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Xenocides posted:Getting strong obesity/eating disorder vibes with the child basically being her hated inner guilt. It doesn't sound like they are eating together and instead OP is just snacking and being very defensive "I can eat what I want when I want" because I paid for this food! If this was a normal meal the response is "No, that is yours and this is mine." If it is a normal snack you offer the kid some. It is easy. hmmm... quote:It can be anything... cakes, chocolate, chips, drinks... You name it you may be on to something
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Pham Nuwen posted:The Om symbol is pretty commonly used by Indian restaurants. I had to fire my sensei when I realized all the yin yangs in his dojo's logo meant he was pushing taoism on me.
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Licarn posted:AITA for not wanting to share my room with my nephew Boy those edits tell a story.
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Invisible Clergy posted:WIBTA If I do not give inheritance to my husband's kids who hated him since his divorce? The mom broke down with guilt the second money was at stake you say? What an odd and completely unforeseen coincidence.
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AITA for wanting my Go Fund Me donation back? A family member of mine is struggling with infertility. I'm very close with her and her husband and I wanted so badly for them to have their dream of becoming parents. When they started a Go Fund Me to pay for in vitro fertilization I donated $500 and through the GFM they raised an admirable >$3k. Unfortunately, for those who are familiar, $3k is no where near the $10k they need. Since then, she's told me that she's going to accept "God's plan" and that they aren't going to have kids. She isn't looking into adoption because she really just wanted her kid. I expressed my sympathy and asked what she was going to do with the GFM money. She said that she isn't intending to return the $ because if she had gotten to $10k she WOULD have done in vitro. To another family member, I expressed that this didn't sit well with me and they freaked out calling me insensitive. Am I wrong here? Note, there was no clause in the GFM that if she didn't reach her goal that the $ would be refunded, that I am aware of.
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Apr 14, 2020 19:32
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Licarn posted:AITA for not wanting to share my room with my nephew On one hand they let you stay with them and on the other you are an unpaid babysitter. Gonna go with ESH.
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Apr 14, 2020 19:33
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Smirking_Serpent posted:this guy is obviously a giant piece of poo poo, i'm just posting it for the quotes: This guy needs to suck some dick himself so he can see how quickly your jaw gets sore. All men should suck dick, obvs, but this guy needs to do it because he's being a huge rear end in a top hat.
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Apr 14, 2020 19:35
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my Go Fund Me donation back? Gods plan is for me to buy a dirt bike with your 3 grand and do some sick wheelies.
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My [18M] friend [20F] wants me to stay with her so she wouldn’t be alone for now, would it be wrong of me to initiate sex with her?quote:We are both going to the same university which is how I met her (I’m a freshman being 18 and she is a junior and 20) and she has her own place off campus. I was dorming since my finacial aid covers most of the costs. I also was planning on going back home since I live like an hour and a half or 2 away from campus, but my friend kept insisting on me staying with her since she was lonely so I’ve been staying here for the past few weeks. If only she was sending some kind of signal that she was interested. Alas that it has not happened.
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Licarn posted:AITA for not wanting to share my room with my nephew r/relationships: I AM NOT A SANTANIST
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AITA for telling my bf of 2 years to stop contacting my family? quote:My (23f) boyfriend "Mark" (28m) comes along with my family really well. I used to love this side of our relationship until Mark an I started having problems.
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Garrand posted:r/relationships: I AM NOT A SANTANIST Flashing back to Scrooge McDuck on DuckTales talking about Santa: "He knows what HE DID."
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my bf of 2 years to stop contacting my family? Don't break up. You already know which child they will choose to keep.
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Garrand posted:r/relationships: I AM NOT A SANTANIST I feel like it's the "Edit 4:" that really makes it
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I wasn't sure what to think about that until she mentioned one of the conditions for her living there is she "can't sass or talk back to him." gently caress that and that brother is a piece of poo poo. The edits are all good but I think that's the buried lede. Especially when learning that rear end in a top hat doesn't pay rent and it isn't even his house. I guess none of that matters though because brother's dad is back in the house and I doubt brother is in charge anymore.
