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Smirking_Serpent posted:My(f39) husband(m38) accurately guessed my intimate history. Why did that annoy me so much? Worth discussing or not? lmao
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Hughlander posted:I (29F) incorrectly thought my BF (31M) was cheating, and I ruined everything I wonder why he said he was going to his brother's house, instead of mentioning the plans with his niece? Not that it justifies anything she did. I'm just confused by the situation as she described it.
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Hughlander posted:I (29F) incorrectly thought my BF (31M) was cheating, and I ruined everything Wow, if you'd learned any chinese at all while you were with this guy, you'd know 妹妹 means little sister, dumbass
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Apr 7, 2021 21:00
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house of the dad posted:You don't understand. He might be wearing aspirational pants. Pants that he wears because they make him look and feel a certain way. And that's terrible. He also thinks everyone should dress up more and bemoans not being able to complain about the fact that his girlfriend dresses like everyone else. I'm not saying it's bad, just insecure. And sorry, I don't believe he just finds that stuff more comfortable. No one finds polos comfortable, please
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Apr 7, 2021 21:01
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Play posted:He also thinks everyone should dress up more and bemoans not being able to complain about the fact that his girlfriend dresses like everyone else. I'm not saying it's bad, just insecure. They're way better than button downs at least. 
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Apr 7, 2021 21:03
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Play posted:And sorry, I don't believe he just finds that stuff more comfortable. No one finds polos comfortable, please Polos I'll give you, but there are definitely people who find khakis more comfortable than jeans. And there's nothing really intrinsically "uncomfortable" about button-ups, honestly most of them are more comfortable in my experience than pull-overs, I'm just too lazy to do buttons. (although I imagine the fabric matters far more than whether there are buttons or not)
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ZoeDomingo posted:I wonder why he said he was going to his brother's house, instead of mentioning the plans with his niece? Not that it justifies anything she did. I'm just confused by the situation as she described it. It's a very weird detail. Presumably, to pick up his niece who is his brother's child... But why the hell would you leave that out?
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Play posted:He also thinks everyone should dress up more and bemoans not being able to complain about the fact that his girlfriend dresses like everyone else. I'm not saying it's bad, just insecure. I'm currently wearing a polo. It feels quite comfortable to me Like with jeans, you need to get the good ones that are built for comfort and not just grab the cheapest garbage ones that feel like a wool/sandpaper alloy. E: I guess there's the added trap that even some of the more expensive ones feel awful, but you should be able to make that judgement for yourself when buying it pretty easily. AnoHito fucked around with this message at 21:09 on Apr 7, 2021 |
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Apr 7, 2021 21:06
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I hate polos and I have to wear one every loving day to work
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Apr 7, 2021 21:14
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John Wick of Dogs posted:It's a very weird detail. She mentions in the post that he had told her about the upcoming dinner with his niece before. So he probably figured it was obvious why he was going to his brother’s
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Apr 7, 2021 21:15
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yikes! posted:She mentions in the post that he had told her about the upcoming dinner with his niece before. So he probably figured it was obvious why he was going to his brother’s Yeah I'm not sure it's weird to say you're going to your brother's house instead of your niece's. Pretty sure that's how he considers the house: that of his brother, even if his niece also lives there.
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Apr 7, 2021 21:23
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John Wick of Dogs posted:It's a very weird detail. Generally when you're being honest with someone all the time you don't go out of your way to preemptively explain and defend everything you are doing.
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Apr 7, 2021 21:24
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Also, he apparently did explain all of this to her, and she just never put 2 and 2 together.
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Apr 7, 2021 21:26
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Everett False posted:I think depending on your anatomy (I've heard it given as a male/female dichotomy but eh), it's possible for your waist to be a significantly different size depending on whether you're sitting or standing. So if you wear your jeans at your waist, that can make them pretty uncomfortable compared to garments with a greater stretch. The sturdiness of denim means they tend to dig in more painfully than pants made of a thinner fabric even without stretch. No one under the age of 80 wears Jeans at the waist.
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Apr 7, 2021 21:34
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The only jeans I wear are caked in old diarrhea from all my gurglespurts
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AnoHito posted:Also, he apparently did explain all of this to her, and she just never put 2 and 2 together. No she put 2 and 2 together. The problem is she got 128,789 as the answer.
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Apr 7, 2021 21:35
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Jeans are stiff and scratchy and I've never worn them since I had a voice in picking out my own clothes.
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Apr 7, 2021 21:44
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Malcolm Excellent posted:The only jeans I wear are caked in old diarrhea from all my gurglespurts I hope that kid went to the doctor or stopped eating his mother's diarrhea inducing food.
