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Brainworm posted:And now, a Redditor who can't deal with an ordinary level of weird.
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Vaginas are like onions, or maybe just yours.
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Jun 9, 2017 18:18
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Just quote Shrek at her Two can play the nickname game.
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Jun 9, 2017 18:23
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Barudak posted:Dude you're 20, youre way too young to settle for garbage because its comfortable. You should be buying a case of live butterflies and letting it loose in her apartment with the note "I hope these last longer than our relationship did" Yeah what a selfish oval office. If she's not gonna share it's like 
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Jun 9, 2017 18:34
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Tender Bender posted:] I got free tuition and about 20k a year stipend + health insurance do to my ms in Chem Eng, also job lined up before I finished. If what you do in grad school is worthwhile then you will get paid to do it, if not you shouldn't go into that program. Like I wasn't rich but it was plenty to live off in a college town 1 bedroom.
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Jun 9, 2017 19:11
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ArbitraryC posted:I got free tuition and about 20k a year stipend + health insurance do to my ms in Chem Eng, also job lined up before I finished. If what you do in grad school is worthwhile then you will get paid to do it, if not you shouldn't go into that program. Fair enough. Health insurance, Jesus christ!
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Jun 9, 2017 19:17
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Yeah I got the same for doing an MSc in ecology, though I had to pay a relatively inexpensive tuition. Going to school in Not America probably helps.
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Jun 9, 2017 19:19
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Guy getting a doctorate in philosophy: dang graduate school is such a rip off
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Jun 9, 2017 20:19
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Tender Bender posted:Fair enough. Health insurance, Jesus christ! Oh I think your advice is generally fine, a lot of people go into grad school just to kick the can of real life down a couple years farther and come out worse for the decision but I was just adding to it. Don't do grad school if it puts you more in debt, number one sign of a useless program is if they can't pay you to be there. Some exceptions obviously but its a good rule of thumb.
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Jun 9, 2017 20:21
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Many masters programs don't pay, they treat those as a profit center for paying their "real" students. So, even if you just want a masters, enroll in a Ph.d program and just drop out once they award the masters. I mean, in reality it's often not worth your time anyway but hey, whatever you want!
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Jun 9, 2017 20:33
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Tender Bender posted:Fair enough. Health insurance, Jesus christ! Here in Canada, pretty much all the universities give you really really really good extended health coverage (like, they'll pay for everything, including dispensing fees) and that's on top of your general universal health care coverage. Although apparently Quebec are weirdos about reimbursement, but they're weirdos about everything.
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Jun 9, 2017 20:38
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My [25/F] dad [58/M] made some incredibly racist remarks towards my [25/M] fiance when we told him we were getting married. We agreed to not invite my dad to the wedding but my fiance never wants him to see our kids even though my dad wants to work things out.Relationships We thought he'd be extremely happy. He threw a tantrum. It was ridiculous. It was crying,screaming, cursing our future kids because he didn't want black grand kids. Him telling me it was ok to date a black guy but not marry one in front of my fiances face. It escalated to physicality when my dad tried to charge my fiance and my fiance threw him to the ground. I was caught off guard because my dads known him since our freshman year of college. He's been on multiple vacations and helped him get his start in Real Estate. As a result My dad is no longer coming to our wedding. It was a hard decision to make, but my fiance didn't want him there. His family didn't want him there and he/his family made it clear if my dad was going to be there then they weren't coming. I'm extremely angry because our families were very harmonious and now they all look at me like I have those feelings too. I tried to make the wedding a concession so that we could move forward but my fiance is absolutely hell bent on having no contact with my dad at all. We're currently talking about kids and I want to stay close to our families. He said he's fine with that as long as I understand that my dad will never see, touch, or interact with our kids nor will they be going over to my parents house because my dad said he didn't want black grand kids. Not getting invited to the wedding was a huge blow to me and my dad, so he's trying to change but my fiance is having none of it. He blocked my dads number and any time I mention him he just stops talking or leaves the room. I invited my dad over last night to work things out and when my fiance saw he was there he left our apartment. He told me explicitly he "loving hates my dad" and not to invite him over again if he's going to be home. My dad says he's sorry, but I understand my fiances anger. I wouldn't want to be around someone who said that either. My fiances totally fine with my mom, and she's tried to talk to him and he still shuts down. What do I do? I don't want to have to pick my future husband over my father, but I understand where he's coming from and I'm in love with him and have been for a very long time, so I'm going to marry him. My dad's tried sending stuff to his office and calling him but he doesn't get a response. Is there anyway to resolve this? I really don't want to have to sneak my future kids over to my parents nor do I want them knowing what my dad said about them. My Fiance said from the time they understand what race is they'll know their grand dads a racist and I don't think it's fair to deny him a relationship with them while allowing them one with the rest of my plutonic family. TL;DR Dad my racist comments when we told him we're getting married. He's not invited to the wedding. He's seen the errors of his ways but my fiance will have no contact with him and doesn't want our future kids too either.
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Jun 9, 2017 21:06
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Smirking_Serpent posted:my plutonic family. Truly excellent freudian slip: family is hellish.
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Jun 9, 2017 21:09
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Oof.
