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A Wizard of Goatse posted:send in the clowns It's really convenient that your form of creative expression happens to look exactly like what
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It's very normal to take pride in in your personal appearance and make an effort to look good, even if there isn't someone around whose interest they're trying to gain. Big respect for people trying to resist conventional beauty standards, but the girlfriend shouldn't judge the OP for not wanting to do so herself, and this "you just want to attract men" is dumb.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:16 |
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I work at a zoo, and sometimes smell atrocious after work, so bad that stores won't even let me in! My boyfriend seems to absolutely love the smell though...what does that mean?quote:He tries to subtly (but it's not subtle at all, haha) dissuade me from taking a shower or cleaning myself when I get home some nights, and he wants to cuddle and be all close with me after work, and I've caught him trying to take deep sniffs of the smell too. His desire to have sex or do romantic things also seems much higher on nights where the smell is particularly foul.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:17 |
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I used to get into some big round and round with my ex and even my current SO about how they wouldn't wear make-up if they weren't trying to impress people on some degree. But ultimately there's some truth to that in like everything you do and I know I'm a dummy now.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:19 |
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pentyne posted:Wasn't there an AAM about some middle manager who organized a happy hour or something, was encouraging everyone to eat some weed edibles, then surprised then with a drug test the next day? Are you thinking of this one from the BWM thread? Leon Trotsky 2012 posted:https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/ewaq7j/free_company_vacation_leads_to_everyone_being/ ed: page late, gently caress Runcible Cat fucked around with this message at 16:23 on Oct 21, 2021 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend her clown makeup is embarrassing? lmao she called your bluff and you're mad. To me, that's the biggest difference between someone who really is using makeup as creative expression and someone who's just saying that as a talking point. I don't wear concealer under my eyes as creative expression, I wear it because my dark circles are a loving nightmare. You can just admit you want to look hot. I mean, I sympathize with not having patience for 'makeup is oppression' lectures. I've got rosacea and between that and my dark circles strangers get concerned about the disease they assume I have. I'm already a fatty, my foundation is not obligating you to wear poo poo, why are you assuming men have anything to do with this. But all OP had to do was support her girlfriend doing avante-garde facepaint and she would have had the high ground in this weird argument they're having. Stop ceding to the idea that it is inherently oppressed behavior to want to look in the mirror and see someone you find attractive.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:20 |
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teen witch posted:Ok y’all, down for some input on the below proposed guidelines I like all of this, but I'd love to see the "no abuse stories" bit that's already in the OP expanded on, like maybe a guideline to tread extra carefully when a borderline story involves kids, other especially vulnerable people, or animals. And maybe a reminder for folks to consider whether the personal stories that a reddit post reminded them of are a good fit for the tone of the thread.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:20 |
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teen witch posted:look unless they’re using Maybellines Great Lash I won’t judge Wanting to makeup snark but not letting us do it back seems real <puts on my Versace by Fendi sunglasses> TooFaced
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:21 |
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Zurtilik posted:I work at a zoo, and sometimes smell atrocious after work, so bad that stores won't even let me in! My boyfriend seems to absolutely love the smell though...what does that mean? This seems to a best case scenario for someone who will be working with wild animal piss as a career.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:25 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:send in the clowns She's got you there, sister. OP should just throw her head back, laugh, and go to the grocery store with her facepainted GF.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:28 |
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Zurtilik posted:I work at a zoo, and sometimes smell atrocious after work, so bad that stores won't even let me in! My boyfriend seems to absolutely love the smell though...what does that mean? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MRIfvw_8ks0&t=114s
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:29 |
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AITA for asking my wife to not bring her stuffed animal to restaurants with us all the time?quote:My(44m) wife(32f) has always liked stuffed animals, but in the last few years she’s started buying larger ones, more frequently. It never really bothered me, in fact I found it kind of endearing and I’ve bought several of them for her. A couple of years ago, she found one that she REALLY liked, a pig wearing pajamas, about a foot tall, and she began bringing it with her when we traveled, taking pictures of it in front of landmarks etc. to post to social media.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:33 |
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deety posted:I like all of this, but I'd love to see the "no abuse stories" bit that's already in the OP expanded on, like maybe a guideline to tread extra carefully when a borderline story involves kids, other especially vulnerable people, or animals. Good call! Barudak posted:Wanting to makeup snark but not letting us do it back seems real <puts on my Versace by Fendi sunglasses> TooFaced
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:42 |
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Zurtilik posted:AITA for asking my wife to not bring her stuffed animal to restaurants with us all the time? sometimes the correct response to "do i embarrass you" is "yes"
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:43 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for refusing to take off my glasses at a wedding? However, as someone with terrible eyesight, an alternative correct answer I’ve experienced on several occasions is to agree take off my glasses, then just wait ten minutes. Why? Because what actually happens is that without my glasses I can’t see the camera and am just guessing at the vague blob, so I will invariably be looking in the slightly wrong direction. Then the photographer notices and tries to signal something of “look right here” but I can’t see that signal either so I yet again end up looking in the slightly wrong direction. After a couple failed rounds of this, there will be someone who says “this isn’t working, can’t you just give him his glasses back? nobody cares if someone’s wearing glasses in a photo, god drat”.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:44 |
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Zurtilik posted:AITA for asking my wife to not bring her stuffed animal to restaurants with us all the time? I really want to know when and how they started dating. I want to say "This is what happens when you get a child bride" but I'll reserve judgement. Either way she should probably talk to someone about her regressing.
