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"I think she is holding on to grudgets" They're just little tiny grudges. Not like, full sized ones.
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Midnight Voyager posted:Dude thinks his wife would lie about how she lost her wedding jewelry and doesn't trust a single judgment she makes. Why the gently caress is he married to her if he thinks that poo poo about her? He doesn't sound like he likes her, much less loves her, he sounds like she's a particularly unruly child that he hates but has to care for. Some people want a partner they have to manage/control because it makes them feel validated.
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Dec 19, 2021 22:52
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for driving my girlfriend’s sports car to meet an investor? If you didn't think of this early enough to arrange beforehand you're poo poo at sales. If you thought anyone was going to believe you didn't plan this beforehand and "thought of it last minute" to avoid being told no, you greatly overestimate your ability to mislead people and are therefore still poo poo at sales.
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Dec 19, 2021 23:00
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pentyne posted:Some people want a partner they have to manage/control because it makes them feel validated. I guess that's it. It sounds miserable to me.
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Dec 19, 2021 23:06
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My (22m) brother (16m) stole my gf's (23f) nudes out of my phone while he was using it This happened a few weeks ago when I was dropping my brother off to his friends. His phone was dying so he asked to use mine to text his friend when we were close and to play music. My gf was riding in the passenger seat and he was in the backseat so I couldn't really see what he was doing. After that day my gf started getting harassed by these accounts that kept popping up even after she blocked them. This has been going on for weeks but now I'm sure it was my brother because last night one of the accounts sent her a pic of one of her nudes. My gf thought it was me or that I sent her nudes to my friends. She called me freaking out and sent the screenshots. I was confused and tried calming her down but she didn't stop accusing me cuz she said she didn't send the nudes to anyone else. It was a recent pic too so it wasn't an ex. I put two and two together and I think my brother sent the nudes to his phone, while he was using mine, and deleted the text evidence. No one else used my phone or even knows my password. When I told my gf that she just got quiet and then started crying. I drove to my parents to confront my brother. At first I asked him about it until I could tell he was lying, so I started shouting at him and told him to unlock his phone. He was acting dumb so I took his phone and said I was leaving with it and he tried snatching it back. I told my parents the full story and that's when my dad made him unlock the phone. He started scrolling thru the pics and I told him to let me do it since I didn't want him seeing my naked gf.... I found the pic plus more but not the accounts, which makes me believe this little poo poo sent them to his friend who's now harassing my gf. I don't trust him anymore and kinda despise him rn. I'm not sure what I can do and my gf is still upset. I want him to face consequences.
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Bruceski posted:If you didn't think of this early enough to arrange beforehand you're poo poo at sales. If you thought anyone was going to believe you didn't plan this beforehand and "thought of it last minute" to avoid being told no, you greatly overestimate your ability to mislead people and are therefore still poo poo at sales.  olylifter posted:My (22m) brother (16m) stole my gf's (23f) nudes out of my phone while he was using it This is how I know I'm old because all I can think is "Oof ouchie this fire I played with sure does loving burn me!"
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Dec 19, 2021 23:56
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pentyne posted:Are men required to be meticulously groomed, hair eyebrows beard etc, wear concealer to hide blemishes and toner to smooth out their skin complexion? No? Wow who could've guessed. That would've been an interesting way to deal with the discrimination argument. Immediately require all male staff members to have Kpop band level grooming and watch your business double overnight. edit: turn the bar into a Japanese host bar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B1plfLIaviE vonnegutt fucked around with this message at 00:16 on Dec 20, 2021 |
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Dec 20, 2021 00:10
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Brawnfire posted:Np, I'm pretty interested in them as a group; having an example of an oppressed minority group we can't explain just lays bare how arbitrary all our outgroupings and underclassings are IIRC the best theory is that they were the descendants of itinerant workers who settled down in southern France and had codified discrimination against them based on their names.
