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Bee post is full of red flags. He says what's hers is also his and at the same time it's his house. Guy comes off of weird and controlling and needs to be attacked by bees.
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- Sodium Chloride
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Another person not going to their own party.
AITA because I didn’t go to my own baby shower?
quote posted:
This is my first kid (if it matters, I’m 25). I’m around six months.
I have said no every single time it’s brought up.
When I found out I was pregnant I was of course happy. I always wanted to be a mother. I started researching right away. I found what I want ranging from wipes to the exact crib I want. I personally do have the money to buy the things I want, and I’m not dumb. I can ask for these things, but people will get ‘inferior’ products because they’re cheaper. I don’t want anyone to waste money on something I’ll likely throw away, regift or donate to a mother in need. I even show mom the wish list I made keeping track of items I will buy. Her comments were along the lines of ‘that’s dumb. That’s too expensive. You had blah blah and turned out fine.’
As soon as she found out I was pregnant she’s been on about a shower. I stated firmly that NO I do not want a shower. She whines that I’m robbing her of this experience. She somehow makes this whole thing about her.
I don’t want gifts i won’t use. I don’t want lame baby games. I don’t want people constantly trying to touch me. I don’t want to be hounded for a name or if I know the gender. I don’t want to have to entertain people when I’m still suffering morning sickness (the name is misleading. You can go all drat day and night). I must have said no 100+ times and in five languages and she just didn’t care.
So the day of, I sneak out the back early and meet up with two of my best friends (who were invited to the party and understood) and we went for an awesome lunch together. I left my phone off in my bag all afternoon. When I finally get home, my mom starts screaming how disrespectful I am, how embarrassed she was and this and that. I tell her I didn’t want a party and I told her over and over again I didn’t want a shower. She demands an apology and that I reach out to all the guests (she invited like every female we know) to apologize. I won’t.
She’s still being grumpy and won’t talk to me a few days later. Suits me just fine.
The worst part? Remember how I shared my wish list with her so she can see what I wanted? I of course checked the gifts left behind by those generous enough to do so. I would get rid of probably 90 percent of this stuff. Already called and thanked people and asked them to return. No one seems upset.
So, am I the rear end in a top hat for ditching my own shower? Because I certainly don’t feel like it. People have told me I should have gone for my mom because it’s her first grandchild and she spent a lot of money on it. Okay, well it’s MY child and I told her I don’t want a shower and she ignored me and did it anyway.
BTW boyfriend of eight years has been entirely on my side and did tell my mom that I said no, I don’t want it. He definitely was there for me so I don’t want to see comments about ‘where was he.’ He tried, I tried, my best friend tried. Mom just did her thing anyway. She’s usually so awesome but this one time she kinda just sucked in my opinion.
If someone says "no I don't want a party" maybe listen to them.
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Jan 30, 2020 00:49
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[42/f] My boyfriend's (38/m) attitude towards my daughter (8/f) has gotten so bad and he had a complete meltdown this morning.
I hope this is a troll as that post history is disturbing. Complete train wreck.
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Feb 10, 2020 01:30
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I’m [26M] in love with someone [26F] who doesn’t want children.
Who will take care of me when i’m 80 and in adult diapers?
That is the shittiest reason to want kids.
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Mar 1, 2020 21:20
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AITA for telling my Gf that it's weird that she has a tank full of fake jellyfish in her living room?
He sounds like he has anger issues. Maybe some fake jellyfish would calm his rear end down.
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Mar 9, 2020 01:58
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for punishing my daughter for not coming to my wedding?
This guy is 50 with a 21 yo wife and 16 yo daughter, expected his ex to take care of his frail ego while she was fighting for her life.
What a piece of trash, put this fucker in the bin.
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Mar 27, 2020 02:30
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- Sodium Chloride
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There's an article about covid posts in r/relationship_advice on Jezebel.
https://jezebel.com/coronavirus-is-pushing-reddits-relationship_advice-to-a-1842476984
This is linked in that:
My boyfriend is disgusting
quote:I’m posting this for 2 reasons:
1. I wanna show my boyfriend that I’m not high maintenance and he truly is disgusting
2. Advice
Now let me get into it. We’ve been quarantined for days and I’m sick of his mess, I can’t deal with it. Socks and underwear everywhere, hair on the bathroom floor and sink, he literally poo poo on the toilet seat yesterday and didn’t clean it and had the audacity to say it wasn’t him, he masturbated in the shower and left his evidence on the shower wall. I’m seriously so unattracted to him and I don’t know what to do. Do I make a checklist for him so he doesn’t forget? What the gently caress am I supposed to do? I’ve started using the guest bathroom and I am at ease knowing it’s clean and any mess is my own.
