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When I broke up with my first girlfriend 12 years ago, she told her parents and all our friends that I was an rear end in a top hat who was really interested in her 1 year younger sister and was just using her (which is true, but not at first). She has reached out multiple times asking to talk again and go back to being friends as long as I admit it and apologize. I would like to be friends again but if I admit it then I have to tell everyone I've been lying for over a decade and that just won't do, so my plan is to continue not speaking to them ever again.
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# ¿ May 16, 2018 09:29 |
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# ¿ Apr 26, 2024 23:51 |
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gary oldmans diary posted:lmao once again i look down my nose at those poor saps who have sex you're right it's really not worth the hassle
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# ¿ May 16, 2018 10:04 |
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discarded box posted:i think being stubborn is lame and ive made it a huge point to stop trying to "win" arguments, mostly by not so much arguing as calmly debating and I think being able to admit you're wrong when you are is important calmly debating isn't possible with some people. It always escalates. Like if someone in my family says to my grandfather something even mildly complimentary about Obama he instantly escalates into "what the gently caress did you just say you little poo poo" mode. If you try to keep it calm he accuses you of thinking you're smarter than him which makes him more mad.
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# ¿ May 16, 2018 14:40 |
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Dyna Soar posted:why are you talking to a person like this at all Because I like holiday dinners.
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# ¿ May 16, 2018 15:03 |
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Dyna Soar posted:be sure not to mention anything that your rear end in a top hat granddad might disagree with then I learned that years ago. My other family members are more stubborn than I am about being "right" about politics and bring Obama up all the time just to antagonize him. It's actually pretty entertaining entertaining to sit on the sidelines and listen to, plus they are probably going to get written out of his will if they keep it up which means more for me.
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# ¿ May 16, 2018 15:27 |