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You’re allowed to change your life plan if you find out you want to do something else, even if it means giving up on your current relationship which was built on your previous goals. That doesn’t make you an rear end in a top hat, even if it hurts someone. I mean, she needs to get away from that relationship ASAP, but even if he hadn’t been a garbage fire and holding her to a life commitment she made at loving 18, she’d be entitled to get out.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 06:41 |
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 06:44 |
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:You’re allowed to change your life plan if you find out you want to do something else, even if it means giving up on your current relationship which was built on your previous goals. That doesn’t make you an rear end in a top hat, even if it hurts someone.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 06:48 |
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Me [28F] with my BF [31M] of 5mo doesn't use the bathroom...quote:I feel weird posting this, but I need an outside perspective on this matter.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 06:53 |
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-_- o_o -_- O_O
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 06:55 |
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I [23f] won $10,000 cash. My boyfriend [24m] of four years and I have been having a childish fight and I did something I can't undo.quote:He's a full-time student who works part-time in the summer. I have a full-time and part-time job (he studies a lot). We live together and mostly live off my pay while he stretches what he makes in the summer. Neither of us have ever owned a car because it isn't necessary where we live.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 06:58 |
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:You’re allowed to change your life plan if you find out you want to do something else, even if it means giving up on your current relationship which was built on your previous goals. That doesn’t make you an rear end in a top hat, even if it hurts someone. *adjusts bolo tie Well I say, well I say...Harlot!!!
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 07:24 |
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Miss posted:I [23f] won $10,000 cash. My boyfriend [24m] of four years and I have been having a childish fight and I did something I can't undo. Four goddamn years and this guy blew his relationship up over 10k, half of which she was planning to give him. God drat that's top level pettiness. Also lmao at making GBS threads on a weekly two dollar lotto ticket when you're a smoker. The only thing she did wrong was not dumping him the first time he melted down
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 07:25 |
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Miss posted:I [23f] won $10,000 cash. My boyfriend [24m] of four years and I have been having a childish fight and I did something I can't undo. Lol at that being a fuckup, what a total badass boss.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 07:27 |
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Ive been dating somebody who pees in bottles for 5 months, and everyone is telling me to get out, but all my previous boyfriends were abusive so Im gonna go with my gut here and stick it out
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 07:27 |
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Looks like then only mistake there was paying the rent through the end of the year because it'll make it harder to cut ties with this idiot.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 07:30 |
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I[23F] insulted my boyfriend[24M] after he spent hours being sexist and obnoxious. Was I out of line or is he overreacting?quote:I've been with "Andrew" for a little over a year. We have a wonderful relationship and I cannot see myself with anyone else in the future, but of course we're not going to jump into commitments (living together, etc) for some time. He's a wonderful man, but has a bit of a nasty habit of self-aggrandizing sometimes. This happens only when he's with his friends, but I find it beyond annoying. He's been friends with this group since high school, so needless to say they're extremely close and hang out often, usually at his friend Jeremy's place.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 07:56 |
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Miss posted:I[23F] insulted my boyfriend[24M] after he spent hours being sexist and obnoxious. Was I out of line or is he overreacting? lmao and for those in the back just in case they didn't hear L M A O
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 07:59 |
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 08:04 |
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Yet another case of 'don't throw stones when they have nukes'.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 08:11 |
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Pirate Radar posted:From Prudie: This is what homophobia does to people and markets. There is an obvious, glaring market inequity ripe for arbitraging opportunities and nobody is taking advantage of it. Anyone wanting to purchase gay pornography in one market to re-sell in another would make a handsome profit while simultaneously providing a public good by making gay pornography more accessible.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 08:18 |
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Miss posted:I[23F] insulted my boyfriend[24M] after he spent hours being sexist and obnoxious. Was I out of line or is he overreacting? Guy totally deserved it but lol at the idea that relationship will ever recover
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 08:33 |
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My [23F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years lost my cat a month ago. I don't think I can get over this.quote:A little backstory:
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 08:52 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Short and sweet Depends on probation officer and state laws. You might be able to play it off as “just testing it” if your probation officer is an idiot but no one else will believe it. If it is an older model they will find out next time you take it in for service and the data is downloaded. If it has regular wireless updates (still pretty rare) they already have a record. Could be anything from nothing to adding another six months or more to your program all the way to losing license if this has become a pattern.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 10:07 |
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quote:AITA for forcing a special needs child off my child's soccer team because of the actions of her mother?