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Dec 20, 2021 00:20
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for arranging for my wife's parents to spend Christmas celebration with us without telling her? This mother-in-law sounds like my aunt, who's constantly trying to weasel her way back into my mother's life and saying stuff about forgiving and forgetting, but will steal anything of value she can get her hands on if you let her in your house. Fortunately my aunt ran out of suckers who believe her bullshit.
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Dec 20, 2021 00:33
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mind the walrus posted:This is how I know I'm old because all I can think is "Oof ouchie this fire I played with sure does loving burn me!" Is the fire the younger brother messing around plus his friend? Or you making this comment aimed at absolutely anyone else in the story?
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Dec 20, 2021 00:40
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what is the fire to you and who is playing with the fire
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Dec 20, 2021 00:41
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sugar free jazz posted:what is the fire to you and who is playing with the fire OP played with fire by letting someone else use his phone. Secure your data. Younger brother is the rear end in a top hat. Seperate to that, OP is an idiot.
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Dec 20, 2021 00:55
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The Lone Badger posted:OP played with fire by letting someone else use his phone. Secure your data. Letting someone use your phone is not playing with fire and is a very normal thing to do. If you consider that a security breech or something you are very weird. The guys trust was significantly betrayed in a way that is impossible to predict and what the brother did was super hosed up and relationship destroying.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:03
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Grape posted:Is the fire the younger brother messing around plus his friend? Or you making this comment aimed at absolutely anyone else in the story? sugar free jazz posted:what is the fire to you and who is playing with the fire  "Is he being sexist? Oh god I hope he's being sexist. We should passive-aggressively test him to see if he's being sexist." Lmao gently caress the both of you. The Lone Badger posted:Younger brother is the rear end in a top hat. Seperate to that, OP is an idiot. You take photos you don't want shared and put them within access of a child-- regardless of what those photos contain-- that's called "playing with fire." If you're a digital native this is some ABC poo poo. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Dec 20, 2021 01:04
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Beachcomber posted:Story gains a certain tinge when you assume those rhyme to the speaker. They rhyme in Australian English 
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Dec 20, 2021 01:07
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mind the walrus posted:Oh my you guys are hungry No one is trying to cancel you, you are not being persecuted or targeted.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:08
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mind the walrus posted:Oh my you guys are hungry this is some psycho poo poo
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r/relationships: increasingly loose uses of the word "psycho"
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Dec 20, 2021 01:13
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trickybiscuits posted:This might have been shared already but, here it is am i the rear end in a top hat? 'cuz if someone i hated called me up and said "hey i'm jumping off a bridge" i'd go "well make sure you land on your head" and hang up
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Dec 20, 2021 01:18
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I would not expect my 16 year old relative would mine my phone for nudes to distribute to his friends and then harass the nude person, generally speaking. That doesn't seem like a thing you just do when you're a kid. And I don't even like my relatives.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:19
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sugar free jazz posted:Letting someone use your phone is not playing with fire and is a very normal thing to do. If you consider that a security breech or something you are very weird. But if someone gives you something in confidence you have a responsibility to store it securely. It'd be the same thing if his brother got into confidential work documents and used them to do insider trading. Do what you want with your own data, but treat the data of others with care.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:20
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mind the walrus posted:Oh my you guys are hungry What
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this is the dumbest loving take on this subject. it's his fault for trusting his brother? so dude is lucky that the brother didn't get into his venmo and transfer a shitload of money or his robinhood and short the bejesus out of Apple or something, because that would've been his fault too?
