JacquelineDempsey posted:

They should've done what a friend of mine did.

Her bf had this embarrassing shirt, think Guy Fieri flaming-dragons-bowling-shirt. He never even really wore it, but refused to get rid of it, and it drove her nuts just seeing it in the closet. She called it "THAT Shirt".

She hosted a regular "girls' night" where we ate chocolate and cheese, got drunk on girly poo poo like prosecco and white zinfandel, and vented about our men (or lack thereof). On one get-together, she brought That Shirt out, and we all properly mocked it. And a wine-fueled plan was hatched.

She gave the shirt to one woman who was soon going to visit relatives in Korea. While there, she got a friend/relative to wear That Shirt for some pictures. Then it got sent to another friend, who was visiting Paris, so now there's a pic of That Shirt in front of the Eiffel Tower. And so on and so forth. That Shirt traveled around the world for the better part of a year. He never noticed it was gone, until we had a party with all the couples involved and watched a hilarious slide show of all the places That Shirt had been.

I think it's still out in the wild somewhere.

Smirking_Serpent posted:

Ghosted after 10+years together.

We are both 30. We met when we were 20 in university. We hit it off, she was my first girlfriend and later fiance. We just got engaged last december. We just bought a car together (tesla, delivering in 7 weeks). Our only disagreement currently was about buying our future home - budget vs apartment vs detached house. We are practically married without kids. We moved cities together. We share bank accs. We have access to each other's emails and phone tracking is on. She would catch me going to fast food when I shouldn't be. The sex was amazing. We are practically glued together. I took her to see the northern lights 2 months ago and proposed there.


One week before Valentine's, I text her throughout the day and no response. I check the GPS and its off. I asked her brother and he said she's at her mother's house. I go over to see what's wrong but no one will answer the door. I waited outside until 3am. Next morning I get a brief text saying this is not the future she's imagining and that we have different visions. This comes at a shock to me, we have names picked out for our future kids for years now. Wedding planned. Tesla ordered on the way. Friends and family were all surprised. Worst is she barely replies by text (we text all the time for past 10 years, she updates me when she's in the bathroom at work) when I ask her what's wrong etc. The day before she was completely normal. I tried the next few days (even today on Valentine's) to see her after work. She left early / won't see me. Her responses becomes a complete strangers short responses. Like you'll be ok. I'm sorry. Thanks for the 10 years. She wants her stuff brought over later.

How am I suppose to cope with this? No one, not even her brother or parents knows why. I'm so confused. it's like the last 10 years was a lie. She became a total stranger.

I would like to focus on possible reasons outside of abuse... A good doctor friend said it could be a tumor but that's a really extreme guess...

Just want to note the GPS is just find my iPhone app and she suggested it first when one of us had a car accident early on. We mainly use it to see when the other person is coming home so we can time dinner. I don't even use it everyday, only when she is extremely late.

Another note on the waiting till 3am. There's no abuse emotional or physical. Her parents house were 2 hours away. I thought something was wrong at first. I didn't understand, her parents didn't either. We just watched Riverdale in bed last night cuddling tgt.

As for the email/phone access - it was not widely used and most of the time it's for admin purposes. But once in a while she would like to read what I chat with my friends and I am find with that.

Update: got a short text saying she sees a different future with me than what she wants and thanks for the 10 years... her co-workers and best friend who I am close with as well all got the same answer and they are clueless too. Another friend said she wanted a new life. She's functioning the same at work from what I hear.

Second update: a short text saying that she wanted emotions to cool down before talking to me to give me a proper goodbye and that I need to move on...

TL;DR ghosted one day with no warning after 10 happy years together reason wanting different things, this is an extreme personality change....

PancakeTransmission posted:

There's an update to this one

La Brea Carpet posted:

My (30M) wife (24F) cheated on me with her boss. But I decided to work on our relationship. But she finds out I watch porn it's unforgivable.


Layers like an onion.

DemoneeHo posted:

What does it mean when someone changes what they've always called you?



(UPDATE) What does it mean when someone changes what they've always called you? (25M) and (25M)

LadyPictureShow posted:

This reminds me of this godawful one:


My friend (M25) said I (F23) make the “ahego” face when I yawn, and it’s caused a bunch of useless drama.

DeadMansSuspenders posted:

Upsetting content here.
Destroyed my family with a car accident that was my fault. Now I can't handle it and I want out.

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for telling my manager that my coworker was high when she got injured at work?

dudeness posted:

Just tell her you're naming him after the leader of the Gorgonites, nobody will dispute this is a cool name then.

luxury handset posted:

i mildly hosed up with my new boss, an older man, when he came in one day wearing a brimmed hat and trench coat and i said "ah, the detective is here to make me answer for my crimes" but later that day he compared my appearance to an npc vendor in world of warcraft so i feel like i came out the worse in that exchange

Uncle Enzo posted:

Dad and kid are lucky they even let the daughter come back. I would talk about it with the daughter, then lock her passport(s) in a safe deposit box just so no helpful family members get any ideas.

