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I usually just say I'm a woman, or trans woman. That's convenient for most situations. Reality is my identity kind of swings between androgynous and feminine. But I also don't give a gently caress about my actual gender identity label. I'm just me. I guess I fall on the enby scale, usually going for agender because if I could zero gender in general I would. Other people see me as a bit more gender fluid. But the actual practical thing is I'm just a silly girl.
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Big Beef City posted:Which two things are you? Hot cocoa AND on the couch.
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kntfkr posted:i thought this was going to be a thread about a chain restaurant like arby's and i was excited to learn about it but now i'm finding out there is no Enby's and I'll never get to eat at one and it just kind of sucks you know I've eaten at many an enby heh  sex joke
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Disco Pope posted:My gender mystery partner is fond of "binch" Binch is great. I also like bicth. Pronounced bick-tha basically. It's fun. Also "totally not rad" is a winner.
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lt_kennedy posted:What up Aussie enbies - representing Local Thembo excellence. Fucken on ya legeeeeeend. I'm a big fan of enbys. Big fan. I know a lot of enbys, and you know, they're good people. Some of the best. I was talking to one the other day and they were telling me how impressed they were by me being like them but also showing them things. Very impressed. Anyway I poo poo my pants.
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A favourite thing about the ability to give birth thing is a friend of mine screamed at a coworker because she was talking about me and mentioned I was trans and the coworker was like "oh she can't have kids? Guess she isn't a woman." She screamed because she had a medical issue that required surgery that destroyed her ability to have kids, something she always wanted so very much. So telling her that having kids meant I wasn't a woman was telling her she wasn't too, and she is so very much more sensitive about it.
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I really hope this thread just becomes cishets debating with each other over the philosophy of gender and sexual identity. That would be 
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Gender identity is not really important for people who never have to think about it. I am shocked. Shocked. "Gender is not important!" I scream as I am beaten for being androgynous lol
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Feb 1, 2022 10:17
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Cis people actually aren't cis because they don't think about being cis and therefore can't be because you didn't think therefore you amn't. Just pulling out the big guns here folks. Joining the Galaxy Krew.
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BONER X posted:wait is entourage not just gay porn It's softcore but yeah it is.
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Sweaty IT Nerd posted:I'm trying real hard not to be one of those cis debaters. If it's not porn why'd I jerk off to it? Checkmate
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Picnic Princess posted:I feel this fits with the "most people don't have gender identity" discourse lol I forget who the comedian was that nailed it with the bit about guys thinking expressing love for your girlfriend/wife was "gay". It's loving weird when people actually do it and you realise the bit is based on the real world. What the gently caress.
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Also gently caress it double post, I vote every cis person that "never thinks about their gender" and thinks "it just doesn't matter" now gets a prescribed gender. Can this be traumatic? Yes. But it is the way we will reach the moon, or something. The gender they need, not just the gender they want.
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Feb 3, 2022 05:01
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Cis people be like "lol pronouns don't matter, call people whatever who cares" and then get mad when you pull the "it" card on them.
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Just mentally replace it with "I don't see colour, man, that's all I'm saying" and you're off to the races.
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