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quote:For example she's already allowed her eldest to read through and study a human body book for kids above his age range. Oh no, the nine year old knows basic human anatomy from a book for children!!!!! Such forbidden knowledge should not be revealed until their eighteenth birthday!!!! Such a scandal!!!!!
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A happy update: UPDATE - AITA for throwing my kid's clothes onto the floor when they don't fold them neatly? quote:UPDATE
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 16:28 |
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RoboRodent posted:You don't disrespect Baby Yoda!!!!! Who da man? Baby yo da man. Baby Yoda da man
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 16:32 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:She's the rear end in a top hat for not informing the appropriate service that an officer was having an affair with a subordinate under his command. I don't think it's necessary to cut off the brother, just mercilessly make fun of star wars whenever he is around and when he gets mad mock him for being a big ol baby
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 16:46 |
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I used to know a guy who could be brought to tears by relentless praising of The Last Jedi (it didn't need to be sincere). He is married and works in the auto industry
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china bot posted:I used to know a guy who could be brought to tears by relentless praising of The Last Jedi (it didn't need to be sincere). He is married and works in the auto industry Oh my god I would never, ever stop tormenting him. Both because I generally enjoyed the movie and also because in my experience anyone who truly loathes that movie does so because they are an awful, awful person.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 16:54 |
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AnoHito posted:The dude eats quickly and was probably raised in a family where they didn't sit down to eat together very often. Or was raised in a family that did eat together regularly, and if you didn't eat quickly you didn't get enough. I've know people who expected /were afraid of other people at the table to be taking things off their plate.
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RoboRodent posted:( I'm all for sexual education just not until late teens when it's appropriate) Congratulations on your grandmotherhood
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mllaneza posted:Or was raised in a family that did eat together regularly, and if you didn't eat quickly you didn't get enough. I've know people who expected /were afraid of other people at the table to be taking things off their plate. Toxic school or workplace lunch environments can also play into this.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 17:15 |
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Gnoman posted:Toxic school or workplace lunch environments can also play into this. Well my third eye just blew right the gently caress open. I never considered that this may be why I don't like sitting down to eat with people and usually try to peace out as quickly as possible. Got something to think about now. Thank you for posting this
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 17:18 |
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Mikl posted:When you eat with someone, you wait to take the first bite until everyone is seated at the table and ready to begin. It's just good manners. I hate this rule and actively ignore it. I'm eating my food while it's still hot thanks.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 17:31 |
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it's your right to be rude if it's taking a long time for others to be ready for some reason you can always ask if they mind if you start eating, though ideally they would notice you're waiting and just tell you to go ahead
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 17:33 |
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I think we can all agree that chugging pasta over the sink is wierd though, right?
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 17:47 |
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RoboRodent posted:Oh no, the nine year old knows basic human anatomy from a book for children!!!!! Such forbidden knowledge should not be revealed until their eighteenth birthday!!!! Such a scandal!!!!!
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Piell posted:I think we can all agree that chugging pasta over the sink is wierd though, right? I'm absolutely projecting, but maybe he's a line cook or chef? We always had seconds to eat and did so over a garbage can, although most people can learn to code switch and not eat like a loving savage at home or with company so it's still on him.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 17:50 |
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Mozi posted:it's your right to be rude I'm not surprised everyone is missing the point but this isn't a guy scarfing down his meal in a quick minute he's gulping down a fried egg without using silverware and scarfing down pasta out of the cooking pot while standing over the sink arguing that it saves time on cleaning dishes. This is not rude its bizarre and weird.
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AITA for constantly lying to my father to suck as much money out of him as possible? quote:My father is an extremely rich politician from a third world country. I always had everything when I was a child, except for his love and attention. For him, I did not exist.
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Funktastic posted:AITA for telling my sister her kids( 5m )and( 8m )are far too young for horror films? Sex ed weirdness aside, I was ready to agree with OP until I read this. A+ parenting IMO: the kids can prepare for the scary stuff, they get scared, and then they're taught to investigate the scary thing and learn about it, thus taking away the fear. OP is a ninny.
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Puppy Time posted:Sex ed weirdness aside, I was ready to agree with OP until I read this. A+ parenting IMO: the kids can prepare for the scary stuff, they get scared, and then they're taught to investigate the scary thing and learn about it, thus taking away the fear. OP is a ninny.
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AITA for extending my brother's wedding invite to a friend who very recently got divorced? quote:My brother is getting married, and he's recently started sending out invites. It's a small gathering, about, 25 people. It might get postponed, but COVID's been going down where I live and small gatherings are already being allowed so my brother's trying to cover his bases.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for extending my brother's wedding invite to a friend who very recently got divorced? She's an adult. If she can't control herself, gently caress her.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 18:09 |
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Bruceski posted:I love that Mr T picked his name so that white folks would have to call him Mister. A source: https://www.investopedia.com/insights/origins-black-wall-street/
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Mega Comrade posted:I hate this rule and actively ignore it. I'm eating my food while it's still hot thanks.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 18:24 |
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Scaevolus posted:Not starting at exactly the same time is pretty common and fine, but you normally try to at least overlap your eating times to do it together. Scarfing food over the sink instead of sitting down with your partner is ridiculous. That's decadent student sort of behaviour. Were your having a passive aggressive fight with your house mate not doing the dishes so just eat from the sauce pan out of spite.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 18:27 |
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Cliff posted:They are smart to watch behind the scenes stuff afterward, seeing how it's made or watching the monster have coffee and gently caress around with the cast is fun and shows the kids that it's not real. One of my favorite episodes of Mr Roger’s Neighborhood is when Fred visited the set of The Incredible Hulk to show how the show was made, including showing how Lou Feregno got into the Hulk makeup to demonstrate this was all make-believe. This was during the height of the show’s popularity and a lot of little kids were afraid of Hulk, or afraid of being so angry they would turn into a monster; I used to watch the show with my dad and while I wasn’t afraid, I was fascinated in the makeup and over the years loved movie monsters in general for the whole process of creating them. RoboRodent posted:Oh no, the nine year old knows basic human anatomy from a book for children!!!!! Such forbidden knowledge should not be revealed until their eighteenth birthday!!!! Such a scandal!!!!! At that age I was getting Childcraft Encyclopedias in the regular. As an advanced reader I also read their “Handbook for Parents” which in plain language described the science of sex and reproduction. I guess it was a little odd because I had such a cold understanding of the process learning about all the emotional issues many tie to sex as a teen was a mindfuck. Soylent Pudding posted:A happy update: This makes me overjoyed to read, I hope she can continue becoming a better person and parent!
