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TheKennedys posted:I'm married so I don't want random dudes thinking I'm hitting on them or something In my experience men are usually incapable of telling whether you're just being friendly or whether you want his dick really bad so that's not really bad logic there. Maybe it's because they're one of those people who are like 'the only reason men and women should interact is for sex purposes?' Idk. I have a friend who's normally fine but goddamn does he ever have trouble with that. A server could be friendly to him and later he'll be like 'should I have asked her out you think?' The most innocuous thing turns into 'she wanted me I bet.' \/\/\/ I'm def leaning towards latter and I've def missed out on opportunities that way. Oh well. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 19:45 on Aug 11, 2016 |
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Some dudes will have a girl smile at them and immediately assume they want the d, and some dudes will have a girl hanging all over them and be like "well yeah but maybe she's just being nice and doesn't actually like me".
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Aug 11, 2016 19:41
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ranbo das posted:Some dudes will have a girl smile at them and immediately assume they want the d, and some dudes will have a girl hanging all over them and be like "well yeah but maybe she's just being nice and doesn't actually like me". It's a difficult situation
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Aug 11, 2016 19:44
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ranbo das posted:Some dudes will have a girl smile at them and immediately assume they want the d, and some dudes will have a girl hanging all over them and be like "well yeah but maybe she's just being nice and doesn't actually like me". When I reached prime obliviousness during my younger years I somehow managed to do both at different times.
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Aug 11, 2016 19:51
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I like compliments if they're about my clothes or makeup or whatever and not sexual comments like nice tits, lots of dudes can't seem to tell the difference
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Aug 11, 2016 19:53
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ranbo das posted:Some dudes will have a girl smile at them and immediately assume they want the d, and some dudes will have a girl hanging all over them and be like "well yeah but maybe she's just being nice and doesn't actually like me". I've been all over guys and had them do nothing and then move on, only for people to later tell me that I broke so-and-so's heart because they pined for me, and it's like jesus christ if I'd been hanging off their nards any harder it would be a jailable offense
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Aug 11, 2016 19:57
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Moridin920 posted:we had a devil's 3some I don't think Patton Oswalt should be trying to get back into dating so soon after losing his wife.
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Aug 11, 2016 19:59
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Pick posted:I've been all over guys and had them do nothing and then move on, only for people to later tell me that I broke so-and-so's heart because they pined for me, and it's like jesus christ if I'd been hanging off their nards any harder it would be a jailable offense why didn't you ask them out?
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Aug 11, 2016 20:05
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Why didn't they ask her out if they were pining so much?
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Aug 11, 2016 20:05
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do women really like compliments about their makeup? I thought the whole point was that it's supposed to be fingerquotes invisible. plus makeup is a patriarchal construction and women should throw it all in the trash
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Aug 11, 2016 20:06
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I don't compliment people's make up unless it's like a rave or something and it's very obviously showy "event" make up, and even then only my friends or people I know. Seems too personal idk. Troposphere posted:not sexual comments like nice tits, lots of dudes can't seem to tell the difference yeah
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Pick posted:I've been all over guys and had them do nothing and then move on, only for people to later tell me that I broke so-and-so's heart because they pined for me, and it's like jesus christ if I'd been hanging off their nards any harder it would be a jailable offense Maybe you just thought you were forward. Some guys don't get subtle hints.
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Aug 11, 2016 20:07
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Business Gorillas posted:why didn't you ask them out? Moridin920 posted:Why didn't they ask her out if they were pining so much? The truth is somewhere in the middle. No it's not. Both sides can be dumbasses about this. Even if the batting average is higher for guys.
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Aug 11, 2016 20:07
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Business Gorillas posted:why didn't you ask them out? Because if I like them for reasons that might include sex, then I like them for reasons that don't include sex at all, and if they never take any initiative then I don't want to gamble and risk losing everything 
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Aug 11, 2016 20:10
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Command Ant posted:I don't think Patton Oswalt should be trying to get back into dating so soon after
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Aug 11, 2016 20:11
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Moridin and Pick should fall in love, get married, live happily ever after, and never post on these forums again.
