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Ularg posted:This is the first I'm hearing of #Maybehedoesnthityou and I'm sort of freaking out about what they think they're trying to do with this hashtag. What in the ever loving hell are they doing? Victim blaming now? Never heard of if either but my assumption is that they're pointing out that abuse isn't just beatings.
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Ularg posted:This is the first I'm hearing of #Maybehedoesnthityou and I'm sort of freaking out about what they think they're trying to do with this hashtag. What in the ever loving hell are they doing? Victim blaming now? It's actually the opposite I think, raising awareness of emotional/mental abuse as well. "Maybe he doesn't hit you, but..." agreed though, it's a dumb as hell hashtag choice
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Ularg posted:This is the first I'm hearing of #Maybehedoesnthityou and I'm sort of freaking out about what they think they're trying to do with this hashtag. What in the ever loving hell are they doing? Victim blaming now? The intent was to highlight other forms of abuse. I'm sure the m'lady crowd is running in all sorts of other directions with it. Edit: er, beaten
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Ularg posted:This is the first I'm hearing of #Maybehedoesnthityou and I'm sort of freaking out about what they think they're trying to do with this hashtag. What in the ever loving hell are they doing? Victim blaming now? You act surprised.
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Ex "#maybehedoesnthityou but he isolates you from your friends, tells you you're worthless, and and makes you think he's the only one who would love you" highlighting that emotional and verbal abuse are abuse too.
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Someone sent me this over Steam Don't watch while at work
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Trans people disgust me too OP and imo we should shame the people who love them.
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Christo posted:When I visit my grandpa in the Alzheimer's care home there's an ancient lady who thinks I'm her boyfriend and will latch onto my arm if she sees me until a nurse can pry her off. It's very uncomfortable and not cute. Maybe it's different for me because I worked with them, but it's funny because it's harmless. Like, I remember one time I was helping this woman to the toilet and she said I could take her pants down but only if I showed her mine too. Or another women who usually thought she was on a date with me come dinnertime, and since she never had any appetite I'd always try and coyly suggest I like women who can clean their plate so that she'd eat a few extra bites. Granted, there was also somebody there who tended to start sobbing and stripping naked during the evenings. That was less funny.
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Wanamingo posted:Maybe it's different for me because I worked with them, but it's funny because it's harmless. Like, I remember one time I was helping this woman to the toilet and she said I could take her pants down but only if I showed her mine too. Or another women who usually thought she was on a date with me come dinnertime, and since she never had any appetite I'd always try and coyly suggest I like women who can clean their plate so that she'd eat a few extra bites. Pretty much this. It just depends on the patient. Right after HS, I spent a couple of summers working in the therapy department of a nursing home (old folks home for non-US goons). Alzheimer's patients got their own (locked) wing in the building because they tend to wander off. Some of them exhibited very harmless flirting behavior that's either easy to ignore or easy enough to engage in without hurting the patient or anyone else. But there are plenty of other situations/patients where this does not apply. Example: There was this couple in the Alzheimer's wing who looked like a married old couple. They were always looking to make out, trying to sneak off. Turns out they didn't really know each other and both of them had spouses that regularly visited them. In cases like that, it's all about patient dignity. They generally aren't of clear mind when engaging in this behavior, therefore it is considered NOT OK. Nursing staff would always break it up. Best part about the locked wing? It used an electronic 4-digit lock and had a note next to it saying: "The code is 1234 entered backwards". This was visible to all patients in that wing. They didn't get out and that should tell you something about their mental capacity and why it is not fair to them or their loved ones to let them engage in that behavior (most of the time).
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TotalLossBrain posted:Example: There was this couple in the Alzheimer's wing who looked like a married old couple. They were always looking to make out, trying to sneak off. Turns out they didn't really know each other and both of them had spouses that regularly visited them. In cases like that, it's all about patient dignity. They generally aren't of clear mind when engaging in this behavior, therefore it is considered NOT OK. Nursing staff would always break it up. There actually was a married couple at the place I worked, even though they didn't realize they knew each other most of the time. Apparently they didn't have a happy marriage, so really, it was probably for the best. And yeah, having the code prominently displayed like that is pretty standard.
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Wanamingo posted:There actually was a married couple at the place I worked, even though they didn't realize they knew each other most of the time. Apparently they didn't have a happy marriage, so really, it was probably for the best. Hah, that reminds me: the nursing home's regular wing had a married couple but they were in separate rooms by request. That was the most rewarding and the saddest job I ever had.
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blarzgh posted:#MaybeOurNeighborIsYourFather "So...what's our dad's real name?" "I have no idea but I can tell you exactly how big his dick was!"
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blarzgh posted:#MaybeOurNeighborIsYourFather "son, sometimes when a man loves a woman, like i love your mom, he just wants to watch a stranger have his way with her while he masturbates in a recliner while watching..."
