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Areola Grande posted:I've never had a gently caress buddy but this could be the one If that's what she's looking for then dive in. Bit of fun almost never killed anybody  Don't worry too much about the age if she doesn't. I felt kinda weird seeing a 21 year old when I was like 37, but it took a couple times out to get over it. |
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Areola Grande posted:there's a hot chick who works with me and she's into me. I'm a year older than her father (a regular customer of mine) but I don't think she knows yet or just doesn't care. We sort of talked about this in this thread before I think, and I don't remember if I chimed in or not, but you asked for an advice refresher, so here's something just off the top of my head, so take it with a grain of salt. I mean I don't know her, and just because she is hot doesn't necessarily mean she is a lot of work, as you said. I guess it can be a stereotype for a reason, but anyone can be a lot of work or super easy going regardless of looks. The three kids is more of a concern if you get serious with her, that's a guaranteed thing to deal with no matter how she is mentally. That's up to you really. People say I would be a great parent, but I can't afford kids and am not particularly fond of them in general, though I do get along well and really like specific ones. But kids might be a deal breaker for me, especially with "other peoples kids" as common as that is now. Also consider how it might affect your job. Are they cool with coworkers dating? If not, is it worth the risk? This is all coming from someone who has been single for a very long time and my last serious relationship was very unhealthy because of who I was with, so don't expect me to have it all figured out, lol. Update from while I was typing this all out: Areola Grande posted:no. I'm not cool with kids. I'm a cad I don't know what a cad is, but: Areola Grande posted:I've never had a gently caress buddy but this could be the one That might be the answer then! Or just flirt around and have innocent fun and hope it doesn't drive you crazy lol.
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nesamdoom posted:My mum almost got me into the idea of rocking a pipe because it'd suit me being weird and all, but I never saw a cool one anywhere. I've thought about getting a cheap pipe, not so much for carrying around and looking like a hipster, lol, but just for at the house when I want to smoke some tobacco but don't want to roll anything. I mostly roll outside, so if it's too hot/windy/cold, being able to just shove some nicotine in a pipe and kill the urge real quick sounds tempting, but I have like no experience so maybe I'm way wrong. nesamdoom posted:That was back when 40s were 1-2 bucks. could get hosed up and smoke all day on I still barely can for that price, but the time spent making the smokes is almost like paying more for them in a way but still cheaper than the outrageous prices they charge for a pack of camels these days. Also the quality of the smokes and booze is even worse now for the price, but I guess it's doable, lol.
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Twenty Four posted:We sort of talked about this in this thread before I think, and I don't remember if I chimed in or not, but you asked for an advice refresher, so here's something just off the top of my head, so take it with a grain of salt. I work for a giant corporation. There's paperwork involved in dating a peer. It's a legal consent form. very dystopian
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Areola Grande posted:I work for a giant corporation. There's paperwork involved in dating a peer. It's a legal consent form. very dystopian I mean that's not ideal, and it's them covering their asses in case things go south, but I've worked at places where the policy was "if you date a coworker, one of you has to quit or we will fire one of you basically immediately" and that's crap. I mean I sort of get it to prevent problems, but the bullshit clandestine situations rules like that can cause more turmoil than just going "you know what, fine, but if things go bad, it might be one of your jobs". At least it is an option for you, even if it has a chance to come back to bite you later.
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Twenty Four posted:I've thought about getting a cheap pipe, not so much for carrying around and looking like a hipster, lol, but just for at the house when I want to smoke some tobacco but don't want to roll anything. I mostly roll outside, so if it's too hot/windy/cold, being able to just shove some nicotine in a pipe and kill the urge real quick sounds tempting, but I have like no experience so maybe I'm way wrong. My mum seems to think I'd have been better off in the 1800s, I think she's probably right. But I do roll around with big mutton chops most of the time and very much enjoy my top hat. But, my punk bit fights my farm bit with me seeming like I should be staggering out of an opium den. So, I tuck my mohawk into a top hat and skateboard around in some baggy jeans and a flannel. I'm kinda a mess overall, but it seems to work. I used an NES controller as a belt for a year and it was pretty cool, but then I'd go bail hay like that and get weird looks from farmers. I never thought it'd be fun to be trendy like, but def would be very nice for hanging out on the porch or by a camp fire. Or being a dick and smogging someone's house :lol Oh thinking of camp fire. I love wood burning, but like the old way where you cherry a stick and gotta stay by the fire and slowly burn whatever into the wood. It's super relaxing and was a good way to be busy and not have to pay attention to people. |
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Twenty Four posted:I mean that's not ideal, and it's them covering their asses in case things go south, but I've worked at places where the policy was "if you date a coworker, one of you has to quit or we will fire one of you basically immediately" and that's crap. I mean I sort of get it to prevent problems, but the bullshit clandestine situations rules like that can cause more turmoil than just going "you know what, fine, but if things go bad, it might be one of your jobs". I worked at a place that didn't care. I kept getting women I knew to get jobs and I pretty much had an active or past relationship with someone in every department. No problems came up, so they never said anything. Then I got with my wife and she got a job there and they seemed to think it was funny enough that if I called in they'd ask if she was sick too, yup. |
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Twenty Four posted:I mean that's not ideal, and it's them covering their asses in case things go south, but I've worked at places where the policy was "if you date a coworker, one of you has to quit or we will fire one of you basically immediately" and that's crap. I mean I sort of get it to prevent problems, but the bullshit clandestine situations rules like that can cause more turmoil than just going "you know what, fine, but if things go bad, it might be one of your jobs". exactly what u just said  . I've valued this job for 2 years and so I know better. But if u could see her in action dude 😔... holy sweet jesus hrnnnnnngggIt's like punishment knowing that she's into me
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 cad. I'm not at all adulterous though b/c I never have that chance. I avoid women and children is all |
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjlSiASsUIs oops, did I link a video? my bad, can't seem to find backspace on this keyboard.