Grandparents could have seen her for a few weeks every few years or even more. Now they're not going to see her period. Oh well

DemoneeHo posted:

I Gave My Husband One Rule for Threesomes, and He Broke It Right in Front of Me


Maybe you should have a more realistic boundary???

Lord Ludikrous posted:

OP is going to end up getting himself sent to prison.

Found images and videos of underage girls (12-16) on my housemate's devices and don't know what to do

Kuros posted:

WIBTA If I backed out of being my sister-in-laws bridesmaid after huge demands?

Xenocides posted:

On a lark I went to look at how expensive weddings relate to divorce rates and was unsurprised that the more you spent on the ring and the wedding the less likely the marriage is to last. Also, the more people you invite to the wedding the more likely it is to last. So big cheap weddings are best I guess.

chitoryu12 posted:

All right I need to find these books now.

luxury handset posted:

there's nothing here of any value when you aren't inside the context of having spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to engage in elaborate cult-larp procedures to have people try to explain any of this to you as if it's not gibberish

chitoryu12 posted:

On a similar vegan note:

WIBTA for refusing to stop cooking bacon in my kitchen due to my teenage daughters vegan lifestyle?

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for getting my neighbor towed?

The Bramble posted:

Here's the weirdest thing you'll read today.

My supervisor allowed one of my clients to sign-off a loan in his neighbor's name. How should I speak to my supervisor about this without getting fired from his intentional error?

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for getting angry at my husband for continuing a behavior that might get us kicked out?

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA? My coworker booked a ~$7500 vacation and is probably going to lose the money because of me.

Transmogrifier posted:

I (33F) found a text message of my husband (31M) calling our adopted daughter (5F) the N-word. I don’t know where to go from here.

Miss posted:

My (23f) mother's (50sf) vicious, spoiled dog attacked my brother (15m)to the point of rendering his fingers numb and possibly requiring surgery, did not take him to the doctor, and refuses to acknowledge the dog's responsibility in any of this.

kaschei posted:

See if you can get a BOGO deal on euthanasia

Barudak posted:

Octonauts has multiple mobile games in addition to the episodes. Hell they put clips of the game on their youtube channel and its one of their most popular videos. I don't think I ever expected to be Octonauts posting as a grown adult but here we are.

Octofact: Kwazii's least favorite kelp cake is licorice.

Batterypowered7 posted:

Yes, but what are your opinions on Ryan ToysReview?

LadyPictureShow posted:

AITA for calling out my Wife's friend's husband for having a micropenis?

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for calling a woman a "dumb oval office" and telling her to go gently caress herself in front of her kids after she told my adopted niece to call me "aunt"?

The Bramble posted:

I [18F] went to college out of state because my now ex boyfriend slept with my mom

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for not hiding my “feminine issues” from my dad?

Power Khan posted:

My wife [33/F] is mad about me [33/M] dating an NPC in a video game

caterpillaropera posted:

It's this lady from the old thread:

[41/f] Am i wrong for confronting my Reclusive Neighbor (About 35/M)?

Lucrece posted:

Aita for leaving my husband to take care of our newborn alone

Propaniac posted:

drat you COVID-19!

Cowslips Warren posted:

Affair partner? I keep thinking from high school, like AP Literature but I doubt it's Advanced Placement.

PHIZ KALIFA posted:

Adulterous Partner? Adultering Peter? I think the other affairs subreddit posters mentioned is https://www.reddit.com/r/SurvivingMyInfidelity/ and I think there was one with "wayward" in the title?

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for wearing a kilt to my own wedding and not apologizing to my wife?

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for waking my SO up after finding he breached my privacy?

Shirec posted:

[UPDATE] Me [25F] with my live-in boyfriend [28M] of 4˝ years, am I blowing this out of proportion or should I really be nervous?

The Moon Monster posted:

Honestly as far as dumb alt-names go Jenisus isn't bad.

DemoneeHo posted:

AITA for not sponsoring my son's father's "apology" for how he acted after my son came out?

DeadMansSuspenders posted:

I[20M] hooked up with my best friend[20F] last night. It was the best and worst sex of my life. She wants to go again.

DemoneeHo posted:

AITA for not supporting my daughter's decision to become a public defender?

Invisible Clergy posted:

Boyfriend [22M] refuses to eat leftovers and I [24F] have a feeling it’s going to create issues moving forward

The Chad Jihad posted: