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spacetoaster posted:That those spots exist is extremely cringy and I would be embarassed to park in one. gently caress those loving spots. I mean, for pregnant women, fine, but gently caress the veterans ones. My grandmother's loving handicapped. I'm her wheels. We went to a Home Depot for "poo poo broke in the house" reasons. The parking lot is covered with those loving things and one single tiny pair of normal handicapped spots. Those two spots were full and all the stupid loving veterans spots meant I'd have to park uncomfortably far back for my grandmother. God forbid actual handicapped people need to pick up a handrail or something, we'd rather jerk off over vets! this is a bad snipe, whoops. But I'll stand by it, gently caress veteran's parking spots. Midnight Voyager fucked around with this message at 06:13 on May 25, 2020 |
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Digital Osmosis posted:You know, I was about to type something out like "wait, what? If she was insecure that maybe he wasn't into her how would shattering his ego do anything but push him away?" but then I remembered yeah, people do that poo poo all the time, that was probably the point of it. Well, damage done. They should break up and she should get therapy. Staying with her isn't just bad for him, it's bad for her, because she should learn ASAP that pushing people away to prove that you deserve to be alone shockingly ends up with you being alone. You shatter the ego so that your partner will never dare to leave you because he knows they are not good enough for you, let alone anyone else. Toxic relationships 101.
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veteran only parking spots are real??? hahahahahaha
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Digital Osmosis posted:You know, I was about to type something out like "wait, what? If she was insecure that maybe he wasn't into her how would shattering his ego do anything but push him away?" but then I remembered yeah, people do that poo poo all the time, that was probably the point of it. Well, damage done. They should break up and she should get therapy. Staying with her isn't just bad for him, it's bad for her, because she should learn ASAP that pushing people away to prove that you deserve to be alone shockingly ends up with you being alone. That's the kind of poo poo cosmo and romcom media has been peddling for 40+ years, the whole "test the relationship" thing as a way of seeing how committed someone really is and how if they are truly in love with you they'll do X. In reality either the person leaves over it or when they stay in the back of their mind forever after is "is she testing me, how do I respond" along with ever growing feelings of resentment and insecurity.
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AITA for telling my best friend I love him on his wedding night? quote:Last December, my (28F) best friend (32M) married his girlfriend (30F) of 2 years. They had a beautiful white tie garden wedding at a nice estate.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my best friend I love him on his wedding night? Well whose dumbass fault is that then? Huge rear end in a top hat and I watched this romcom and it’s just as dumb.
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Miss posted:veteran only parking spots are real??? hahahahahaha The closest thing I’ve seen here in Australia is some McDonalds have a police spot to encourage cops to hang out and stop lads fighting
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# ? May 25, 2020 07:19 |
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Several businesses near me will just have a police cruiser parked right near the front or sometimes even like up on the sidewalk in front of the store, I assume to discourage people from doing crime. I always wonder if there is actually a cop on the premises since I never actually see a cop.
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pentyne posted:That's the kind of poo poo cosmo and romcom media has been peddling for 40+ years, the whole "test the relationship" thing as a way of seeing how committed someone really is and how if they are truly in love with you they'll do X. I've ranted before about how romcoms are probably responsible for entire generations having all the worst possible ideas about relationships, and not just about trying to start one. Problem is TV writers find stable, healthy relationships to be boring, and/or have no idea how to write one. Cosmo is just a given and I presume trolling their audience after a certain point.
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well why not posted:The closest thing I’ve seen here in Australia is some McDonalds have a police spot to encourage cops to hang out and stop lads fighting Didn't they stop businesses from offering perks to police/ambos etc to stop any appearance of bias? At least in Vic?
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# ? May 25, 2020 07:39 |
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i have a girlfriend, op. i think she's cute and sweet
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# ? May 25, 2020 07:41 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my best friend I love him on his wedding night? "You'll regret it forever if you don't tell him!" I say, fluttering my bat wings and lashing my forked tongue in anticipation for the banquet of pain.
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Gnoman posted:You shatter the ego so that your partner will never dare to leave you because he knows they are not good enough for you, let alone anyone else. Toxic relationships 101. had not considered this hosed up and likely possibility pentyne posted:That's the kind of poo poo cosmo and romcom media has been peddling for 40+ years, the whole "test the relationship" thing as a way of seeing how committed someone really is and how if they are truly in love with you they'll do X. Even if that's was where it came from, I feel like "If I know I can make him jump through hoops for me I know he's really into me" doesn't make much sense to me on like, an emotional-logic level, I don't feel that's would really reassure an insecure option. Plus she went loving nuclear on something he had confided was an area he was concerned about. I think the more likely option is the reassurance she was seeking was breaking him and essentially being an emotional abuser (like Gnoman suggested) or the reassurance that she was right, that he WASN'T in love with her when he very rightfully dumps her rear end because of this. That whole romcom / cosmo "I'll say no three times to make sure you want it" seems to me about satisfying the emotional need of like, social pressure and safety. At best it gives you something to brag to your friends about but more likely it strikes me as the girl-equivalent of PUA rules: an idiotic algorithm for people who truly believe they can't interact socially without a set of rules. Even if she thought she was pulling some cosmo poo poo she went about it in such a scorched earth way that I feel like there's some bigger, darker subconscious need she's trying to satisfy -- either way, get loving therapy lady and dude get out of there safely. Digital Osmosis fucked around with this message at 07:51 on May 25, 2020 |
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Digital Osmosis posted:there's some bigger, darker subconscious need she's trying to satisfy.
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# ? May 25, 2020 08:05 |
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How tf can you tell if a car is driven by a veteran? Military bumper stickers?