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Prokhor Zakharov posted:"So...what's our dad's real name?" "I don't know what his real name was, but we called him Bull #3"
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Mildly Amusing posted:Someone sent me this over Steam If you love someone, suck their dick. It's not complicated. The real AUG is talking about being in a relationship with someone you've never met.
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 If you love somebody If you love someone Suck their dick Dick dick suck their dick Suck their dick
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Or alternatively to make money
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Mildly Amusing posted:Someone sent me this over Steam are we laughing at internet oversharing or are we laughing at trans people
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The trans menace! Here is an actually good dramatic reading of a young Nice Guy™ called Fusionman and his attempts to woo Helen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efTloIPzkkA
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LOVE LOVE SKELETON posted:are we laughing at internet oversharing or are we laughing at trans people Whichever one offends you
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The A/U/G thread: idolizing only the popular mental illnesses since 2015.
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blarzgh posted:The A/U/G thread: idolizing only the popular mental illnesses since 2015. I'm all about that depression.
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PCOS Bill posted:Whichever one offends you whyyyyy yooooouuuu
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PCOS Bill posted:Whichever one offends you Rabbit season
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LITERALLY A BIRD posted:It's actually the opposite I think, raising awareness of emotional/mental abuse as well. "Maybe he doesn't hit you, but..." Thank god. Because it sounded way worse than that. TontoCorazon posted:I'm all about that depression. I knew I had fans.
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Getting off on some dude banging your ol' lady is such a weird fetish. I don't get it.
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whiteyfats posted:Getting off on some dude banging your ol' lady is such a weird fetish. I don't get it. Humiliation kink plus porn addiction. Mix in low self esteem and blammo, it's more fun for you if someone "better" is doing the loving. I don't get it, but I can almost understand it.
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So it's just like watching cooking shows on TV?
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Baller Time posted:So it's just like watching cooking shows on TV? That, but you have to do their dishes afterwards.
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Comrade Koba posted:That, but you have to do their dishes afterwards. holy poo poo
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whiteyfats posted:Getting off on some dude banging your ol' lady is such a weird fetish. I don't get it. Ask your father about it.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Ask your father about it. How will he know which one that is?
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Aramoro posted:How will he know which one that is? He'll yell "Daddy!" and pay attention to who looks most disappointed.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Ask your father about it.  
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whiteyfats posted:Getting off on some dude banging your ol' lady is such a weird fetish. I don't get it. Relentlessly telling people throughout their formative years that, "Whatever you feel is true and good, no matter what, and anyone or anything who challenges you emotionally in any way is evil and bad." has consequences. We've overshot the legitimate objective of 'tolerance' by so much that we glorify aberrant behavior and mental illness. People use fun, poppy words like "kink" to describe the sexual desire to have your genitals crushed by a giant hamster while your wife gets railed by dude in a dead president mask.
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Most twenty-somethings today don't remember that in the 90's and early 2000's the religious right was arguing that things like homosexuality and transexuality, deviant sexual behavior, and mental illness were a choice, not a mental or biological predisposition. However it happened, in the intervening years the pendulum swung all the way past the midpoint of 'rational consideration and understanding' and over to Orwellian suppression of all thought and dissent. Now groupthink tells us that everything is a choice and its hateful to even question people's 'choices,' like the preceding three million years of human evolution and socialization are bad and undesirable. The effort to normalize through social force is so misguided, that it closes its eyes and ears to reality. The greatest leaders of progressive social change always preached love, kindness, and understanding; to set an example of goodness and tolerance. Outrage, lynch-mobs, suppression of contrarian thoughts, group shaming, racial McCarthyism, active ignorance and rejection of basic scientific truths, and emotional, irrational political positions were the tools of hate 50 years ago. Now, they're: 
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blarzgh posted:Most twenty-somethings today don't remember that in the 90's and early 2000's the religious right was arguing that things like homosexuality and transexuality, deviant sexual behavior, and mental illness were a choice, not a mental or biological predisposition. However it happened, in the intervening years the pendulum swung all the way past the midpoint of 'rational consideration and understanding' and over to Orwellian suppression of all thought and dissent. Now groupthink tells us that everything is a choice and its hateful to even question people's 'choices,' like the preceding three million years of human evolution and socialization are bad and undesirable. I always knew the Gays would take over.
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blarzgh posted:Most twenty-somethings today don't remember that in the 90's and early 2000's the religious right was arguing that things like homosexuality and transexuality, deviant sexual behavior, and mental illness were a choice, not a mental or biological predisposition. However it happened, in the intervening years the pendulum swung all the way past the midpoint of 'rational consideration and understanding' and over to Orwellian suppression of all thought and dissent. Now groupthink tells us that everything is a choice and its hateful to even question people's 'choices,' like the preceding three million years of human evolution and socialization are bad and undesirable. lets agree to disagree on this, just because someone on tumblr is angry doesn't mean people outside in the real world all feel this way
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