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Look, has no one else seen Hereditary? You have children for ONE REASON only! Hail Paimon! AITA I don't want to meet my child quote:My wife got pregnant 5 years ago. I had told her that it was due to a contraceptive fail and I don't want to have a child. I wasn't allowed to get a vasectomy done because I was too young then.
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# ¿ Oct 21, 2021 02:14 |
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# ¿ Apr 27, 2024 16:55 |
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Surprise you owe me money, but you can pay me back in sex too! What a douchecanoe.
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# ¿ Oct 24, 2021 00:55 |
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IIRC (or maybe it was another post) but the couple wasn't even married. And no common law marriage in that state. Did he cut contact with the kid or just tell the mom it was over? AITA for accidently causing a kid to be outed to his parents? quote:I'm a single dad to my daughter Kaya(16F) and she has a bestfriend Kyle (15M) who's lived next door since they were 10/11. In the last few months Kaya has expressed romantic interest in Kyle, flirting etc.
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# ¿ Oct 24, 2021 20:15 |
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AITA for being upset about my SO in a drinking gamequote:Me (27M) and my GF (28F)were playing with a group of friends (which are all couples). We were playing a game called “Never Have I Ever” a drinking game in which players take turns asking other players about things they have not done. Other players who have done this thing respond by taking a drink. Anyways we were playing and when a question about “Never Have I Ever thought to have sex with other people beside my SO” my GF had taken a shot( and she was the only one out of all the couples to have taken the shot) and now I’m very upset, mad and betrayed for that. Now she’s mad at me for being mad at her due to her answer in the game and she says I’m a jerk. AITA? I think we are missing some words. If the question was "never have I ever had sex with other people while in a relationship" then yeah. But in general? AITA for having different food delivered? quote:On mobile so formatting might be off. Kinda surprised the restaurant let her eat the poo poo there. Chicken nugs and ramen. I wonder how short the list of food she likes is.
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# ¿ Oct 24, 2021 23:28 |
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wizardofloneliness posted:Kill Ned, kill Robert, kill the HR person. She says her branch is part of a larger company, so hopefully there's another higher level manager or HR person who is unrelated to her boss she can take it to. Or at least tell the clinic to never let Ned in under any circumstances. Oh my god, this one makes me so angry. And it's not like she can just quit either because she is definitely not in a position to lose her health insurance. Nowhere near as bad, but this reminds me of a time when my manager got contacted by HR due to an employee report. It seems she had asked him to stay late, he said he couldn't, and she pushed for details as to why. He finally told her he had to go pick up a prescription before the pharmacy closed, and again at her pushing, told her what pharmacy he had to go to. She then called him back 5 minutes later to say he could stay as late as they wanted, because the pharmacy in question didn't close for another 3 hours. She had called to verify it. Somehow she was blindsided that this was inappropriate.
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# ¿ Oct 25, 2021 01:08 |
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I seriously wonder what the dudes in those religions are taught. Nothing at all, I am sure, about being a ripped up piece of garbage paper the more people you kiss. Nothing at all about purity. Maybe encouragement to wait until marriage, and then game loving on? I remember reading something from Orthodox Jewish couples, and the biggest thing the husbands complained/were unhappy with was their sex life. How their wives were never into it, or submitted but clearly found it painful. Some of them wanted their wives to actually enjoy sex, but, amazingly, being told all your life how you are gutter trash if you lose your virginity makes for some hosed up mentality. AITA for telling my sister i hope she never has a child quote:This happened a few months ago and nobody in my family is speaking to me because of this. Im19f and my sister is 35f. Basically, I got pregnant at 16 and had a kid the next year. Our parents are super conservative and didn't teach us a lot about bodies so I honestly didn't know that would happen, in hindsight, I realize what I did was dumb but I love my daughter so I don't regret anything.
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# ¿ Oct 27, 2021 02:01 |
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AITA for giving my sister-in-law baby formula?quote:I'm going to start my post by saying that I don't have kids and I have no experience with babies or motherhood or children. I'm 18 and beyond being around them in group settings where at least one of the parents and a ton of other people are around that's it. Just for some context to my post. Listen you, it is super important that breastfeeding happens, even if mom and baby can't do it, it's all that matters! This poor SIL. A lady I nannied for could not get her second child to latch on; turns out he was tongue-tied, and a snip later, and he was fine. But formula was always an option, and any rear end in a top hat who whines about it, especially if they aren't gonna feed the kid, needs to GTFO.
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# ¿ Oct 27, 2021 05:02 |
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At least Reddit is of the mindset that "breast is not best, FED is best."
