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Arc Hammer posted:Could it also be an attraction thing? Like there's enough physical attraction to get the blood flowing for an erection but not enough to sustain any heightened feeling? No, just jerk off less
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Arc Hammer posted:Could it also be an attraction thing? Like there's enough physical attraction to get the blood flowing for an erection but not enough to sustain any heightened feeling? does a picture of her arouse you? if so you're probably fine physically. it just takes some getting used to. source: my complete rear end. but that's what people say and it makes logical sense to me, that arousal could be contaminated by uncomfortablility in a new situation
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# ? Jan 28, 2023 05:32 |
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whydirt posted:Without knowing more of your health status and history, the default answer is going to be stop jacking off so much because you’ve desensitized your dick This was my first thought too
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# ? Jan 28, 2023 05:52 |
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Arc Hammer posted:Could it also be an attraction thing? Like there's enough physical attraction to get the blood flowing for an erection but not enough to sustain any heightened feeling? No but also why are you having sex with people you aren't sure you're attracted to?
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# ? Jan 28, 2023 09:10 |
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KillHour posted:No but also why are you having sex with people you aren't sure you're attracted to? After 7 years you take what you can get
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# ? Jan 28, 2023 09:21 |
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KillHour posted:No but also why are you having sex with people you aren't sure you're attracted to? Because they're nice people and sex can be a way to gauge attraction? Never know until you try kind of deal.
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# ? Jan 28, 2023 21:22 |
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Anti-depressants and their ilk can play havoc on sexual response as well but yeah collect more data points
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# ? Jan 28, 2023 21:30 |
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Xand_Man posted:Anti-depressants and their ilk can play havoc on sexual response as well but yeah collect more data points I was gonna say this. I don't have a dick but I've felt similar things down there that OP mentioned. SSRIs do be like that.
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# ? Jan 29, 2023 17:20 |
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Covid can gently caress up your poo poo too, both by vascular / blood flow and in other ways. Have you had covid recently?
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Bar Ran Dun posted:Covid can gently caress up your poo poo too, both by vascular / blood flow and in other ways. Have you had covid recently? oh drat
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# ? Jan 29, 2023 18:03 |
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If you're able to get off fine with masturbation the issue is likely not physiological but psychological / interpersonal. Literally not feeling anything doesn't make sense physiologically unless there's some serious difference between gap / girth going on or something like numbing happening With anecdata of N=2 though can say that even after the 4 year mark you should still feel uh... something. Maybe not be comfortable enough to finish but something is probably going to be there even with a condom and some desensitization lube involved. And yeah, COVID is an rear end in a top hat. Why I'm still masking and pretending like it's 2020 still. I've got enough problems, long-haul COVID doesn't need to be one of them.
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necrobobsledder posted:If you're able to get off fine with masturbation the issue is likely not physiological but psychological / interpersonal. Literally not feeling anything doesn't make sense physiologically unless there's some serious difference between gap / girth going on or something like numbing happening Completely not true. If you habitually grip too hard when jacking off, you desensitise your dick. Even moreso if you don't use lube. That's why so many people are saying "jack off less". Try that, and see if things improve. It's come up again and again and again in this thread.
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# ? Jan 30, 2023 23:13 |
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Not to start a whole thing but are there any actual expert sources that dicks break if you use them too much? What mechanism is at play? Is it being suggested that dicks are getting callused because I think people would notice that. Is "your dick is desensitized" code for you watch too much porn and have unrealistic expectations? What's the science behind broke dicks?
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# ? Jan 31, 2023 06:48 |
Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:What's the science behind broke dicks?
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Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:Not to start a whole thing but are there any actual expert sources that dicks break if you use them too much? What mechanism is at play? Is it being suggested that dicks are getting callused because I think people would notice that. Is "your dick is desensitized" code for you watch too much porn and have unrealistic expectations? They don't break from overuse, but the "death grip" technique of masturbation can reduce your sensitivity. No calluses, just watching porn doesn't do anything, it's accustoming yourself to a form of sensation you just don't get with a partner.
