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spouse posted:Content: Odds are extremely high that he’s already seeing her for some one on one sessions or he’s brought that up to her.
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ShootaBoy posted:Children are not fully grown adults, and customary flowers are far different than seeking out even a cheap item of clothing specifically for one half of a client pair. sure, I was answering the "any" generalization, not this specific incident and stated as much in my post.
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# ? May 16, 2021 10:50 |
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WIBTA if I asked my sister to move out?quote:My sister (21F) is in college. She works as an RA so she lives with me for the summer and has for the past three years. Well, I’m (32F) a lot more mature than her in the sense that I have three kids (2F, 5M, 9M), am renting a house, and I’ve been married and divorced. My sister moved back about a week and a half ago and the kids— as they always are when they see their aunt— are just head over heels for her. My sister loves hanging out with the kids, but she does have a boyfriend whose place she sleeps over at a few nights a week, she does go over to her friend’s house, and she does have a summer job. This would be fine if the kids didn’t find it so upsetting. Now every night, they expect to be tucked in by both me and their aunt. If this doesn’t happen, then they throw a fit. When my sister leaves to go with her friends or work at her summer job, they throw a fit. It’s becoming a disruption because once one kid gets upset about it, the rest of them do as well.
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# ? May 16, 2021 11:16 |
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That can't be real, right?
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# ? May 16, 2021 11:18 |
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She has tattoos man. Bet you aren’t thinking of the children one bit
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# ? May 16, 2021 11:20 |
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Help your sister with her Eating Disorder you loving poo poo
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# ? May 16, 2021 11:34 |
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Evil Willow posted:WIBTA if I asked my sister to move out? love the people who use the fact they have kids as proof they are more "mature" then others.
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# ? May 16, 2021 11:34 |
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My (23F) friend (26F) has evidently bought thousands of fake followers for her instagram and is maintaining an alternate reality in which she has become an instagram influencer. We are concerned about her mental health and don't know how to approach this. Advice appreciated.quote:
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# ? May 16, 2021 12:33 |
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Evil Willow posted:WIBTA if I asked my sister to move out? They saw them kiss?!?!?!? Jesus Christ, won't she think of the innocent children?
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# ? May 16, 2021 12:46 |
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The kids heard her having an erectile dysfunction in the bathroom?
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teen witch posted:My (23F) friend (26F) has evidently bought thousands of fake followers for her instagram and is maintaining an alternate reality in which she has become an instagram influencer. We are concerned about her mental health and don't know how to approach this. Advice appreciated. Obvious answer is to buy even more fake followers and then give lovely and condescending advice until your friend stops talking to you. How do these idiots not understand that escalation is always the answer?
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# ? May 16, 2021 12:58 |
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British comedian Dave Gorman did a bit about a friend of his who was trying to go viral on twitter, so for a laugh Dave bought a bunch of fake followers for him without telling him, and watched the guy go crazy trying to work out why one particular tweet had got a couple of thousand likes and spiked his follower count, while all his attempts to replicate that success got nothing.
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# ? May 16, 2021 13:12 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for firing my bridesmaid? She deleted the actual content here too fast for anywhere to cache it but lol
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# ? May 16, 2021 15:21 |
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AITA For having a family dinner after my sister’s wedding?quote:My sister “Jess” (30/f) got married on Saturday morning, I (26/f) did not attend for a multitude of reasons, but primarily because I don’t care for her fiancé, “Jay,” and we don’t get along, so I figured I would skip to allow for them to have a happy time without me being a Debby downer and raining on their parade. Lmao
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# ? May 16, 2021 15:37 |
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA For having a family dinner after my sister’s wedding? My calculated attack on my foe succeeded, but could you praise me more?
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# ? May 16, 2021 16:24 |
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AITA for deleting my dream journal so that my mom can’t read it.quote:Hey I’m new to reddit and typing this on my phone so I’m not sure how the formatting is going to turn out sorry I’m advance.
