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Smirking_Serpent posted:Ghosted after 10+years together. She couldn't handle the shame of both owning a tesla as well as watching riverdale
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Wife won't answer my texts MUST BE A TUMOR loving lol
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WIBTA if I told a coworker’s wife that he obsessively watches her on their home cameras? My coworker has several indoor and outdoor cameras at his home. His wife is a stay at home mom of 2 school aged kids. Our job consists of being on the phone a lot of time. So most of us usually play games on our computer, browse Facebook, etc while on the phone. However, my coworker obsessively watches his wife on the cameras. He watches her when she sleeps, cleans, cooks, watches tv, etc....pretty much all the time. I’m pretty sure his wife knows about the cameras but I don’t know if she knows he watches her all day every day. It’s to the point that he takes his phone with him to the break room to watch her while he eats lunch. I find it very creepy and I know I wouldn’t be comfortable with it if I were his wife. Everyone in the office can also see his computer screen and wife whenever we walk by his desk. I’ve never seen her naked or in the bathroom but I have seen her sleeping, in her pjs, eating, etc. I want to send a message to his wife anonymously to let her know but I’m not sure if it’s my place to do so. He is actually a really good guy and treats his wife very well. So WIBTA?
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Feb 16, 2020 02:32
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DemoneeHo posted:I (18 F) came across my teacher (30? M) in a video game and discovered a side of him I’ve never seen before
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Feb 16, 2020 02:40
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Feb 16, 2020 02:41
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DemoneeHo posted:I (18 F) came across my teacher (30? M) in a video game and discovered a side of him I’ve never seen before Either get a recording of him saying the stuff and turn it into the administration, OR, write him an anonymous note and scare the poo poo out of him. At first I thought, from the title, that this was going to be some fantasy written one handed.
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Feb 16, 2020 02:41
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LethalGeek posted:She's kinda SOL cause at the moment she's got nothing for proof.
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Feb 16, 2020 02:43
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Ghosted after 10+years together. This is sad.  I'm wondering if she met someone else or what.
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Feb 16, 2020 02:45
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Beachcomber posted:This is sad. psychotic breaks do happen! If this was affecting her work life as well like it seems to imply in the post, she may have just had a complete breakdown/crisis and decided to ditch her old life.
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Feb 16, 2020 02:46
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AITA for wanting my wedding to go on despite not being able to be there? My fiancee and I are getting married tomorrow. My work is facing an emergency that's been brewing since late Thursday. This emergency, if we can't stop it, would cause an environmental disaster. My entire team went down to the site between yesterday and today. I've been delaying because of the wedding, but I ultimately can't not go. I'm working it out with my boss, and the company is willing to pay the entire cost of the cancelled honeymoon and pay for an equivalent one for me to stay around for this. It's too late to cancel the wedding in any aspect, and I don't want to. If I leave around 2 tomorrow, it's enough time for the ceremony and some pictures. I'll have to miss the reception, but I don't know that that's worse than canceling. We'd be out the entire cost, and we couldn't afford to redo it later. Some relatives are already in town for this, and the ones that aren't can't cancel at this point. My fiancée wants to cancel the reception and just do a new one later. I think that's stupid. I realize it's a little awkward to have a wedding reception with just the bride, but my wife/fiancée can use it to see her distant family and hang out with her friends. It's not like she's going to be alone. My mother can handle my side of the family. My new wife won't have to do anything awkward. I haven't met a lot of my wife's extended family, but I can just meet them at Easter. We're having an extra photoshoot after I get back. She's really mad at me about this. I don't want to start a marriage like this, but it's going to be far worse to start one with no job because I got fired due to a company scandal amidst a major news story. Am I really the rear end in a top hat here?
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Feb 16, 2020 02:48
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Boyfriend (25) wants to sleep with my (21) curvy friendquote:First of all, it won’t happen. We’ve engaged in threesomes before but the ground rule being we don’t include people we know too well. But recently he cannot stop talking about wanting a friend of mine to join us. He goes on about how curvy she is and how she has meat in all the right places. Something I lack fyi.