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Aug 11, 2016 20:11
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revmoo posted:Moridin and Pick should fall in love, get married, live happily ever after, and never post on these forums again. I have a specific end-date in mind for posting which I hoooope is not too far off 
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Aug 11, 2016 20:12
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SciFiDownBeat posted:do women really like compliments about their makeup? I thought the whole point was that it's supposed to be fingerquotes invisible. plus makeup is a patriarchal construction and women should throw it all in the trash yeah I don't really go for the natural look lol
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Aug 11, 2016 20:12
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CrazyLoon posted:No it's not. Both sides can be dumbasses about this. Even if the batting average is higher for guys. Yup that's why I try to just go 'oh well, things coulda happened' and not get all 'you broke my hearttt!' about it.
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Aug 11, 2016 20:13
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revmoo posted:Moridin and Pick should fall in love, get married, live happily ever after, and never post on these forums again. But first, chemical castration please
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Aug 11, 2016 20:13
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i'm not single 
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Aug 11, 2016 20:14
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Pick posted:I have a specific end-date in mind for posting which I hoooope is not too far off what's this mean 
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Aug 11, 2016 20:14
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Troposphere posted:what's this mean oh like for being on SA
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Aug 11, 2016 20:14
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Moridin920 posted:i'm not single Then rest thine self, Sir Goonalot, yon battles need not be fought
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Aug 11, 2016 20:15
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Pick posted:oh like for being on SA ok good haha I don't really blame you bb but I will miss your good posting
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Aug 11, 2016 20:16
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Pick posted:I have a specific end-date in mind for posting which I hoooope is not too far off w-what'll happen on that end date
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Aug 11, 2016 20:17
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Fat Shat Sings posted:Then rest thine self, Sir Goonalot, yon battles need not be fought meh  i'm pretty sure Ayn Rand and 'love and tolerance' are not going to mix
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Aug 11, 2016 20:16
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Pick posted:Because if I like them for reasons that might include sex, then I like them for reasons that don't include sex at all, and if they never take any initiative then I don't want to gamble and risk losing everything it ever occur to you that maybe they had the exact same thought on the subject?
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Aug 11, 2016 20:16
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Business Gorillas posted:it ever occur to you that maybe they had the exact same thought on the subject? oh yeah for sure
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Aug 11, 2016 20:17
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Troposphere posted:I like compliments if they're about my dudes need to take a hint from how women compliment each other things that are generally okay to compliment: stylish/interesting clothing or fashion sense things that are not okay to compliment: how much said clothing makes you want to stick your dingus in her hell, "you look really great today" is totally fine as long as it's not followed up by something retarded like "meeee-OW!" or whatever
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Aug 11, 2016 20:18
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Business Gorillas posted:it ever occur to you that maybe they had the exact same thought on the subject? but again though the dif is she isn't on FB going 'you broke my heaart!' way after the fact
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Aug 11, 2016 20:18
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Sometimes it's not easy to decode what women are tryin to do. I would suggest poppin out a titty to really secure a man
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Aug 11, 2016 20:20
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That's why you need your elders to find you a partner and take the guesswork/embarrassment out of it. Otherwise everyone is just shuffling along frustrated with no properly defined way to show attraction
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Aug 11, 2016 20:20
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Women of the world, we're sorry https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SVQrBDcMTw You're welcome
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Pick posted:I have a specific end-date in mind for posting which I hoooope is not too far off Pick don't go
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Aug 11, 2016 20:21
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Decebal posted:That's why you need your elders to find you a partner and take the guesswork/embarrassment out of it. Otherwise everyone is just shuffling along frustrated with no properly defined way to show attraction i actually fixed this "does she or doesn't she like me?" issue by going on tinder edit: i also ask people i think like me out on dates
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Aug 11, 2016 20:21
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Arian_Samurai posted:Women of the world, we're sorry Yikes
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Aug 11, 2016 20:22
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Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.  (never gonna give you up... never gonna let you goooo)
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Aug 11, 2016 20:23
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Business Gorillas posted:i actually fixed this "does she or doesn't she like me?" issue by going on tinder Dude here's a tip.. NEVER ask a girl out on a date. They hate that poo poo dude. Anyway cya.
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Moridin920 posted:Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. lol
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