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Bad Purchase posted:it would be mean of me to be nice to you, it wouldn’t prepare you for what’s to come Some people actually think this
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Mar 30, 2023 09:46
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I'll be nice to you OP... For money.
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Mar 30, 2023 11:51
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I've kinda stopped interacting with people who aren't nice, after some poo poo last year where I almost lost a friendship because of my own long-term dickish behavior. It turn out that after a lot of painful soul searching and striving to be a lot more concerned with being nice than being right, my tolerance for people who aren't in that headspace is at an all time low. Fortunately I don't have to interact with many people that I don't want to, and for all the nonsense here I think SA is generally one of the nicer places on the internet.
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Mar 30, 2023 14:15
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Don’t have the spoons for it man
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Mar 30, 2023 14:17
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Thank you all for your very nice responses
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Mar 31, 2023 02:41
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I'm a nice guy op It's everyone else that's the rear end in a top hat
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Mar 31, 2023 02:54
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Capacity for emotional warmth and open compassion may require an absence of pants making GBS threads fear confusion and anger. Also it's kinda fun to be a bit of a dick sometimes!
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Mar 31, 2023 03:13
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Being nice doesn’t get clicks or likes op
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Mar 31, 2023 03:29
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i'm pretty nice these days but it took a lot of hard work
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Mar 31, 2023 03:36
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Because some people are honest (the assholes) and some people are full of poo poo (happy).
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Mar 31, 2023 03:39
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Because some people are honest (the assholes) and some people are full of poo poo (happy). isn't an rear end in a top hat, by its nature, full of poo poo?
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Mar 31, 2023 03:41
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WILDTURKEY101 posted:isn't an rear end in a top hat, by its nature, full of poo poo? Not if it’s getting everything out there. 
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Mar 31, 2023 03:42
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poo poo in, poo poo out
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Mar 31, 2023 03:44
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Edward Mass posted:I heard a story on NPR about this very topic, and it turns out we don't join clubs anymore. The Internet Makes You Stupid - and anti-social. This is one of the reasons why accessible hockey et al are important. Ice hockey is more of a rich people thing but basically anyone can play ball hockey, young or old. And of course, soccer (aka football)/baseball/basketball/disk golf. What the gently caress ever. Cheap teamwork and socialization bitches. Join a team. You just go out pissed off because everything sucks, you can easily find a fight in minutes if you want, and that's just gonna piss you off more and make it worse. Also you will probably get hurt. Which will also piss you off more/make you more crazy. So join a team of whatever strokes your interest. Not athletically inclined? Go volunteer for whatever. It's the isolation and the poison of social media that breaks brains. Delete your loving social stuff, you'll never look back. You can stay here though, it's mostly nice you (slur of choice).
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Mar 31, 2023 04:00
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WILDTURKEY101 posted:i'm pretty nice these days but it took a lot of hard work I worry about being awkward in trying to get that done. Because it is.
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Mar 31, 2023 04:05
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We all need to be more like these two men: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WfUnwynwZvE
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Mar 31, 2023 04:07
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Sweaty IT Nerd posted:I worry about being awkward in trying to get that done. Because it is. Sure right it loving is. But most people are still fundamentally good, and most of the awkward is in your own head. It's just weird and hard sometimes. And if they turn out crazy or aggro, you just back off and note them as "okay, we are gonna avoid that one."
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Mar 31, 2023 04:09
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Everyone is nice to me and loves me.
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Mar 31, 2023 04:09
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The Butcher posted:Sure right it loving is. But most people are still fundamentally good, and most of the awkward is in your own head. It's just weird and hard sometimes. And if they turn out crazy or aggro, you just back off and note them as "okay, we are gonna avoid that one." Realizing that those anxieties go largely unnoticed is relaxing for sure.
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Mar 31, 2023 04:11
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Animal-Mother posted:We all need to be more like these two men: lol
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Mar 31, 2023 04:14
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I think big society nice faced judgement by nature in 1987 because they weren’t really nice, but for once they really had to fake it. And they’ve just been bitching about it since but I mean it is what it is, they aren’t nice, just lookin for something to use. 
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Mar 31, 2023 04:18
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Edward Mass posted:I heard a story on NPR about this very topic, and it turns out we don't join clubs anymore. The Internet Makes You Stupid - and anti-social. what you dont do pop-up hackcons at the coworking space??
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Mar 31, 2023 04:21
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I'm a lot better at being mean so the only time I am outspoken is to attack people whom I perceive create injustices. So personally being mean is the only way I can feel empowered probably
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Mar 31, 2023 04:45
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everyones extremely fragile at all times and could probably just use a hug. no one person has any freagin idea wtf is going down so acting like a prick bitch is an easy way to feign dominance. i made a poopy.
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Mar 31, 2023 05:02
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flubber nuts posted:everyones extremely fragile at all times and could probably just use a hug. no one person has any freagin idea wtf is going down so acting like a prick bitch is an easy way to feign dominance. i made a poopy. If everyone acted like me, this world would be a lot better because everyone would be dead.
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Mar 31, 2023 05:06
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Lil Swamp Booger Baby posted:If everyone acted like me, this world would be a lot better because everyone would be dead. Ban this dead filth, but respectfully.
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Mar 31, 2023 05:29
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Devils Affricate posted:Sometimes it just feels straight up wrong to be nice It's true it is also wrong to lie
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Mar 31, 2023 05:36
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I will be nice to you op. And you, dear reader.
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Mar 31, 2023 05:37
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Called one of those "How is my driving?" numbers earlier this week and told em truck 143 was doing the most beautiful driving I ever saw, stopping in front of pedestrian crossings and all. Asked them to pass on the message.
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