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# ? Jan 31, 2023 08:34 |
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They also unbreak if you ease up.
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# ? Jan 31, 2023 12:16 |
You know how, if you eat spicy food a lot, you eventually get to a point where you need to make your food even more spicy? It's that, but with your penis.
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BlankSystemDaemon posted:You know how, if you eat spicy food a lot, you eventually get to a point where you need to make your food even more spicy? Please don't put spicy food on your penis.
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# ? Jan 31, 2023 13:41 |
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*taps on thread title*
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# ? Jan 31, 2023 13:58 |
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whydirt posted:*taps on thread title* I don't think that "Do not use Dave's Insanity Sauce as a sexual lubricant" is outwith the purview of this thread.
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# ? Jan 31, 2023 17:03 |
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I’ve definitely eaten daves insanity and forgot to brush before going down on a partner. I felt terrible but I bet they felt worse.
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# ? Jan 31, 2023 17:28 |
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Grassy Knowles posted:I’ve definitely eaten daves insanity and forgot to brush before going down on a partner. I felt terrible but I bet they felt worse. Title text/post combo.
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# ? Feb 1, 2023 03:22 |
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Hyperlynx posted:If you habitually grip too hard when jacking off, you desensitise your dick. Even moreso if you don't use lube. That's why so many people are saying "jack off less". Try that, and see if things improve. Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:What's the science behind broke dicks?
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# ? Feb 1, 2023 04:13 |
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Until we get OP's Masturbation Report (please wank hard enough to go through the carbons), we're just going to be shooting blanks here.
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# ? Feb 1, 2023 14:43 |
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You build up a psychological tolerance to basically any stimulus over time and repetition. Look at everyone heres response to our old friend, Kirk. Anyone who tries to deny that psychological factors cause physiological response(or inhibit it) is a moron who should be summarily ignored.
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# ? Feb 1, 2023 18:12 |
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After The War posted:Until we get OP's Masturbation Report (please wank hard enough to go through the carbons), we're just going to be shooting blanks here. This kind of rigid bureaucracy really rubs me the wrong way.
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After The War posted:Until we get OP's Masturbation Report (please wank hard enough to go through the carbons), we're just going to be shooting blanks here. Ensign Expendable posted:This kind of rigid bureaucracy really rubs me the wrong way. lol
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# ? Feb 1, 2023 20:03 |
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# ? Feb 2, 2023 10:52 |
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I thought the problem was op being all out of cum?
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# ? Feb 2, 2023 18:35 |
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RFC2324 posted:I thought the problem was op being all out of cum? I'm all out of cum, I'm so lost without you I know you were right believing for so long I'm all out of cum, what am I without you? I can't be too late to say shut the gently caress up about your dick
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 04:23 |
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You never actually run out of cum.
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 04:38 |
Nobody’s ever tried
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 12:16 |
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Better eat what you make just to be safe! Recycling is fundamental
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 13:00 |
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TheMightyHandful posted:Nobody’s ever tried Definitely gave it my best shot as a teenager.
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 16:29 |
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RFC2324 posted:You build up a psychological tolerance to basically any stimulus over time and repetition. Look at everyone heres response to our old friend, Kirk. Sorry about your broke dick
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TheMightyHandful posted:Nobody’s ever tried ha yeah this is probably the most incorrect thing every posted on the SA forums
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 18:25 |
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Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:Sorry about your broke dick As a girl, I'd be a bit disappointed at having a working one I need some viagra at the least
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 18:34 |
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After The War posted:Definitely gave it my best shot as a teenager. There's your problem, it takes multiple shots
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 19:41 |
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I'm still confused about the different floor thing. Floor to ceiling vibrator?
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# ? Feb 3, 2023 20:00 |
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Nobody Interesting posted:I'm still confused about the different floor thing. Floor to ceiling vibrator?
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