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i like that
May 22, 2016

by FactsAreUseless
So tired of all the attractive men going for the 'Britneys' even though I am such a nice, intelligent girl who would respect them and never cheat or bbreak their heart...

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literally this big
Jan 10, 2007



Here comes
the Squirtle Squad!
How to deal with being an ugly chick:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RCX-mPstrPU

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
work out and have a sickhouse body

after that there's very little an expensive haircut and well done makeup can't handle

DrowningInDreams
Mar 13, 2009

Dilettante lizard
Just declare yourself to be a dragon obviously. Then you're on a different level.

Enfield
May 30, 2011

by Nyc_Tattoo
smell my rear end in a top hat

ClamdestineBoyster
Aug 15, 2015
Probation
Can't post for 10 years!
Repress your sexuality and become a cop and just rape people when you have a tactical advantage over them? :shrug:

Decebal
Jan 6, 2010
Get into the fanfiction community !

poverty goat
Feb 15, 2004



just remind yourself that you still probably pass better than lots of transwomen

Pollyanna
Mar 5, 2005

Milk's on them.


just remember: even if you're pretty on the outside, it doesn't matter if you're ugly on the inside

what im trying to say is ur hosed op

Theophany
Jul 22, 2014

SUCCHIAMI IL MIO CAZZO DA DIETRO, RANA RAGAZZO



2022 FIA Formula 1 WDC
cosplay those daddy issues out

The Protagonist
Jun 29, 2009

The average is 5.5? I thought it was 4. This is very unsettling.
crotchless latex gimpsuit will get you far

psychokitty
Jun 29, 2010

=9.9=
MEOW
BITCHES

Moridin920 posted:

work out and have a sickhouse body

then you be a butterface :saddowns:

The Protagonist
Jun 29, 2009

The average is 5.5? I thought it was 4. This is very unsettling.
the gimpsuit is basically a comfortable paper bag for your whole body

Edgar
Sep 9, 2005

Oh my heck!
Oh heavens!
Oh my lord!
OH Sweet meats!
Wedge Regret
Become Mormon and go to the singles ward in your area. You'll find a man. unless you are over the age of 25 and now a old maid, doomed to be single forever...forever..

Zorodius
Feb 11, 2007

EA GAMES' MASTERPIECE 'MADDEN 2018 G.O.A.T. EDITION' IS A GLORIOUS TRIUMPH OF ART AND TECHNOLOGY. IT BRINGS GAMEDAY RIGHT TO THE PLAYER AND WHOEVER SAYS OTHERWISE CAN, YOU GUESSED IT...
SUCK THE SHIT STRAIGHT OUT OF MY OWN ASSHOLE.

BUY IT.
weird fetish stuff makes a 3 into a 10

Captain Splashback
Jan 1, 2007

BY APPOINTMENT TO HER MAJESTY
QUEEN ELIZABETH II
SPLASHBACK HOLDINGS LTD
PUCKINS AND PRINTERS PURVEYORS
Change your sexual orientation, OP.

It worked for me!

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

psychokitty posted:

then you be a butterface :saddowns:

that's what the make up and nice haircut is for

unpacked robinhood
Feb 18, 2013

by Fluffdaddy
Are ugly chicks worst off than ugly men ?

Kirk Vikernes
Apr 26, 2004

Count Goatnackh

i like that posted:

So tired of all the attractive men going for the 'Britneys' even though I am such a nice, intelligent girl who would respect them and never cheat or bbreak their heart...

Let guys know you're down for anal. You'll be the one picking and choosing then.

Emmideer
Oct 20, 2011

Lovely night, no?
Grimey Drawer

unpacked robinhood posted:

Are ugly chicks worst off than ugly men ?

Nah man ugly chicks are invisible like legit real life super power that's awesome

Decebal
Jan 6, 2010
Get a nice collection of dildos&vibrators

Tolkien minority
Feb 14, 2012


unpacked robinhood posted:

Are ugly chicks worst off than ugly men ?

online dating sites seem to indicate towards no

Ride The Gravitron
May 2, 2008

by FactsAreUseless
It's a tough world out there… full of awkward first dates, bad sex and limited chances at orgasms.

 

Men now associate the dating landscape with the same risks many face going into the arctic tundra.

It's cold, uncomfortable and it’s more than likely that you'll die before getting that fire lit.