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Feb 16, 2020 02:49
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Ghosted after 10+years together. God...drat. There's usually schadenfreude in this poo poo, but this is just sad. 
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Feb 16, 2020 02:49
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my wedding to go on despite not being able to be there? The rare head-on collision of capitalism vs wedding culture bullshit, except only one of them has control of the situation.
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Feb 16, 2020 02:56
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my wedding to go on despite not being able to be there? Every part of this is ridiculous (except for the wife being pissed)
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Feb 16, 2020 03:00
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Unless that guy is personally going to plug the leaking oil pipe or piss on the wildfire or whatever I don't see how delaying the honeymoon and traveling out there the day after the wedding isn't good enough.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:07
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SilvergunSuperman posted:The rare head-on collision of capitalism vs wedding culture bullshit, except only one of them has control of the situation. Eh, I don't think ditching your own reception and the bride being pissed is really "wedding culture bullshit," like the bare minimum for even the simplest of weddings is "bride and groom are present." If the whole wedding was courthouse and then our for dinner with immediate family and a couple of friends it would still be lovely of him to bail.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:09
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Ghosted after 10+years together. Holy poo poo. Exact same thing happened to a friend of mine. His partner had a kind of midlife crisis, got a "wake up call" when she realized that husband/kids/real family poo poo was about to start and noped right out. She said she loved the guy, and everything was fine, but she does not see herself as a wife/mother.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:09
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I[24M] caught my sister[26F] trying to steal a watch of mine, and now my mother[51F] wants me to apologize to her.quote:So last night I had some people over to to celebrate moving into my new place. I had some family and friends, including my sister and my mother. When I was growing up with my sister, she would often steal from myself and other family members. Money from my mom's purse or dad's wallet. She'd sneak into my room and take things. Steal money from our grandparents, etc. We aren't very close because of this, and I always try to keep an eye on here when she's around. Despite this, I decided to invite my sister over because she doesn't live to far away, and I know my mom would have been upset if I didn't. I put all of my watches and valuables in my safe, but I left out the watch I had planned on wearing that night(but ended up not wearing it and leaving it on my dresser) every post before this on this guy's account is about rolexes
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Feb 16, 2020 03:19
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Miss posted:I[24M] caught my sister[26F] trying to steal a watch of mine, and now my mother[51F] wants me to apologize to her. Mom told the sister to steal the watch.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:22
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:This is just cruel The worst part is he wasn't a local so that he could get shunned from polite society, he just hosed back off to wherever he came from. On the bright side she moved on, met someone else, and they have ambulatory children.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:23
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AITA for asking the renters at the B&B next door to remove an inflatable doll with a giant erection from their front window? I live beside a B&B. Sounds nice? The house itself is very well set up and nice. But we do live in a not so desirable area close to our downtown. Not sure if anyone has lived beside a B&B before, but it’s sometimes a rotating door of trashy, inconsiderate people. Anyway, a bachelorette party is currently residing there. Middle-aged and older. One of them parked across the end of 1/2 my driveway, so as I was loading up my kids to go out, my 5 yr old points out a big inflatable guy with a huge erection in the window of the B&B. I was going to knock and ask them to move their vehicle anyway as I’ve done numerous times before with other renters. The thing my husband and I agree on is that it’s generally not worth much annoyance because people come and go sometimes daily there and we’ll never see them again. However, when I knock, the woman opens the door a tiny crack and I say “I’m not sure whose vehicle that is, but could you move it from the end of my driveway?” And as I’m finishing talking, she gets a disgusted look on her face which, yes, seemed to set me off and I continued with “and please remove the giant penis from the window, it’s disgusting and I have little children literally right here looking at it” Her response was “you don’t need to be so rude, you could have just asked, we’ll move the vehicle” and slammed the door in my face. So as I’m sitting in my vehicle waiting for them to sort out their vehicle situation, they all come out and are glaring and whatnot. As I was backing out of my driveway, door lady is glaring and saying something. I flipped her off (let my anger get the best of me) and they all