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Tenebrais posted:Seems like a rare case of a poly/open relationship working when it probably shouldn't. How can you know your wife makes a habit of deliberately breaking up couples, be against it, and just leave it at that? What are you gonna do, break up your own couple? That’s how she wins
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Waiting until shes pregnant before deciding the name issue is a problem is both understandable and the problem. Because he cant exactly change his mind about having kida with her now
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I mean there's no chance that the husband (and his family!) presented it as an ultimatum and fait accompli that she decided she would do her best to go along with just to keep the peace/support the relationship and she only now realises the decision is more than she can actually agree to.
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 11:27 |
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Walh Hara posted:Look, this is not difficult: But she did agree with it... at the time. Then she changed her mind later on.
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 11:28 |
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When I started reading the predecessor to this compilation thread I used to think the stupidity resided only in the questions people posed to the reddit community. Through reading comments there I've learned the true stupidity is in believing it's a community whose opinion is worth listening to.
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 11:30 |
Biplane posted:But she did agree with it... at the time. Then she changed her mind later on. Once the guy can no longer change his mind about having the child. If she does give the child her name hes going to resent it forever
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Pocky In My Pocket posted:Once the guy can no longer change his mind about having the child. If she does give the child her name hes going to resent it forever Well hes an incredible dweeb for caring about it at all, shes better off without him. So ruled
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 11:39 |
Probably, but irrelevent for her post. His request was clearly stated in advance, and he was happy to discuss/comprimise other issues but didnt want to budge on that one. If it was also something she wouldnt budge on she really should have made that clear before getting pregnant so they could both seperate and find suitable partners. Unilaterally changing the terms of an agreement once people are locked into it is an rear end in a top hat move
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 11:44 |
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axolotl farmer posted:No sympathy for this idiot. There is no such thing as babytrapping, men are responsible for their side of birth control. People make fun of Drake* for pouring hotsauce in his used condoms but thats just good practices. *There are 100% legitimate reasons to be skeeved out by him
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 11:46 |
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I bet that dude's name ain't worth poo poo anyway Like who are you, the Rockefellers? You're just some guy named Bob Dopplebop, who gives a gently caress if your dynasty continues
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 11:58 |
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Biplane posted:But she did agree with it... at the time. Then she changed her mind later on. Yesterday I promised to pay you back the 100 bucks i owe you, since then I've changed my mind. Too bad, I guess, promises obviously have no validity past the moment they are made
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 12:01 |
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Yes your future child's name is the same as money borrowed and owed Somehow, I'm not sure how Anyway, yeah being annoyed at a sudden change of heart is valid on his part but they're adults who are having a kid together and need to learn to work together, and this is a new life she is building in her body and literally giving her entire physical self up to create so it's also valid for her to want her last name connected to it. They can compromise but he is too upset at not passing on only his name to do so. And since the only argument he has is 'but...the patriarchy says!' yeh he sucks. StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 12:09 on Jan 27, 2022 |
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steinrokkan posted:Yesterday I promised to pay you back the 100 bucks i owe you, since then I've changed my mind. Too bad, I guess, promises obviously have no validity past the moment they are made lmao are you for real
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 12:06 |
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give me one reason to not hit the “this derail is sad” button
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 12:09 |
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Mx. posted:lmao are you for real Don't promise things you know you probably won't be able or willing to follow up on, hoping it will work itself out somehow, is just going to leave everybody worse off .
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one day I wanna see the dashboard they give you guys
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teen witch posted:give me one reason to not hit the “this derail is sad” button Her last name is Wannacock
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StrangersInTheNight posted:I bet that dude's name ain't worth poo poo anyway I actually slightly care about my last name because it’s a family name established four generations ago and the only person I know who has it and is not immediate family is some phone company CEO. I’d hate for that to be its legacy. Not enough to actually jeopardize a relationship, but if the option to keep it is there, I’d take it. E: teen witch posted:give me one reason to not hit the “this derail is sad” button Oops sorry I missed the “not” there
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 12:25 |
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I saw a Dr. Scank had signed off on a rabies tag once when taking a dog's history. I have since dreamed of being so loving cool as to be called Mrs. Scank. Alternate option, a Dr. McCool once sent us rads from his vet clinic. The gently caress I gotta do to be Mrs. McCool???
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teen witch posted:give me one reason to not hit the “this derail is sad” button
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Sir Sidney Poitier posted:When I started reading the predecessor to this compilation thread I used to think the stupidity resided only in the questions people posed to the reddit community. Through reading comments there I've learned the true stupidity is in believing it's a community whose opinion is worth listening to. I will never not love the super rare ones that end up being "edit: oh poo poo reddit is agreeing with me, I must have really hosed up, laters"
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Barudak posted:Her last name is Wannacock It's Gaylord-Pnurtis you liar
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Mx. posted:It's Gaylord-Pnurtis you liar Please, Mr. Gaylord-Pnurtis is my fathers name. Just call me Dick
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AITA for wanting my daughters to wear nice dresses at their cousin's wedding? quote:My nephew is getting married in July and my husband, our daughters (19, 15, 4), and I were invited. We were told this is going to be a casual outdoor wedding at the park. My nephew's fiance is getting her wedding dress from a pawn shop and I have no idea where she's getting the bridesmaid dresses but I've seen them and they're not something that you'd expect to wear at a wedding. They're church dresses at best.
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I have to create a word....Auntzilla Yup, she's an Auntzilla!
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for wanting my daughters to wear nice dresses at their cousin's wedding? A second 'zilla is about to hit the wedding
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empty sea posted:Alternate option, a Dr. McCool once sent us rads from his vet clinic. The gently caress I gotta do to be Mrs. McCool???
