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Beachcomber posted:Hire a fourth party to write and direct the action. r/relationships: a sex referee for my threesome
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Feb 1, 2020 06:27
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Kenshin posted:r/relationships: a sex referee for my threesome Not a referee, a cumpire
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Feb 1, 2020 06:30
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Pirate Radar posted:Not a referee, a cumpire No, a cumpire is a vampire that lives on cum. You never really hear about them because no one complains.
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Feb 1, 2020 06:32
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Megillah Gorilla posted:Here we go again, confusing honesty for being an arsehole. The thing about "brutally honest" people is that they get off on the brutality, not the honestly.
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Feb 1, 2020 07:21
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Bag of Hamsters posted:There are tells when someone is pressured into sexual things, such as him insisting he come over when she's in a physically vulnerable state, her describing acts that don't involve her active participation and/or can be done without much undressing on her part. Plus the messed-up power dynamic of someone she reports to, the fact that she's already dealing with guilt over previous cheating, and in cases of assault, people often try to grasp at any bit of agency they may have because then it means they weren't assaulted and no one wants to believe it can happen to them. That's all p reasonable outside of the part where she cheated with the dude before and as a relationship they cut him off. Kinda regardless of how it played out when he was there she coulda just like, not invited him over or let him in their apartment? Dude didn't koolaid man his way in through the wall. Even if nothing even remotely sexual occurred it'd be weird if you came home after your work to your sick SO and they just offhandedly mentioned the person they had an affair with a couple years ago swung by to spoonfeed em soup. Some p lousy boundaries there. Hell even if there hadn't been a previous affair that'd be a big red flag on boundaries unless it was a family member.
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Feb 1, 2020 07:39
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Cowslips Warren posted:I am sure it happens outside of reddit but the only vaguely successful threesome I ever heard was from some old college friends, had a bisexual male couple with a bi girl, and she kinda took charge of the entire endeavor and made sure everyone was involved, and no one sat things out unless they wanted a breather. It wasn't "hahaha I am loving your boyfriend" but more "WE are loving the dude." But they were also really loving open about the entire thing in the LGBTQ club, which makes me wonder if they were fishing for more couples. It takes such specific people and/or a limited relationship for the space not to have to care long term that it leaves it to something you luck into or spend shared time working at. It's almost always messed up cause someone's being dragged into it for lots of bad reasons.
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Feb 1, 2020 07:51
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Googled about the above 3 way post looking for comments and found this funny one insteadquote:BF(26M) lost interest in me(28F) after a threesome request. I do agree though he should have handled it differently, shoulda just dumped her. Maybe they got a lease he's waiting out or something.
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Feb 1, 2020 07:56
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Are NSA BJs where you start blowing the guy and have a hidden camera recording it?
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Feb 1, 2020 09:16
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No strings attached AITA for putting on a bunch of Nickleback songs at a bar's e-jukebox before leaving? So long story short I was at a sports bar and some bachelor party showed up. They were total loving douchebags, the staff hated them, some were sexist toward women and just not cool, etc. So me and my buddy opted to leave...but before we did I went to to the TouchTunes thing, put in some money and put a bunch of Nickleback songs as the next in the playlist so those guys would hear it as revenge. As we left my friend said that was pretty immature and a waste of money.