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 10:09 |
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SilvergunSuperman posted:Wasn't shouting FAKE! FAKE! FAKE! supposed to be probatable as it really adds nothing to the thread? That was what was decided on but then everyone conviniently forgot about it.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 10:12 |
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Miss posted:I[23F] insulted my boyfriend[24M] after he spent hours being sexist and obnoxious. Was I out of line or is he overreacting? loving lol. Anyone who is that obnoxious and the moment someone says something aimed at them they burst I to tears is a hypocritical pussy. If he was half as witty and funny as he thinks he is, he just would have replied something like "Well its hard to pleasure someone when they can't get me hard". If they were a couple who genuinely enjoys good natured banter, they would have both laughed about it then and had a good time. What really happened is she thinks he's a massive arsehole, and he's so fragile that he burst into tears when someone said something about him. To be honest the loving lottery dude falls into the same category as this. I tell people who play the lottery it's the best method of tricking people into paying a voluntary tax that exists. The odds are so infinitely low of winning that you'd be better just spending the money on literally anything else. That said, I told everyone that in my team at work when they suggested doing a lottery syndicate thing, and I was nervous the first time they did it because I would look like a loving idiot if they won. They all paid in £20 and won literally nothing, and I don't think they did it again. If I tell my girlfriend the lottery is for suckers, and she wins ten grand, you ha e two options. Eat humble pie, or be like "OK fine, but you're probably a net loss still" and try to maintain some sort of level of consistency with what you were saying. Throwing a hissy fit over £5,000 she won but you have been telling her she's already wasted on tickets is dumb as poo poo. If she won millions on the lottery then what you do is eat the gently caress out of that humble pie and insist that for most people it's a sham but you still would like to spend summer with her on her yacht pretty please. Miss posted:My [23F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years lost my cat a month ago. I don't think I can get over this. I mean the boyfriend is an arsehole if you tell him to keep the backdoor shut and he didn't, and he's an arsehole for thinking a family pet is something you can just replace. However, the boyfriend didn't lose the cat, the cat ran away. Just one of many reasons dogs are superior.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 10:22 |
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Incredible thread title turnaround time
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 10:24 |
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What can I say, I was impressed
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 10:27 |
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I was going to point out that BF definitely got rid of the cat and had the party as cover, and shock of shocks there was an update and that’s exactly what happened. Given away on Craigslist rather than murdered, and she broke up with him, so happy ending.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 10:50 |
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AmiYumi posted:I was going to point out that BF definitely got rid of the cat and had the party as cover, and shock of shocks there was an update and that’s exactly what happened. Given away on Craigslist rather than murdered, and she broke up with him, so happy ending. did she get her cat back though??
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 11:37 |
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HardDiskD posted:APSH (All parents suck here) Yeah Jesus Christ. Although affair-mom at least has the excuse of just being mad for being out of the loop, although obviously having a child with a married man is still RATHER lovely.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 11:39 |
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AmiYumi posted:I was going to point out that BF definitely got rid of the cat and had the party as cover, and shock of shocks there was an update and that’s exactly what happened. Given away on Craigslist rather than murdered, and she broke up with him, so happy ending. I genuinely would never have even considered a plan so stupid. Like, why wouldn't you just say the cat dashed out the back door when you accidentally left it open? No witnesses or anything.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 11:43 |
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Old Binsby posted:did she get her cat back though?? The cat was given to someone who gave it away on craigslist. She got the email address of the craigslist people but hadn't got a reply when the update was written.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 11:46 |
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Owned by superior genes
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 12:21 |
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Miss posted:I[23F] insulted my boyfriend[24M] after he spent hours being sexist and obnoxious. Was I out of line or is he overreacting? I mean you gotta take the burn and shake it off. She's given no indication in the post that there even is a problem with their sex life. He's super insecure and covers it up by talking himself up. Wonder if his friends are losers in his eyes
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 13:00 |
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It was mentioned earlier in the thread but just to clarify, Im not probating people just for saying "fake" as some of the best thread learnings have come from experts weighing in on where the story falls apart due to [x] wrong detail. Thats not an encouragement to whitenoise post though, and shouting "fake" can quickly fall into that.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 13:08 |
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Barudak posted:It was mentioned earlier in the thread but just to clarify, Im not probating people just for saying "fake" as some of the best thread learnings have come from experts weighing in on where the story falls apart due to [x] wrong detail. Thats not an encouragement to whitenoise post though, and shouting "fake" can quickly fall into that. I'm a modposting expert and this whole posts credibility totally falls apart since it doesn't mention being gay or secretly infiltrating alt-right discords. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 13:12 |
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Kitchner posted:However, the boyfriend didn't lose the cat, the cat ran away. Lol what a stupid thing to say. Yeah I left the back door open while babysitting your kid, I didn't lose him though he just ran away!
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 13:56 |
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SilvergunSuperman posted:Lol what a stupid thing to say. Also it turned out with the update the boyfriend actually gave the cat away on craigslist
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 14:14 |
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SilvergunSuperman posted:Lol what a stupid thing to say. Big difference between being negligent and a kid running away from the house when you aren't looking and you forgetting your kid was with you and you left them somewhere you can't remember. Or do you think prisons occasionally "lose" prisoners? Kids skipping school is because the school "lost" them? If a zoo keeper doesn't secure the lion pen properly and that night the lion escapes the zoo, is that because the lionkeeper "lost" the lion? To lose something implies an action on your part beyond just "I wasn't watching and it ran away" Kitchner fucked around with this message at 14:53 on Feb 11, 2020 |
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that's a pretty stupid point and in any case is entirely irrelevant to the actual situation
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 14:52 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Also it turned out with the update the boyfriend actually gave the cat away on craigslist I mean this is where is just boggles me given a) he knows the cat is important to them b) he ended up buying another cat anyway?? Did he only realise "oh she actually loves it" AFTER he sold it and then used a party as cover before being a total dick about it? Normally this is where it'd be beyond credibility, but, people really are this lovely sooo.
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 14:59 |
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Yeah, the plan was so stupid I don't believe anyone would make up something so dumb
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# ? Feb 11, 2020 15:02 |
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'as a sociopath, i hate this drat cat. my girlfriend is probably lying when she says she loves it because i personally cannot imagine loving an animal. everyone would be happier if it went away. i know, she warned me about it getting outside... my plan is all coming together...' *fast forward* 'ugh, my girlfriend is really getting on my nerves with this stupid missing cat. i know, i'll get her a new kitten just to shut her up about it. jeez, some people are just ridiculous.' probably more words than were needed to just say 'the boyfriend is a sociopath'
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