started yelling. I rolled my window down and told them that it’s not a party house, they need to have a little more respect for the neighbours and children around. One of them yells “actually, we rented it and it is a party house, so shove it up your rear end!” After I had calmed down, I contacted the owner of the B&B (they used to live there beside us for years so we kinda know them) and explained the situation. They were totally understanding and I did admit that I was angry when I approached about the giant penis and we had a good talk. We’ve had a bachelor weekend long party there before that was...not fun. B&B owner doesn’t want that kind of thing going on and all that. Apologized a lot and I apologized, too. But anyway...AITA here? I realize I went in a little hot initially but I also don’t think it’s ok to have a giant penis sitting in a window. I mean, these people are from here. They clearly rented a place to have a weekend long party, without wanting to disturb their own neighbours and being rude. AITA? Edit: I absolutely can acknowledge that I may not have been the most pleasant when asking them to remove the giant erect penis from the public front window. For sure. I own that lol Me flipping her off wasn’t out of nowhere. She was glaring and gesturing as we were trying to leave. I can accept that I was partially an rear end in a top hat about the whole thing, but I stand by my reason for being an rear end in a top hat. I don’t generally expect my 5 yr old to see inflatable sex dolls while standing in our driveway lol I think I’m just tired of people treating the B&B like it’s a frat house when this neighbourhood is full of families with small children. I don’t think a little common courtesy and decency is too much to ask for.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:23
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13Pandora13 posted:Eh, I don't think ditching your own reception and the bride being pissed is really "wedding culture bullshit," like the bare minimum for even the simplest of weddings is "bride and groom are present." If the whole wedding was courthouse and then our for dinner with immediate family and a couple of friends it would still be lovely of him to bail. Yeah it would be, except it's not really "bailing" if losing your job would be implied.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:25
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my wedding to go on despite not being able to be there? Reddit hasn't rolled with the thought experiment for this one and are just saying there's no way he's this indispensable, but I want to know if Wheeler would be the rear end in a top hat for skipping out on his wedding
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Feb 16, 2020 03:25
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for asking the renters at the B&B next door to remove an inflatable doll with a giant erection from their front window? NTA. Neighbours sound like assholes.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:30
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SilvergunSuperman posted:Yeah it would be, except it's not really "bailing" if losing your job would be implied. His boss being a complete poo poo doesn't make it not bailing. There's basically no job in the world that can't be covered by someone else for 24 hours.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:31
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13Pandora13 posted:His boss being a complete poo poo doesn't make it not bailing. There's basically no job in the world that can't be covered by someone else for 24 hours. Lol whatever, define it however you like, blaming him is stupid is my point and her being mad because not perfect wedding is also stupid.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:34
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13Pandora13 posted:His boss being a complete poo poo doesn't make it not bailing. There's basically no job in the world that can't be covered by someone else for 24 hours. If I take my finger out of this dike it's going to ruin a lot more than just the wedding.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:35
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Seriously if it would cause an environmental disaster with him not being there as he says then he is literally saving the world at that point (or part of it). I couldn't really blame him.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:36
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:Seriously if it would cause an environmental disaster with him not being there as he says then he is literally saving the world at that point (or part of it). I couldn't really blame him. An emergency that doesn't have an hour or two to give is not one that has a day or two lead time, unless he's one of the drillers from Armageddon and the rocket ship can only leave at specific time.
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Feb 16, 2020 03:54
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I [21M] just got called sexist and can't figure out if she [19F] was right.quote:I'll be deleting this shortly as the amount of hypocrisy is outstanding. Since when did it become OK to be verbally abusive and extremely condescending to someone asking a genuine question?
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Feb 16, 2020 03:59
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Miss posted:I [21M] just got called sexist and can't figure out if she [19F] was right. "Why aren't you dating a black woman" is the proper response I think most people are just lonely and looking to vent their worldviews to anyone who will listen. This is not conducive to the mating process. At all.