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Jun 9, 2017 21:09
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Brainworm posted:Oh relax. Benghazi 2 is fine. Pick is fine. They're ordinary people making ordinary decisions subject to ordinary human frailties. Not like these two: this guy is, uh, something quote:There are times when she does have my undivided attention, but then, say if I receive a phone call and am on it for 3 minutes. This will irritate her, and this situation usually ends up with her throwing blames at me and me apologising. She still has my undivided attention in such moments, but sometimes, one just cannot help it. I live with old grandparents, sometimes, they ask me to do a chore which takes another 5 minutes. She wont understand this. quote:She mentioned she was with her dad when this incident happened. I texted her dad a simple "Goodmorning. Have a nice day." My plan was to wait for his response and then ask him about her. The reply I get from her: "Dont involve my family, because then I will involve yours, and it will be really ugly." Then she blocks me from her dad's phone. previous posts: Me [29M] with my fiance [28F], she's mad over a comment on Instagram. Me [30M] with my girlfriend [29F] of 3 years. She wants me to move to relocate to another country. I (M30) want to breakup with my current girlfriend (F24), because I'm not over my ex (F30). How do I it?  so romantic...
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Jun 9, 2017 21:12
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There was a loving physical assault and she repeatedly characterizes it as just being racist comments. Fiance needs to loving 
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Jun 9, 2017 21:13
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InediblePenguin posted:There was a loving physical assault and she repeatedly characterizes it as just being racist comments. Fiance needs to loving the dad's arteries, yes.
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Jun 9, 2017 21:33
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The only way you should be ok with a dad who attacks your fiance is if they use a sword and give them a sword first too and its like the Addams family.
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Jun 9, 2017 21:51
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No dad don't bring out the ceremonial katanas you're embarrassing me
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Jun 9, 2017 21:56
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Dad mishears son as him saying hell take him at "ones word"
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Jun 9, 2017 21:58
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [25/F] dad [58/M] made some incredibly racist remarks towards my [25/M] fiance when we told him we were getting married. We agreed to not invite my dad to the wedding but my fiance never wants him to see our kids even though my dad wants to work things out.Relationships "I don't want your father at our child's graduation. This day shouldn't be ruined." "You don't understand, he's sick.  "
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Jun 9, 2017 22:00
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There is no good outcome that doesnt involve the dad and an unexpected, sudden, and immediatley lethal illness claiming him before he can even tell them hes dying.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:08
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Maybe complications from being pushed over.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:09
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Lonely Virgil posted:I wouldn't want this women for my mom. Racist white relatives are the last thing you want in a half black child's life. Fiance should sever. The moment her old man gets dementia that racism is going to get dialed to 11 and she going to coddle him even more. yeah her comments totally show she's gonna marginalize the gently caress out of this. lovely situation but if she's not willing to put her foot down it'll only be worse if/when kids enter the picture, they don't need to see their mom justifying the behavior.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:12
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fruit on the bottom posted:No dad don't bring out the ceremonial katanas you're embarrassing me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PQiaurIiDM&t=31s
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Jun 9, 2017 22:15
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Need an update after kids arrive 
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Jun 9, 2017 22:16
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hey so i got a 3 day probation in d&d for saying slavery is bad (long story) and missed pick's meltdown but here's some good stuff I [37M] want to re-home our dog. My wife [33F] thinks I'm evil. quote:(Sorry if this is quite long!).
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Jun 9, 2017 22:16
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maskenfreiheit posted:slavery is bad reported
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maskenfreiheit posted:hey so i got a 3 day probation in d&d for saying slavery is bad (long story) and missed pick's meltdown but here's some good stuff pretty sure you said war is good and cool.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:18
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Motherfucker posted:pretty sure you said war is good and cool. i said qatar is a slave owning dictatorship and it wouldn't be the worst thing if they got invaded, which broke the circlejerk, which pissed off their new tankie mod
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Jun 9, 2017 22:32
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 Florida Man [Florida/Texas] Man I rejected won't stop texting me and sending me flowers (self.legaladvice) quote:Background: I moved from Florida to Texas last year. I was raised in a Muslim community where "arranged" marriages are common. By "arranged" it's usually arranged by friends and family, i.e. a man or woman tells their friends that they're looking to get married and they try to play matchmaker for them.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:44
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Lonely Virgil posted:I wouldn't want this women for my mom. Racist white relatives are the last thing you want in a half black child's life. Fiance should sever. The moment her old man gets dementia that racism is going to get dialed to 11 and she going to coddle him even more. Or, and hear me out, they open up to grandpa, and help him work through his prejudices and they can all grow to be better people? Haha, no this is the internet where everything is an extreme moral-equivalence test.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:50
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blarzgh posted:Or, and hear me out, they open up to grandpa, and help him work through his prejudices and they can all grow to be better people? l m a o
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Jun 9, 2017 22:54
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blarzgh posted:Or, and hear me out, they open up to grandpa, and help him work through his prejudices and they can all grow to be better people? Nice try old man, you're still not seeing the kid.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:56
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blarzgh posted:Or, and hear me out, they open up to grandpa, and help him work through his prejudices and they can all grow to be better people? The black man who wants nothing to do with a racist who tried to assault him for thinking about marrying the racist's daughter sure does need to grow as a better person.
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Jun 9, 2017 22:57
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blarzgh posted:Or, and hear me out, they open up to grandpa, and help him work through his prejudices and they can all grow to be better people? 
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Jun 9, 2017 23:03
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Let racist into your life, and you can make them better people somehow. Man, why haven't me and other black people ever thought of that. Racism is over.
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Jun 9, 2017 23:09
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*fruit on the bottom withdraws coolly*
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [22M] date with a girl [22F] I met on-line went badly, and I fear that I've really hurt her Someone I knew did this to a guy and then the next day buzzed him to go sorry I didn't mean to say those things we're cool right? Then was super mad at him when he withdrew future plans at that point AND got mad at me when I tried to explain to her wtf you can't just do that sort of thing to someone. She's 38. She's blocked now. Edit: She didn't do the am I pretty part because she was and she knew it.
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