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Not being in the military or being the spouse of someone in the military, I'm not familiar with what life is like for military spouses. I first learned about 'Dependas' 'Dependapottomus' etc terms on SA. I was curious how much of it is for real and how much of it is exaggerating. Googling it gets interesting results; either blogs making fun of dependas or milspouse blogs talking about how horribly sexist the term and stereotype is. Are military spouses more likely to be stay at home parents? Are the less likely to have higher education themselves? A common claim seems to be that the spouse wraps up a lot of (her) identity in the career (and rank?) of the spouse. Is there some kind of hierarchy among military spouses?
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# ¿ Jan 11, 2016 01:33 |
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# ¿ Apr 27, 2024 23:11 |
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iyaayas01 posted:So before Shim responds (which I am anxiously awaiting with baited breath), here is the rational non-THC influenced answer: Thank you for this explanation. It is interesting seeing how extreme people's viewpoints are on the topic; after reading about it on SA I googled it and found a ton of ladyblogs complaining about how hurtful it is that people criticize, mock, or e-bully someone just because they are a military spouse. I often feel like the truth is somewhere in the middle, but for something like this it sounds pretty difficult.
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# ¿ Jan 11, 2016 02:59 |
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Do military wives establish a hierarchy amongst themselves based on their spouses rank? Is being married to a servicemember in any particular branch considered more/less reputable among them? Are there male equivalents to Dependas (do you use the masculine 'o' in that case? Depends?) Where some unemployed guy is mooching off his deployed wife and bragging about being married to a Marine or whatever? How is this considered by other military wives? Does this behavior happen in the civilian world, like the spouses of cops, sheriff's or firefighters? I mean the spouse of a politician is probably a given in many situations, but it would be funny if some honey dippers wife made some big deal about how important her husband's job is.
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# ¿ Jan 11, 2016 16:55 |
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Another question: Do Dependas extend to LBGT couples/spouses? Would a lesbian spouse of a female servicemember be accepted among their herd/flock/whatever you call a group of these women?
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# ¿ Jan 11, 2016 19:27 |
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How did a discussion about Dependas veer into dog buttholes?
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# ¿ Jan 14, 2016 17:35 |
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Booblord Zagats posted:Dependa's with no buttfingering expertise slashing dog anuses with press-on nails New thread title!
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# ¿ Jan 14, 2016 19:16 |
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Nostalgia4Murder posted:Who marries someone with 6 failed marriages? Some people just like being married for the sake of being married. Maybe the woman thought, "six other women wanted to spend their life with this guy, he must be worthwhile"?
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# ¿ Feb 18, 2016 14:03 |
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Wow, I didn't know these wives were so in line with rank . That's so bizarre to me; but then again I work a pretty ho hum civilian job that doesn't have spouses associating their role with being the spouse of an employee.
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# ¿ Feb 19, 2016 00:13 |
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# ¿ Apr 27, 2024 23:11 |
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So the male milspouses are either brain damaged or gay? What about husbands of officers? How rare is it for an enlisted guy to be married to a woman who is an officer?
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# ¿ Apr 29, 2016 03:26 |