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MagusofStars posted:NTA. Pop culture has told me thousands of times that "guys don't make passes at girls that wear glasses", but I've literally never found this to be true. Are there really people out there who think that glasses look bad?
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:48 |
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It's just who wants a genetically weaker mate who can't see?!
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:49 |
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Zurtilik posted:It's just who wants a genetically weaker mate who can't see?! wearing contacts, like wearing makeup, is basically lying
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:50 |
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Zurtilik posted:AITA for asking my wife to not bring her stuffed animal to restaurants with us all the time? The easy way out of this is to just explain to everyone that it's a social media thing and that the pig has thousands of followers and sponsors and then people will be jealous and start doing it.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:50 |
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Neito posted:Pop culture has told me thousands of times that "guys don't make passes at girls that wear glasses", but I've literally never found this to be true. Are there really people out there who think that glasses look bad? I think thats more because guys try to masquerade with gals in shades, which, oh no and you won't believe how many men in the year 2021 keep trying to switch blades in front of them too.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:50 |
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Is there a way to like batch search subreddits? I look for terms but a lot of the results are obviously not the type of subreddit I would want. So like instead of one subreddit or the whole or Reddit could I just search like r/deadbedrooms, r/relationships, r/aita, for example?
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:50 |
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New Jack City is what I named my line of men's hand moisturizers.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:52 |
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teen witch posted:Rule I don't necessarily mind when people go off on tipping or share their 2 cents on socks with sandals or w/e, just as long as there's content to go along with it. Argue about punching babies all you want as long as you're posting some stories with it. Also on a sorta related note, can we not do the thing where one person slams out like 4 stories back to back to back? Like within minutes of each other? It buries stuff and is also kind of obnoxious.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 16:52 |
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Zurtilik posted:Oh boy! I've been the make-up police before. It never works, stuff that poo poo in a sack regardless of your opinion. So everyone sucks here?
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ShootaBoy posted:I don't necessarily mind when people go off on tipping or share their 2 cents on socks with sandals or w/e, just as long as there's content to go along with it. Argue about punching babies all you want as long as you're posting some stories with it. We can’t not do that, sorry.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:02 |
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spouse posted:Proposed to my (30) GF (35) with a World of Warcraft ring that has the WoW Insignia on it and I've lost her ever since and need her back. Dang, guess that's a no on the mildly WoW-themed wedding
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:06 |
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Zurtilik posted:It's just who wants a genetically weaker mate who can't see?! As a glasses wearer, I'm afraid I'll have to fight you *takes glasses off, gets comically entangled in a banana lounge and falls off hotel balcony.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:07 |
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Neito posted:Pop culture has told me thousands of times that "guys don't make passes at girls that wear glasses", but I've literally never found this to be true. Are there really people out there who think that glasses look bad? So my ID photo shows me staring into space like I just crawled out of a wrecked car.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:08 |
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Neito posted:Pop culture has told me thousands of times that "guys don't make passes at girls that wear glasses", but I've literally never found this to be true. Are there really people out there who think that glasses look bad? Pop culture has told me that women are at their most beautiful when they take off their glasses, let their hair down, and turn away from a mirror, so the glasses logically must be holding them back Zurtilik posted:AITA for asking my wife to not bring her stuffed animal to restaurants with us all the time? Timothy: Origins
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:08 |
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I'm probably going to buy myself some stupid fancy blue-light filtering lenses as an excuse to wear glasses more because I think they look hot and my stupid perfect eyesight has hindered my potential for too long.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:09 |
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Had a big argument with my (25F) boyfriend (27M) about meeting his family/knowing where he livesquote:My boyfriend and I had a big fight 4 days ago and we haven’t spoken on the phone since then besides a few texts on how our day is going. Basically I’ve been wanting to meet his family/know where he lives but he refuses to do those things, and we’ve argued about it months ago so I just let it go. We’re a year in now and it’s made me feel really insecure so I told him, and he got really angry. Huffing while I was telling him, and he said “I don’t comfort him”, I just “want to tear him down”, “you don’t support me in anything”, which hurts because I try my best to do anything I can for him if he even let’s me emotionally. He doesn’t want me to meet his family because he’s nervous of judgement, and they pressure him to buy a house and me meeting them will only worsen that. Apparently they know about me, but I’m not sure if I believe it. He doesn’t want me to know where he lives because he lives with his uncle who he originally told me was a white roommate from florida (a lie). His house isn’t dirty and he isn’t married since we’re on FaceTime a lot, but I think he doesn’t want me to because his uncle and his girlfriend are living there. What do I do? I feel really lost and maybe I’m the one in the wrong here. I can’t tell my friends because I know they’ll just say to leave him. "You said he was your white roommate from Florida. The lie detector test shows... that was a lie."