After years of bad trips and valuable packing lessons, we go in a little more prepared each time. We've learned tips, tricks and lessons that could only be experienced firsthand, quickly learning the scams, the women who are just trying to swindle you and certain places we will just never go again.



We've changed our clothes, hair and grooming styles to fit the destination, yet there's something we can't seem to change that's making the journey a treacherous hike. Something we can't hide and something we refuse to keep at home. Something we won't check at baggage claim or give up at customs.

Unfortunately, for men, niceness many times hinders our travels and keeps us from the promise land. Because, for all you bright and nice men out there, what you feel is real… nice guys are more likely to be single.

The popular saying “ignorance is bliss” doesn't exactly cover the broad spectrum of woes men feel as they sit alone Friday nights with no one to discuss Nietzsche or read lines from Proust with.

It doesn't assuage a man's pain as his parents ask where his girlfriend is and why he can't find a good woman.

The saying should be something closer to “Assholes get the girl and nice guys never feel bliss.”

But why is this? Why don't women want men with whom they can converse and who challenge them? When did the aversion to kind and nice guys become a code orange? When did everyone just want to go to the Bahamas and lie around?

In an article by “The Wire,” financial reporter, John Carney, gives one explanation for this phenomenon, deducing, “Women date less nice guys not because they want ‘men to be assholes, but rather because they want ‘someone who prioritizes their life in a way that's compatible with how you prioritize yours.’”

Basically, they want someone who isn't ever going to let his career come before making dinner and pleasing them first.

They want a man who is rear end in a top hat enough to make them a priority and, unfortunately, for all those sane, rational and nice guys out there, there's a hefty number of these men out there.

There are plenty of men who will give up their lives for women, who will refuse to challenge them, fight them and refuse to see them as their equals, but their saviors.

Then again, deciding what kind of man you are is like choosing between a rock and a hard place. If you're an rear end in a top hat, you're not taken seriously, but if you're nice guy, you’re taken too seriously. Men everywhere are flailing under this double-edged sword. A strong, rear end in a top hat male isn't desirable for his mind, and those with strong characters are seen as threatening, masculine and undesirable.

A study conducted with 121 British participants reported findings that males with high niceness in male/female relationships were seen as problematic.

Their intelligence were predicted to cause problems in the relationships. Whereas, high niceness in the female partner was not seen as problematic, but desirable.

These cultural stereotypes and gender biases are inhibiting men from being seen as equals. Rational and nice guys are being ignored and chastised for their intelligence.

Those men who teach you, show you and help you grow are being picked over, combed through and dumped for guys with shirts that show a little too much skin and sports cars.

Of course there are plenty of men out there with girlfriends who are intelligent. This is not to come at men with girlfriends, but to assuage that nagging, pestering pain all nice guys feel as women continually take them out to dinner, have a great time then decide they’re not worth the work.

First really is the worst

There's an epidemic of settling in this generation. Men everywhere are dipping far below their standards just to find women who appreciate them. They are giving up things they thought they wanted for nothing more than a simple “She's good to me.”

Where's the woman who was supposed to challenge you and understand you? Where's the man who was supposed to shock you and support you?

In an article by “The Daily Mail,” Minister of Universities David Willetts asserts, “Nice guys will have to 'marry down' by choosing partners less qualified than them – and may increasingly select women based on how supportive they might be to their careers, rather than whether they can support them sexually.”

Judging from the notion that female egos aren't deflating at the same rate at which men are increasing their education, there's an uneven scale here. men are getting nicer, but women aren't getting more supportive.

Most people like to be the better one in the relationship. Women have been taught or conditioned to believe they are superior, when a man shows a nice edge, she becomes threatened.

The number of nice men now outweighs the number of nice women, which in turn has diminished options in the dating pool. Women aren't ready to accept being second in the nice competition and this is causing men to either settle or stay single.

You forget to eat the whole cake

Intelligence breeds ambition, which breeds neglect. Neglect for love, girlfriends and years spent pursuing that MRS Degree. Neglect in college, focusing on studies rather than finding a girl and neglect at work, refusing to spend nights out at bars and clubs.

Unfortunately, for all those men who thought a woman would come later, other men capitalized on their youth, snatching up all the girlfriends and wives while they focused on building their careers.

