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Porfiriato posted:... I mean, the sum total of grievances she enumerates are 1.) reaching into a bag of potato chips and grabbing a handful without asking first and 2.) using their refrigerator to store milk and butter (that he apparently bought on the way to their house) for a few hours until he goes home. (Edit: possibly also 3.) helping himself to dinner mints left out on a table, presumably for guests like him??) The couple are probably named Barnaby and Agatha, they went to Eton and Oxford, and they answer the phone like "hehleau", while the FIL is a semiretired plumber named Ralph, who displays his tradesman crack at every occasion. upper class pretension snype Pigsfeet on Rye fucked around with this message at 15:09 on Jul 26, 2020 |
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[quote="Propaniac" post="506785661"] My (31F) father-in-law (68M) does not respect us or our home at all. Hyacinth is not the hero of "Keeping up Appearances." Do not use her as a role model.
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# ? Jul 26, 2020 15:32 |
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Violin mom is surprisingly evil for just some run-of-the-mill lady.
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# ? Jul 26, 2020 15:45 |
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I mean mom sacrificing the child for her new man is depressingly common
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# ? Jul 26, 2020 15:49 |
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poo poo's the most British Bad Guest poo poo it's hilarious. "Ooooh golly what a treat, dinner chocolates can't be beat!" "PLEASE, restrain your father's tomfoolery, Mathias!" CharlestheHammer posted:I mean mom sacrificing the child for her new man is depressingly common
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# ? Jul 26, 2020 15:57 |
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Christ these people would turn into pillars of salt after ten minutes around my dad, a man who resdistributes the food on peoples plates after they've started eating and once ate an entire decorative fruit display by himself at his in-laws house
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Bomrek posted:a man who resdistributes the food on peoples plates after they've started eating Why??? I can’t think of what kind of thought process would lead to someone doing that.
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CharlestheHammer posted:I mean mom sacrificing the child for her new man is depressingly common Awww yeah, been there baby!
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# ? Jul 26, 2020 16:04 |
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AITA for using my SILs garden flowers in my wedding bouquetquote:Fine I am the rear end in a top hat, whatever. The original post before OP got dragged: quote:My wedding was put on hold due to coronavirus.
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CharlestheHammer posted:I mean mom sacrificing the child for her new man is depressingly common Isn't this literally Cinderella Wait, I forget that's the other way around, but I'm pretty sure it's one fairytale or another. Enough to be a cliche. Reminded that my stepmother for a while would jokingly call herself the 'wicked stepmother' and she was way better than my actual mother.
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Ugly In The Morning posted:Why??? No one else can think of one either! Sometimes he just decides your egg to tomato ratio is off and he needs to fix it right this instant. It took a while living away from home to realize not everyone's pops did that.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Isn't this literally Cinderella Generally speaking, in fairy tales it's the dad who's considered OK* and the mom is either dead or actively evil. Most of the stories with evil stepmothers were originally about evil mothers and the transcribers were like, "No, I don't think we can publish that." *With the notable exception of Allerleirauh, where Mom dies and Dad is like, "WELP I GOTTA gently caress MY DAUGHTER NOW!"
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blackmet posted:Hyacinth is not the hero of "Keeping up Appearances." Do not use her as a role model. LadyPictureShow posted:AITA for using my SILs garden flowers in my wedding bouquet It's pronounced BUCKET! Wait... What?
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:The couple are probably named Barnaby and Agatha, they went to Eton and Oxford, and they answer the phone like "hehleau", while the FIL is a semiretired plumber named Ralph, who displays his tradesman crack at every occasion. Its fairly unlikely Agatha went to Eton tbh (boys only)
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My GF 31 burned my nether regions 34m and my brother in law saw me naked. I’m mortified, how do I move on from this?quote:I’ve been with my GF for two years now. Love her dearly. We’ve been living together for a year and her brother is staying with us while we’re quarantining.
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DemoneeHo posted:My GF 31 burned my nether regions 34m and my brother in law saw me naked. I’m mortified, how do I move on from this? feel bad that dude's so uptight but gf and bil sound hilarious.
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Puppy Time posted:Generally speaking, in fairy tales it's the dad who's considered OK* and the mom is either dead or actively evil. Most of the stories with evil stepmothers were originally about evil mothers and the transcribers were like, "No, I don't think we can publish that." Yeah, I might be thinking like... 90s to 00s sitcoms/kids movie subplots with an ultra lovely stepdad who wants to send the kids to military school?
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So "my FIL eats mints like some kind of barbarian" is obviously Keeping Up Appearances, which sitcom is the ol' spicy junk tale from?
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Sunswipe posted:So "my FIL eats mints like some kind of barbarian" is obviously Keeping Up Appearances, which sitcom is the ol' spicy junk tale from? i find the spicy junk tale to be extremely plausible tbh but maybe that's only because i've done it to myself like. too many times.
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DorkusMalorkus posted:Broly is from Dragon Ball Z, I had to look it up. It's a really stupid name to give your kid. I guess if you MUST, you could make it his middle name. Jacob Broly Smith, it's stupid but at least it can be ignored. Just add a second "l" and have people think he's heir to the British umbrella fortune.
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DemoneeHo posted:My GF played your sex is on fire the next day for my alarm clock, fml. That's a gd keeper there.
