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The girlfriend is doing something non-time sensitive. She should be able to pause that to do something that is time sensitive, like eat a meal when it’s ready and will be getting cold. It isn’t that she’s not appreciating it enough, it’s that she can’t for his sake pause an activity to eat a meal that needs to be eaten immediately. It’s a gently caress you to the cook PS it has taken me months to finally catch up to the thread and be able to actually post about a current topic!
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# ¿ Dec 24, 2020 11:34 |
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# ¿ Apr 28, 2024 09:02 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being the “party police”? DICAP. Move along, nothing to see here.
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# ¿ Dec 24, 2020 15:13 |
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Serephina posted:AHHHHHHHHHHHH what the gently caress. I don't care anything about the slut shaming or affecting coworker tips or whatever the heck, you fire any loving retard who does that, what the christ. You might want to reconsider your language too.
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# ¿ Dec 24, 2020 21:50 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:Thanks! Why didn’t he just go to the bedroom in the first place?! If you can do something in any room, and someone is engaging in an activity that interfered with you in the only place they can, then you move. You can move, they can’t.
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# ¿ Dec 25, 2020 21:26 |
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^^^ yeah, exactly. Oh dear me posted:In your own house. You can't just go up to someone's bedroom uninvited in their house though. Tbh if someone invited me over but didn't turn the TV off when I arrived, I'd think they were rude, but I know customs vary.. Sure, but one can ask to go to a bedroom instead of asking to turn the TV off.
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# ¿ Dec 25, 2020 23:51 |
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H.P. Hovercraft posted:so which is it A car can be a write-off in that it is too costly to repair (for the owner or insurer). This is separate from the insurance status. Whoops, beaten. But right nonetheless!
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# ¿ Dec 26, 2020 11:48 |
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Mr. Lobe posted:Some people just have bad personalities. You can chalk it up to upbringing or some quirk of genetics/mental health, but they're just predisposed to being an rear end in a top hat and there's nothing to do but to avoid them. It probably sucks to have a bad personality though because you wind up reaping what you sow if you aren't wealthy and powerful enough to not, like most people, depend on a supportive social network to make it through the challenges of life She’s so close to realising her problem. She understands it’s jealousy and what she is doing is wrong but just can’t help herself. She needs therapy
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# ¿ Dec 26, 2020 12:19 |
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Barudak posted:Gonna be honest, I don't think she's looking for contrition, she's looking for new and interesting ways to hurt her step sister and having people offering advice do the work for her I don’t know, it looks like she’s doing ok on that front.
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# ¿ Dec 26, 2020 12:23 |
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She’s so NTA. SIL could and should have told her before she spent $900 on a dress that she wasn’t going to need.
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# ¿ Dec 26, 2020 15:54 |
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Murder the husband, murder the MIL, then murder the husband again.
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# ¿ Dec 27, 2020 23:25 |
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The American Dream posted:Even if you live in the most expensive zip code in the country how could you even blink at spending a couple hundred dollars a week in a maid when you make a half million a year. That’s why the husband is a double rear end in a top hat.
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2020 01:14 |
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OzyMandrill posted:Nah, the moms an rear end in a top hat. Kids make mess, learn to live with it and don't get too precious about soft furnishings and then maybe your kids won't yearn for the chance to mess around with non-lovely pens so much. Teach them boundaries, expect them to blow off occasionally, and accept that you'll be changing the carpets when they hit 10+ and don't play with that stuff any more.. instead it will be much grosser stains She said one of the kids is ODD with poor impulse control so teaching boundaries doesn’t seem like an option. She’s gone for a reasonable compromise to maintain her sanity, which her family is ignoring. NTA.
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2020 13:26 |
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cumshitter posted:It's natural and right for every father to hate their son so I side with the dad on this one. But you don’t even know if the son is a filthy hetero or not.
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2020 22:04 |
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My wife bought home a 12” dildo too. I was really disappointed. I told her if she wanted me to get a penis reduction she could have just asked, instead of being so passive-aggressive about it.
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2020 15:51 |
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Deformed Church posted:AITA for not wanting to participate in a “living funeral” for myself before I die this year? There was a pretty good film a few years ago called Get Low with Robert Duvall where he arranges his own pre-funeral. Video deletion woman is awful. Stupid too. “I deleted it by accident!” That’s a child’s excuse, right behind “it wasn’t me!”
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# ¿ Jan 3, 2021 14:17 |
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The Bramble posted:My roommate (24m) is making me (24m) sick with the garlic he eats. Give it time and the botulism that grows from garlic in oil will eventually get him. (Tip: don’t make garlic oil unless you really know how to prevent botulism growing in an anaerobic environment).
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# ¿ Jan 5, 2021 13:08 |
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Ziv Zulander posted:Wait, really? I’ve made garlic oil before but I always eat it the same day That’s fine but don’t keep it too long. Look it up. I ain’t talkin’ turkey!
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# ¿ Jan 5, 2021 13:23 |
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Gats Akimbo posted:She sucks even more for "how dare you tell everyone I told you not to let the kids play with your animals you should have made up some weak excuse so you looked like the bad guy instead of me!" Yeah, that’s the worst. “Don’t make me look like the bad guy by saying exactly what I did that makes me the bad guy!”
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# ¿ Jan 5, 2021 16:45 |
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Pope Hilarius II posted:I would be extremely not surprised if this wasn't the first incredibly lovely thing his son did. I find the theft as such less damning than blaming an innocent coworker for it - that last part really strikes me as a King Joffrey kind of move from a pampered kid with no sense of personal responsibility. It’s absolutely enraging and given the mother’s reaction easy to see how he turned out that way
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# ¿ Jan 10, 2021 22:51 |
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for telling my grandparents that many of my family members are losers? They are totally teasing him because they are envious that he’s managed to do something with his life. How dare he snap back!