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# ¿ Oct 27, 2021 05:10 |
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The Glumslinger posted:Honestly, the only problem with the outfit is you'll probably run into atleast a couple other people who had the exact same idea The year before Covid was the last time I went to the local Renaissance Faire, and I always go as a plague doctor. Been stopped and asked for pics many times, made some kids cry, even had some kids think I was from Assassin's Creed. Favorite costume ever. And other than the staff and hat, the rest of it came from the dollar store and Walmart. Only once did I ever run into another plague doctor. But I did get singled out by the king, who stopped the morning parade to look me over before announcing "YE GODS the Plague is back!" and then had the rest of the group run like hell into the castle. AITA for refusing to have a baby with my husband? quote:My husband (Jim)and I have been together for 15 years and married for 9 years. From the beginning of our relationship Jim has declared he doesn’t want kids but would compromise and have 1 child if I desired. When we were first married I wanted a child but he always refused saying it wasn’t the right time. Jim always blamed finances as an excuse to wait. We make a combine income of over $150,000 yearly (we live in 1 of the most affordable states), our home was paid for in cash, and the only debt we’ve ever had is student loans.
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# ¿ Oct 28, 2021 04:27 |
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Betazoid posted:That rules I saw several of them at our faire this year and it was great. Some were absolutely done to the nines with fake potions and cures. HEY he did his part, the actual babymaking! Like, he had to have lots of sex to do his part, all she had to do was grow the kid! AITA for Refusing to Let My MIL Visit Her Grandchildren? quote:I (28f) live with my husband (28m) and our two daughters (13f) and (6f). Our daughters (who are biological sisters) were officially adopted before Covid hit, and they finally seem to be adjusting. They've endured hardships that no child should ever experience, and yet they're incredibly resilient. They're English is already impeccable, they're exceptionally kind, and they're just the bravest kids you'll ever know. But I suppose most mothers think that about their children. Anyway. My oldest was diagnosed with anorexia just before the move. Her whole world was changing around her, and her eating habits were the only thing she felt she had control over. Even though we hadn't known eachother for long, that was the most scared I've ever been in my life. She was in the PICU for a week and institutionalized afterwards. As of now, my daughter goes to therapy twice a week and is in recovery. She's made a lot of progress, and I couldn't be more proud of her. Getting some Beatrice Horseman vibes here. "Mother's little helpers!"
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# ¿ Oct 28, 2021 04:56 |
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My dad was the same. Why bother thanking us or telling us we did a good job at chores when it was something he expected us to do anyway? gently caress, years ago when I worked in the copy center, my boss had a week vacation, and a customer came in with a huge order. Like six grand of printing. My coworker and I busted our rear end to get it done, sending out what we could, and otherwise running it nonstop on our lovely two printers. Customer was thrilled, we were stoked, and when our boss came back, I proudly showed him the order. "Oh that's nice, I pulled in that much on an order a few weeks ago. There's customers on the floor, go help them." I didn't expect a loving parade, but even some fake gratitude would have been nice.
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# ¿ Oct 28, 2021 15:49 |
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AITA for not covering up while feeding in front of my 7 yo?quote:Okay, so hear me out. Little back story. I (27F) and my boyfriend (27M) have been together 5 years. I have a 7 yo son from a past relationship. My boyfriend is incredibly conservative, and before we had our current baby (3mo F) we had a screaming fight about Brady feeding and how he feels any public feeding is inappropriate. Especially when at restaurants. I was livid. I always assumed he would have my back, and once the fog cleared, it seemed he did. Never once had he said anything about how or where I feed until today. I woke up at 6 am, and in a daze Began getting my 7 yo ready for school. I feel it necessary to tell you I sleep with no top or bra, easier to feed on demand. My boyfriend came out and told me to cover up, and that its "inappropriate". I honestly lost it guys. I said that men are the ones who have sexualized my body and there's nothing inappropriate about me feeding my baby. I said I wished he had younger siblings so maybe he would have had that same experience. I reminded him he gets to walk around anywhere he wants with no shirt. Maybe I am the ah? But I think it's kind of weird he's acting like that about something totally not sexual. He even compared it to masturbating in front of him?! Tell me I'm not crazy, lol. My man is super sweet and open minded and conservative, so we have two kids outside of marriage and he doesn't want me to expose my breast when feeding our baby. Kinda surprised he doesn't want blinders on the baby so kid doesn't get weird ideas.
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# ¿ Oct 28, 2021 16:55 |
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AITA for telling my sister in law get over me ruining her weddingquote:So I (30) was due two weeks before my bothers (27m) wedding back in 2019 A home birth that takes 16 hours.
