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Decon
Nov 22, 2015


Time_pants posted:

There is fluoride-free toothpaste for infants/toddlers under age 2. I'm not sure if it's necessary, but I thought that was the reason it existed.

Toddlers. Grown rear end men that have pissed away their lives, relationships, and health over a spray tanned politician. What's the real difference?

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Funky See Funky Do
Aug 20, 2013
STILL TRYING HARD

Cyber Punk 90210 posted:

Nearly all my family is 'pilled in one way or another but my middle brother takes the cake by growing in to a legitimate, straight up nazi. The last time I talked with him was in January after the attack on the capitol. He thinks there were 2 million people at the rally and the ones that attacked the capitol were actually secret Antifa who have sleeper cells all over the country. Also, antifa infiltrated the police, that's why they let them in to the building without any resistance.

He claims he isn't racist but says "The blacks" a lot.



Oh, and he likes lolicon.



He believes that pornography of real women drains you of your energy. Hentai is okay because it's not real women and hentai is made by men so he doesn't have to worry about his energy

Is drawn child pornography a crime in the US?

The Saucer Hovers
May 16, 2005

Goth Odell Beckham posted:

Hippies always kinda had a sinister undercurrent IMO

thats the state youre smelling

Meme Poker Party
Sep 1, 2006

by Azathoth

Cyber Punk 90210 posted:

Oh, and he likes lolicon.



This is the worst part, imo.

Cyber Punk 90210 posted:

hentai is made by men

Frequently, yes? But there are plenty of female hentai artists.

Pekinduck
May 10, 2008

Time_pants posted:

There is fluoride-free toothpaste for infants/toddlers under age 2. I'm not sure if it's necessary, but I thought that was the reason it existed.
This one has "nano silver". Giving a whole new meaning to blue babies.

ClamdestineBoyster
Aug 15, 2015
Probation
Can't post for 10 years!
Yeah some of my family were cult programmed with real hypnotic triggers. They would be put into a panic state which exercised a work ritual, and in their mind they believed they were the only person who could save the day and that they possessed some special magic that allowed only them to complete whatever repetitive task they were acting out in hypnosis. Anything I said to them didn’t matter because I was the object of their programming. Even the words “you are directly hurting me and endangering everyone around you” didn’t mean anything to them. I asked for help from some friends and they knew what to do.

Time_pants
Jun 25, 2012

Now sauntering to the ring, please welcome the lackadaisical style of the man who is always doing something...

Decon posted:

Toddlers. Grown rear end men that have pissed away their lives, relationships, and health over a spray tanned politician. What's the real difference?

Straight up, I did not know that this stuff existed for any other purpose until I saw the images in this thread. Holy poo poo.

Novo
May 13, 2003

Stercorem pro cerebro habes
Soiled Meat
I stopped talking to my libertarian friend in 2016 when he revealed that he'd voted for trump and was sending me podcasts with Scott Adams. I realized that if I kept in contact with him I would have to pretend he wasn't the dumbest person I've ever known, not just someone I disagree with politically. That didn't seem fair to either of us.

Xenocides
Jan 14, 2008

This world looks very scary....


Cyber Punk 90210 posted:

Hentai is okay because it's not real women and hentai is made by men so he doesn't have to worry about his energy

Sounds kind of :gay:

Lascivious Sloth
Apr 26, 2008

by sebmojo

Cyber Punk 90210 posted:

Nearly all my family is 'pilled in one way or another but my middle brother takes the cake by growing in to a legitimate, straight up nazi. The last time I talked with him was in January after the attack on the capitol. He thinks there were 2 million people at the rally and the ones that attacked the capitol were actually secret Antifa who have sleeper cells all over the country. Also, antifa infiltrated the police, that's why they let them in to the building without any resistance.

He claims he isn't racist but says "The blacks" a lot.



Oh, and he likes lolicon.



He believes that pornography of real women drains you of your energy. Hentai is okay because it's not real women and hentai is made by men so he doesn't have to worry about his energy

loving YIKES

Derpies
Mar 11, 2014

by sebmojo
Just have had my boss go from a never Trump republican to a full on Newsmax brained type and had a few friends go full Qanon over COVID lockdowns but they are already on the Ben Shapiro/Praeger U/Scott Adam’s death spiral before that.

Cyber Punk 90210
Jan 7, 2004

The War Has Changed

Meme Poker Party posted:

Frequently, yes? But there are plenty of female hentai artists.

Exactly, we know that but he doesn't believe it or if they are made by a woman they're the "gay kind"


Xenocides posted:

Sounds kind of :gay:

Man, I wish. My whole family is militant religious, and obsessed with porn. My sister even has a "Porn is lame!" bumper sticker

Cyber Punk 90210 fucked around with this message at 19:53 on Aug 4, 2021

The Saucer Hovers
May 16, 2005

SilvergunSuperman
Aug 7, 2010

My step bro has always been a devil's advocate type arguer and that path seems to have led him to antivaxx and chuddom.