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# ¿ Jan 12, 2021 23:52 |
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She’s NTA for pushing initially. She’s TA for carrying on after he tells her to stop
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# ¿ Jan 13, 2021 19:24 |
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sephiRoth IRA posted:There's encouraging and supporting someone to live life and avoid the whirlpool of depression and then there's yelling at a guy in a wheelchair to keep up when powerwalking down the street Yeah, it may have been too much but that was their dynamic before the accident, and the dude was a Navy SEAL, so it’s much more excusable than if it just started after the accident. I can kind of see how she might think that they shouldn’t change how they interact and that he’s feel patronised if they did. Anyway, it’s not a hill I’m prepared to die on.
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# ¿ Jan 13, 2021 20:19 |
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Oh look, a pretentious racist.
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# ¿ Jan 15, 2021 16:48 |
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limp_cheese posted:Strong contender for new thread title. I feel like the good titles are unique to specific stories; this one is waaaaaay too broadly applicable.
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# ¿ Jan 15, 2021 22:32 |
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haveblue posted:Look, this is going to be my coming out year, I've been looking forward to it forever, so you're gonna have to reschedule, hope you can get the deposits back People aren’t going to travel for two coming-out parties.
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# ¿ Jan 16, 2021 18:01 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:It's not like 'Do as I say, not as I do' isn't basically the motto of American religious freaks. There may be good reasons why they were not able to have more than one. Not that I am defending their conduct in other areas, or their weird ideas. It’s a stretch to immediately assume that they are hypocrites though.
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# ¿ Jan 18, 2021 10:54 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:When it comes to intense American Christians, it really, really isn't. Well sure, but maybe not on this particular issue. We are all speculating in the absence of any facts.
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# ¿ Jan 18, 2021 12:57 |
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Pirate Radar posted:Maybe he froze it beforehand to make it a better projectile, not for eating That's what I assumed. Like a rock inside a snowball.
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2021 12:58 |
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MAKE NO BABBYS posted:🧐🧐 why do I feel as though there’s a 100% chance this man is a nightmare of a “patient?” i don't know where you get that from. He says "all she has to do is feed me and I can do pretty much the rest of everything by myself". I also don't know why you put patient in inverted commas - he's in a wheelchair and can't do much for himself without difficulty. It seems you have taken against him with really no evidence.
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2021 13:40 |
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snergle posted:i found your problem youre british or austrailian im guessing british. Given that they refer to Canberra, I’m guessing Australia.
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# ¿ Jan 22, 2021 00:12 |
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:An analog: Please, save it for the PYF forum.
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# ¿ Jan 22, 2021 23:07 |
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Jabor posted:Pretty sure his partner would be fine with reheated leftovers for lunch as long as it wasn't also reheated leftovers for dinner, so it's really more like one meal a day to cook. Doesn’t he make himself lunch? In that case, why doesn’t he prepare something for her then? I can’t imagine not irritating myself a meal without doing the same for my wife.
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# ¿ Jan 25, 2021 00:39 |
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ArbitraryC posted:It's right in the post that he was already doing that Whoops. I read it earlier then responded later. Great recall!! Even so, he’s an rear end.
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# ¿ Jan 25, 2021 00:56 |
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A kid here in the UK with s severe dairy allergy died after another kid threw a piece of cheese at him and it landed on his neck. So i am not sure that the dad did overreact. And if the girlfriend has been dating him for a year and they are experimenting with blending you can bet that it's come up often enough around food and mealtimes that the GF is well aware of it.
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# ¿ Jan 26, 2021 12:48 |
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Aramoro posted:How many times do you need someone to tell you that milk will kill their child before you think that's something important you might want to remember? Yeah. “Listen, my daughter has a severe dairy allergy. It could kill her. So the hard rule is absolutely no dairy in the house” After a year of being in the house with no dairy I think it would have sunk in.
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# ¿ Jan 26, 2021 13:02 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:But those don't come with the added bonus of making your sibling give up something they cherish more than your reputation. Or being potentially lethal despite being blunt.
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# ¿ Jan 26, 2021 18:27 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Lol where are you getting pens for 10 In England on the NHS there is a co-pay for prescriptions of £9. Many are exempt, like children. My son has diabetes and we pay precisely nothing for insulin, injection pens, needles, sharps bins, a Dexcom g6 blood glucose monitoring system, backup blood sugar testing device and strips, lancets, glucagon, etc. Man, socialism sucks! Oh! I forgot quarterly medical appointments with a paediatric diabetes specialist, a nurse and a dietitian.
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# ¿ Jan 27, 2021 01:24 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to pay my friend who cared for my boyfriend due to her “innocent mistake”? "Sure, here's your fee, and here's the bill for the ambulance".
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# ¿ Jan 27, 2021 16:59 |
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Electric Wrigglies posted:eh, you employ someone and they make a mistake in the line of their work, you have to wear the cost and if you want to prevent it happening again, you need to put in place better controls and training. There’s a mistake and there’s real negligence with severe consequences. Holding someone responsible for their acts or omissions is not treating them like a slave.
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# ¿ Jan 27, 2021 17:17 |
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# ¿ Apr 28, 2024 09:02 |
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I think the carer should have been given a stern lecture by HR and a formal written warning, plus an intensive two-day course in "not having phone give flashing notifications around patient when expressly told the consequences"
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# ¿ Jan 27, 2021 18:39 |