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This is the ideal outcome tbh.
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When I talked about why a dog would be easy to tell I listed some very measurable characteristics that vary between every single dog. I feel like the cat people are coming from "well my cat hangs out in the kitchen at dinner time and hides when people visit and comes to bother me around 7" It might be possible to spot some fakes or intuit something is wrong, but I think you're all way underestimating how much you'd just feel like something was "off" about your pet without realizing they were actually different, especially if an SO gaslit you about it.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 15:51 |
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Then the same is true for dogs. This argument sucks.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 15:52 |
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Prince and the Pawpurr
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 15:53 |
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^^^ yeah the double standard stupidity is fuckin amazing, lmfao; referencing Dr. Lunchablesikanreed posted:When I talked about why a dog would be easy to tell I listed some very measurable characteristics that vary between every single dog. Yeah you should really stop talking, you obviously know nothing about cats, as made obvious by your stereotypes about them
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 15:53 |
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Cat people: dogs are kind of dumb and they roll around in all kinds of disgusting poo poo Dog people: cats are incapable of love
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 15:57 |
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The interchangeability of cats is off to a hot start to become the threads next forbidden topic.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 15:57 |
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Bug Squash posted:The interchangeability of cats is off to a hot start to become the threads next forbidden topic. Dogs are a sandwich, but cats are a taco.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 15:59 |
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It does depend on the cat and owner though. Like 95% of cat-owner combinations it wouldn't be possible, but if you get the right combination of a skitty/anti-social cat that doesn't spend much time with the owner, very simple/common markings (say all black or wild-type tabby), a full-sibling living in the same area, and maybe a multi-cat household where each individual cat is more or less left to it's own devices it could definitely happen OTOH, the same is probably true of dogs to some degree, if you have six untrained pugs or some other stranger-friendly breed, or a pack of aloof hard to train dogs like huskies you could well fail to notice if one of them was swapped out for a sibling or similarly related dog (in some breeds, any other member of that breed is the genetic equivalent of a sibling; inbreeding is a heck of a thing).
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:03 |
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Johnny Truant posted:^^^^^^ yup especially after a year of lockdown
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:03 |
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ikanreed posted:When I talked about why a dog would be easy to tell I listed some very measurable characteristics that vary between every single dog. Every night at bed time my cat jumps onto the bed, nuzzles my face and flumps against my body for stroking. He also likes lying on my lap in a very particular way, with my hand arranged just so. Animals are ridiculously distinctive not just in appearance but also behaviours. If you have lived with an animal and are not aware of this then you are remarkably unobservant.
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therattle posted:Every night at bed time my cat jumps onto the bed, nuzzles my face and flumps against my body for stroking. He also likes lying on my lap in a very particular way, with my hand arranged just so. Animals are ridiculously distinctive not just in appearance but also behaviours. If you have lived with an animal and are not aware of this then you are remarkably unobservant. My sister has two identical black cats, siblings from the same litter. They're very easy to tell apart. One will relentlessly attack any bare feet but is happy to let you pet her anywhere. The other will only let you pet her in one particular room of the house.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:05 |
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Just lol if you don’t have your cat’s unique “feed me” cry seared into your brain.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:13 |
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No cat owner has ever been visually or cognitively impaired in history, so the personal experiences of the thread's cat fans are universally transferable.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:15 |
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You couldn't even replace one of my pet rats without me noticing, let alone my cat
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:15 |
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Cythereal posted:The other will only let you pet her in one particular room of the house. Brb, designating and furnishing a Petatorium
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:16 |
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Beachcomber posted:Brb, designating and furnishing a Petatorium Hope you asked your housemate first
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:18 |
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Dazerbeams posted:Just lol if you don’t have your cat’s unique “feed me”
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:18 |
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Bug Squash posted:No cat owner has ever been visually or cognitively impaired in history, so the personal experiences of the thread's cat fans are universally transferable. there are people who can't tell their *kids* apart
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:20 |
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Bug Squash posted:No cat owner has ever been visually or cognitively impaired in history, so the personal experiences of the thread's cat fans are universally transferable. you're cognitively impaired if you think people with actual disabilities are what the guy who thinks it's reasonable to not be able to tell cats apart but insane that anyone would mistake one dog for another was talking about
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:31 |
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My [26m] partner [28f] of 4 years didn't come home one night and have had minimal contact for a month. Refusing to tell me if we are breaking up or not.quote:tl:dr Serious relationship possibly ending but she refuses to actually tell me anything. At a loss as to what's next.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:35 |
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ben shapino posted:you're cognitively impaired if you think people with actual disabilities are what the guy who thinks it's reasonable to not be able to tell cats apart but insane that anyone would mistake one dog for another was talking about I love this sentence.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:38 |
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AITA for giving away a dog my sister gave me and refusing to pay her back?quote:The last few months have been the hardest of my life. I (29M) lost my wife over 5 months ago and I still struggle everyday, missing her, grieving our baby (she was 2 months pregnant), and just trying to hang on when I wake up in the mornings .
