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2013 was my first full year in the army. That's when the permanently damaging injuries and drinking began.
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 14:55 |
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# ? May 24, 2024 08:04 |
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2013 was being forced into grad school because there were no jobs, while living with an alcoholic parasite that drained all my money mostly bad
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 15:38 |
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Uh, 2013 must have been one of those years. Thankfully I started getting help the year before that.
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 16:02 |
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2013...life wasn’t bad. I was in a marriage that seems to be going well, I was getting ready to PCS to a new place and get out of Houston which we didn’t like, and things were generally ok. Then Christmas of 2014 my wife asked for a divorce...that was bad but things worked out great. Now I’m remarried and we have an awesome one year old son. We hate where we live but we’ll PCS in another two+ years.
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 16:11 |
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2013 was the year I had to move back in with my parents because I got my PhD but couldn't get a job with it. So that sucked. Helluva 30th birthday, that.
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 17:02 |
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2013 I started law school. If I could go back to 2013 and just change that, I would.
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 18:08 |
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2013 I had a job contracting for more money than I deserved. Like 2.5 Grand a week kinda money.
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 18:28 |
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Oh I wasted it all
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 18:29 |
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In 2012 I stopped drinking due to clinical depression, which stemmed from being a caregiver for my mom, who had Alzheimer's; in 2013 she died from it. It's been a slow but steady climb up from that.
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 19:30 |
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dont remember poo poo from 2013 bc i had a 1 year old
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# ? Dec 20, 2019 19:49 |
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Sounds like y'alls 2013 was my 2009. I ate the Great Recession with both barrels, and left Augusta with my tail between my legs. Please tell me all of you are at least on an upward arc now?
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 05:42 |
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drat what did I open up lmao I think 2013 was peak boozing year for me. No good.
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 05:44 |
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GD_American posted:Sounds like y'alls 2013 was my 2009. I ate the Great Recession with both barrels, and left Augusta with my tail between my legs. Got the wife back, have a nice house in a nice town now, and I’m studying IT / Programming at a community college and she’s finishing up her masters and working. We are doing good.
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 06:04 |
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Godholio posted:My 2013 was really good. My 2014 was pretty much the low point in my life. But I did meet my wife so that balanced it out.
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 06:06 |
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I moved in with my wife and got a relatively well-paying job in 2013. I think we also got our dog in 2013.
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 06:20 |
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2013-2014 I was blissfully unaware that my marriage was on a downward trend.
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 06:34 |
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I'll survive. I'm in a better mental place to some degree, worse to others, but my desire to eat lead isn't one of the worse ones, so I'll call that an upswing. A close friend of mine is moving out here next year. We've known each other 17 years, closer to each other than our own brothers. He wants to buy some land up on the other side of the mountains from me, build a kit house on it. Large plot for decent cash, he'll have the well and septic put in, build his place, then we'll start work on my cabin on the back end of the property. I'll dig trenches and bury pipe, conduit and cable to my shanty. I'll be mimicking his kit house layout, without the extra bedrooms, with dimensional 4x4s stacked horizontally, drilled and aligned for threaded strut to feed through, torqued down with nuts at each layer, and be concreted into the foundation below. Basically looking at spending as little as possible to build a solid as hell structure, slap a roof on it and stuff it with insulation, because it gets cold at 9k feet. I'm cautiously optimistic about next year, but I have a feeling we'll only finish his place, maybe get the structure and roof up on the cabin, but probably won't be livable until early '21. So I'll be a roommate again for a while. I look forward to dark skies again. To seeing the work I put into land as worth my time. Struggle isn't a bad thing, and I'd rather struggle with nature than people anymore. CRUSTY MINGE fucked around with this message at 06:42 on Dec 21, 2019 |
# ? Dec 21, 2019 06:38 |
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i got divorced but i then lost 180 lbs on the gently caress you diet and now im hot and shes the same
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 07:21 |
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It's great losing weight. Even better gaining muscle proportionally. Joe Pera marathon on adult swim tonight. So peaceful.
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 07:22 |
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Cutting soda and alcohol the fat just sheds off Not throwing shade but if you drink you’ll just forever have that puffy look
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 07:26 |
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It's seriously true. Removing almost all booze and sugary drinks (soda, juices, flavored coffees, etc) will cause you to just shed weight regardless diet.