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# ? May 16, 2021 16:38 |
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# ? May 16, 2021 16:42 |
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HIJK posted:I once had a friend in college who got really upset when I tried his "hot" chili and I told him it had no taste. Like yeah it was hot but the beans were mushy and it was watery and the beef was overcooked to the point of being rubbery. It had no taste regardless of how spicy it actually was. I told him that and he got really angry because apparently "spicy" is supposed to be a flavor. I bet he eats well done steaks with ketchup
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# ? May 16, 2021 16:48 |
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Edit: In light of further details, this post was tasteless
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Barudak posted:May 17th If he did really have a few instances of what appeared to the family to be self-harm, this isn’t necessarily them deliberately stepping over boundaries for shits and giggles, but an extremely ignorant attempt to try and watch out for more self-harm/possible suicidal inclinations. They need to actually see a therapist about the proper way to deal with that sort of thing, but it doesn’t mean they don’t love him.
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# ? May 16, 2021 17:06 |
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Agreed but why do his girlfriend and all his brothers know his password? Thats not how passwords work!
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# ? May 16, 2021 17:09 |
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DreamingofRoses posted:If he did really have a few instances of what appeared to the family to be self-harm, this isn’t necessarily them deliberately stepping over boundaries for shits and giggles, but an extremely ignorant attempt to try and watch out for more self-harm/possible suicidal inclinations. They need to actually see a therapist about the proper way to deal with that sort of thing, but it doesn’t mean they don’t love him. Given he is in mandatory testing for drugs on top of already being drug tested based on hunches, his girlfriends parents went after him as well but just for disobeying, and his dad had a blase answer without any "oh poo poo what if he's ideating" panic Im going to assume hes not at any actual risk for what she's fretting about and may have a distorted own opinion of himself based on her. That said, obviously OP can be editing like crazy and Im an rear end in a top hat so you know, I'll eat the hat of wrongness if needed. Edit: I think partially this may hit close to home as I had a highschool friend whose mother convinced them they tried to kill themselves and thus needed to be watched by said mother at all times. It took years for him to realize that isn't at all what happened and that she was manipulating him to feel fearful about himself so he wouldn't leave her. Barudak fucked around with this message at 17:16 on May 16, 2021 |
# ? May 16, 2021 17:12 |
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June 8th: another sex dream. It was cool
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Barudak posted:Given he is in mandatory testing for drugs on top of already being drug tested based on hunches, his girlfriends parents went after him as well but just for disobeying, and his dad had a blase answer without any "oh poo poo what if he's ideating" panic Im going to assume hes not at any actual risk for what she's fretting about and may have a distorted own opinion of himself based on her. quote:No she thought that she caught me once but I passed 4 drug tests and take them regularly due to sports. I’ve never intentionally tried to commit suicide but I’ve come drat close on accident on multiple occasions and I think my mom suspects that they weren’t accidents no matter how much I tell her. Bolding mine. That’s from one of his comments, not the edit. He’s also refused therapy in the past, which is understandable since he’s a teenager. It also sounds like he’s from a lovely place and the adults in his family seem to reflect that.
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DreamingofRoses posted:Bolding mine. That’s from one of his comments, not the edit. He’s also refused therapy in the past, which is understandable since he’s a teenager. It also sounds like he’s from a lovely place and the adults in his family seem to reflect that. Welp. If you need me I'll be over here figuring out what temperature the inside of a hat needs to be before its safe to eat. Barudak fucked around with this message at 17:30 on May 16, 2021 |
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Therapy becomes way more enticing as a teen when you realize you can bitch about your parents endlessly to a person who is legally obligated to not rat you out.