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 18:36 |
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My (M27) boyfriend (M26) has rediscovered World of Warcraft during quarantine and it’s killing our relationshipquote:I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 5 years, lived together for 3. He’s always been a gamer (not a problem) and would play casually in his free time.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 18:48 |
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Scaevolus posted:My (M27) boyfriend (M26) has rediscovered World of Warcraft during quarantine and it’s killing our relationship perfectly normal, perfectly healt- quote:he is on his phone browsing WoW forums he is a complete loss
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 18:50 |
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Skutter posted:Someone posted Mr. T's interview about it, but it's also been a historical practice with Black Americans to give their children names that are a form of an honorific or a historically-important person. So you get kids named Moses, Princess, Yourhighness, Mister, etc., as a way to "force" others to show some sort of respect for the child, because they're already going to have people being awful to them due to their skin color. I tried to find the article I read about it a few years ago but failed, so please enjoy this Twitter thread referencing a study about the history of Black naming conventions in America instead: https://twitter.com/TrevonDLogan/status/966086527666348035?s=20 Hirayuki posted:A lot of Black people (men especially) went by their first and middle initials so no white people could belittle them by calling them by their first names.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 19:01 |
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Gnoman posted:Toxic school or workplace lunch environments can also play into this. A waitress once saw me eat a meal in like 15 seconds and then asked if I had been in the military or in prison, because that's how men from there ate.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 19:14 |
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PetraCore posted:It's also explicitly an anatomy book for kids, so I'm loling at her shock. Like, there's definitely stuff I wouldn't show kids, but I feel like you should definitely have some anatomical education before puberty hits (which can be surprisingly early!), and sex education for young kids is also important in the context of giving them the ability to know what adults shouldn't be doing with them, and what they shouldn't be playing with other children. You don't have to get graphic. I was about 5 when I came across my dad's obstetrics textbook. They found out I had been reading it when I interrupted my mom's
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 19:38 |
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Boyfriend says it’s my fault I receive no head, is he right?quote:Basically I get mad because he never gave me as much oral as I did with him. I give him blowjobs 100% of the time and he gives me head about 10% of the time. Basically what it is, is I get angry like once a month about. I tell him I wish he would want to do it more, because I feel like he doesn’t care about my sexual pleasure when he rarely does anything to me. So he told me in the past he hasn’t much and that he’s sorry. But he also says he doesn’t do it now because I would reject him almost everytime he tries to do it, so he wouldn’t attempt to or ask everytime we have sex because of past rejection. I accidentally kicked him in the head trying to get him to stop and he said it’s because of that too.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 19:43 |
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TFW the TLDR is almost as long as the long version. Y'all are both bad at communicating and he is bad at sex. Tell him to get better and stop blowing him until he does.
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RoboRodent posted:Oh no, the nine year old knows basic human anatomy from a book for children!!!!! Such forbidden knowledge should not be revealed until their eighteenth birthday!!!! Such a scandal!!!!! It's bad to expose kids to horror. Such as the body horror of going all the way through puberty understanding nothing about what's going on with your body and brain. Mozi posted:it's your right to be rude That's straight cultural my dude, some places just plain don't do that at all. therobit posted:TFW the TLDR is almost as long as the long version. If she communicates anything like she writes then oi. Grape fucked around with this message at 20:39 on Aug 14, 2020 |
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fat bossy gerbil posted:You have no idea how badly I wish it was. Their marriage is rapidly crumbling thanks to his untreated mental illness that he refuses to seek help for. He has become emotionally abusive towards her, especially over the last year. I was the best man at their wedding and I’ve known him since we were kids. And it wasn’t just a drunken mistake, I love this woman dearly and she feels the same about me. It’s a really uncomfortable place and I don’t know how to proceed. I would lock up your gun cabinet for the time being.
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 20:40 |
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I (28F) do not want to attend my grandmother's funeralquote:My grandmother passed away yesterday from various health issues, nothing related to what's going on with the world. All of my family expects me to go, but I do not want to. Well well, if it isn't the consequences of my actions.
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How often should she cook?quote:I (42, F) have been married to my wife (,43, F) for almost two decades. We are polyamorous. We share a home with our partner (42,M) and our children (17M, 16M, 12M, 10F, and 8F.) Wife and I have been with Partner for almost 5 years.
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Cythereal posted:I (28F) do not want to attend my grandmother's funeral I mean you can get out of literally anything you want by saying you have the sniffles and a cough and maybe food doesn't taste as good right now. "Hey, I woke up with a sore throat and runny nose so I'm gonna get tested - hopefully the results are back in time but if not I really don't want to put you guys at risk" And that's if you really want to salvage something that has no reason to salvaged. Girl is better off without people like that in her life.
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Cythereal posted:I (28F) do not want to attend my grandmother's funeral Christians
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# ? Aug 14, 2020 21:01 |
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That family is w-holy poo poo
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hawowanlawow posted:Christians Pentecostals are well known for being standard Christians.
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