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Feb 1, 2020 09:35
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WIBTA if I complained to the owners of a cafe about how long it takes their employee to cut cheese? No A-holes here I work in an office building which has a cafe in it. It’s not table service - you go up to the counter and have a choice of a hot meal, soup or a sandwich. The Owners don’t manage it as they are a catering company that supply the food in the morning. They leave The Worker to deal with the distribution of paninis and soup. He is a pleasant person and very talkative, and there is nothing particularly odd about him other than his apparent immunity to the passage of time itself. He will not prep anything. There’s no sandwiches assembled and waiting to go. There’s an empty fridge bit next to the counter. The racks stand barren, devoid of even a glimpse of a BLT. Ok, so the sandwiches are freshly prepared each time? Yes, great. But he doesn’t prep the ingredients either. He has to take out and cut these up every single time someone orders something. And he will take his time. The man will cut cheese with the concentration of someone dissassembling the Large Hadron Collider, and he does it on an order-by-order basis. I will explain his process. There will be a line of four people, and the first will order a cheese panini. He will take out and cut open a panini from the cupboard. He will open the fridge, take out the 5kg block of cheese, unwrap it, cut three slices with the aching determination of a man clinging to the last trace of his self control, rewrap the cheese, and place the cheese in the fridge. He will turn on the panini maker (it is not already on). He will assemble the panini and put it in. He will wait twenty minutes for the panini to cook, during which time he will start another order and begin the same process of taking out and unwrapping and slicing each ingredient before putting it away. He will take out, open, serve from, close and put away each box of salad in turn. He will boil a kettle with enough water for one tea. Ladies and gentlemen, he will turn the machine off between paninis. Lunch only lasts two hours. We’ve had clients visit who attempt to get lunch during meeting breaks who return, sandwichless and with a thousand-yard stare. When he runs out of something he doesn’t score it off the board. Last week he ran out of all types of cheese, all week. He just kept explaining it to everyone individually. He ponders about aimlessly like a Skyrim NPC in an inn, insurmountable tasks mounting in front of him. But he honestly seems to enjoy working there. It’s like he just doesn’t grasp the concept of pre-sliced cheese and well-timed panini makers. We’ve mentioned how long it takes him, but he just sort of laughs and says ‘ah, fresh food’. Just cut the cheese. Please just cut the cheese. The reason he’s running out of food is the owners aren’t selling as much and there adjusting their stock accordingly. There is a lot of demand but the supply takes 30 minutes to toast a panini and spends it talking shite about how mild this winter is. It’s honestly driving me insane. But still I feel like it’d be a dick move?
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Feb 1, 2020 09:38
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AITA for destroying a friendship over not tipping? I’d say this person is a casual friend. I’ve only known her through class/school for a few months. We went to the mall though, and then went to get something to eat at restaurant. I got nothing, but she bought a pair of shoes that were, like, seventy dollars. After we’re done eating, I ask her how much she’s going to tip. She says she’s not. The service was bad, anyway. I asked what was bad about it, and she said the waiter could have refilled her drink another time. She had already refilled it three times, how many more times do you need? I asked if she wanted me to tell her to refill the drink again, but she said no and she usually doesn’t tip anyway. I was like, wtf that’s messed up. I worked at this exact restaurant back in the day, and the employees are paid two dollars an hour. If you don’t tip, the sever has to take money out of their own wallet to pay the hostess and the bartender. I sometimes walked out of a shift with 14 dollars because people... didn’t tip. I told her this, and she was like, “so the restaurant should pay them more or they should get a better paying job... Not my problem they’re broke.” So, she walked out because I was annoying her and asking her to tip. She left the EXACT amount the food was, so I just paid her tip for her. Outside we got into an argument. I asked why she didn’t tip, and she said she was broke and she’s barely has any money. She’s a college student, how do you expect her to tip? I pointed out that most broke people that can’t tip a few dollars usually aren’t spending 70$ on shoes... She got upset. She said I was being an rear end in a top hat, I said she was being cheap as hell. And now we’re not friends anymore it looks like? It was a pretty small thing to drop a friend over, I kinda regret it but I also don’t want to be friends with someone who thinks it’s OK to just not tip like that. Doesn’t that show a lack of empathy or am I overreacting and being an rear end in a top hat and I should just apologize?
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Feb 1, 2020 09:41
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ArbitraryC posted:Googled about the above 3 way post looking for comments and found this funny one instead This was especially funny because people correctly figured out that she clearly was wanting a guy she already had an eye on, and her boyfriend was smart enough to realize it too That and she continually tries to fix a sex issue... With sex
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Feb 1, 2020 09:46
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Power Khan posted:No strings attached Those douchey dudes probably like Nickelback so all you really did was annoy everyone else, idiot
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Feb 1, 2020 10:10
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Power Khan posted:AITA for destroying a friendship over not tipping? Your friend is trash
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Feb 1, 2020 10:13
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Power Khan posted:I asked if she wanted me to tell her to refill the drink again, but she said no and she usually doesn’t tip anyway. I was like, wtf that’s messed up. I worked at this exact restaurant back in the day, and the employees are paid two dollars an hour. If you don’t tip, the sever has to take money out of their own wallet to pay the hostess and the bartender. I sometimes walked out of a shift with 14 dollars because people... didn’t tip.
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Feb 1, 2020 10:55
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Darkhold posted:Wait what? Why is he paying the hostess and bartender? It’s called tipping out. The bartender gets a cut because he made the drinks. Obviously if you don’t have any customers that ordered drinks you won’t tip him the host gets a smaller cut. They probably get paid that same $2 an hour.