Men went into college with an intent to come out husbands, slowly but steadily snatching up the number of available women for all those men who chose to attack their professional dreams.

This phenomenon only increases as men leave college. Becoming frustrated with their lack of love and work harder in achieving professional success to fill the void. Dr. Alex Banner of “The Huffington Post” explains that men are compensating for their unsuccessful dating careers with successful professional careers, and it's only widening the gap.

Big minds are like big balls

You may be sensitive, sweet and insecure, but your intelligence makes you threatening. You may not have muscles and a big d*ck, but women will look at you as competition.

You are intimidating and emasculating. While most nice guys aren't pompous or arrogant about it, many times women assume they are. They assume the man is going to correct them, upstage them or, God-forbid, make them feel worthless.

In an article published by “The Daily Beast,” Dr. Eileen Pollack explains, “There are all these contradictions that are propagated in our culture that make it seem like you can't be nice and sexy. I don't think most of us challenge the paradigms, we just absorb them.”

If a man seems too smart or nice, he's typecast as “non-dating material.” If he's loyal and supportive, he's viewed as challenging and overbearing.

Society has come to teach men that being kind and nice won't get you dates, but empty heads and shallow hearts.

i like that
May 22, 2016

by FactsAreUseless

ClamdestineBoyster posted:

Repress your sexuality and become a cop and just rape people when you have a tactical advantage over them? :shrug:
I'm a gentle soul

The Goatfather posted:

just remind yourself that you still probably pass better than lots of transwomen
Some men at least have a fetish for transwomen; nobody has a fetish for ugly women

Pollyanna posted:

just remember: even if you're pretty on the outside, it doesn't matter if you're ugly on the inside

what im trying to say is ur hosed op
Ya

ANIME IS BLOOD
Sep 4, 2008

by zen death robot

Volume posted:

It's a tough world out there… full of awkward first dates, bad sex and limited chances at orgasms.

 

Men now associate the dating landscape with the same risks many face going into the arctic tundra.

It's cold, uncomfortable and it’s more than likely that you'll die before getting that fire lit.

After years of bad trips and valuable packing lessons, we go in a little more prepared each time. We've learned tips, tricks and lessons that could only be experienced firsthand, quickly learning the scams, the women who are just trying to swindle you and certain places we will just never go again.



We've changed our clothes, hair and grooming styles to fit the destination, yet there's something we can't seem to change that's making the journey a treacherous hike. Something we can't hide and something we refuse to keep at home. Something we won't check at baggage claim or give up at customs.

Unfortunately, for men, niceness many times hinders our travels and keeps us from the promise land. Because, for all you bright and nice men out there, what you feel is real… nice guys are more likely to be single.

The popular saying “ignorance is bliss” doesn't exactly cover the broad spectrum of woes men feel as they sit alone Friday nights with no one to discuss Nietzsche or read lines from Proust with.

It doesn't assuage a man's pain as his parents ask where his girlfriend is and why he can't find a good woman.

The saying should be something closer to “Assholes get the girl and nice guys never feel bliss.”

But why is this? Why don't women want men with whom they can converse and who challenge them? When did the aversion to kind and nice guys become a code orange? When did everyone just want to go to the Bahamas and lie around?

In an article by “The Wire,” financial reporter, John Carney, gives one explanation for this phenomenon, deducing, “Women date less nice guys not because they want ‘men to be assholes, but rather because they want ‘someone who prioritizes their life in a way that's compatible with how you prioritize yours.’”

Basically, they want someone who isn't ever going to let his career come before making dinner and pleasing them first.

They want a man who is rear end in a top hat enough to make them a priority and, unfortunately, for all those sane, rational and nice guys out there, there's a hefty number of these men out there.

There are plenty of men who will give up their lives for women, who will refuse to challenge them, fight them and refuse to see them as their equals, but their saviors.

Then again, deciding what kind of man you are is like choosing between a rock and a hard place. If you're an rear end in a top hat, you're not taken seriously, but if you're nice guy, you’re taken too seriously. Men everywhere are flailing under this double-edged sword. A strong, rear end in a top hat male isn't desirable for his mind, and those with strong characters are seen as threatening, masculine and undesirable.

A study conducted with 121 British participants reported findings that males with high niceness in male/female relationships were seen as problematic.

Their intelligence were predicted to cause problems in the relationships. Whereas, high niceness in the female partner was not seen as problematic, but desirable.

