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Buccaneer
Jun 24, 2017

by FactsAreUseless
As the presiding judge in this hearing it is my ruling that he gets to stay and his parents have to clean up after him. Case closed

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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO
Feb 28, 1985


Buccaneer posted:

As the presiding judge in this hearing it is my ruling that he gets to stay and his parents have to clean up after him. Case closed

The childs mother should be paying him, for the donation of premium genetic material.

My Imaginary GF
Jul 17, 2005

by R. Guyovich

Three Olives posted:

Yeah but the thing is that ship has probably already sailed, the reality is his life will probably not improve in any meaningful way by forcing him out, it will probably become much worse.

But it's cool to support the baby boom idea that bootstraps will fix anything and they aren't forcing him into a lovely world of basically inescapable poverty given his skillset and financial burdens.

its never too late to unfuck your life

all ya gotta do is figure out a narrative that resonates with folk and gets instant buy-in

dude's halfway there if he uses the publicity to pivot into a religiously observant individual with a desire to work office jobs

Kung Food
Dec 11, 2006

PORN WIZARD

BrigadierSensible posted:

Other questions, how old is the kid? Does the dude get visitation, and if so does he take advantage of said visitation? Basically, how often does he see his son/daughter? Do the grandparents get to see their grandkid, and if so how often? Coz if they love their son enough to let him mooch off them for 8 years, surely they want to cuddle and coddle the grandchild. But if they hate their son enough to take him to court to get formal eviction notices then maybe they want nothing to do with it.

The mom has full custody, which is hilariously because one of his excuses for why he can't find a job is he was too busy being a dad. Of course being a dad means he took the kid skiing and fishing that one time.

Bip Roberts
Mar 29, 2005

Spinster posted:

Or you can do what my dad did, never pay it, eventually lose your house, and have all the money go to your ex wife when the kid (me) is out of the house at 18.

Thanks mom and dad.

Wow I wish I had a so directly quantifiable number on just how much my dad didn't love me.

Papa Emeritus III
Jul 7, 2017

[A MESSAGE FROM THE CLERGY]

Dat's Pussy Trap, bitch!

Deal with it.
My brother didnt work for 7 years and his excuse was "all of my money would go to child support". He ended up being thrown in jail, since theres a law in FL about that kind of poo poo. He also lived with my parents the whole time, would get custody of the kids every other weekend, and my parents would basically feed them.

I dont talk to my brothers but from what I've heard, my brother eventually got a drat job when my parents sold their FL house and left the state. Leaving him to pick up his own bootstraps.

I'm not saying that it would work in this situation but are there other states with the whole deadbeat parent law?

Fartbox
Apr 27, 2017
What's happening? Dri fu an only two? what is this?
Is this an avatar? I don't know rm dunk

a grown rear end man

Ein cooler Typ
Nov 26, 2013

by FactsAreUseless
this is why we need MRAs

there should be some way for men to opt out of child support. Like you give up all future rights to custody/visitation, and in return you don't have to pay child support

yeah I eat ass
Mar 14, 2005

only people who enjoy my posting can replace this avatar
Or, you know, don't get a girl pregnant.

McGiggins
Apr 4, 2014

by R. Guyovich
Lipstick Apathy
But he has nothing to give up. He already doesn't have those things. Also, that kind of punishes any woman who wins sole custody from a lovely dad.

Kazak
Jan 10, 2012

Ein cooler Typ posted:

this is why we need MRAs

there should be some way for men to opt out of child support. Like you give up all future rights to custody/visitation, and in return you don't have to pay child support

This would be a godsend to dirtbags

pop fly to McGillicutty
Feb 2, 2004

A peckish little mouse!

Im Ready for DEATH posted:

people need to stop cumming in, and receiving the seed of, loving losers. just stop it.