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Aita for selling the car purchased for my step daughter without consulting her mom? My wife and I have been married for 2 years and have been together for 4. We currently live together with her 2 girls (16 and 11). I’ve always tried my best with the girls. My kids have been grown and on their own for years now, so it’s kind of nice living with them. I know it is sometimes hard for them to accept me, because their mom and I started dating not even 6 months after her divorce was finalized. I knew it wouldn’t be easy for them so I try not to overstep, but I try to as available as I can. First let me explain the relationship I have with my stepdaughter (16) in one phrase. To me, she is my step daughter and I love her, but to her, I am her moms stupid new husband. Again, I get it. I grew up with a step mom, so I know how it is. Late January my step daughter turned 16. Her mom and I decided to buy her a car. She constantly brought up jeeps and how she loves them, So I was able to find a 2000 wrangler only like 50,000 miles. Only one previous owner. It’s bright red and I figured a really fun car for a girl. I was honestly very excited to give it to her. I guess her little sister spilled the beans about the car. And this is when it got bad. My step daughter held a meeting with her mom and I. She said that we knew when she said Jeep, she meant a newer one. Like the kids in school have. And that we knew she didn’t want «some old crappy Jeep, and that we were assholes for playing what she saw as a sick joke. She brought up how we can afford to buy her a newer one and that we are selfish. Then she went off on me, saying I probably convinced her mom that she didn’t need a new one. I did nothing of the sorts, we decided together that since she is only 16 and driving in the neighborhood, a 20,000$ plus car wasn’t necessary now. Though we could have afforded it for her. Fast forward to her birthday, she got home from school and my wife got home from work to me breaking the news that I sold the Jeep. She said she found it insulting. So I got rid of it. Her mom is mad I didn’t Atleast consult her first. Step daughter won’t talk to me until she gets the car back. Because apparently even though she hated it, I had no right to sell the car that was meant for her. Aita?
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:Seriously if it would cause an environmental disaster with him not being there as he says then he is literally saving the world at that point (or part of it). I couldn't really blame him. Still seems weird that they’re so reliant on one specific person to prevent a major disaster though AND apparently have no backups. Like, what would they have done if this had happened four days later when he was already on his honeymoon in another country and potentially impossible to reach/get back? Just shrug your shoulders and let the dam burst or meteor strike or whatever?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Aita for selling the car purchased for my step daughter without consulting her mom? lol this poor fool.
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Feb 16, 2020 05:14
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MagusofStars posted:Still seems weird that they’re so reliant on one specific person to prevent a major disaster though AND apparently have no backups. Like, what would they have done if this had happened four days later when he was already on his honeymoon in another country and potentially impossible to reach/get back? Just shrug your shoulders and let the dam burst or meteor strike or whatever? It's probably like PG&E or something and they had to lay off half of the "keep poo poo from exploding" guys to afford another round of executive bonuses.
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Feb 16, 2020 06:07
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sullat posted:It's probably like PG&E or something and they had to lay off half of the "keep poo poo from exploding" guys to afford another round of executive bonuses. The number of people who lost everything and I'm very surprised those executives aren't dead.
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Feb 16, 2020 06:12
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sullat posted:It's probably like PG&E or something and they had to lay off half of the "keep poo poo from exploding" guys to afford another round of executive bonuses. I keep reading that as PGE which is the power company I use, so when people talk about PG&E's shenanigans I panic and think I need to turn on the news.
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Feb 16, 2020 06:21
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How do I make it clear to my male friends that I'm not interested!?quote:Okay, disclaimer: I hope this doesn't make me look like a "oh woe is me, too many people like me" bitch. Up until a year ago I got literally zero male attention (I had short hair, apparently that was a big no-no), so...I just don't know what to do!
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Feb 16, 2020 06:23
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Licarn posted:AITA for surprising my (42m) wife (33f) of five years with a new wardrobe for our anniversary? quote:We are upper class, and appearances are a big deal in many circles, which is probably one of the reasons why my wife is acting this way. UHHMMM were rich and that means we have to look good to give you loving dirty poors some context. What a blowhard. Consistently references his personal wealth despite it having little to no bearing on the story.
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I'm a few pages back still but did that pregnant lady with the death-obsessed husband who's mother died in childbirth ever give an update? If we never get one I'm just gonna assume the husband and FIL did the job.
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