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# ¿ Oct 29, 2021 00:45 |
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Arsenic Lupin posted:Pretty normal for a first labor? Less about the time and more about having the entire family there. Like, what are they all gonna do for that time? WIBTA if I share to a select few people why I am not supporting a friend's pregnancy? quote:2 of our wider friends group are Nicole and Jack. They are in their early 30s, married for 6 years. They met through me, so I'm quite close to them and loved them dearly. Tay-Sachs? Cowslips Warren fucked around with this message at 05:03 on Oct 29, 2021 |
# ¿ Oct 29, 2021 04:49 |
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Thinking about the couple with genetic issues wanting more IVF money, and I wonder if it's some munchausen by proxy poo poo. That they thrive on the sympathy of their friends after a miscarriage or baby death?
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# ¿ Oct 29, 2021 15:20 |
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That is always the sheer WTF of cheaters: people will think what I did is bad, so I need to make my partner look bad, therefore what I did is not nearly as bad now! AITA for making a budget to show how my niece how hard it would be if she married her fiancé? quote:My niece is engaged to her new boyfriend. They have been dating for 4 months and she is just 19. My brother told her that he will stop funding her life if she marries him. My niece is pretty spoiled. She visited me last week. I think she thought I would be supportive because I was also cut off because I refused to divorce my wife.
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# ¿ Oct 29, 2021 17:46 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for making vegan/tofu tetrizini for dinner, after my husband decided to try going vegan, then serving it to my BIL after they came over unannounced, and refusing to remake it with chicken after they didn’t like it? Who the gently caress just drops by and expects to be fed? Ugh these are store brand nuggies, can you at least spring for the good ones?
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# ¿ Oct 29, 2021 22:57 |
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AITA for not having a traditional wedding even though my fiance wants one?quote:My fiance and I met in 2016 at a mutual friend's wedding. We became friends but things didn't turn romantic until I moved to his home country. He loves my culture a lot, so I try to involve him in it as much as I can. Wow, I see a long marriage here.
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# ¿ Oct 30, 2021 15:02 |
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hallo spacedog posted:All signs of a very healthy relationship! Well look, how else are healthy relationship is supposed to work? She can't be a bangmaid once she has a kid! Now she's a mom!
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# ¿ Oct 30, 2021 17:23 |
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AITA for asking my husband and in-law's to watch how they talk about the daughter I'm pregnant with in front of our 3 year old daughter?quote:I have a 3 year old daughter with my husband and I am expecting our second daughter in a couple of months. It has brought up some trauma for me that I need to deal with, I know, but I also want to stop history from repeating itself. When my nephew was 8/9, his half brother was born, and J went from being the first and only grandchild in two extended families to the second one. It was clear right off so much attention was on his stepmom's baby, and I am surprised he didn't act out a lot more. When I got notice about the birth, I sent the usual gift (baby wipes, I think) to the family...and a box of Legos for J as a Big Brother present. His stepmom, my SIL, texted me to thank me for that; apparently she was the only other person who got him a big brother/welcome the new baby home present, and it helped J not feel so replaced or looked over. So for the next few years I always made sure to send something small to J when O had a birthday party, even just a Lego minifig pack. I mean, not quite the same thing, but I know with pets, bringing a new one home, many people tend to ignore the not-new dog in favor of the puppy. And animals will show their displeasure a lot quicker than people will.
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# ¿ Oct 30, 2021 19:42 |
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Less water more blood. AITA For excluding my husband from my brother's funeral after he called me with the news and told me to guess? quote:I lost my brother in a motorcycle accident 3 weeks ago at the age of 21. This was sudden and devastating beyond measure. I live 3 towns away from my entire family and I didn't know about it right away. When my friend and previous professor died this past April, another student-friend texted me and said she had to talk to me. It took a while to get her to answer, and when I hear her crying, I asked her straight out, was it about her family, or the professor's family? We were all friends post class, she met her husband because of him, I nannied for him for about six years. She said the latter. I listed off the family members until I said his name, and when she started crying again, I knew. No one ever texts you news like that unless they literally can't talk about it. edit: I mean that my friend called me to tell me a mutual friend of ours had died. or rather was dying. But she and I barely spoke the past few years, and we weren't that close. Even then, she didn't make a game out of it. The Reddit lady's husband was a total loving monster. I'm only surprised he wasn't recording for TikTok. Cowslips Warren fucked around with this message at 00:56 on Oct 31, 2021 |
# ¿ Oct 31, 2021 00:50 |
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Middle class problems. AITA for buying my daughter a purple tablet? quote:My husband and I decided to get my daughter a new tablet for Christmas because she broke her last one. We were waiting for a good sale and we found one. My husband sent me the link and the coupon code and asked me to order it. When I opened the page I saw that they came in a few colors including purple which is my daughter's favorite color. I bought the purple one. It came in the mail today and now my husband is throwing a fit that I didn't get a black one. He thinks that if we decided to sell it one day it wouldn't sell as well as a black one. This is a tablet for a 6 year old, I don't think it will last long enough to be resold at any point. I told him that and that it was for her and not him and she loves purple. He told me he thinks I bought the purple one just to irritate him. I told him that was kind of narcissistic, thinking that I bought something for my daughter in her favorite color just to piss him off. Now he's giving me the silent treatment, slamming doors and stomping around. So, I need your help, am I the rear end in a top hat? You got your daughter something she liked just to make me mad!