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AITA for telling my girlfriend her clown makeup is embarrassing?quote:My gf and I are both women. Since I was in highschool, I've been really into wearing makeup. When I have lots of time in the morning, I can spend an hour+ on my face. My girlfriend on the other hand is very anti-makeup. She thinks it's a tool of oppression/shouldn't be required of her to wear in public, etc.
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Piell posted:AITA for taking my daughter’s violin away? 20 years older boyfriend, moves in after three months, immediately calling him her daughter's "stepfather". lol
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Propaniac posted:My (31F) father-in-law (68M) does not respect us or our home at all. I think I'd divorce someone this uptight. I hope her father in law starts helping himself to everything in the refrigerator and cupboards every time he comes over and her husband forbids her from saying anything so she can silently seethe with anger and live in a hell of her own construction. DemoneeHo posted:My GF 31 burned my nether regions 34m and my brother in law saw me naked. I’m mortified, how do I move on from this? Dude is way too uptight. I hope his GF and her brother tease him mercilessly forever and ever. Like, why are you embarrassed about this? You weren't the one who handled hot peppers and then smeared the oil on your dick! It's a good bar story if you weren't such a burning weenie.
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feedmegin posted:Its fairly unlikely Agatha went to Eton tbh (boys only) That must be why the sentence is written to imply Barnaby went to Eton and Agatha went to Oxford. DemoneeHo posted:My GF 31 burned my nether regions 34m and my brother in law saw me naked. I’m mortified, how do I move on from this? I hate the way this guy writes. Also who cares that much about other people seeing your ding dong, I just can’t relate to that level of modesty.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend her clown makeup is embarrassing? it's weird for someone clearly still in highschool to write this way
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend her clown makeup is embarrassing? ESH, but mostly the OP for making them late because she couldn’t put down her drat eyeshadow. Makeup as a hobby is all well and good, but that’s just rude.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend her clown makeup is embarrassing? Poison Ivy on Reddit?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend her clown makeup is embarrassing? lol the girlfriend owns
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That was not how I thought that was going. I’m happy it did
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CharlestheHammer posted:I mean mom sacrificing the child for her new man is depressingly common Counterpoint: listening to someone practice an instrument can be incredibly annoying. You recognize the piece they're playing (if not right away then soon enough) but they'll be making mistakes. That's more distracting than them playing it right. Source #1: my upstairs neighbor had a piano and once spent 4 hours on a Saturday practicing "This old man". They never quite got it right either. It was hour after hour of a wrong note on every loving bar, sometime more than one. Source #2: I practice the violin and no, nobody else needs to hear that. Everything else about the situation is hosed up and that kid will be gone like a shot at her first opportunity, but I can't blame him for a no-practicing rule when he's home.
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mllaneza posted:Everything else about the situation is hosed up and that kid will be gone like a shot at her first opportunity, but I can't blame him for a no-practicing rule when he's home.
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Yeah she wasn’t practicing for the hell ofit it was for something important. Since this isn’t brought up I assume this is the first time she broke that rule
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Piell posted:AITA for taking my daughter’s violin away?
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# ? Jul 26, 2020 19:39 |
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Getting into that fight immediately beforehand probably did not help with the audition, either Peaceful Anarchy posted:Just because you call the man you started dating 4 months ago daddy doesn't mean your daughter has to as well.
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mediaphage posted:there's no real guarantee that the westermarck effect is real, but it has definitely spread out into popular media. equally valid is the research suggesting that humans are actually sexually attracted to kin and it's 'just' cultural biases that prevent action. At the person who said people in here were defending incest, I haven't seen that? Just people pointing out that the timeline and grooming was a bit more important in OP's specific case than just the incest.
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Just because you call the man you started dating 4 months ago daddy doesn't mean your daughter has to as well.
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PetraCore posted:I don't doubt that societal norms have an influence, but the fact that basically everyone posting on r/relationships and AITA have grown up in societies that heavily taboo close-relationship incest,
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mllaneza posted:Counterpoint: listening to someone practice an instrument can be incredibly annoying. You recognize the piece they're playing (if not right away then soon enough) but they'll be making mistakes. That's more distracting than them playing it right. I had a roommate who liked to sing, which is cool. I'd hear him singing to himself now and then and it was kind of whatever, no problem. One day he decided he wanted to sing staying alive though, and after a few hours of hearing the first two lines in semi falsetto I was ready to murder him.
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PetraCore posted:At the person who said people in here were defending incest, I haven't seen that? Just people pointing out that the timeline and grooming was a bit more important in OP's specific case than just the incest. There seem to be a lot of people in general who take anything but immediate, disgusted condemnation of a thing as "defending" it. This is probably just a side effect of all the "just asking questions" bigots poisoning the well, so it's hard to tell the difference between "I legit do not understand why this is bad and need it explained" and "I don't care why you think this is bad, I want people to agree with me and need to be removed like DJ Jazzy Jeff on Fresh Prince." Re: Criticisms of the Westermarck Effect, I was just being pretty lazy for the sake of easy explaining to an average person. It seems truthy enough to me as a nonexpert. And, even if it's not a universal biological thing, it appears common enough to be generally applicable for the sake of this discussion. I don't think there are a whole lot of cases of incest that are found to be emotionally healthy, outside of the "never knew we were family" type.
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