I'm pretty disappointed, used to think he was a chill guy.

Big Beef City
Aug 15, 2013

If there are any women reading this thread who've been exposed to hentai and need to pm me about the trauma I can be there I can be a sort of shelter from the storm I know there's a lot of it, and a lot of you. I'm here for it. My trenchcoat is open.

titty_baby_
Nov 11, 2015

My aunt, a divorced boomer mostly living alone, had fallen down the trap. She was hopelessly illiterate with technology and would fall for scams all the time and believe everything she read on Facebook. My brother would try to talk to her but she was pretty much in her own world. She died tho.

I knew some tech bro libertarian kind of guys before the 2016 who were big on trump mostly be way of being anti Clinton, but it seems they shortly became embarrassed by trump and scrubbed there social media. One of them is now in the air force or something and has a disclaimer on his social media saying his views don't reflect on that of his employer, and I think he's divorced too

Novo
May 13, 2003

Stercorem pro cerebro habes
Soiled Meat

titty_baby_ posted:

it seems they shortly became embarrassed by trump
what happened?

Dumb Sex-Parrot
Dec 25, 2020
Not really OP. v :shobon: v

I've got a cousin, though, who used to be very argumentative and anti-immigration. Well, turns out he was recently diagnosed with aspberger's, which in his words is the reason why he was so fixated on those subjects. Sure he's still argumentative and I disagree with him a lot but that's fine. You can't expect people to have the very same opinions as your own, and if you don't see eye to eye with someone in your close social circles you can always agree to disagree. The phrase "can we talk about something else, because I don't think we're ever going to agree on this topic?" comes to mind.

CarpenterWalrus
Mar 30, 2010

The Lazy Satanist
if this thread has taught me anything, it's that we, as a culture, need to develop more euphemisms for the word cr*zy

Nigmaetcetera
Nov 17, 2004

borkborkborkmorkmorkmork-gabbalooins
No family members it would hurt to break contact off with, OP. My cousin and his dad spout nonsense about adrenochrome sometimes but I just ask if they want to buy any from me and they then usually stop or leave.

StrangersInTheNight
Dec 31, 2007
ABSOLUTE FUCKING GUDGEON
Oh yeah, in 2017 I had someone I went to college with 'come out' as conservative and Pro-Trump to me with such lovely and totally sensible nuggets as:

Unwell ex-friend posted:

I think David Greenberg is the guy that the Democrats pay big $$ to "suggest" that journalists use certain words to spin poo poo.

Unwell ex-friend posted:

I think a major problem is single motherhood, which is the number 1 factor in criminality, across all races and income demographics. Not having a positive father figure creates a huge probablility of deep issues. All the cities that have had violent riots in the past 40 years have been areas with 60%+ single mother households (and also Democrat-held + gun-controlled as well). That's not an argument for abortion, it's an argument for keeping a good marriage with a great guy.

And therein lies my issues with feminism, which totally demonizes men and openly spits on their contributions to society. Western society venerates women, we are free to do anything we want and it's amazing.

She's in her 30s but married a guy ~20 years her senior. How did they meet? She babysat his kids when she was in middle/high school. Yes, it's one of those 'she's only a handful of years older than them but acts like a mom, wtfffffff' situations.

Unfortunately this person actively works in the comics industry, currently working on a series that is very popular with young/teen girls, and I worry not unfrequently about what weird-rear end anti-feminist poo poo this person might be sneaking in this media that kids are exposed to.

These were because I sent a podcast her way to reconnect and it mentioned gun control; there's (a whole lot) more but it gets personal and I don't want to doxx. Ha-haaaa! Comics is full of trash people goddamn.

StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 22:32 on Aug 4, 2021

StrangersInTheNight
Dec 31, 2007
ABSOLUTE FUCKING GUDGEON
Oh yes and she claimed she had gone down this conspiracy-nut rabbit hole 'from her own reading' and not from being around her Boomer husband

At first everyone I'd discussed it with told me I was being too harsh deciding to step away from the friendship

No one says that anymore.

Dumb Sex-Parrot posted:

The phrase "can we talk about something else, because I don't think we're ever going to agree on this topic?" comes to mind.

gently caress this stupid dumb poo poo, I don't need crap people in my lives who I can only talk about dumb useless poo poo like TV and movies

ever since I stopped making this dumb concession to 'agree to disagree' about basic civil rights issues, the quality of people in my life and how supported I feel has gone up dramatically. this sex-parrot has admittedly been hosed stupid don't listen to them

StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 22:34 on Aug 4, 2021

Catastrophe
Oct 5, 2007

Committed to burn twice as long and half as bright
I did. I genuinely lost my mind about 3 years ago. I ended up in the hospital and, after a week in there, they doubted I'd be able to be let out and actually be able to live on my own like a normal adult anymore. They suggested I be admitted to a long-term care facility instead. Maybe I should have. It IS difficult for me to live a normal adult life, still. I'm much better now though, anyway. Much better.

