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My happiest times of my life were when I was in elementary. Watching cartoons, playing videogames in the 80s, going on adventures on my BMX with my cousins and friends. As I got older, I had less and less friends. I'm 44 years old now and I don't have any friends, just coworkers and acquaintances. I keep hoping things would turn around, but it hasn't happened. ![]()
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Nah
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Hopes a devil, find God. I know my own happy future, hope you find it.
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youre no pencilhands, thats for sure
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Okay guy from mouth washing
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i feel like they're just getting started
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I hope you find some friends, OP.
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repression of negative memories is real and even the shittiest periods of life can seem ebullient. a lot of people remember being a little kid as the best days of their lives because the things that stick out are toys and cartoons and maybe a vacation or something. we tend to stuff the poo poo like family arguing, trauma, teething, injury, social awkwardness, loneliness (regardless of the ratio to good/bad) in the recesses of our mind. high school can seem awesome because you were getting laid, going to parties, no job, no worries, going to live forever but reality is that it is a time of awkward adolescence, worries about grades, pleasing parents, all sorts of dumb poo poo that felt terrible. your happiest days are subjective and rarely do we realize how good we have it during the experience. enjoy every moment. namaste.
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Yeah I miss cocaine
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my midlife crisis posted:Yeah I miss crack cocaine
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Ive got my eyes on a smart toaster and thats probably gonna solve a lot of problems.
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I cannot definitively say what the future holds, so no.
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Absolutely, it was late college/grad school. Good decade for just enjoyment
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gently caress NO. RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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I sincerely hope not
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I hope not, but I think it's been postponed since 2016.
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Sounds like someone has a case of the ‘I’m a stupid moron with a big butt and my butt smells and i like to kiss my own butt’ syndrome.
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I dunno if I was ever happy TBH. Edit: No offense, OP but WTF is that comic?
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No probably not because as I get older it seems I only get more free to do what I want and successful in basically every way, and I have a great and loving wife and family and lifelong friends I'm quite excited to see where the next 10 years takes me and I have lots of plans and things I want to do/try/create
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Toxic Mental posted:No probably not because as I get older it seems I only get more free to do what I want and successful in basically every way, and I have a great and loving wife and family and lifelong friends Venmo me...
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Without question.
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There's more to life than this.
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Memories are more fond than the present event. Your happiest moment will always be in the past.![]()
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no, i've never been happy.
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i think the future always deserves a second chance
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thin blue whine posted:no, i've never been happy.
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If you think the happiest moments are in the past it's because you are your own enemy and you must defeat yourself to have success.
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Poohs Packin posted:Ive got my eyes on a smart toaster and thats probably gonna solve a lot of problems. dont toast your eyes its not worth it
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I used to get drunk on nostalgia and now I loving hate it. I get better every year in the things that matter but it took me a while to get to that point. So, no. I don't think my happiest days are behind me.
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I do miss the days of having no weed tolerance
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lol if those were my happy years I'm hosed
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There’s no room for happiness in *gestures vaguely at the surrounding world* this, so probably yes OP.
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I live in the US, so yeah, probably
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No, but the easiest are. Having kids makes everything much more difficult, but much more rewarding.
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yeah, most likely.
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i look at my past with a realistic viewpoint: i did some wild poo poo when i was younger. i'm glad i survived mostly in tact but when you live like that you have incredible highs and incredible lows. i have some amazing, unbelievable memories that people would kill for and i've also had stretches of time that were truly abysmal. nowadays i am consistently in the content --> happy range with the occasional peak. the days of extremes are behind me and it is for the best. i probably ought to write some of it down before I am old and forget, but was I happier? nah if life seems mundane or you are becoming lamer as you get older DO SOMETHING ![]() go read some ralph waldo emerson, for real “Make the most of yourself....for that is all there is of you.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
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"Make the most of yourself. Now I'm going to go live by a pond and do nothing." Edot: Sorry, Thoreau was the pond guy. I mixed up my authors that English teachers love but everyone else hates. Presto fucked around with this message at 18:13 on Mar 14, 2025 |
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i smoke lots of weed so every day is happy for me
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No, the first 20+ years of my life I'd rather die than go back to. But the future isn't looking so great again either.
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# ? Apr 26, 2025 15:56 |
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my college years were peak in terms of balance of social opportunity, responsibility, and physical health. the transition to the relentless adult grind of nonstop 40+ hour work weeks with social circle attrition was a bit of a backslide, but assuming i can free myself from the grind before my body fails, no way, i will reach new highs of hedonism and personal fulfillment
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