These cultural stereotypes and gender biases are inhibiting men from being seen as equals. Rational and nice guys are being ignored and chastised for their intelligence.

Those men who teach you, show you and help you grow are being picked over, combed through and dumped for guys with shirts that show a little too much skin and sports cars.

Of course there are plenty of men out there with girlfriends who are intelligent. This is not to come at men with girlfriends, but to assuage that nagging, pestering pain all nice guys feel as women continually take them out to dinner, have a great time then decide they’re not worth the work.

First really is the worst

There's an epidemic of settling in this generation. Men everywhere are dipping far below their standards just to find women who appreciate them. They are giving up things they thought they wanted for nothing more than a simple “She's good to me.”

Where's the woman who was supposed to challenge you and understand you? Where's the man who was supposed to shock you and support you?

In an article by “The Daily Mail,” Minister of Universities David Willetts asserts, “Nice guys will have to 'marry down' by choosing partners less qualified than them – and may increasingly select women based on how supportive they might be to their careers, rather than whether they can support them sexually.”

Judging from the notion that female egos aren't deflating at the same rate at which men are increasing their education, there's an uneven scale here. men are getting nicer, but women aren't getting more supportive.

Most people like to be the better one in the relationship. Women have been taught or conditioned to believe they are superior, when a man shows a nice edge, she becomes threatened.

The number of nice men now outweighs the number of nice women, which in turn has diminished options in the dating pool. Women aren't ready to accept being second in the nice competition and this is causing men to either settle or stay single.

You forget to eat the whole cake

Intelligence breeds ambition, which breeds neglect. Neglect for love, girlfriends and years spent pursuing that MRS Degree. Neglect in college, focusing on studies rather than finding a girl and neglect at work, refusing to spend nights out at bars and clubs.

Unfortunately, for all those men who thought a woman would come later, other men capitalized on their youth, snatching up all the girlfriends and wives while they focused on building their careers.

Men went into college with an intent to come out husbands, slowly but steadily snatching up the number of available women for all those men who chose to attack their professional dreams.

This phenomenon only increases as men leave college. Becoming frustrated with their lack of love and work harder in achieving professional success to fill the void. Dr. Alex Banner of “The Huffington Post” explains that men are compensating for their unsuccessful dating careers with successful professional careers, and it's only widening the gap.

Big minds are like big balls

You may be sensitive, sweet and insecure, but your intelligence makes you threatening. You may not have muscles and a big d*ck, but women will look at you as competition.

You are intimidating and emasculating. While most nice guys aren't pompous or arrogant about it, many times women assume they are. They assume the man is going to correct them, upstage them or, God-forbid, make them feel worthless.

In an article published by “The Daily Beast,” Dr. Eileen Pollack explains, “There are all these contradictions that are propagated in our culture that make it seem like you can't be nice and sexy. I don't think most of us challenge the paradigms, we just absorb them.”

If a man seems too smart or nice, he's typecast as “non-dating material.” If he's loyal and supportive, he's viewed as challenging and overbearing.

Society has come to teach men that being kind and nice won't get you dates, but empty heads and shallow hearts.

source your quotes

i like that posted:

I'm a gentle soul

would you say you're... a nice girl :grin:

Ride The Gravitron
May 2, 2008

by FactsAreUseless

ANIME IS BLOOD posted:

source your quotes




http://elitedaily.com/women/intelligent-women-likely-single/678309/

i like that
May 22, 2016

by FactsAreUseless
Thanks for that stupidass article that has nothing to do with my thread Volume, you pos

client
Aug 19, 2010

for real there doesn't a woman on this planet too ugly for someone in the military to want to gently caress

ClamdestineBoyster
Aug 15, 2015
Probation
Can't post for 10 years!

i like that posted:

I'm a gentle soul

Some men at least have a fetish for transwomen; nobody has a fetish for ugly women

Ya

Oh, my soul is like sandpaper and rusty bars or some poo poo. :shrug:

Dreddout
Oct 1, 2015

You must stay drunk on writing so reality cannot destroy you.

Volume posted:

It's a tough world out there… full of awkward first dates, bad sex and limited chances at orgasms.

 

Men now associate the dating landscape with the same risks many face going into the arctic tundra.

It's cold, uncomfortable and it’s more than likely that you'll die before getting that fire lit.

