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Count me in as another person who lives in the closet by omission. I'm bi, I've always been bi. As soon as I started noticing the girls while growing up, I started noticing the boys. However, my family undoubtedly assumes I'm straight because I've never had a male relationship that would come to their attention, and due to their nosiness, I feel it's none of their business who I sleep with. (I don't think it'd even be something they'd disapprove of, my step-brother is gay and no one cares) Well now I'm in a committed relationship with a trans man (born a woman, wants to be a man) and for all intents and purposes, I consider him my boyfriend. To make matters worse, that's not even the bottom of the rabbit hole because I'm also polyamorous, and he is happily married. To a man. I have custody of my son for two months in the summer, and he wants to spend time together the three of us. It will be hard to not discuss these events with my folks as they are, as I said, very nosy, and will undoubtedly want to know more. I have a feeling some of the cats will be out of the bag very soon.
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Welp, clearly I was mistaken about this thread being a place to talk about issues with living a closeted life without being made fun of.
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Ice Phisherman posted:Not going to make fun of you, but that whole relationship sounds like there is some sort of current of crazy in it. By themselves I could give it a pass, but the confluence of a relationship with a married person, poly and trans sounds like you're on the crazy train and there are no brakes. You might be into crazy and if so that's cool, but that's just how I read it. Honestly, it's one of the more boring and drama-free relationships I've been in. mostly it's just "hey it's date day, come over and watch netflix and eat pizza with me, there may be butt touching involved." Meanwhile, I recently also got out of a relationship with a woman that is as straight as you can get, and ultra feminine, and girly girly and all that, and she was nothing but drama and crazy, to the point where I'm still dealing with its flotsam and jetsam.
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