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Dec 20, 2021 01:36
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mind the walrus posted:Oh my you guys are hungry Lmao.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:37
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mind the walrus posted:Oh my you guys are hungry uhh... The Lone Badger posted:Moral culpability is all on brother, no disagreement there. Yeah, I do agree with this, I just can't find it in me to call him an idiot for not imagining his brother would ever do something that heinous. He made a mistake, but I can see how it happened to a human being with feelings and poo poo. Awful way to learn the lesson of "trust literally nobody with private data." Everybody's gotta learn it somehow, and some people don't get it taught to them in words, they just have part of their life wrecked. Naive? I'd go with naive.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:42
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sugar free jazz posted:Letting someone use your phone is not playing with fire and is a very normal thing to do. If you consider that a security breech or something you are very weird. This is not normal. It's basically the same as letting someone use your toothbrush.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:45
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As a digital native, the only people I trust are in cyberspace
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Dec 20, 2021 01:48
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sugar free jazz posted:Letting someone use your phone is not playing with fire and is a very normal thing to do. If you consider that a security breech or something you are very weird. It’s absolutely playing with fire, and the fact that it’s a “very normal thing to do” doesn’t negate the fact that it is a massive security breach. There’s a ton of personal information on most phones, and every time you give somebody access to your phone you’re betting that they’re not gonna take that information and gently caress with you. This time the dude lost the bet. And, honestly, it was partially his fault. When you have confidential information on a device you own, you don’t give other people access to that device without securing that data somehow. This is basic data security and basic commonsense measures like using a locked folder could have probably prevented the incident. I look at it like this: If I leave my gun in an unlocked desk drawer and somebody gets it and shoots somebody, they’re responsible for the shooting but I’m still responsible for failing to secure my weapon. Same case here. The brother is responsible for being a creepy little poo poo, but the OP is responsible for failing to secure confidential information.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:49
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AITA for confronting the bride and groom at the wedding over the seating chart, and leaving early when they refused to change it?quote:My FIL got married a few weeks ago, but they just returned from their honeymoon, and I've heard through the grapevine that they think i am an rear end in a top hat.
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Dec 20, 2021 01:53
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The info sec guy has logged onto relationships
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Derek you fool, you know not what you ask. Borrow my phone? You may as well ask to borrow my gun! It is a level seven security breech that you request! To get to my galaxy s10 you must first get through my butterfly blade, villain, have at thee
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Dec 20, 2021 02:00
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Call me old or whatever but I never got the whole “send nudes over the phone” or “save nudes of a significant other to my phone” thing. It’s not that I haven’t had the opportunity but with data links and accidents I just feel like it’s too big a risk.
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Dec 20, 2021 02:08
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I know Im a weirdo but I don't share my phone and have locks on it because I don't want people to have access not for this reason in specific, but for the possibilities I can't imagine because Im not a plotting person. . At my dads work when iPhones were new and people hadn't realized how important a lock screen was there was a person going around who was picking up peoples phones left at their desks and stealing their personal info.
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Dec 20, 2021 02:13
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My phone is like my underwear or a toothbrush. I feel weird even when letting my GF use it despite having nothing to hide.
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Dec 20, 2021 02:19
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Tarkus posted:My phone is like my underwear or a toothbrush. I feel weird even when letting my GF use it despite having nothing to hide. What about your post history?
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Dec 20, 2021 02:32
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sullat posted:What about your post history? That'd be even worse
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Dec 20, 2021 02:34
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sullat posted:What about your post history? No one in my RL knows my username. Even if they found SA I'd be just another anonymous white noise poster. 
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Dec 20, 2021 02:37
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for confronting the bride and groom at the wedding over the seating chart, and leaving early when they refused to change it? Getting the vibe that something big happened between husband and MIL and nobody told OP
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Antivehicular posted:Getting the vibe that something big happened between husband and MIL and nobody told OP if so, smart money's on it being something to do with OP, husband took his wife's side and never told his wife about it because it was abhorrent or something ---- I (22) am still angry at my mom for not teaching my about basic grooming when I was a kid quote:My mom is a great person and I do love her, But when I was a kid she wasn’t around much because she worked a lot (to clatrify, I was left with a babysitter).at school I was severely bullied.
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Halloween Jack posted:AITA for not wanting to do thanksgiving dinner at my parents w/o my wife? (self.AmItheAsshole) UPDATE: AITA for not wanting to do thanksgiving dinner at my parents w/o my wife? quote:Many of you asked for an update for my post so here it is:
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