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Ziv Zulander posted:
oh boy oh boy, this. please ladies I wish nothing more than for you to see what we see
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great big cardboard tube posted:I'm a dude and currently a healthy weight but I grew up fat and being bullied about it and as a result I have hosed up body dysmorphia and have fluctuated between 120lbs and 180lbs (of pure out of shape fat) on a constant cycle of either starving myself or binge eating so ya just wanted to chime in eating disorders are real and they suck and anyone can have them. oh hey there another buddy i was pretty chubby as a kid and got made fun of because i had manboobs and unfortunately though my weight is normal now, they never went entirely away. I still watch out what kind of clothing i wear because i'm very self conscious about it. wish i could just get surgery or smth.
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# ? Nov 6, 2021 11:17 |
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SatansOnion posted:anyone else fancy the term “Rubenesque”? I dig the way it simultaneously evokes the edifying experience of the museum and the horniness of cavorting about nature in diaphanous gowns Reubenesque where she’s covered in sauerkraut and Thousand Island (or Russian for you traditionalists) dressing.
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# ? Nov 6, 2021 11:21 |
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Szyznyk posted:Reubenesque where she’s covered in sauerkraut and Thousand Island (or Russian for you traditionalists) dressing. I think I found my Halloween costume for next year
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# ? Nov 6, 2021 12:20 |
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I'm probably like "hazardous materials" or "please dispose of trash properly". something that would go on a warning sign anyway.Code Jockey posted:I love it i've been playing mostly as a shiny Sorayama style gynoid lately and it's pretty rad been considering getting a model to match my avatar ported over...
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Fashionable Jorts posted:Quick question, you a dorito? Code Jockey posted:well you know what? I have a husky and she is loving adorable so I can think of worse things to be associated with I am pretty adorable so I am still comfortable with husky even though it clearly is said in the same sense as "big-boned" or "fluffy"
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# ? Nov 6, 2021 20:53 |
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SatansOnion posted:anyone else fancy the term “Rubenesque”? I dig the way it simultaneously evokes the edifying experience of the museum and the horniness of cavorting about nature in diaphanous gowns https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rcRsHhUbe3g
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Code Jockey posted:Cutting a nice figure is so strange Yeah man, that’s why you dress to your body type! You’re you. Do you and what makes you feel and look good. Tailoring owns — if you wear dress shirts often, there’s a dope site called Luxire.com You can get nice rear end custom dress shirts made to your measurements from for usually ~$70 (you pick material, pattern, sleeve types, button types, whole schitck). It feels so good to have something that fits you the way you want, highly recommend it if you wear dress shirts often at all.
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# ? Nov 7, 2021 01:29 |
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tehinternet posted:Yeah man, that’s why you dress to your body type! You’re you. Do you and what makes you feel and look good. Tailoring owns — if you wear dress shirts often, there’s a dope site called Luxire.com kinda sounds like a commercial dude
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# ? Nov 7, 2021 01:45 |
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Mumpy Puffinz posted:kinda sounds like a commercial dude or it’s just a recommendation from one tall goon on which every shirt is either a belly shirt or a circus tent to another tall goon on solid/affordable dress shirts that fit ($70 is a lot but literally nothing for bespoke dress shirts)
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# ? Nov 7, 2021 02:16 |
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tehinternet posted:or it’s just a recommendation from one tall goon on which every shirt is either a belly shirt or a circus tent to another tall goon on solid/affordable dress shirts that fit ($70 is a lot but literally nothing for bespoke dress shirts) also sound like a commercial, but I'll play along. I have no reason to buy a dress shirt
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# ? Nov 7, 2021 02:24 |
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SatansOnion posted:anyone else fancy the term “Rubenesque”? I dig the way it simultaneously evokes the edifying experience of the museum and the horniness of cavorting about nature in diaphanous gowns my dad would use it as a compliment for my mom so personally
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# ? Nov 7, 2021 02:43 |
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Recommendations are good
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# ? Nov 7, 2021 02:50 |
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teen witch posted:Yes! What is their size (if you know) or style? Torrid is a solid jumping off point. Oh! I'm familiar with Torrid! They used to have cute things, I'll check them out again soon! Thanks for the suggestion! Sorry I didn't get back to you after blatantly asking for help pages ago- we had to go to a wedding and the lead-up was crazy. For pants, they are women's 21, but I'm not sure what the conversion is for shirts from men's to women's. In men's they are 3xl (technically 2xl, but they like more room to move in. ) For shoes, they're around a women's 14, mostly. These are the hardest to find, but shopping online has made it easier. The most important thing really is that I can find cute, colorful things, rather than being overtly "female" clothing. The section it comes from matters less than the color/print, the issue is only that "male" clothing is so drab!
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DicktheCat posted:Oh! I'm familiar with Torrid! They used to have cute things, I'll check them out again soon! Thanks for the suggestion! Ok so I recommend Universal Standard for basics, albeit they’re a tich pricier than Torrid, but they have SIZES UP THE BUTT. Uh, ASOS is dece for more H&M type things, Dapper Boi for more bro-y wear focusing in on masc-of-center type fits, Peau De Loop has fun shirts but they seem to go up to 20. Also holy moly thecurvyfashionista is a nice little resource…
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# ? Nov 7, 2021 07:51 |
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I'm willing to bet this has been asked already but I'd appreciate if some one could recommend a good place to buy plus size lingerie.