But the breakdown cost me all of my friends and my spouse and I've been living in isolation ever since. Gotta nip that in the bud soon.

Fiddler on the Reef
Apr 29, 2011


my brother has gone part-tard (Trump supporter but not die-hard, won't get vaccinated) but it's only part, so no biggie imo. even if it was full on, different strokes, you know?

Fiddler on the Reef
Apr 29, 2011


Dumb Sex-Parrot posted:

Not really OP. v :shobon: v

I've got a cousin, though, who used to be very argumentative and anti-immigration. Well, turns out he was recently diagnosed with aspberger's, which in his words is the reason why he was so fixated on those subjects. Sure he's still argumentative and I disagree with him a lot but that's fine. You can't expect people to have the very same opinions as your own, and if you don't see eye to eye with someone in your close social circles you can always agree to disagree. The phrase "can we talk about something else, because I don't think we're ever going to agree on this topic?" comes to mind.

ya I feel like a lotta people are cutting out close relationships or distancing themselves for pretty benign reasons.

MEIN RAVEN
Oct 7, 2008

Gutentag Mein Raven

A Fancy Hat posted:

He either majorly changed or hid this stuff incredibly well because nobody had a clue. I was at his bachelor party, spent plenty of time with him, we went to concerts and movies and stuff together. Never heard a peep about Trump even though this was all happening in 2016 and 2017.

That said, he stopped doing stuff with his wife almost immediately after the wedding, so a lot of this might stem from him just being a piece of poo poo who put on an act to get married, then went full mask-off afterwards.

I'm a little late on this, but jesus: Just get a divorce. I'm at that age (late 30s) where I find myself saying this more and more and more.

Actual content: My dad's from Missouri, and he and one of his sisters are the sane, liberal ones. His oldest sister and his brother are the insane side of that sibling set. My uncle flat out left Missouri for Montana, spent all his money on rental properties and guns, and called my dad when he was having a stroke while driving. Did he go to the hospital? Noooo. Because what to doctors know? Instead, he takes fish oil now. That'll go well. His older republican sister stopped talking to him during the Trump years. Nevermind that her son is the only one in the family to go to jail for, guess what, money laundering....

Lots of stories from that part of the family that I just pretend doesn't exist.

SilvergunSuperman
Aug 7, 2010

The nice thing about a dead end relationships is wasting a few years isn't a big deal since you live forever.

StrangersInTheNight
Dec 31, 2007
ABSOLUTE FUCKING GUDGEON

UnSmith posted:

I'm a little late on this, but jesus: Just get a divorce. I'm at that age (late 30s) where I find myself saying this more and more and more.

yeah I am honestly pretty worried about AFH's sis-in-law, when I hear these stories I'm like goddamn lady

this is what most often happens when you decide to 'agree to disagree' with someone re: basic values/civil rights issues, a life of quiet desperation and sadness bc they're always gonna rule the roost and crow

One More Fat Nerd
Apr 13, 2007

Mama’s Lil’ Louie

Nap Ghost
If you live in the American South, you have a significant sized group of friends and family on social media, and you're not a shithead, its a near guarantee you've had to just completely mute a bunch of people you used to like.

Honestly, the 2008-09 wave was bigger than '16 for me. I had a bunch of friends and acquaintances that just completely broke when it became apparent Obama was going to win. Folks who had been completely apolitical became super racist nonstop raving conspiracy theorists. Memorably, one of the most outspoken progressive feminist girls from my high school turned full stupid hick racist in the space of 3 months, at the age of 26, after Obama beat Hillary in the primaries. She literally started acting performatively country/white trashy despite being raised in a well off suburb. She was one of those hardcore PUMA types and is now a full Trump chud.

My mom has gone kinda crazy, but it appears to have mostly been induced by her intense hatred for Hillary Clinton. She was a steady dem voter since 1976, but voted Trump in 16 because she just viscerally loving hates Hillary and has since sometime in the mid-early 90s for unclear reasons.

My dad is paranoid and worries about "chicoms".

Time_pants
Jun 25, 2012

Now sauntering to the ring, please welcome the lackadaisical style of the man who is always doing something...

Fiddler on the Reef posted:

my brother has gone part-tard (Trump supporter but not die-hard, won't get vaccinated) but it's only part, so no biggie imo. even if it was full on, different strokes, you know?

As in, the severity of the stroke he had to make him a Trump-supporting anti-vaxxer?