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Feb 1, 2020 10:57
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Darkhold posted:Wait what? Why is he paying the hostess and bartender? Either its way to ensure everyone gets tips or theyre working as a server in a strip club.
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Feb 1, 2020 10:58
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No I get if someone tips you that you'd split it out. He's saying he paid them when he got no tip? EDIT: vvv thanks for the info. That poo poo should be illegal. Darkhold fucked around with this message at 11:20 on Feb 1, 2020 |
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Feb 1, 2020 11:05
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Darkhold posted:No I get if someone tips you that you'd split it out. He's saying he paid them when he got no tip? It’s probably because they have to split a % of overall tips.
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Feb 1, 2020 11:13
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Darkhold posted:No I get if someone tips you that you'd split it out. He's saying he paid them when he got no tip? Sounds like the way it works there is that the hostess and bartender have a tip floor, a basic amount (maybe expecting a standard tip percentage) they have to be paid; if the waiter gets tipped more they might get to keep that but if they don't get tipped enough the hostess and bartender get paid anyway. I've heard of similar situations.
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Feb 1, 2020 11:15
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AITA for playing surgery footage on the train? Basically as the title says, I was watching surgery being carried out on my computer when the girl sitting next to me objected and said it was inappropriate. Couldn't be bothered to argue about it and thought she was being a drama queen so told her to gently caress off, which she did. AITA here? A few things which might matter. Yeah I'm a doctor but this wasn't at all related to my speciality, I was watching it cause I was bored. Screen was purposefully on the lowest brightness before she even said anything, no sound.
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Feb 1, 2020 11:34
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would you watch porn on the train? same thing. gross. rear end in a top hat.
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Feb 1, 2020 11:45
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Good news, poop sock girlfriend guy wants to propose! Reddit has some slight issues with that https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ewu9wu/i_29m_am_back_together_27f_with_my_poop_socks/
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Feb 1, 2020 11:58
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AITA for asking my bf to stop making dick jokes? I am a 29F, bf is 33M. He usually cracks a “that’s what she said” joke several times a day for the past year. These I can handle. But he also throws in other crude and vulgar jokes, sometimes in front of his friends, which bothers me even more. I definitely have a sense of humor and love joking around with him. But I just think if you’re all day every day saying dick jokes to your girlfriend then you’re kind of treating her like a bro and I’m tired of it. Today I suggested we should go hiking with his mom to a place called Dripping Springs and he said “yeah let’s all go to dripping dicks.” I told him please stop with the dick jokes already and now he’s upset and giving me the silent treatment. I’ve already told him several times to at a minimum reduce the number of dick jokes but it seems like he’s on a roll lately. If I eat Hot Nuts peanuts it’s an invitation for a nuts in your mouth joke, etc. Everything is an open invite for a dirty joke. AITA for not wanting to hear dick jokes all day ?
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Feb 1, 2020 12:36
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Darkhold posted:No I get if someone tips you that you'd split it out. He's saying he paid them when he got no tip? When I was in restaurants, it was assumed that server would average 15-20 percent tips on their total sales, and out of the 6 places I worked, 4 tipped out on sales because it’s easy not to declare cash tips. At a large chain restaurant I was at, you’d tip out 2 percent to the bussers, 1 percent to bar, 1.5 to the food runners, and 1 to the hostess, totaling 5.5 percent. So when you’d get some dad icc cc k who didn’t tip on a $100 tab, you’d end up paying $5.50 to wait on them.
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Feb 1, 2020 13:20
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Power Khan posted:WIBTA if I complained to the owners of a cafe about how long it takes their employee to cut cheese? I didn't expect 'cut cheese' to be literal but that does make it much funnier Odds on the cafeteria worker being some slow relative give a pity job?
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Feb 1, 2020 15:11
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Ghost Leviathan posted:I didn't expect 'cut cheese' to be literal but that does make it much funnier I was picturing the worker being 70 years old but yeah.
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Feb 1, 2020 15:49
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I Helped My Sister Burn Her Wedding Dress. Now My Other Sister Won’t Speak to Me.quote:Dear Prudence, quote:I can appreciate your motives for wanting to contain the fight, not least because you worry Zoe will blow up and cause everyone more problems. But I just don’t think this is sustainable in the long run, especially since Chloe’s already hinting that this is your fault and has demonstrated she’s comfortable behaving unreasonably. My worry is that if you try to keep things quiet, she’ll get her version of the story out first—and it’s likely to be a lie. Even if you don’t want to let Chloe’s possible future actions dictate what you do, there are other reasons to consider talking to at least Zoe. For example, are you prepared to attend Chloe’s wedding (assuming you’re still invited) under present conditions?