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Cobalt-60 posted:How tf can you tell if a car is driven by a veteran? Military bumper stickers? It's a lifted truck on 26% annual interest.
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Cobalt-60 posted:How tf can you tell if a car is driven by a veteran? Military bumper stickers? You can get a veterans or a disabled veteran license plate actually.
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# ? May 25, 2020 08:38 |
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JNMIL offered me 10k to leave her daughter.quote:When DW [32f] and I [36f] got engaged, JNMIL broke down sobbing, and said “When will you stop being a lesbian and marry [school friend who stalked her for years]?” Needless to say, she wasn’t invited to the wedding.
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# ? May 25, 2020 08:54 |
r/relationships: Note: I have one leg
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# ? May 25, 2020 08:56 |
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Uh take the money and have an awesome vacation on dumbass mil's dime with your wife (in 1-3 years ofc) while being sure to send plenty of pictures.
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# ? May 25, 2020 08:59 |
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It was a Pirate's life for me, with an L.
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# ? May 25, 2020 09:03 |
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You've already got the peg leg, take that stupid bitch for all her booty, both the money and the wenches, yarr!
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# ? May 25, 2020 09:10 |
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Evil Willow posted:JNMIL offered me 10k to leave her daughter. Play dumb. "Hey honey, your mom gave us 10K to help with the rent! That's going to be a nice buffer for our budget."
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# ? May 25, 2020 09:15 |
That’s an interesting question. If someone offers you a massive amount of money to do something you don’t want to do, with no legally binding written agreement, is it illegal to take the money and run?
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chitoryu12 posted:That’s an interesting question. If someone offers you a massive amount of money to do something you don’t want to do, with no legally binding written agreement, is it illegal to take the money and run? Maybe? If she has that much money she could probably legally make your life hell even if it’s not.
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chitoryu12 posted:That’s an interesting question. If someone offers you a massive amount of money to do something you don’t want to do, with no legally binding written agreement, is it illegal to take the money and run? A verbal contract is legally binding. No comment on other legal issues, but not being on paper doesn't make it void.
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chitoryu12 posted:That’s an interesting question. If someone offers you a massive amount of money to do something you don’t want to do, with no legally binding written agreement, is it illegal to take the money and run? No. It's not. If she wanted to cause trouble, she would need proof. While a verbal contract is binding, you still need proof it exists, most commonly in the form of witnesses or recordings.
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# ? May 25, 2020 09:31 |
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Also if you try to sue someone claiming that you had a verbal contract to pay them $10000 to leave their spouse the judge is going to hate you on general principles for wasting the court's time
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Does anyone have a link to the previous thread(s)?
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Evil Willow posted:I (26M) bought my girlfriend (25F) a car. She said that was my 3rd and final strike UPDATE: I (26M) bought my girlfriend (25F) a car. She said that was my third and final strike quote:Okay so, yeah. I asked her could we just sit down and talk. She said she doesn't want expensive gifts for multiple reasons, she felt like she'd be indebted to me, felt like a gold digger and felt like she could never do anything like that for me. She said It'd be okay if I occasionally brought her some chocolates or flowers. I apologized and told her that I enjoy making people happy, but I clearly wasn't accomplishing that by buying her stuff. I didn't consider the person receiving the gifts, I also expressed I didn't like a having strike system in place that I was unaware of, she said from now on she will just tell me when I do something she that she has a problem with and that it was unrealistic of her to expect only 3 issues through the course of an entire relationship.
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The Lone Badger posted:Does anyone have a link to the previous thread(s)? https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3792330&perpage=40
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The Lone Badger posted:A verbal contract is legally binding. not worth the paper its printed on, imo
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Ugly In The Morning posted:https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3792330&perpage=40 lmao i forgot about the lasagne
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Motherfucker posted:"You'll regret it forever if you don't tell him!" I say, fluttering my bat wings and lashing my forked tongue in anticipation for the banquet of pain. To be fair to the person who suggested it, they did say to tell him before the wedding. It's not their fault that OP somehow just never managed to get around to it until the reception. Nor is it their fault that OP didn't realize that if it was after the vows, she should just take that secret to her loving grave.
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# ? May 25, 2020 12:17 |
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There are a surprising number of chinese people, which I assume is due to chinese romcoms loving loving this plot, who view the whole "confess your feelings right before the wedding" as deeply romantic.
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# ? May 25, 2020 12:31 |
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Gotta wonder how many conversations that guy has had in the past with his now wife along the lines of "Of course my best friend doesn't have a thing for me! You're imagining things, she'd have said years ago if she was interested in me in that way."
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tinytort posted:To be fair to the person who suggested it, they did say to tell him before the wedding. It's not their fault that OP somehow just never managed to get around to it until the reception. Awww.
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I (23F) accidentally said 'Play with my cock' while having phone sex with my boyfriend (28M)quote:Last night was pretty intense. My boyfriend and I have been experimenting with phone sex for a while now and it's also a means for us to feel intimacy during this lockdown. We haven't tried penetrative sex yet (we tried pretty much everything other than that) so I am still technically a virgin. My knowledge about sex has mostly revolved around my research and writing of gay sex as I used to write male-to-male fanfictions. It must be why it was so natural for me to associate my imaginations with gay sex and let it slipped the mentioned phrase while we're on the middle of some heavy groaning and grunts.
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Licarn posted:I (23F) accidentally said 'Play with my cock' while having phone sex with my boyfriend (28M) Note: I have three legs
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Miss posted:veteran only parking spots are real??? hahahahahaha Dude, I went to the grocery store today and they had a parking spot for cops.
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