This person, "ready for death" understands the problems of the world better than a 30 year old father who lives with his father in a gently caress-up father ouroborus.

univbee
Jun 3, 2004




Ein cooler Typ posted:

this is why we need MRAs

there should be some way for men to opt out of child support. Like you give up all future rights to custody/visitation, and in return you don't have to pay child support

I hope this is in jest but uhhh nope, the child has rights and the parents do NOT get to override that. Don't want to pay child support? Learn to gently caress responsibly.

a dmc delorean
Jul 2, 2006

Live the dream

Im Ready for DEATH posted:

people need to stop cumming in, and receiving the seed of, loving losers. just stop it.

Incel spotted :reject:

It is a man's duty to inject his seed in a torrent of pleasure into any orifice available, whether a loser or not

Mozi
Apr 4, 2004

Forms change so fast
Time is moving past
Memory is smoke
Gonna get wider when I die
Nap Ghost

univbee posted:

I hope this is in jest but uhhh nope, the child has rights and the parents do NOT get to override that. Don't want to pay child support? Learn to gently caress responsibly.

ugh but what about my rights as man to gently caress up other people's lives and not worry about it?!?

univbee
Jun 3, 2004




Mozi posted:

ugh but what about my rights as man to gently caress up other people's lives and not worry about it?!?

Run for office.

KomodoWagon
May 10, 2013

by R. Guyovich

Ein cooler Typ posted:

this is why we need MRAs

there should be some way for men to opt out of child support. Like you give up all future rights to custody/visitation, and in return you don't have to pay child support

You're so dumb

You are so loving dumb

Mel Mudkiper
Jan 19, 2012

At this point, Mudman abruptly ends the conversation. He usually insists on the last word.

Ein cooler Typ posted:

there should be some way for men to opt out of child support. Like you give up all future rights to custody/visitation, and in return you don't have to pay child support

hm yes this policy of "I don't have to take responsibility for a human life I created if I don't care about it" policy is wise and will have no problems

Ein cooler Typ
Nov 26, 2013

by FactsAreUseless
if a female doesn't want to take responsibility for her actions, she can get an abortion and she's strong and independent

if a man doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions, he's a deadbeat

:thinking:

univbee
Jun 3, 2004




Ein cooler Typ posted:

if a female doesn't want to take responsibility for her actions, she can get an abortion and she's strong and independent

if a man doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions, he's a deadbeat

:thinking:

Maybe be on the same page as the people you're having sex with?

If you want to abort an accidental pregnancy, try to gently caress people who will do likewise, in fact this is more likely than not with what babies cost.

KomodoWagon
May 10, 2013

by R. Guyovich
Communicating? With a woman? Impossible. You are oppressing me. Rights for men!

Saint Drogo
Dec 26, 2011

Ein cooler Typ posted:

if a female doesn't want to take responsibility for her actions, she can get an abortion and she's strong and independent

if a man doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions, he's a deadbeat

:thinking:
if only there was some other dimension to the issue, like if one of them had to gestate it inside their body for nine months

univbee
Jun 3, 2004




Just exclusively gently caress post-menopausal women.

McGiggins
Apr 4, 2014

by R. Guyovich
Lipstick Apathy
Well the obvious counter arguement to having to gestate it in ur body for body for 9 month in this case would be gestating it in ur bank account and house for 30 years.

How many trimesters abortion to get rid of the 30 year old man?

Saint Drogo
Dec 26, 2011

the woman will have to do that too tho, and step up to all the poo poo that even men who arent parasitic sadbrains shy from.

Mel Mudkiper
Jan 19, 2012

At this point, Mudman abruptly ends the conversation. He usually insists on the last word.
You know what, I am gonna just go ahead and assume this dude ain't serious

Leon Einstein
Feb 6, 2012
I must win every thread in GBS. I don't care how much banal semantic quibbling and shitty posts it takes.

Saint Drogo posted:

the woman will have to do that too tho, and step up to all the poo poo that even men who arent parasitic sadbrains shy from.
Nah, women just take that child support money and buy fancy shoes and make-up with it. Having children makes life easier for them.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

In one scenario no person needs care

In the other, a small person needs care

Sucks to be a dude who just has to pay way below market rate for child rearing

Ein cooler Typ
Nov 26, 2013

by FactsAreUseless
maybe we should have government programs to ensure all children get the care they need

Panfilo
Aug 27, 2011

EXISTENCE IS PAIN😬

Papa Emeritus III posted:

My brother didnt work for 7 years and his excuse was "all of my money would go to child support". He ended up being thrown in jail, since theres a law in FL about that kind of poo poo. He also lived with my parents the whole time, would get custody of the kids every other weekend, and my parents would basically feed them.

