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Boiled Water posted:Danish licenses are in the same range. Most of the cost is driving lessons and learning the law so it's hard to hate. Here in norway its the mandatory classes that kills your wallet. After i was finished with the regular driving lessons i figured hey this wasnt so bad, and then came stuff like night driving class, safety class, car and track rental etc and suddenly it was well over 20k nkr.
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My gf (21f) of 5 years says I (22m) cannot sleep with her again until marriagequote:So I’ve been with my gf for 5 years off and on. We met online and originally wanted to meet up to sleep with one another but ended up getting into a long distance relationship with one another. She moved in from out of state so we could go to college together and now she has moved back home to her family to deal with some family issues and hopes I follow her just as she followed me, but that’s a story for another time. I am about to graduate college and intend to go to law school next fall and now that I’ll have my bachelors degree, she is becoming increasingly insistent on me proposing to her, although I’ve told her on multiple occasions that I don’t want to until I’m ready to marry her, and able to provide a steady living for the both of us. I do eventually want to marry her, but I feel I’m too young and don’t feel I’m personally ready to be a husband. Recently she has said she has been praying and came up with the decision to not engage in sexual activities with me until we’re married. I questioned her on it, since she has said in the past the women who don’t put out, do so so men will propose sooner but I was scolded for questioning her faith. I love her very much and I really want things to work out, but from the start our talking to one another was based on sex, and I believe it’s necessary to have a functioning relationship but I’d feel like an rear end in a top hat for putting such an emphasis on sex. I really don’t know how to handle this so any advice?
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# ? May 11, 2020 12:56 |
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My husband (25M) and I (25F) are both so lazy and need helpquote:We've been together since early college, around 7 years. Married almost 1. Overall we're moderately successful. We both have careers and make good money. We rent a condo and are thinking about buying a house next year. We have good relationships with family and a few friends. But we struggle with a lot of things and I think it's mostly due to laziness. At least you mustered the strength to complete the Herculean task of posting on reddit.
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:04 |
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I guess enjoy your life of being unmotivated together? I mean, it doesnt sound like either of you has the energy or inclination to get a dog, have a kid, have an affair, or really do anything to upset your comfortable existence so Im putting your marriage in the "resounding success" category.
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:08 |
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25 and too lazy to gently caress lmao
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:11 |
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Miss posted:25 and too lazy to gently caress Its probably not their fault, they dont make beds rated up to 1200 pounds
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:13 |
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i forgot the reddit rule that the OP is always fatter than you imagine the quotation marks around "ran" are a bit of a tell
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:17 |
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How do I (23F) get it across to my husband (25M) that him being tired is not the same as when I'm tired?quote:Using my novelty account because my husband knows my main.
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Miss posted:i forgot the reddit rule that the OP is always fatter than you imagine quote:He isn't happy with the way things are. He claims that because I'm stubborn he doesn't try to spearhead any change for us because I resist. And he has a point, when we tried to train for that 5k I always avoided going on runs to practice so I was barely able to finish. So I understand why he feels discouraged, but in my point of view it feels like most of the changes we make are because of me. I don't know. We're both lazy and stubborn but we both know that we're going to be unhappy if we keep living like this. And he doesn't really make me feel unsupported, I just wish I had him as a partner. Like the times I've tried to eat healthy, he keeps asking for us to get fast food. Or he brings home dessert because it's basically the only thing that makes me instantly happy when I'm sad. He means well. It's not his fault. It just feels like a daunting task to lift myself up, let alone both of us.
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:24 |
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My [23F] mother [54F] didn't realize how much I helped out around the house until I moved out and now she wants me backquote:I have a big family. I grew up living with two younger brothers, one younger sister, grandparents, and my mom and dad. I'm significantly the oldest kid in my family; 8 years older than John (my brother, the second oldest in the house). [UPDATE] My [23F] mother [54F] didn't realize how much I helped out around the house until I moved out and now she wants me back quote:
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:32 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:My husband (25M) and I (25F) are both so lazy and need help That honest to god sounds like how I was/kind of am with ADHD
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:34 |
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Miss posted:My [23F] mother [54F] didn't realize how much I helped out around the house until I moved out and now she wants me back OP realises that their mum sucks in the comments of the update and resolves to Love a happy ending.
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:40 |
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Miss posted:My [23F] mother [54F] didn't realize how much I helped out around the house until I moved out and now she wants me back Getting disowned because you wouldn’t be moms unpaid housekeeper drat.
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# ? May 11, 2020 13:47 |
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Miss posted:My [23F] mother [54F] didn't realize how much I helped out around the house until I moved out and now she wants me back I've heard of older siblings getting stuck parenting their younger siblings, but getting stuck housekeeping for your parent...
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# ? May 11, 2020 14:03 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:
I used to jack off in (slightly) public (a hot tub with people in it) as a teen, and I'm not a boy OR a rapist. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? May 11, 2020 14:19 |
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Pretty good posted:Also the phrase I used was "rapist in the making" – as in: this kid, without intervention, will escalate his behaviour if he thinks he isn't at risk of more than a stern talking-to – not "rapist in training". Interesting how two apologist weirdos misquoted me in exactly the same way that makes me sound bizarre and unreasonable tho I think you do sound bizarre and unreasonable. I think a 16 yo rubbing his junk on some ladies' boots is, indeed, unacceptable behavior, but it's not the same as forcing themselves sexually on someone. Maybe just don't throw the word "rapist" around that casually... Or, maybe do? Men are pretty loving disgusting so maybe they should be shamed all time time. IDK. I just think a horny teen jacking it to lingerie, while deserving of consequences and therapy, is harmless compared to holding someone down and loving them against their will. I guess that's just my opinion tho.