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 14:19 |
I've been sober four years now and have a cool dog so yeah life is definitely on an upward trend
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# ? Dec 21, 2019 18:26 |
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I'm in a different lovely place, but I'm in better shape physically and mentally, and have a clear goal and know it'll get better soon enough, so I'll call it a wash.
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 00:43 |
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A Bad Poster posted:I'm in a different lovely place, but I'm in better shape physically and mentally, and have a clear goal and know it'll get better soon enough, so I'll call it a wash. I’m with you man, verbatim. We’re in this together.
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 03:42 |
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I got drunk at the Christmas party last night, came home early and crashed girls night at the house with my wife and her friends making cookies with the kids for Santa. by all accounts I was highly amusing, and not an rear end, so I’d say that’s an improvement over years past.
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 04:22 |
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Round up the young GIPers it’s beanie story time
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 04:27 |
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Who was the crazy permabanned fucker we kept having to run off? Said he had contractor money but that turned out not to be true?
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 04:30 |
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idk rrail? Didn’t he burn it all on dunson AVs? I think he might have had contractor money but blew through it all or some such
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 04:32 |
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Nostalgia4Dogges posted:Round up the young GIPers it’s beanie story time I really gotta remember to live post more, I’m sure it’s more interesting that way. The kids exchanged gifts and someone had out the board game Life Jr, so of course I show up like “deal me in” while drinking spiked hot chocolate. So Life Jr involves a bunch of cards you pick up and have to complete actions at times, like sharades, or an impromptu scavenger hunt and poo poo. So I’m trying to get the kids to guess “scored a goal” by miming kicking a ball but I slipped on some wrapping paper and probably have a low key ankle sprain. They enjoyed it but didn’t guess the right answer so I didn’t get the point 🤷🏻♂️
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 04:40 |
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Nostalgia4Dogges posted:idk rrail? Didn’t he burn it all on dunson AVs? I think he might have had contractor money but blew through it all or some such nah the other one that comes in and spams hate and gets banned in like 30 min been a while but he used to pop in like once every couple of months
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 05:00 |
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Miller High Life is not the "Champagne of Beers".
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 05:56 |
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beanieson posted:I got drunk at the Christmas party last night, came home early and crashed girls night at the house with my wife and her friends making cookies with the kids for Santa. by all accounts I was highly amusing, and not an rear end, so I’d say that’s an improvement over years past. Well you didn't have a secretary drive you home this time right?
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 06:21 |
beanieson posted:I really gotta remember to live post more, I’m sure it’s more interesting that way. The kids exchanged gifts and someone had out the board game Life Jr, so of course I show up like “deal me in” while drinking spiked hot chocolate. I'm pretty sure this is the daddest post in GiP history
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 07:23 |
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GD_American posted:Who was the crazy permabanned fucker we kept having to run off? Said he had contractor money but that turned out not to be true? Am I remembering incorrectly or did someone tell us you passed away? I remember being like oh poo poo that sucks. Either way I'm happy you're back.
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 10:16 |
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GD_American posted:Who was the crazy permabanned fucker we kept having to run off? Said he had contractor money but that turned out not to be true? Was it the same goon as that something-pilot (?) poster that was some for of infamous GBS superstar with like two pages of bans under their belt and like four digits worth of money spent on the forums?
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 11:50 |
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I remember hearing it too, but I was on hiatus for a stint around then and wasn't caught up on anything here, just busy out being crazy in the world.
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 12:22 |
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Duzzy Funlop posted:Was it the same goon as that something-pilot (?) poster that was some for of infamous GBS superstar with like two pages of bans under their belt and like four digits worth of money spent on the forums? That's vilepilot, and I don't think he was ever a gip poster other than just to come in and get banned again.
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 14:17 |
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Click Beelay posted:Am I remembering incorrectly or did someone tell us you passed away? I remember being like oh poo poo that sucks. Either way I'm happy you're back. I remember this too they must have just assumed he was banished to whatever shadow dimension JoePa's reputation exists in now
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# ? Dec 22, 2019 14:53 |
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Flikken posted:Well you didn't have a secretary drive you home this time right? Uber exists now, it’s been revolutionary for me
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2013 was a good year for me since I was close to being done with grad school and racing bikes at a pretty competitive level. My legs were beautiful. 2019, my legs are only sub par....
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