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Garrand posted:r/relationships: I AM NOT A SANTANIST FEAT. ROB THOMAS OF MATCHBOX 20
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QueenAnnesDead posted:Offtopic, but oh my (non-pushy) gods, yes, you absolutely must. Parsi food is to die for. I'm locked down tight in the US of A but among the many home things I'm sick for is my favorite if rather bougie-fied Parsi restaurant chain. Feast your eyes: https://www.sodabottleopenerwala.in Oh, wow, I was just screwing around. I thought there were only a few hundred Zoroastrians left and didn't know any of them ran restaurants. I am also imprisoned in america. I'll have to check it out. Thanks for the heads up. EDIT: I'm familiar. I am Indian as well. My family knows one or two similar -walas. Great naming schema. I've been living with my girlfriend [26F] for almost a month, dating for 1.5 years. She's revealing an... increasing interest in Vampire role playing which was fun at first but now I'm [24M] worrying it's going too far quote:Okay so basically we have been seeing each other for a while and have talked a lot about moving in together, we spent a lot of time at each other's places anyway, and so once this Covid thing was getting more serious we figured now was a good time to just bite the bullet and do it. I was nervous obviously due to the fact we'd be spending most of the day together, every day since we don't leave, except to go for food shopping, but I think it's a good test to see if we are ok with this, then getting married is definitely a realistic option. Invisible Clergy fucked around with this message at 21:46 on Apr 14, 2020 |
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Xenocides posted:Getting strong obesity/eating disorder vibes with the child basically being her hated inner guilt. It doesn't sound like they are eating together and instead OP is just snacking and being very defensive "I can eat what I want when I want" because I paid for this food! If this was a normal meal the response is "No, that is yours and this is mine." If it is a normal snack you offer the kid some. It is easy. Twist reveal, there is no child 
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AITA for “stealing” jeans from my girlfriend? My girlfriend sells used/vintage clothes on the side for extra money. She found some old Levi’s at a thrift store we both go to but she ended up not buying them because she was on the fence about them for some reason. A few days later I texted her from the same store while she was at work. She asked if i would buy the jeans while i’m there and she’ll pay me back. I found the jeans and they happen to be my size so I tried them on. I liked them a lot and they fit perfectly so i bought them for myself instead. She said i bought them out from under her, it was a selfish thing to do, etc. I argued that they were free game since she didn’t buy them when she was there the first time. AITA for keeping the jeans instead of giving them to my girlfriend so she could sell them?
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Invisible Clergy posted:I've been living with my girlfriend [26F] for almost a month, dating for 1.5 years. She's revealing an... increasing interest in Vampire role playing which was fun at first but now I'm [24M] worrying it's going too far Goth girlfriend knows how to fucken party!
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for “stealing” jeans from my girlfriend? This person must understand not to jeopardize those jeans.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:this guy is obviously a giant piece of poo poo, i'm just posting it for the quotes: I like that this guy is constantly begging for her to suck his dick and then insults her by saying that she sucks dick. What is his endgame?
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SpaceViking posted:I like that this guy is constantly begging for her to suck his dick and then insults her by saying that she sucks dick. What is his endgame? Ideal endgame? Bang maid. Actual endgame? Dying alone and hating women
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for “stealing” jeans from my girlfriend? I feel like the nice thing to do would be to pick them up for her, then offer to buy them at the resale price from her. If she accepts, great. If she lowers the price because you are dating, great. Either way, you get the jeans you wanted and she doesn't feel cheated.
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Bobulus posted:I feel like the nice thing to do would be to pick them up for her, then offer to buy them at the resale price from her. If she accepts, great. If she lowers the price because you are dating, great. Either way, you get the jeans you wanted and she doesn't feel cheated. This kind of reasonable care for others and seeking out logical and compassionate compromise is the kind of thing, if practiced generally, that would end this thread. What would we do then?
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Xenocides posted:This kind of reasonable care for others and seeking out logical and compassionate compromise is the kind of thing, if practiced generally, that would end this thread. What would we do then? r/AmItheNicehole?