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# ? May 11, 2020 14:24 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:My husband (25M) and I (25F) are both so lazy and need help They're 25 years old and too lazy to have sex?!! How morbidly obese are they? Dang, that's insane. Most couples in the loving world are banging the heck out of each other with regularity and these morons stopped caring before they're 30! Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 14:37 on May 11, 2020 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:My husband (25M) and I (25F) are both so lazy and need help quote:I kind of do most of the emotional labor (remembering these things, reminding him to do chores the rare times we do them). Nagging your husband is the real chore, not like... actually doing anything. Realtalk though you should both probably see someone about depression if you can't even bring yourself to do things you enjoy.
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# ? May 11, 2020 14:41 |
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OhAreThey posted:I think you do sound bizarre and unreasonable. I think a 16 yo rubbing his junk on some ladies' boots is, indeed, unacceptable behavior, but it's not the same as forcing themselves sexually on someone. Maybe just don't throw the word "rapist" around that casually... e. I meant to quote this person's first post on this page but you get the idea holy moly Pretty good fucked around with this message at 16:42 on May 11, 2020 |
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OhAreThey posted:I used to jack off in (slightly) public (a hot tub with people in it) as a teen, and I'm not a boy OR a rapist. Sorry you did what now
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AITA for refusing to help my boyfriend with his business after he publicly declared it was "just him"quote:My boyfriend runs a small food business, has done for the last few years. I have my own job but since he's begin cooking professionally, I have always been involved. From helping with menus, doing his finances and packaging orders for delivery etc, I have always felt like it was partly mine. I have always assumed he saw it the same way as it's never been "hey, can you help me with this" but rather "you need to do this today for me"
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# ? May 11, 2020 15:16 |
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I can only imagine what shenanigans some of you have been up to, considering jerking off into a woman's shoe is no big deal and all.OhAreThey posted:I used to jack off in (slightly) public (a hot tub with people in it) as a teen, and I'm not a boy OR a rapist. See?
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I can only imagine what shenanigans some of you have been up to, considering jerking off into a woman's shoe is no big deal and all. I don't think anyone says it's not a big deal and shouldn't be punished. But the leap people are arguing about is saying that makes the kid a rapist in the making. That's like saying someone who shoplifts is a violent mugger in the making.
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# ? May 11, 2020 15:32 |
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All men are rapists as previously discussed many times in this thread
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# ? May 11, 2020 15:48 |
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* thrashes button labelled 'the hottest of takes' *
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:03 |
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pretty sure masturbating in a public, occupied hot tub is one of the early signs of sociopathy, like ripping the wings off flies
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Pirate Radar posted:In Europe this is very normal. lol I'm sure that HR call is just some health care paperwork dude don't worry about it
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:11 |
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Hey thread, this is a person who jerks off on shoes in another persons house a rapist in training is both an unpleasant conversation and led to a poster sharing something I would prefer to never have known so lets let that topic go in this thread, thanks
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:14 |
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Barudak posted:Hey thread, this is a person who jerks off on shoes in another persons house a rapist in training is both an unpleasant conversation and led to a poster sharing something I would prefer to never have known so lets let that topic go in this thread, thanks Can I call you Uncle?
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:18 |
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OhAreThey posted:I used to jack off in (slightly) public (a hot tub with people in it) as a teen, and I'm not a boy OR a rapist. Why does admitting to sexual assault get a 12 instead of a perma lol
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Barudak posted:Hey thread, this is a person who jerks off on shoes in another persons house a rapist in training is both an unpleasant conversation and led to a poster sharing something I would prefer to never have known so lets let that topic go in this thread, thanks On the contrary, I find it extremely valuable when goons reveal these things about themselves unprompted because now you always know who you're dealing with.
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boar guy posted:pretty sure masturbating in a public, occupied hot tub is one of the early signs of sociopathy, like ripping the wings off flies Nothing wrong with just two guys, jacking off in a hot tub, six feet apart cause they're not gay
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Sandwich Anarchist posted:Why does admitting to sexual assault get a 12 instead of a perma lol likely because that is the longest probation a mod can invoke without admin approval, and a ban is in the works
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:27 |
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I got a day’s probation in the last thread for continuing the “punch dogs” running joke, so clearly that is worse than an admission of sexual assault.
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:30 |
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OhAreThey posted:I used to jack off in (slightly) public (a hot tub with people in it) as a teen, and I'm not a boy OR a rapist. Uh, what?
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:31 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Nothing wrong with just two guys, jacking off in a hot tub, six feet apart cause they're not gay The poster said they're not a boy, don't be rude.
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:31 |
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OhAreThey posted:I used to jack off in (slightly) public (a hot tub with people in it) as a teen, and I'm not a boy OR a rapist. Boys will be boys... Oh wait, you're a loving gross rear end in a top hat and I hate you.
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:32 |
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pentyne posted:None of that makes any legal sense. When i got married, all I had to do was drop a form off at the county registrar. My wife & I signed it, as did the officiant and a witness. If she had a bumch of people willing to forge signatures and his SSN, it seems possible.
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# ? May 11, 2020 16:34 |
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"Boys will be boys!" I declare as I spread as much of my semen as possible onto the clothing of unsuspecting women.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Boys will be boys... Lol remember when you said that lady that refused a guy a lift had no idea how close she came to being raped or worse
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