I dont talk to my brothers but from what I've heard, my brother eventually got a drat job when my parents sold their FL house and left the state. Leaving him to pick up his own bootstraps.

I'm not saying that it would work in this situation but are there other states with the whole deadbeat parent law?
:psyduck:
So your parents couldn't seem to let their homeless veteran daughter stay with them but they let their shiftless deadbeat son live with them for seven years?! What the gently caress is wrong with these people?

univbee
Jun 3, 2004




Panfilo posted:

What the gently caress is wrong with these people?

Florida.

ultimateforce
Apr 25, 2008

SKINNY JEANS CANT HOLD BACK THIS ARC
I live at home at 34 despite making $60,000 a year because I thought it was a good idea to open a business. It costs me half my income and all my spare time. I have made mistakes.

Leon Einstein
Feb 6, 2012
I must win every thread in GBS. I don't care how much banal semantic quibbling and shitty posts it takes.

ultimateforce posted:

I live at home at 34 despite making $60,000 a year because I thought it was a good idea to open a business. It costs me half my income and all my spare time. I have made mistakes.
What kind of business? A woman at my work wants to quit working and buy a food truck. I didn't comment on whether I thought it was a good idea, but...yeah, good luck with that. I do like side hustles, but it seems like a bad idea to quit your regular job, cash out all the equity in your house, and buy a food truck.

Panfilo
Aug 27, 2011

EXISTENCE IS PAIN😬
People that live with parents for extended periods of time tend to fall into two categories :

Goony goons like this guy that don't do poo poo around the house nor use the opportunity to do anything productive

People who actually contribute and /or make the most out of the opportunity. My wife and her sisters lived with their parents for quite some time but since everybody pulled their weight out was actually a net benefit. My stepbrothers lived with my mom and step-dad for several years after graduating college and used the opportunity to save up to buy houses in the bay area.

But these seem like the exception to what happens most of the time.

54 40 or fuck
Jan 4, 2012

No Yanda's allowed
Lol even when I was in my early 20s living at home in university, I cleaned up around the house and bought my own groceries

Ichabod Tane
Oct 30, 2005

A most notable
coward, an infinite and endless liar, an hourly promise breaker, the owner of no one good quality.


https://youtu.be/_Ojd0BdtMBY?t=4
Good job Goon did you even chew your own food too

Panfilo
Aug 27, 2011

EXISTENCE IS PAIN😬

Glenn Quebec posted:

Good job Goon did you even chew your own food too

Hey hey now you can't expect her to do EVERYTHING now

Halser
Aug 24, 2016
In my country pretty much everyone that leaves home before their 30's either lives in an absolute hellhole while being prepared to pay for their new house for the next 20 years of their life or they were given their new house as a gift from their parents.

That's why I'm unemployed and living like an overgrown leech.

a dmc delorean
Jul 2, 2006

Live the dream

Halser posted:

In my country pretty much everyone that leaves home before their 30's either lives in an absolute hellhole while being prepared to pay for their new house for the next 20 years of their life or they were given their new house as a gift from their parents.

That's why I'm unemployed and living like an overgrown leech.

Overgrown means you're doing something right

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Papa Emeritus III
Jul 7, 2017

[A MESSAGE FROM THE CLERGY]

Dat's Pussy Trap, bitch!

Deal with it.

Panfilo posted:

:psyduck:
So your parents couldn't seem to let their homeless veteran daughter stay with them but they let their shiftless deadbeat son live with them for seven years?! What the gently caress is wrong with these people?

I asked myself that for YEARS.

univbee posted:

Florida.

Technically, we're all Germans but still.

I only recently began talking to them.

For further content, I believe the state can also take away your license if you dont pay owed child support.

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