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HardDiskD posted:I was picturing the worker being 70 years old but yeah. Eh, feel that woulda been more obvious in the description. Some of the reddit commentors also suggest an either developmentally disabled or just very poorly if at all trained person, and that they're apparently working on their own with no supervision probably doesn't help.
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Feb 1, 2020 17:02
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Power Khan posted:AITA for destroying a friendship over not tipping? 
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Opened up about my feelings to a co-worker friend. Now she doesn't talk to me.quote:Couple of days ago I admitted to this ISFJ girl I work with that I like that I have feelings for her. She said that she sees me as a friend and that we could still be good friends. The next day, I texted her saying that what happened the previous day will never happen again and I will have no intentions of pursuing her again and I just want to be good friends with her to which she replied saying that we can be just good work colleagues.
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I realise I may not want to know, but wtf does "ISFJ" mean?
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Feb 1, 2020 17:16
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At last straw with my Dad, I have not warned him though.quote:I'm 22 male and over the past 2 weeks my dad though I am sure trying to be helpful has really gotten me angry to the point where I am seriously contemplating removing him from my life altogether if he says anything else in the same way he has the past 3 times. 
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Sunswipe posted:I realise I may not want to know, but wtf does "ISFJ" mean? Nerd horoscopes quote:I'm 22 male and over the past 2 weeks my dad though I am sure trying to be helpful has really gotten me angry to the point where I am seriously contemplating removing him from my life altogether if he says anything else in the same way he has the past 3 times. Go ahead and do him the favor, you ingrate tactlessbastard fucked around with this message at 17:21 on Feb 1, 2020 |
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Feb 1, 2020 17:18
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AITA for telling my aunt she could die before me I am going to die soon. Well, I made peace with that fact there is nothing anyone can do. I don't have many friends. Only thing I like to do is gaming and reading so I just want to spend whatever time I have doing things I enjoy. My parents are devastated but they always maintain a happy face in front of me. My aunt is not happy with this fact I don't know where she reads things but she is suggesting to me and to my parents to do various things before I die like. 1)Family trip(including her family) to a foreign country to make happy memories. The thing is it will be paid by my parents and I don't want them to spend their hard-earned money on it. We are not that rich and how on earth any parent make an happy memory when they know their kid is going to die. 2)Writing a letter to 40+(all extended) family member. I don't want to spend my time writing a letter to relatives I didn't even meet yet. 3)Spend time with my friends(karting, baseball etc). When I told her I don't have any friends she suggested me to go with her son's friend. I dont want to do that too. She was really angry when I rejected her every proposal and rambled about I am dying without enjoying life etc. For the next part, I think I am kinda TA she was once charged with drunk driving and has a terrible driving record. I told her she should also write a letter to everyone as knowing her driving she could die before me. She was livid and left quickly. My mother told me I am TA I should have simply refused her help. AITA? Edit: I do have some friends but I am not that close to them. Also, I am not sad for death everyone is going to die sooner or later. What triggered me was her perception of enjoying life. I am extremely comfortable with my own ways and I don't want to either have much time left to learn new things. I just want to do things that I love reading playing games etc. Edit1: When she suggested foreign trip my father insisted on paying for it. Trust me she was not looking for free trip. Tl;Dr, I'm dying and my aunt wants me to travel and see the world. I just want to play video games and waste my life. Am I the rear end in a top hat?
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Feb 1, 2020 17:22
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Guilty posted:AITA for telling my aunt she could die before me Holy poo poo 
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Sunswipe posted:I realise I may not want to know, but wtf does "ISFJ" mean? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator Knowing what this is, taking it seriously, and using someone else's results to introduce them are all extremely bad signs. haveblue fucked around with this message at 18:36 on Feb 1, 2020 |
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Feb 1, 2020 17:29
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gently caress Your Website posted:At last straw with my Dad, I have not warned him though. Ignoring the rest of the crazy poo poo in that post, isn't it actually really hard to become licensed (or whatever) for fostering, even more so for single males? Like what is going on in this story except a heaping of some undisclosed mental illness?
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I gotta admit, it feels a little insane to go from PLAN A: Take cute girl I know to Japan for the Olympics to PLAN B: Run a foster home I'm wondering what 2009 Honda that guy is driving that gets 10 MPG
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