After years of bad trips and valuable packing lessons, we go in a little more prepared each time. We've learned tips, tricks and lessons that could only be experienced firsthand, quickly learning the scams, the women who are just trying to swindle you and certain places we will just never go again.



We've changed our clothes, hair and grooming styles to fit the destination, yet there's something we can't seem to change that's making the journey a treacherous hike. Something we can't hide and something we refuse to keep at home. Something we won't check at baggage claim or give up at customs.

Unfortunately, for men, niceness many times hinders our travels and keeps us from the promise land. Because, for all you bright and nice men out there, what you feel is real… nice guys are more likely to be single.

The popular saying “ignorance is bliss” doesn't exactly cover the broad spectrum of woes men feel as they sit alone Friday nights with no one to discuss Nietzsche or read lines from Proust with.

It doesn't assuage a man's pain as his parents ask where his girlfriend is and why he can't find a good woman.

The saying should be something closer to “Assholes get the girl and nice guys never feel bliss.”

But why is this? Why don't women want men with whom they can converse and who challenge them? When did the aversion to kind and nice guys become a code orange? When did everyone just want to go to the Bahamas and lie around?

In an article by “The Wire,” financial reporter, John Carney, gives one explanation for this phenomenon, deducing, “Women date less nice guys not because they want ‘men to be assholes, but rather because they want ‘someone who prioritizes their life in a way that's compatible with how you prioritize yours.’”

Basically, they want someone who isn't ever going to let his career come before making dinner and pleasing them first.

They want a man who is rear end in a top hat enough to make them a priority and, unfortunately, for all those sane, rational and nice guys out there, there's a hefty number of these men out there.

There are plenty of men who will give up their lives for women, who will refuse to challenge them, fight them and refuse to see them as their equals, but their saviors.

Then again, deciding what kind of man you are is like choosing between a rock and a hard place. If you're an rear end in a top hat, you're not taken seriously, but if you're nice guy, you’re taken too seriously. Men everywhere are flailing under this double-edged sword. A strong, rear end in a top hat male isn't desirable for his mind, and those with strong characters are seen as threatening, masculine and undesirable.

A study conducted with 121 British participants reported findings that males with high niceness in male/female relationships were seen as problematic.

Their intelligence were predicted to cause problems in the relationships. Whereas, high niceness in the female partner was not seen as problematic, but desirable.

These cultural stereotypes and gender biases are inhibiting men from being seen as equals. Rational and nice guys are being ignored and chastised for their intelligence.

Those men who teach you, show you and help you grow are being picked over, combed through and dumped for guys with shirts that show a little too much skin and sports cars.

Of course there are plenty of men out there with girlfriends who are intelligent. This is not to come at men with girlfriends, but to assuage that nagging, pestering pain all nice guys feel as women continually take them out to dinner, have a great time then decide they’re not worth the work.

First really is the worst

There's an epidemic of settling in this generation. Men everywhere are dipping far below their standards just to find women who appreciate them. They are giving up things they thought they wanted for nothing more than a simple “She's good to me.”

Where's the woman who was supposed to challenge you and understand you? Where's the man who was supposed to shock you and support you?

In an article by “The Daily Mail,” Minister of Universities David Willetts asserts, “Nice guys will have to 'marry down' by choosing partners less qualified than them – and may increasingly select women based on how supportive they might be to their careers, rather than whether they can support them sexually.”

Judging from the notion that female egos aren't deflating at the same rate at which men are increasing their education, there's an uneven scale here. men are getting nicer, but women aren't getting more supportive.

Most people like to be the better one in the relationship. Women have been taught or conditioned to believe they are superior, when a man shows a nice edge, she becomes threatened.

The number of nice men now outweighs the number of nice women, which in turn has diminished options in the dating pool. Women aren't ready to accept being second in the nice competition and this is causing men to either settle or stay single.

You forget to eat the whole cake

Intelligence breeds ambition, which breeds neglect. Neglect for love, girlfriends and years spent pursuing that MRS Degree. Neglect in college, focusing on studies rather than finding a girl and neglect at work, refusing to spend nights out at bars and clubs.

Unfortunately, for all those men who thought a woman would come later, other men capitalized on their youth, snatching up all the girlfriends and wives while they focused on building their careers.