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AITA for changing my name? my parents named me Qur'stylle (Chrystal)?quote:So my rear end in a top hat scumbag parents named me Qur'stylle and my whole life i have gotten poo poo like "are you muslim" "what language is your name originated from?" "what country are you from" and people butchering its pronunciation, for obvious reasons. I have always told people to just spell it as Chrystal and my parents (mainly mom) would take huge offense to it and would email my teachers every year to make sure they pronounce my name correctly. I remember hearing about an actual study showing that having a crazy name like that can make it substantially harder to get a job, what with that being the first thing most employers notice on a resume.
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One of my middle names is misspelled on my birth certificate but spelled correctly on my Social Security Card. That has caused me more problems than I ever thought possible. Chrystal's life must have been a nightmare in comparison.
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Cockmaster posted:AITA for changing my name? my parents named me Qur'stylle (Chrystal)?
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don longjohns posted:One of my middle names is misspelled on my birth certificate but spelled correctly on my Social Security Card. That has caused me more problems than I ever thought possible. I am forever grateful to the unknown lady in the Goan birth registry office who stopped my dad from putting all 7 of my names on my birth certificate, with the very reasonable explanation that if he did that, I'd have to use them all in any official documentation. (they're not even particularly weird names, mostly old relatives, just there's a lot of them.)
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don longjohns posted:One of my middle names is misspelled on my birth certificate but spelled correctly on my Social Security Card. That has caused me more problems than I ever thought possible. For what it's worth: the dude at my local social security office said that your birth certificate means gently caress all if you have a social security card. Whatever is on the SSA card is what your name is, as far as government functions are concerned. I can corroborate this from local dealings. In Kentucky, at least. Who knows what the gently caress other states do.
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McSpanky posted:r/AmItheNicehole? Nah, niceholes are a specific thing. Niceholes are people that slam their breaks to let people make lefts in traffic or wave pedestrians through crosswalks when they don’t have right of way. The kind of people who think they’re doing someone a favor but are making it worse for everyone around them.
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Ugly In The Morning posted:Nah, niceholes are a specific thing. Niceholes are people that slam their breaks to let people make lefts in traffic or wave pedestrians through crosswalks when they don’t have right of way. The kind of people who think they’re doing someone a favor but are making it worse for everyone around them. That actually makes perfect sense, thanks.
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Xenocides posted:Getting strong obesity/eating disorder vibes with the child basically being her hated inner guilt. It doesn't sound like they are eating together and instead OP is just snacking and being very defensive "I can eat what I want when I want" because I paid for this food! If this was a normal meal the response is "No, that is yours and this is mine." If it is a normal snack you offer the kid some. It is easy. It's also really typical for kids to develop control issues around food when they're feeling stressed or uncertain. It may be manifested by becoming extremely picky, having meltdowns if the food is not exactly what they expect (or is what they expect but is slightly the wrong color or shape), fears about running out of food, hiding food, wanting to stockpile, being obsessed over portions, that sort of thing. You see this even in absolutely normal child behavior, but it's exaggerated by stress. This is one of those "not really about food" food issues. I would not be surprised if the adults around the kid are talking about shortages, not being able to go to the store, and other quarantine issues. The child's schedule is shot, they're feeling insecure and uncertain, grown-ups are being weird, and if Dad's girlfriend eats that chocolate it may be the last chocolate ever and it's mine!
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NecroBob posted:For what it's worth: the dude at my local social security office said that your birth certificate means gently caress all if you have a social security card. Whatever is on the SSA card is what your name is, as far as government functions are concerned. I wish that were the case. When the quarantine is over I am requesting a new Social Security Card, finally, because of that new Real ID bullshit
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Cockmaster posted:AITA for changing my name? my parents named me Qur'stylle (Chrystal)? Yeah, and it has to do with racism. https://www.nber.org/papers/w9873
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Tons of goons will get all up in arms when people get creative with names as well, it's not just something other people do. Seems pretty deeply ingrained in some way
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Ugly In The Morning posted:Nah, niceholes are a specific thing. Niceholes are people that slam their breaks to let people make lefts in traffic or wave pedestrians through crosswalks when they don’t have right of way. The kind of people who think they’re doing someone a favor but are making it worse for everyone around them. And trying to explain to them that what they're doing is actually dangerous driving because they're making traffic wildly unpredictable is an exercise in futility. I really hate these fuckers.
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