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Mar 27, 2020 22:37
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for saying it’s weird that my friend comments on every woman’s appearance?
There was an update on this
quote:UPDATE:
I sent him a text saying that I thought some of the things he said last night were gross and a takeaway from that conversation I had was that he does t think I should feel uncomfortable with his comments. I ended it by saying I don’t think he’s a bad guy, he just has some bad habits. This was his response:
“ I think it’s wild that of everything we talked about, that’s you’re only take away from last night. I’m pretty sure I got worked up saying we should both do our best to make the other comfortable, but I’m just going to assume I’m crazy and remembering it wrong. I bet my real words were along the lines of “you’re wrong for expressing those concerns to me and I just don’t give a poo poo how you feel so I’m gonna ignore you.” To be honest, it’s because of stuff like this that I almost had a mental breakdown last week. I go into passionate depths about how I care about you and all I want is for you to be happy in you’re own right and all I get back is “hey, my main take away from you pouring your feelings to me is that you’re a misogynistic pig.” I do feel bad about my attractions to women and I’ve for drat sure mentioned it to you. I make sure to never act on them because so many people, like you, find me disgusting for finding women attractive. I don’t date, I don’t flirt, and I make awkward comments to women like “I know you’re married, please don’t get the wrong idea because I got you a drink, I’m just trying to be nice.” It sucks that after completely removing nearly every sexual aspect I have towards women from my life, I also have to always make sure I don’t say anything offensive when you’re around. My family is questioning my sexuality at this point, but the real problem is that I’m still overly sexualizing women. You and Reddit decided so it much be the truth. I think reddit is a toxic, lovely environment that you’re only giving you’re side of the story to and I wouldn’t take advice from them. I’ve seen them give atrocious advice enough times.
It’s really, really hard for me to always be the bad guy in your life. At this point, 100% of what I say to you is perceived as negative. There’s not much I can say or do that wouldn’t directly attack you. You weren’t even part of the the topic you’re upset about this time. You’re made because not only do I find certain women attractive, I have the audacity to share it. The comments had nothing to do with you and they’re you’re main take away from the night. How is that even possible?”
I love my friend, but we’ve been arguing a lot lately and the conversation we had last night has made me think he’s immature and manipulative. I know he cares about me and I don’t think he’s even aware of what he’s doing. He told me he wants some space and I’m comfortable with that.
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Mar 30, 2020 01:49
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for getting mad at my bf for changing his sheets to a cheaper set every time I get my period?
Can't believe she doesn't see a problem with bleeding on the sheets/mattress. Clearly whatever she's using isn't working well enough through the night. Put a plastic bag on the bed and put a towel over it, problem solved unless you're a roller.
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Apr 9, 2020 18:37
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for getting a tattoo after my boyfriend told me not to?
The OP doesn't mention if they wanted a tattoo at all. They let their friend control them instead of the boyfriend.
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Apr 24, 2020 00:03
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Who are these people that just feel their period come on? I end up getting mine at work half the time and I never find out till i use the bathroom. Is... that normal oh God I'm gonna regret saying this on SA aren't I
I can definitely feel it sliding out during my heavy days. Ugh.
Even if I couldn't I think I would be able to tell my underwear had liquid on it.
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May 11, 2020 00:33
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With the huge poop smell I suspect the dude is also making GBS threads in the shower. How else would a cornpoop be there.
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May 25, 2020 22:53
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quote:
but I do actually want to build a relationship with her.
She only want to in the hopes it will stop her marriage failing. The step daughter has known for six years this woman doesn't give a poo poo.
Sodium Chloride fucked around with this message at 02:37 on Jun 1, 2020
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Jun 1, 2020 02:34
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AITA for grounding my son after he said he got into a argument with my boyfriend over something from 10 years ago?