Men went into college with an intent to come out husbands, slowly but steadily snatching up the number of available women for all those men who chose to attack their professional dreams.

This phenomenon only increases as men leave college. Becoming frustrated with their lack of love and work harder in achieving professional success to fill the void. Dr. Alex Banner of “The Huffington Post” explains that men are compensating for their unsuccessful dating careers with successful professional careers, and it's only widening the gap.

Big minds are like big balls

You may be sensitive, sweet and insecure, but your intelligence makes you threatening. You may not have muscles and a big d*ck, but women will look at you as competition.

You are intimidating and emasculating. While most nice guys aren't pompous or arrogant about it, many times women assume they are. They assume the man is going to correct them, upstage them or, God-forbid, make them feel worthless.

In an article published by “The Daily Beast,” Dr. Eileen Pollack explains, “There are all these contradictions that are propagated in our culture that make it seem like you can't be nice and sexy. I don't think most of us challenge the paradigms, we just absorb them.”

If a man seems too smart or nice, he's typecast as “non-dating material.” If he's loyal and supportive, he's viewed as challenging and overbearing.

Society has come to teach men that being kind and nice won't get you dates, but empty heads and shallow hearts.

I didn't read this poo poo, but :same:

Meme Poker Party
Sep 1, 2006

by Azathoth

Volume posted:

It's a tough world out there… full of awkward first dates, bad sex and limited chances at orgasms.

 

Men now associate the dating landscape with the same risks many face going into the arctic tundra.

It's cold, uncomfortable and it’s more than likely that you'll die before getting that fire lit.

After years of bad trips and valuable packing lessons, we go in a little more prepared each time. We've learned tips, tricks and lessons that could only be experienced firsthand, quickly learning the scams, the women who are just trying to swindle you and certain places we will just never go again.



We've changed our clothes, hair and grooming styles to fit the destination, yet there's something we can't seem to change that's making the journey a treacherous hike. Something we can't hide and something we refuse to keep at home. Something we won't check at baggage claim or give up at customs.

Unfortunately, for men, niceness many times hinders our travels and keeps us from the promise land. Because, for all you bright and nice men out there, what you feel is real… nice guys are more likely to be single.

The popular saying “ignorance is bliss” doesn't exactly cover the broad spectrum of woes men feel as they sit alone Friday nights with no one to discuss Nietzsche or read lines from Proust with.

It doesn't assuage a man's pain as his parents ask where his girlfriend is and why he can't find a good woman.

The saying should be something closer to “Assholes get the girl and nice guys never feel bliss.”

But why is this? Why don't women want men with whom they can converse and who challenge them? When did the aversion to kind and nice guys become a code orange? When did everyone just want to go to the Bahamas and lie around?

In an article by “The Wire,” financial reporter, John Carney, gives one explanation for this phenomenon, deducing, “Women date less nice guys not because they want ‘men to be assholes, but rather because they want ‘someone who prioritizes their life in a way that's compatible with how you prioritize yours.’”

Basically, they want someone who isn't ever going to let his career come before making dinner and pleasing them first.

They want a man who is rear end in a top hat enough to make them a priority and, unfortunately, for all those sane, rational and nice guys out there, there's a hefty number of these men out there.

There are plenty of men who will give up their lives for women, who will refuse to challenge them, fight them and refuse to see them as their equals, but their saviors.

Then again, deciding what kind of man you are is like choosing between a rock and a hard place. If you're an rear end in a top hat, you're not taken seriously, but if you're nice guy, you’re taken too seriously. Men everywhere are flailing under this double-edged sword. A strong, rear end in a top hat male isn't desirable for his mind, and those with strong characters are seen as threatening, masculine and undesirable.

A study conducted with 121 British participants reported findings that males with high niceness in male/female relationships were seen as problematic.

Their intelligence were predicted to cause problems in the relationships. Whereas, high niceness in the female partner was not seen as problematic, but desirable.

These cultural stereotypes and gender biases are inhibiting men from being seen as equals. Rational and nice guys are being ignored and chastised for their intelligence.

Those men who teach you, show you and help you grow are being picked over, combed through and dumped for guys with shirts that show a little too much skin and sports cars.

Of course there are plenty of men out there with girlfriends who are intelligent. This is not to come at men with girlfriends, but to assuage that nagging, pestering pain all nice guys feel as women continually take them out to dinner, have a great time then decide they’re not worth the work.