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its_my_birthday posted:don't have sex with my bf who's mentally a child is p reasonable i guess He has functioning autism - he's not a child
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empty sea posted:I saw a Dr. Scank had signed off on a rabies tag once when taking a dog's history. I have since dreamed of being so loving cool as to be called Mrs. Scank. Oh hey that's kind of an interesting last name aside from being pretty cool. There's a legendary figure in Irish folklore/mythology/legend called Fionn mac Cumhaill (pronounced Finn McCool). Likely based on a historical figure as the last name is a real Irish family name. Probably anglicised at Ellis Island during the famine migration? So, uh, check Boston phone books?
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Agrikk posted:Maybe not a sound but the more militant nut jobs in AA would say they needed to reset their day count. People in my home group would call that a "freelapse". (and no one would expect you to reset you day count).
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Xachariah posted:Oh hey that's kind of an interesting last name aside from being pretty cool. There's a legendary figure in Irish folklore/mythology/legend called Fionn mac Cumhaill (pronounced Finn McCool). Likely based on a historical figure as the last name is a real Irish family name. Probably anglicised at Ellis Island during the famine migration? So, uh, check Boston phone books? Why would anyone wanna be McCool when you can be CUM HAIL
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 14:30 |
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Credit to the op on r/bestofredditorupdates for compiling this one. It's fun. r/CakeEater is a sub for people who are happily married and having affairs. quote:u/Miserable_Ad_7975 was a Cake Eater who had been having an affair with his AP (Affair Partner) for 6 years. Eventually, his AP's husband cottoned on and filed for a divorce. Worried that his wife would find out, he consulted r/adultery on how best to confess about 10 months ago. First post: Calm before the storm quote:Tried posting a few days ago but could not find post. Must be lost in cyberspace. Don´t even know if this is the right forum at the moment. In gist: Affair partner got served divorce papers out of nowhere two days ago at work. Her husband knows of us/me. It´s only a matter of time before my wife finds out. Don´t know if i have days or hours before the world as i know it is gone. Comments: quote:I am not confused. Never was. I don´t have a problem separating love from sex. My heart is loyal to my woman and she is it for me. quote:So many responses about how I dont value my affair partner. Well, since I am on a pour my heart out roll here let me tell you about my affair partner. She is a gorgeous and a smart woman who is funny and open to different experiences. She is younger than my self and my wife. Fit. Seductive. Sexy as gently caress. But she is not my wife and does not even compare. quote:Six years on/off is a long time to invest. As I see it, she is an adult woman who made decisions to cheat with a married man on her husband for whatever reasons. Do I care for her? Yes, six years is a long time. Do I love her? No. Did I say to her I loved her? Yes, of course I did but I lied just as I lied to my wife. Did I use her? Yes, I did. Did she use me? Of course she loving did. We both knew we were played with fire. quote:The reason i strayed has nothing to do with my wife. We have a good sex life in general but I do have some kinks that she is not into at all. My affair partner was into the same kinks. That´s how we met and that is why the affair was ongoing for six years. What lead me to starting the affair was my wife being in an accidant that took a toll on her body. Sex was off the table for over a year. I gave in to temptation and when i discovered the affair partner shared my kink I was hooked. So all you people saying my wife was withholding sex and intimacy. No. My wife and I are very intimate. Having sex with my wife is making love. Sex with affair partner is just sex. My wife meets 90% of all my needs. My affair partner meets 10 %. First Update: Never saw this comming quote:Throwaway. Posted once before. Check it for background. Think this is the sub I should be on. quote:Logically yes we are both getting our itches scratched. Whats the big deal? quote:I am desperate to talk this out to know why this happend and how invested she really is in this peace of poo poo. If she is doing this out of revenge maybe I have a chance cause if so she does feel something for me at least. I can´t imaginge her being emotionless throwing away over 20 years. I know this woman like I know my self. Deep down she´s hurt but also so very stubborn and proud. I just want to know if she knew about my affair why the hell did she not confront me? I would have chosen her over AP in a nanosecond. And what the hell is she hoping to find with this dush? He is no better than me, sleeping with a married woman. Ah gently caress! I am trying to respect her wish to have some space but I am desperate desperate desperate to just talk to her. quote:Yeah I don´t know how I feel about being on the other side. Never had fantasies about my wife loving other men. We had a good sex life minus my kinks she was not aware of (hence the LTAP). I am thinking what do I have to lose? There can be only two outcomes. She loves him she leaves. She loves me she stays. I am hoping this is just a fling and nothing serious. Second Update: UPDATE Never saw this comming quote:My marriage seems to be over. quote:“Made love to her last week…How does she not feel any emotion?”
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Sisal Two-Step posted:Credit to the op on r/bestofredditorupdates for compiling this one. It's fun. God drat that last quote
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for wanting my daughters to wear nice dresses at their cousin's wedding? r/relationships: They're church dresses at best.
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OhAreThey posted:People in my home group would call that a "freelapse". "Freelapse" sounds like the term for when your colon prolapses out while massively straining, but then gets sucked back into your abdomen without medical intervention.
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# ? Jan 27, 2022 15:08 |
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lmao that he literally cut the cable he used for his work internet connection and she just picked up the call on her cell hahahaha
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Sisal Two-Step posted:Credit to the op on r/bestofredditorupdates for compiling this one. It's fun. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2i3zrzyLOCw
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I love seeing the cool, logical mister "I've got my very good reasons, everyone else is just overemotional" type get increasingly agitated and self-destructive as emotions overwhelm them.
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Really starting to wonder what those kinks were
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teen witch posted:Really starting to wonder what those kinks were My favorite part of that is he apparently never asked his wife? Like he starts off saying she doesn't share the kinks but then a later update admits she doesn't know about them?
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