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Apr 7, 2021 21:47
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Malcolm Excellent posted:The only jeans I wear are caked in old diarrhea from all my gurglespurts
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Apr 7, 2021 21:49
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duck trucker posted:I once had a pair of express jeans with a button fly that I loving loved because I found them super comfortable and I'm a freak who liked the button fly but I ripped them and can't find another pair that comes close. Nudie Jeans
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Apr 7, 2021 21:50
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I can't get past the fact that they've been dating for over two years and she doesn't know his niece's name. That could make sense if the brother lived far away or they weren't in touch often, but the boyfriend is close enough with Jennifer to take her for a make-up birthday meal. Why would OP expect this guy to pop the question any time now when she clearly gives no shits about the rest of his not-her life?
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pro polo and button up wearing strategy is to get some stretchy wife beaters to wear under them
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Apr 7, 2021 22:06
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I think the real deal breaker for khaki boy is what he does with the button up shirt. If its a dress shirt and he tucks it he definitely is going for the retail manager look. The only worse option is if he buys those Untuckit shirts. Absolute worst case scenario: Untuckit + pleated khakis. I actually have a pair of pleated khaki overalls that I use when I want to infiltrate heterosexual spaces. I wear them with Vibrams worn inside a pair of Crocs. Nobody has ever questioned my heterosexuality in this getup.
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Apr 7, 2021 22:14
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I don't think I've worn proper jeans since jeggings were introduced.
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cumshitter posted:I think the real deal breaker for khaki boy is what he does with the button up shirt. If its a dress shirt and he tucks it he definitely is going for the retail manager look. The only worse option is if he buys those Untuckit shirts. Absolute worst case scenario: Untuckit + pleated khakis. cumshitter i'm sure i've asked this of you before but what's your take on the "french tuck"?
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Apr 7, 2021 22:20
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deety posted:I can't get past the fact that they've been dating for over two years and she doesn't know his niece's name. That could make sense if the brother lived far away or they weren't in touch often, but the boyfriend is close enough with Jennifer to take her for a make-up birthday meal. Why would OP expect this guy to pop the question any time now when she clearly gives no shits about the rest of his not-her life? OP is still very much the rear end in a top hat, but the name confusion makes sense.
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AITA for telling my MIL she can’t see her grandbaby immediately when it’s born? (self.AmItheAsshole)quote:
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I stopped wearing jeans around 5 years ago because I got too fat for them and already wasted my new clothes budget and slacks and chinos. When I had a little more money to spare, it had been so long I didn't miss them. I've lost like 20 pounds since then, so my old pairs might fit again.
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Apr 7, 2021 22:21
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I dunno why chinos have slacks style front pockets, it's stupid
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Apr 7, 2021 22:26
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ghost emoji posted:AITA for telling my MIL she can’t see her grandbaby immediately when it’s born? (self.AmItheAsshole) My nephew and his wife did the same thing and man did my sister throw a loving fit.
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Apr 7, 2021 22:28
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:cumshitter i'm sure i've asked this of you before but what's your take on the "french tuck"? I hadn't heard of it but it looks silly and seems like a way for thin guys to show off their physique. Just wear better fitting clothes if that's what you're going for.
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Apr 7, 2021 22:30
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cumshitter posted:I hadn't heard of it but it looks silly and seems like a way for thin guys to show off their physique. Just wear better fitting clothes if that's what you're going for. * spends $60 a piece on slim fitted shirts at Express *
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Apr 7, 2021 22:34
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ghost emoji posted:AITA for telling my MIL she can’t see her grandbaby immediately when it’s born? (self.AmItheAsshole) 8 weeks until anyone can meet the baby? Yeah, you’re an rear end in a top hat.
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Just start calling a french tuck a mulletshirt.
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Sanford posted:8 weeks until anyone can meet the baby? Yeah, you’re an rear end in a top hat. ???
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I've never seen a man French tuck. Or maybe I just never stare at the hips of men. Ah poo poo it's probably that that one.
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Hughlander posted:No one under the age of 80 wears Jeans at the waist. I’m incredibly fat and I do because if I wear them at hip level they will slide off me even with a belt.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:The boyfriend calls the niece "mei mei" all the time, which is Chinese for "younger sister", but is also used for any female kid. I knew a Chinese-American coworker who would pick up her own baby and coo "mei mei" at her. I guess it was throwing me off because I was thinking of that as something like a nickname, and I know both real names and any commonly used nicknames of most of the kids that my friends & family talk about.
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Sanford posted:8 weeks until anyone can meet the baby? Yeah, you’re an rear end in a top hat. Gonna need a good explanation for this hot take.
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Sanford posted:8 weeks until anyone can meet the baby? Yeah, you’re an rear end in a top hat. New parents are likely exhausted and overwhelmed, a bunch of visitors “trying to help” will likely just stress them out further.
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