First really is the worst

There's an epidemic of settling in this generation. Men everywhere are dipping far below their standards just to find women who appreciate them. They are giving up things they thought they wanted for nothing more than a simple “She's good to me.”

Where's the woman who was supposed to challenge you and understand you? Where's the man who was supposed to shock you and support you?

In an article by “The Daily Mail,” Minister of Universities David Willetts asserts, “Nice guys will have to 'marry down' by choosing partners less qualified than them – and may increasingly select women based on how supportive they might be to their careers, rather than whether they can support them sexually.”

Judging from the notion that female egos aren't deflating at the same rate at which men are increasing their education, there's an uneven scale here. men are getting nicer, but women aren't getting more supportive.

Most people like to be the better one in the relationship. Women have been taught or conditioned to believe they are superior, when a man shows a nice edge, she becomes threatened.

The number of nice men now outweighs the number of nice women, which in turn has diminished options in the dating pool. Women aren't ready to accept being second in the nice competition and this is causing men to either settle or stay single.

You forget to eat the whole cake

Intelligence breeds ambition, which breeds neglect. Neglect for love, girlfriends and years spent pursuing that MRS Degree. Neglect in college, focusing on studies rather than finding a girl and neglect at work, refusing to spend nights out at bars and clubs.

Unfortunately, for all those men who thought a woman would come later, other men capitalized on their youth, snatching up all the girlfriends and wives while they focused on building their careers.

Men went into college with an intent to come out husbands, slowly but steadily snatching up the number of available women for all those men who chose to attack their professional dreams.

This phenomenon only increases as men leave college. Becoming frustrated with their lack of love and work harder in achieving professional success to fill the void. Dr. Alex Banner of “The Huffington Post” explains that men are compensating for their unsuccessful dating careers with successful professional careers, and it's only widening the gap.

Big minds are like big balls

You may be sensitive, sweet and insecure, but your intelligence makes you threatening. You may not have muscles and a big d*ck, but women will look at you as competition.

You are intimidating and emasculating. While most nice guys aren't pompous or arrogant about it, many times women assume they are. They assume the man is going to correct them, upstage them or, God-forbid, make them feel worthless.

In an article published by “The Daily Beast,” Dr. Eileen Pollack explains, “There are all these contradictions that are propagated in our culture that make it seem like you can't be nice and sexy. I don't think most of us challenge the paradigms, we just absorb them.”

If a man seems too smart or nice, he's typecast as “non-dating material.” If he's loyal and supportive, he's viewed as challenging and overbearing.

Society has come to teach men that being kind and nice won't get you dates, but empty heads and shallow hearts.

:same:

i like that
May 22, 2016

by FactsAreUseless

client posted:

for real there doesn't a woman on this planet too ugly for someone in the military to want to gently caress

Hmm dont wanna get attacked or murdered in a ptsd freakout rage. Also I wanna be more than hosed..... thanks though

raton
Jul 28, 2003

by FactsAreUseless

psychokitty posted:

then you be a butterface :saddowns:

Eh, good enough

raton
Jul 28, 2003

by FactsAreUseless
Be a good person that is nice to be around aka betray the other members of your sex

Like Seathe the Scaleless

I'm a catch ladies

ANIME IS BLOOD
Sep 4, 2008

by zen death robot

i like that posted:

Hmm dont wanna get attacked or murdered in a ptsd freakout rage. Also I wanna be more than hosed..... thanks though

the feminine equivalent of "no fat chicks" eh

ClamdestineBoyster
Aug 15, 2015
Probation
Can't post for 10 years!

i like that posted:

Hmm dont wanna get attacked or murdered in a ptsd freakout rage. Also I wanna be more than hosed..... thanks though

Not.. Not... Loved? :smith:

unpacked robinhood
Feb 18, 2013

by Fluffdaddy
Get a quirky hobby, a weird fetish and a fet life account

Vaginal Vagrant
Jan 12, 2007

by R. Guyovich

unpacked robinhood posted:

Get a quirky hobby, a weird fetish and a fet life account

How is my collection of shrunken heads going to help?

DiHK
Feb 4, 2013

by Azathoth
Just be slutty OP. PM me your phone number.

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Linux Pirate
Apr 21, 2012


At least you can get away with blatantly farting in public :shrug:

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