The industry has a lot of exploitation over banking and taxes and such. Legalize all drugs, legalize sex work of all kinds, unionize the workers of both.
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Splash Attack posted:i had been thinking findom was some sort of misspelling of femdom this whole time and i finally googled it It's a form of humiliation fetish, like most fetishes it's ripe for abuse from bad actors, but it's not hugely different from any other sex worker getting paid for their work.
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Apr 21, 2020 10:15
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Vincent Van Goatse posted:It's been a synonym for wuss or wimp for literally decades. the f-word has meant "bundle of sticks" for centuries, are you going to say it's not a slur? 
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gently caress isn't a swear word
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Only when used as a noun
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I have a friend who, on at least two separate occasions, has been propositioned by men who wanted him to findom them. I’ve got the impression that it’s the kind of business where actively trolling for clients puts you in about the same boat as someone trying to break into the twitch streaming scene.
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https://twitter.com/mitchellvii/status/1252453257080909824
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Syd Midnight posted:I've heard that findommes tend to display the hallmarks of sociopathy and are not really accepted as part of the organized bdsm community. I have no idea if there's truth to that, but I've never seen a bit of evidence to the contrary, especially for the first part. Generally speaking, the BDSM community strongly believes that there is a line between mistreating a person for the pleasure of both parties and being a scum bag. That's why stuff like proper communication and aftercare are such a big deal. It's also why 50 Shades of Grey was reviled by them. That book is basically a "how NOT to" guide. This is also the same community with groups that believe you shouldn't be allowed to wear leather bondage gear unless you earn it (whatever the gently caress that means). In conclusion, BDSM is a land of contrasts and
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Felonious_Monk posted:no no no, you see, she's fine with incels beating their meat as long as they're paid up, she just takes issue with poors trying to get stiffies for free Personally, I think all men should have to pay to cum. Every time.
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Syd Midnight posted:I've heard that findommes tend to display the hallmarks of sociopathy and are not really accepted as part of the organized bdsm community. I have no idea if there's truth to that, but I've never seen a bit of evidence to the contrary, especially for the first part. Why are findommes any different than any other form of sex work? Sounds perfect if you're a woman who wants to make some fast cash without having to be nice to (or be in the same room with) gross men.
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OhAreThey posted:Personally, I think all men should have to pay to cum. Every time. You’ve got some bad brains
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OhAreThey posted:Why are findommes any different than any other form of sex work? Sounds perfect if you're a woman who wants to make some fast cash without having to be nice to (or be in the same room with) gross men. I think the point is that findoms generally don't care about their "pay pigs" at all, like, if some guy findoms himself into debt or not being able to pay his bills, they don't give a poo poo, while other BDSM stuff involves not ruining anyone's lives(if done right). I.e. there may be pain and whatever, but you're not permanently damaging anyone and the dom cares about their sub having a good time, too.
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PurpleXVI posted:I think the point is that findoms generally don't care about their "pay pigs" at all, like, if some guy findoms himself into debt or not being able to pay his bills, they don't give a poo poo, while other BDSM stuff involves not ruining anyone's lives(if done right). I.e. there may be pain and whatever, but you're not permanently damaging anyone and the dom cares about their sub having a good time, too.
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So findommes are as ethical as free-to-play developers, is what I'm seeing here.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:So findommes are as ethical as free-to-play developers, is what I'm seeing here. Something something her lootbox something.
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PurpleXVI posted:I think the point is that findoms generally don't care about their "pay pigs" at all, like, if some guy findoms himself into debt or not being able to pay his bills, they don't give a poo poo, while other BDSM stuff involves not ruining anyone's lives(if done right). I.e. there may be pain and whatever, but you're not permanently damaging anyone and the dom cares about their sub having a good time, too. This is the modern evolution. Financial domination used to have a much bigger focus on trust rather than just being credit card fraud with extra steps. It still involved financial loss but usually with people you actually saw in person and developed long term relationships, whether sex worker-client or more intimate, and was a little less scummy.Always was an edge kink, though, in both senses.
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Ambitious Spider posted:You’ve got some bad brains Thank you for taking what I said seriously and NOT sarcastically, as it clearly WASN'T sarcastic!
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Absurd Alhazred posted:So findommes are as ethical as free-to-play developers, is what I'm seeing here. Yes. Is Findom any different than anything that squeezes money out of fools in late stage capitalism?
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OhAreThey posted:Thank you for taking what I said seriously and NOT sarcastically, as it clearly WASN'T sarcastic! Guess not everyone is familiar with this classic jam: https://youtu.be/6rAaW9AQDEE
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Part of me kind of appreciates the openness of the findom hustle, but also once someone anonymously put $50 in my PayPal account when I was struggling a bit between jobs and I cried, so I might not be cut out for "pay me to be mean to you."
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Ambitious Spider posted:Guess not everyone is familiar with this classic jam: Ah, I apologize for my defensive reaction and thank you for making me aware of this awesome song!
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