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Post Ironic Cereal posted:Therapy becomes way more enticing as a teen when you realize you can bitch about your parents endlessly to a person who is legally obligated to not rat you out. This would’ve sold me hard on therapy
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DreamingofRoses posted:Bolding mine. That’s from one of his comments, not the edit. He’s also refused therapy in the past, which is understandable since he’s a teenager. It also sounds like he’s from a lovely place and the adults in his family seem to reflect that. I mean sure, but what does he mean by "I’ve come drat close on accident on multiple occasions"? Does he mean "I took too much" or "I cut too deep", or "we were loving around on the roof and I fell off"? or does he mean "My mom tells me that what I did means I could have died, and that justifies her doing whatever she wants"? Because when a parents first thought when they find their 16 year old son is trying to keep a part of his life private is "you are trying to undermine me" then I'm less inclined to give that parent much benefit of the doubt.
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# ? May 16, 2021 17:47 |
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pentyne posted:Hmm, garbage person, or trash fire person? I misread the "drama in the comments section" as referring to the five-person what's app chat, like "I don't care what your religion says about personal grooming" brought out the knife wielding SJWs <from among her remaining three friends>
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Barudak posted:Help your sister with her Eating Disorder you loving poo poo lol
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Post Ironic Cereal posted:Therapy becomes way more enticing as a teen when you realize you can bitch about your parents endlessly to a person who is legally obligated to not rat you out. I mean, that requires finding an actual decent therapist. There've been a bunch of stories here about "therapists" the parents hire to be a third adult to tell their kids they are a failure and then get mad at the kids for not magically getting "better" after two sessions.
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Post Ironic Cereal posted:Therapy becomes way more enticing as a teen when you realize you can bitch about your parents endlessly to a person who is legally obligated to not rat you out. Except that they can. There was a thread on reddit ages back where a girl's therapist told her mother everything she had said in therapy and it was all legal because she was a minor and lived in the UK. I'll see if I can find it. EDIT: Okay, reddit search actually works pretty decently. quote:AITA for telling my counsellor about my mom Megillah Gorilla fucked around with this message at 18:17 on May 16, 2021 |
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The kid deserves privacy, reading people’s journals is always wrong and the mom loving SUCKS as a parent.
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# ? May 16, 2021 18:27 |
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June 10th: the woman in my dream had big boobs this time
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MAKE NO BABBYS posted:The kid deserves privacy, reading people’s journals is always wrong and the mom loving SUCKS as a parent. This. The person screaming and making demands when they find a single password is always the rear end in a top hat.
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# ? May 16, 2021 18:46 |
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AITA for putting my daughter's needs before that of my niece?quote:Hi All quote:Hey, so to be perfectly honest the girls are not friends. They don't dislike each other but they just have very different personalities.
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Megillah Gorilla posted:Except that they can. Yeah, as far as I’m aware, that’s the case in the US. I was in therapy as a kid and I definitely remember my therapists telling me the sessions were not technically confidential and they could tell my parents everything, but that unless I or someone else was in danger they wouldn’t pass along what I was saying. I’m sure there’s tons of therapists who do not have that policy though and the kids have zero expectation of privacy.
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Funktastic posted:AITA for putting my daughter's needs before that of my niece? Wow this person is awful. Not for not telling her kid to quit the play, but for everything else
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# ? May 16, 2021 19:28 |
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AITA for refusing to eliminate Princess stuff from my daughter’s lifequote:I’ll probably get judged for all this but I’m pregnant with a guy I’m not dating. He’s nice and wants to be there for the kid so we are on friendly terms. So far, we’ve had no issues until I met his parents.
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ad090 posted:AITA for refusing to eliminate Princess stuff from my daughter’s life I mean, the solution seems simple. Just say "naw I'm not going to do that" and, if you wanna be accommodating to failson brother's "needs", just don't dress your kid in princess stuff when they go to grandpa's house or whatever. Sheesh. Tetramin posted:Wow this person is awful. Not for not telling her kid to quit the play, but for everything else Yup. Fine to let both kids go out for the play, but holy poo poo this lady is driving her kid towards a brick wall of disappointment in the future. spouse fucked around with this message at 20:05 on May 16, 2021 |
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