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Elissimpark posted:As a glasses wearer, I'm afraid I'll have to fight you
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caterpillaropera posted:AITA for reporting someone I thought was creepy… now I’m the one in trouble If this really were a case of "18 year old woman being suspicious of man demanding her information" it'd be cool, but I've got a sneaking suspicion this is just "I wanted my dog who isn't a real ESA in the dorm with me and someone's gonna call me on my bullshit so I need a post-hoc justification to cover my rear end". From my college experience, most kids in dorms can't even take care of their own hygiene, let alone a dog. therobit posted:This one got me angry. Dr. Video Games 0135 posted:Dang, guess that's a no on the mildly WoW-themed wedding "Uncle, the song said 'slide to the left' and you clearly 'took it back now, y'all'. That's minus 50 DKP."
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Ah crap, it was right there.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:22 |
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caterpillaropera posted:AITA for reporting someone I thought was creepy… now I’m the one in trouble I am trying to figure out whether this person has a yorkie that her mom thinks is a bichon frise, a beejohn that she thinks is a yorkie, a mutt, or some other small dog that she's hilariously wrong about. For reference, this is a beejohn and this is a yorky They are very difficult to mix up if you have functioning eyeballs.
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:27 |
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haveblue posted:Yeah, nice makeup. For a clown to wear, to the grocery store I like this. Anyway, content time: AITA for never returning my friend’s oven mitts quote:Hey Reddit. I’m using a throwaway for all the usual reasons and I’m on mobile so excuse the formatting. 2 years for a set of oven mitts? If I left a spare set of like, oven mitts or tongs or whatever at my friend's house after they just moved in and forgot them, even if I remembered like 6 months later or whatever I would just ask "Hey do you even still have those?" and they said "yeah you left them here and I assumed it was a gift." I would honestly just say "Alright they're your problem now." The gently caress do you urgently need oven mitts for 2 years after you forgot them that can't wait to order them from like, amazon or whatever? Especially if your solution is "Mail them back to me and pay for it."
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# ? Oct 21, 2021 17:28 |
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My (25M) mom wants my wife (25F) to use my last name for her PhDquote:
now that i moved across the country for husband's job, he is perfectly willing to lose said job because of vaccine mandate quote:we married last year. he got laid off and worked inconsistently. it was very hard on me because i felt like because of my income he didnt seem too concerned about holding a steady job. he finally got a good job about four months ago. i moved across the country to a place i have ZERO connection to because of HIS career. now his employer has announced if they dont get vaccine by a certain date they are gone. Husband seems perfectly fine with that. has ZERO intention of getting vaccine. my job from other state has let me work remote but not sure for how long and i just declined coverage for health insurance during open enrollment because our plan was to get on HIS insurance. well if he gets fired we can't get on his insurance. Woodchip fucked around with this message at 17:30 on Oct 21, 2021 |
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Puppy Time posted:I am trying to figure out whether this person has a yorkie that her mom thinks is a bichon frise, a beejohn that she thinks is a yorkie, a mutt, or some other small dog that she's hilariously wrong about. Googling "bichon yorkie" brings up loads of results and pictures. It's a cross between a bichon frise and yorkie. Surprise!
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Uncle ShortyB posted:I like this. Anyway, content time: Maybe the friend has been eating cold lasagne for the past two years because of the OP's obliviousness. Just sadly watching the lasagne go cold in the oven, becasue they don't have oven mitts to get it out.
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