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:39 |
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Oh cool fifty new posts I wonder what sort of dram-
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:40 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [26m] partner [28f] of 4 years didn't come home one night and have had minimal contact for a month. Refusing to tell me if we are breaking up or not. Probably needs to take the hint that his girlfriend is done with him/probably relapsing and start excising her from his life. "I need space" doesn't usually involve leaving all of your stuff behind, getting a new job, and moving to an undisclosed location. That's witness protection program.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:44 |
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house of the dad posted:Probably needs to take the hint that his girlfriend is done with him/probably relapsing and start excising her from his life. "I need space" doesn't usually involve leaving all of your stuff behind, getting a new job, and moving to an undisclosed location. That's witness protection program. He's the second in her string of abusive relationships but playing the sympathy card for reddit. hth
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [26m] partner [28f] of 4 years didn't come home one night and have had minimal contact for a month. Refusing to tell me if we are breaking up or not. I get really bad vibes from this guy's post like he's really controlling and likes her because she's "damaged" and he wants to be savior type. I'm guessing the "I said some things I will always regret" was this coming to the surface in a very obvious way. Combine that with his very stalkerish way of tracking her down and I think it's clear this guy has problems. Her wanting 0 contact from him for weeks is obviously her breaking up with him. At the same time, someone having to quit methadone cold turkey and completely disappearing would be pretty worrying, but I think it's obvious this guy is probably the wrong person to be "help" her in this situation.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:51 |
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Motronic posted:He's the second in her string of abusive relationships but playing the sympathy card for reddit. hth And you're basing this on... what exactly?
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Oh cool fifty new posts I wonder what sort of dram- To be fair that applies to pretty much any spike in posts.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:51 |
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house of the dad posted:And you're basing this on... what exactly? His post, which demonstrates he's a controlling stalker with boundary issues. Remember, this is the best version of himself he's able to present, and it still looks really sketchy.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:54 |
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Oh cool fifty new posts I wonder what sort of dram- WE'VE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR YOU CAN YOU TELL CATS APART OR NOT? wilderthanmild posted:I get really bad vibes from this guy's post like he's really controlling and likes her because she's "damaged" and he wants to be savior type. I'm guessing the "I said some things I will always regret" was this coming to the surface in a very obvious way. Combine that with his very stalkerish way of tracking her down and I think it's clear this guy has problems. Her wanting 0 contact from him for weeks is obviously her breaking up with him. Sanford fucked around with this message at 17:00 on Mar 2, 2021 |
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Motronic posted:His post, which demonstrates he's a controlling stalker with boundary issues. Remember, this is the best version of himself he's able to present, and it still looks really sketchy. Not... really?
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 16:58 |
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Motronic posted:His post, which demonstrates he's a controlling stalker with boundary issues. Remember, this is the best version of himself he's able to present, and it still looks really sketchy. Lol
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 17:02 |
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I don't really know what you guys expect from a person when their partner of four years up and vanishes into thin air, leaving all of their stuff behind and 0 explanation of what's going on. She's a person with a history of traumatic abuse and drug addiction so it sounds like somebody an effort should be made to locate instead of "well I better respect these boundaries." Leaping immediately to "he must be abusing her" or that he's a crazy stalker is extreme and has very little to do with what he actually posted. It's sketchy leaps in logic and reading between the lines.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 17:04 |
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Beachcomber posted:Dogs are a sandwich, but cats are a taco. gently caress outta here, cats are pizza Sanford posted:WE'VE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR YOU ahh, i see you've played catty-doggy before
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 17:04 |
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Motronic posted:His post, which demonstrates he's a controlling stalker with boundary issues. Remember, this is the best version of himself he's able to present, and it still looks really sketchy. Wanting to get in contact with your partner of four years who disappeared on you like a puff of smoke after events that could obviously be affecting their mental health and decision-making is stalking now? Would you really just go "well I guess that's that!"
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 17:06 |
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Sanford posted:WE'VE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR YOU I have three cats and would easily be able to tell if they were lookalikes. That said being a crazy cat person, I'm probably extremely biased. Dogs all looks like identical misshapen clay blobs, so I totally get that guy's wife being suspicious he swapped them out. Also agree with dad ^^^ here. Three month relationship? Possible serial killer stalking behavior. Four years? I think I might do something similar, especially if there was the possibility my spouse had relapsed.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 17:06 |
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Beachcomber posted:Maybe I should try some of my wife's expired adderall and see what happens. idk if this is supposed to be humor but for the love of gently caress please do not take other peoples’ medicine, and do not take expired meds either, nor a combination of the two. Some folks with ADHD (like moi) can’t take stimulants because it worsens other conditions. Meds also degrade so they end up less effective.
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# ? Mar 2, 2021 17:09 |
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They had a fight, at which point she left and all attempts to contact her have been met with "kindly gently caress off." Basically the only sticking point is that she still hasn't bothered to go back to get her stuff yet, but it seems pretty clear she broke up with him and he isn't able to accept that in anything approaching a healthy way.
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house of the dad posted:I don't really know what you guys expect from a person when their partner of four years up and vanishes into thin air, leaving all of their stuff behind and 0 explanation of what's going on. She's a person with a history of traumatic abuse and drug addiction so it sounds like somebody an effort should be made to locate instead of "well I better respect these boundaries." Leaping immediately to "he must be abusing her" or that he's a crazy stalker is extreme and has very little to do with what he actually posted. It's sketchy leaps in logic and reading between the lines. No no no you see you need to understand the vibe of the thread. All OP's are insanely evil people with something to hide. If your partner of 4 years just vanishes then you just move on with your life and make no attempt to find them. Just beep boop erase that person from your memory.
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