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# ¿ Oct 31, 2021 01:09 |
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AITA for Banning My Son From Trick or Treating for Framing our Dog?quote:Our dog has been trained to go outside. But lately, he has been going number two on the rug, in the same place, every day for a week. I find the same surprise when I’ve gotten home for seven days straight. However, when I got up to get a drink of water in the kitchen last night, I caught my 8-year-old son in the act squatting down and defecating on the kitchen floor. Yeah no, kid-shitter stays the gently caress home.
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# ¿ Nov 1, 2021 00:20 |
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AITA for dumping my husband's dinner instead of re-heating it?quote:I'm a new mom of a 4 months old boy. I'm a stah so I take care of cleaning, making dinner and child care while my husband works at the gas station.
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# ¿ Nov 1, 2021 00:31 |
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AITA for making fun of someone's family after he made fun of mine?quote:I (15M) have two mums. Last week was the 5th anniversary of the first night my sisters and I spent in their care, so I made some posts on social media to celebrate. Apparently, a lot of people didn't realise that I have two mums until now, and the reaction was mixed. Oh yeah it's fine to be homophobic but don't you dare throw the rock back at me!
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# ¿ Nov 1, 2021 14:05 |
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AITA for lettingmy child climb on a rock?quote:Hi, I'm a 34 year old woman and my 3 children are a 12 year old boy, a 9 year old boy and a 7 year old girl. My husband is a 35 year old man. Do you want demon possession in your kid? Cause this is how you get demon possession in your kid. Good news, demon possession might make you parent.
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# ¿ Nov 2, 2021 14:09 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:Still desperately want to know what was really in that surveillance footage There has to be something a lot more damning than what he said. I do like the "I was drunk!" excuse, which proves to me I cannot ever start drinking, because alcohol just removes all the inhibitors you have normally. I'm afraid I would try to chat someone up about some Flannery O'Connor short stories. "No, I'm not racist, that's the title!"
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# ¿ Nov 3, 2021 05:22 |
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spouse posted:There are very few things less attractive in a sexual partner than being insecure that you might feel pleasure they didn't cause. I wish this would fit as a thread title. gently caress, there should be a whole chapter in Sex Ed with this title.
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# ¿ Nov 3, 2021 14:11 |
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If God drat Hank Hill is able to take a girl to a doctor, and then to a grocery store to pick up pads, what the hell is your excuse?
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# ¿ Nov 4, 2021 02:42 |
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That beatdown, drat. About ten years overdue. Everyone has a plan till they get punched in the face.
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# ¿ Nov 5, 2021 02:28 |
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Being pregnant sounds like you are mind controlled by the fetus. There is nothing you can do against these pregnant cravings. The fetus rules your every move. You must eat everything the fetus wants. Birthday cake. Wedding cake. The workplace fridge contents. I mean that or you expect the world to give you everything because you're pregnant.
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# ¿ Nov 5, 2021 05:50 |
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AITA for being upset about an employee making the same as me?quote:For context I’m the manager of a small book store, my boss and I are best friends and it’s just been the two of us working for a while until a few weeks ago. He hired someone new and didn’t ask my opinion on it at all. He also gave her a key which I JUST got a key when I became manager and that definitely upset me. I opened the store last night and texted her to come if she wanted a shift and btw this is nothing against the woman she is super sweet and she has 2 adopted daughters to take care of and she’s newly a single mom so I get why she needed another job I just wish I wouldn’t have walked in in the interview with bo heads up.
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# ¿ Nov 6, 2021 19:31 |
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kimbo305 posted:Who is the she who answered? I believe it was the receptionist who was the op's mom's friend?