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Johnny-on-the-Spot posted:I'm willing to bet this has been asked already but I'd appreciate if some one could recommend a good place to buy plus size lingerie. I have heard decent things from savage X fenty but cannot vouch personally.
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# ? Nov 11, 2021 23:05 |
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My ex used to get a lot of Torrid stuff lingerie wise it's good.
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# ? Nov 11, 2021 23:24 |
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teen witch posted:Ok so I recommend Universal Standard for basics, albeit they’re a tich pricier than Torrid, but they have SIZES UP THE BUTT. Uh, ASOS is dece for more H&M type things, Dapper Boi for more bro-y wear focusing in on masc-of-center type fits, Peau De Loop has fun shirts but they seem to go up to 20. Bless you, genuinely.
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teen witch posted:I have heard decent things from savage X fenty but cannot vouch personally. Savage X Fenty is quality, but they don't have a "baby doll" that my SO is looking for.
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teen witch posted:SIZES UP THE BUTT
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# ? Nov 12, 2021 22:38 |
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lol this crossed my mind too
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# ? Nov 12, 2021 22:48 |
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Im a little larger than "normal" dad bod and my wife is fat. I love her body but she has a lot of problem with self image issues. Do you have any suggestions on how to talk to her in a body positive way when she feels down and hard on herself about her weight? I feel like saying i think she is beautiful isnt cutting it
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tractor man posted:Im a little larger than "normal" dad bod and my wife is fat. I love her body but she has a lot of problem with self image issues. Do you have any suggestions on how to talk to her in a body positive way when she feels down and hard on herself about her weight? I feel like saying i think she is beautiful isnt cutting it That’s because your image of her isn’t the problem. Just offer to be supportive if she wants to try doing something about it. Not necessarily in a “go on a diet and work out” way but maybe a change of clothes or a new hobby or just a routine change. But you don’t have to suggest what to do. Just tell her whatever she feels she wants to try you are ready and eager to go along with it. Except polygamy. lol gently caress that poo poo.
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Noblesse Obliged posted:That’s because your image of her isn’t the problem. Just offer to be supportive if she wants to try doing something about it. Not necessarily in a “go on a diet and work out” way but maybe a change of clothes or a new hobby or just a routine change. But you don’t have to suggest what to do. Just tell her whatever she feels she wants to try you are ready and eager to go along with it. Hey baby i know you feel ugly rn is it cool if i go hang out with my other gf while you figure that stuff out?
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# ? Nov 12, 2021 22:59 |
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Her leaving after attaining body positivity is a risky outcome. Better to just let her wallow in self loathing like the rest of us.
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# ? Nov 12, 2021 23:16 |
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I'm a dude that loathes working out except running, which I love I have a very broad chest - not muscular, I just have a weirdly large chest. I definately have what some people would call "man boobs" though I've made my peace with it, they're just kind of their and not really all that aesthetically bad. But clothes, man, clothes just assume I'm a plank with no definition. Button seams fall open, jackets sit weird, vests never look quite right. I hate looking at photos of myself, again not because of my body but because clothing looks like it's fitted for an entirely different kind of creature when I'm wearing it. I am not looking for advice on how to "resolve" my chest situation so please do not thx
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# ? Nov 12, 2021 23:51 |
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i used to wear "hawaiian" / "bowling" style shirts a lot that would fit my back and arms but not also my chest, so i'd just wear them open overtop a tshirt. maybe you can wear something like that or alternatively over like a stretchy vest or something? two shirts may accomplish what one cannot? i am not a fashion person lmao
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# ? Nov 13, 2021 06:21 |
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It bugs me when people are like 5 pounds overweight and they go on these extreme fad diets. It bugs me when ANYONE goes on extreme fad diets because they aren't healthy, but watching average/slim people scramble to lose weight is unnerving.
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# ? Nov 15, 2021 22:21 |
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DicktheCat posted:Uh, is this the place to ask for advice for where to get clothes for a 6'2" large woman? My wife is those things and I want to get them pretty things. They deserve to feel pretty, bc they are. I've not looked at every single page in the thread, so if I missed it, I'm sorry! can't help you with that. but if you could give me the directions to the 6'+ tall wife store that would be great
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# ? Nov 15, 2021 23:13 |
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SatansOnion posted:anyone else fancy the term “Rubenesque”? I dig the way it simultaneously evokes the edifying experience of the museum and the horniness of cavorting about nature in diaphanous gowns it makes me think of a sandwich op
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# ? Nov 15, 2021 23:16 |
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I'm a fat dude and I wish I wasn't but I love food too much. well that's my story thanks for reading.
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# ? Nov 15, 2021 23:24 |
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oh and I love women of all shapes and sizes and colors. that whole "being a women" thing that some people do? yeah I think it's pretty badass tbqh
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i needed a seatbelt expander on the airplane, but only by like 1cm, like the two ends could just touch but not far enough to click together >:[
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