Valko
Sep 18, 2015

Decon posted:

.... but at the same time video game addiction is in the DSM (and it should be) because of the measurable impact that addiction to video games (which have no chemical means of addictiveness) has on a person's relationships, professional life, physical and emotional health. And if Goya Beans convinced you to litter your store--your livelihood--with signage for a politician, it's gonna be hard to convince me that your relationships are all doing well and that you're in a good place emotionally.

I never believed this was true for a long time. I did spend more time playing video games than is healthy but that was because I worked really unsociable hours (start at 11.30am - finish at 11.30pm 4 days a week including friday and saturday and another 6 hour shift on sunday). Didn't really have time for other ways to wind down and amuse myself.

I wanted to try something different so I took night classes in Cisco networking. I met a young guy there and made friends with him over our shared interest in games. He self identified as a "gamer" rather than some who just enjoyed them. He even looked the part being bald at 24 with an Abe Lincoln chinstrap. But at the same time he was fit and healthy, outgoing and friendly and had no problems with women.

It took me a while to notice the problems it was causing him. He was ALWAYS short of cash. I bought him a coffee one night because he had no change, the very next week the first thing he did was give me the change back. I didn't ask for it or even want it. The coffee was piss-poor crap from a vending machine. Then we met a friend of his one night at a bar, he said something i didn't hear, his friend sighed and chuckled and handed him £20.

This guy had a job so I wondered why he was constantly broke. Then it hit me, EVERY WEEK he was talking 2 or 3 newly released AAA big budget games! He never ever replayed a game and was somehow confused that I had bought Fallout 4 in the summer and was still playing at christmas. He thought it was strange that I played through Witcher 3 more than once.

He wanted to live the lifestyle of an overpaid silicon valley nerd with too much time on their hands on the budget of someone working in a call center.

Katamari Democracy
Jan 19, 2010

Guess what! :love:
Guess what this is? :love:
A Post, Just for you! :love:
Wedge Regret
I stopped talking to my mom and sister, mainly because of Trump, but it all started when I was the only one in my direct family to graduate college and they thought I was taught Marxism during my time there. (I studied Cisco Networks and Amazon AWS).

The climax of my stink with them was when I had Covid and had to go to the hospital. My mom hears that I admitted myself in and is screaming at me to get out of there because Covid is a hoax and that it was just a bad flu. All while the Doctors were sticking tubes up my dickhole and taking X-rays of my chest. After three days I finally left the hospital she tells me that I was over reacting, found out I was going to be collecting unemployment and claims I didn't deserve it (She quit her job right before Covid hit), and all sorts of other real nasty poo poo that made me crack my ping.

Then finally the icing on the cake was when my mom moved in with my sister because she had nowhere else to go. My sister's boyfriend relapsed on Meth, starting tearing up my sister's house, and got mad at me when I told them the kids can stay but they were on their own. After they hung up on me I was getting death threats on my phone and from that point on they became dead to me.

Rockman Reserve
Oct 2, 2007

"Carbons? Purge? What are you talking about?!"

Dumb Sex-Parrot posted:

The phrase "can we talk about something else, because I don't think we're ever going to agree on this topic?" comes to mind.

"tell me you're not in a marginalized or at-risk group without actually saying it"

lmao you live up to your name

ben shapino
Nov 22, 2020

Rockman Reserve posted:

"tell me you're not in a marginalized or at-risk group without actually saying it"

lmao you live up to your name

lol yeah you should definitely engage in absolute dead-end conversations with complete morons at all times no matter what

Junk
Dec 20, 2003

Listen to reason, man. Why make your job difficult?

ben shapino posted:

lol yeah you should definitely engage in absolute dead-end conversations with complete morons at all times no matter what

this but unironically

DickParasite
Dec 2, 2004


Slippery Tilde

ben shapino posted:

lol yeah you should definitely engage in absolute dead-end conversations with complete morons at all times no matter what

how else am I suppose to get through the work day?

Fantastic Foreskin
Jan 6, 2013

A golden helix streaked skyward from the Helvault. A thunderous explosion shattered the silver monolith and Avacyn emerged, free from her prison at last.

DickParasite posted:

how else am I suppose to get through the work day?

I've known several people who would suggest a travel mug full of liquor.

Dumb Sex-Parrot
Dec 25, 2020

StrangersInTheNight posted:

gently caress this stupid dumb poo poo, I don't need crap people in my lives who I can only talk about dumb useless poo poo like TV and movies


lol if you believe every single conversation has to be on some deep level

MEIN RAVEN
Oct 7, 2008

Gutentag Mein Raven

Fantastic Foreskin posted:

I've known several people who would suggest a travel mug full of liquor.

This is fine advice all around and even finer advice when trying to talk to almost anyone from Arkansas

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Dumb Sex-Parrot
Dec 25, 2020
i connected with one of my best friends over a computer game, how urbane and useless. i disagree with him on some point regarding the national healthcare system, welp better cut him straight out of my life because im a fragile idiot!!

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