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# ¿ Nov 6, 2021 20:55 |
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AITA For refusing to use hand sanitizer?quote:I 25F work as a grocery store cashier. We all know why the store keeps bottles of hand sanitizer at every station, including dispensers. The sanitizer has a strong smell that I can’t get rid of no matter how many times I wash my hands. I have to soak in the tub for an hour to get rid of that chemical smell. I have pet birds and for those of you who don’t know, birds have very sensitive respiratory systems. I’m concerned the chemical smell of the sanitizer could hurt them. One day I had to change my register’s trash can. My next customer, who watched me do it demanded I use hand sanitizer before touching her items since I just handled the trash. I refused for the reasons I stated above. I also explained that my trash can had no germs because being a register trash can, it was literally only full of paper. She refused to take the receipt from me so I just shoved it in her bag once I was done bagging her groceries. She then proceeded to pump an absurd amount of sanitizer into her hand and rub it all over her bags and items, glaring at me with disgust whilst I probably looked at her like she was crazy. AITA? Uh, yeah, rear end in a top hat. I don't use the poo poo sanitizer my work provides because it reeks like gasoline, so I use my own. Which is sometimes on my hands when I handle my pets, ranging from cats to snakes to fish.
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# ¿ Nov 7, 2021 03:16 |
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I'm still trying to understand the whole forcing the daughter to live in her dead brother's room.
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# ¿ Nov 7, 2021 04:50 |
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Thread is sadly locked. But imagine the fun in store when the girlfriend starts dating again.
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# ¿ Nov 7, 2021 05:17 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for walking out of a coworker's D&D game? I remember an rpg where one of the girls threw a HUGE fit because your character could only be in a relationship with another if you two were in real life, so anyone whose char "made the moves on her man" was a homewrecker. She was not very fun to play with. Still 100% better than two others (one was a DM from Hell, who literally moved the game around various worlds without warning, and was surprised when I was turned off by my character being moved back and forth in time when there was no indication of a loving time machine anywhere, and her chars were all 100% superpowered MarySues. And the other I think I have mentioned, who played EVERY CHAR other than my single one, refused to let me play anyone else, and got mad if I went 'off script.' As in she had already written up everything that she wanted to have happen, and if my char didn't follow, she would force the play to that point until my char eventually followed. My char wants to go to a bar? No, she doesn't feel like that, she wants my char to go on a quest, so she'd say the bar was closed, everything was closed, char HAD to go on this quest.) AITA for yelling at my fiance's son? quote:I (20, he/they) live with my fiancé (60, he/she) and her son (19, he/him). Earlier, UPS delivered a package from Amazon Prime. The son immediately assumed it was for him, a package he had ordered. Without even bothering to check who it was addressed to, he opened it.
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# ¿ Nov 11, 2021 03:04 |
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AITA for refusing to return my $400 wedding dress like my fiancè requested?quote:I (f27) have been with my fiance for 2 years. He's 32, divorced doctor and lived in another town but we moved in together 7 months ago and got engaged. Unlike my exes, he's a decent, level-headed guy though he can be a bit overdramatic when it comes to financials. I see this marriage lasting long.
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# ¿ Nov 13, 2021 15:14 |
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NeuralSpark posted:I bought a small condo for my father to retire into after he spent his retirement and home equity trying to save my mother's life in the US' hellworld healthcare system. I did let a cousin stay in the extra bedroom for several months rent-free to get back on their feet after a nasty divorce. Do I go to the guillotine when the revolution starts? I can't really tell where I stand, and need to set my expectations. I like how, as with most "traditional" people, baby out of wedlock is a huge NO, but sex out of wedlock is Eh. More tRaDiTiOn! AITA for going along with my husband's family's sexist tradition because it benefits me and the only person it hurts is MIL, who treats me badly? quote:My husband and I have been married for nine months. I have some issues with his mom talking badly about me behind my back, being condescending, and genuinely being negative about our marriage based on us being a young couple.
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# ¿ Nov 13, 2021 19:25 |
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# ¿ Apr 27, 2024 16:55 |
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I remember as a kid, my grandma would host Thanksgiving some years, but it wasn't until I got older I realized all the snipes she sent my mom's way about not hosting/not eating enough/you're too fat why are you getting seconds/get thirds you'll have enough leftovers for later! AITA For Admitting To My Husband That I Wasn't Actually Happy On Our Wedding Day? quote:I (30f) have been with my husband for 7 years and married for 4 of them. I love him and I am genuinely happy with our marriage and the life we've built together with our children. I was happy the day he proposed. I was happy during our honeymoon. We've had our ups and downs ever since, but overall I would say that I was happy. Although, I wasn't happy during the planning and actual wedding. Why? Because it wasn't the wedding I wanted. No word if the grandmother is around still. I bet she would have looked so lovely in the dress! I mean, assuming she even let the OP stand in the bride's place in the wedding.
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# ¿ Nov 13, 2021 19:47 |