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oh, btw I definitely don't have the kid tomorrow for the first time this week and I had a soda. I'm pulling an all nighter and going to crash very hard in the morning
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nesamdoom posted:oh, btw I definitely don't have the kid tomorrow for the first time this week and I had a soda. I'm pulling an all nighter and going to crash very hard in the morning  I'm up for the long haul. Knuckle down borther 
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I vote that we line em up and suck em down. Our tripping friend Snuff Milange will be reading this thread when coming down later 🤜🤛👉👌 |
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Areola Grande posted:
To me CAD was Computer Aided Drafting, that class I took in high school because it was that, Shop Class, or Home-Ec, and drafting had the least amount of assholes or bitches in it, lol. nesamdoom posted:oh, btw I definitely don't have the kid tomorrow for the first time this week and I had a soda. I'm pulling an all nighter and going to crash very hard in the morning Areola Grande posted:
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I keep spacing out pretty hard listening to stand up. sun's up in a couple more hours, I can make it. Just finished some spicy ramen and that put alil fire in me. drat, spicy burps. 
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 Jealousy Split. I'm about 2 go to a faraway place TC. let's keep it going
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Oh yea, repaying some of the cute animal stuff. She's a sweetheart that let's someone I know live with her. 
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Areola Grande posted:
That looks like a lot of piping from the bowl, does it work good as a handle or do you still grab the body?
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I grab the body and grasp the shaft unless otherwise instructed 
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Areola Grande posted:I grab the body and grasp the shaft unless otherwise instructed Nice sex story, lol
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friend of mine used to have one where the stem bit was also a handle. Made lighting it super easy and honestly not bad if you passed out holding it. Was a smaller unit. It's been like 20 years since I hit a bong though. bad vodka and lemonade, crewsing on |
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Areola Grande posted:the bender continues who's up 
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I'm pretty sure I fell asleep on my desk then zombied to bed around 6.
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nesamdoom posted:I'm pretty sure I fell asleep on my desk then zombied to bed around 6. I'm usually the last one standing, and though I am more than guilty of falling asleep at my desk at home, I got some stuff done tonight and am going to bed proper. Hopefully for a while!
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Twenty Four posted:I'm usually the last one standing, and though I am more than guilty of falling asleep at my desk at home, I got some stuff done tonight and am going to bed proper. Hopefully for a while! Another BYOB success story! 
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had a nice trip! sorry to ghost and not report back the end safely lol. I was peaking during Alien and it ruled. Woke up feeling refreshed and mentally clean -- no weird chemical hangover or anything. Waking and baking with my weekly iced coffee treat, life is good
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AG I was in a similar situation one time and threw it away literally at the THIS IS ITTTT moment, and after that humiliating defeat it was actually a huge relief. From then on we were just super close buds and she was my work wife for years until we both quit that job. We were all a pretty close group there. Sometimes I really miss having slept (slept) with her on a lovely couch, over at our other coworkers' apartment, waking up hungover to the summer air coming in. Then we'd all pile in a beat-rear end 90s Mitsubishi Mirage, go to work and make rum and cokes all day out of the bread pudding materials cause the boss wasn't in. Such a good little window of time. Sarah Cenia fucked around with this message at 19:00 on Apr 26, 2025
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I'm out of weed for the foreseeable future so here's a snake that tried to dash into my house last night. It must have been laying up against the warm door. I like snakes but I'm not down with a mystery snake under my bed. ps here's a thick toad I saw too 
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