She didn't tell the dad about the fire and was still picking up child support even though she dumped the kids for a couple of years.
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Jun 5, 2020 01:26
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Update : Wife (38F) is convinced that she is pregnant even though that every pregnancy test (store-bought and medical) comes back negative. It's taking a toll on our mariage because she thinks I am going to abandon her and "our twins"
Not sure if this was posted, there was another update to this.
Final-update : My wife was convinced that she was pregnant. It went so far that I had to involuntary commit her.
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Hi guys. It's me again We have a lot of time on our hands so I thought why not update the community that helped me. Even if it was just to let me know that I could vent.
I don't even know how much time has passed but I am very happy to say that things are working out. I have my wife's permission to share this with you all and she is even telling me to greet you.
After being in the 72 hour stay it was determined that she had to stay there. My wife was pissed for the first few weeks. It was a devastating time. But time and therapy heals all wounds. Slowly I was allowed to come visit. And every day I went I saw a bit more of the person I loved. There were sat backs along the way and I had to watch a lot what I said and did. For example the first few weeks she wouldn't tolerate touch or something like that. Our trust had to be regained slowly. From both parts. We put so much work in. And even now that she is back home (and has been for a while) we sometimes have bad days where it is difficult for my wife to get out of bed or where I am suspicious of her getting back into that state. But at the end of the day I am happy. We go to counseling together and we are on individual therapy as well. Especially because due to the stress I developed a Form of anxiety. But every day it's a bit better. I have discovered new sites of my wife like the new hobby that she has of making resin jewelry and decorations. Even our quarantine time has been quite peaceful. We still have remote therapy and everything. Things are not normal yet. And adoption is not back on the table as of now. We have given ourself at least a year of therapy before we think about parenting and raising a child.
One thing is for certain. I am still in love with my wife and I still love her so much. Our relationship might not be better than ever but it sure as hell is stronger than ever.
Also she has done a lot of self reflection and of course has thanked me for how I handled things. She is lovely. We are happy
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Jul 21, 2020 16:54
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AITA for turning down my boyfriend's public proposal?
And he proposed at someone else's engagement party. What a fool.
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Jul 26, 2020 00:08
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- Sodium Chloride
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Wedding essay is somehow crazier than this
https://twitter.com/von_owie/status/1286372308525907971
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Jul 29, 2020 18:44
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AITA for telling my boyfriend that it feels like he is deliberately trying to make me fat because of his insecurities?
Throw his rear end into a river. She should have dumped him the moment she realized he was trying to fatten her up to make himself feel better.
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Aug 3, 2020 19:46
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That story feels too good to be true, but whoever wrote it is the rear end in a top hat anyway for using terms like FDIL and DGS1.
Maybe but there are a whole stack of similar stories in the rejected parents thread.
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Aug 15, 2020 23:53
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Does someone have the post about a guy who liked eating exotic meat?
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Aug 18, 2020 19:20
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AITA for “announcing” my engagement at my twin sisters wedding?
quote: have always had some kind of weird rivalry. It’s never really came from my side, always hers.
Oh gosh the op really believes that.
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Aug 26, 2020 00:19
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for punishing my daughter?
Future estranged parent etc.
The future is now.
quote:Fellow redditors. I wasn’t completely honest with you over my last post. The events did happen, but I, the 17 year old daughter thought it be a good idea to post it from my mother’s perspective to be more insightful. I’ve learned a lot about myself and the dynamic i have with my mom. i collected all of your advice to read to her, and instead of having a calm conversation about this, she blew up and claimed that your words were enforcing my ‘rebellion’. However, everything you’ve said and your concern for me and my safety brought me to tears. I wasn’t anticipating such a huge response and although it was sad to see the reality of my mom, i know it’s what we needed as a family. This didn’t do any good for them, but it did for me. I plan on staying with a friend until further notice. I’m almost 18 and will probably attend community college and continue working. Thank you for your support
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Sep 17, 2020 00:48
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for un-inviting a friend from my wedding because she planned to disrupt it?
This screams plantation wedding.
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Sep 18, 2020 19:35
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WIBTA if I asked my girlfriend to apologize for embarassing me in front of my friends?
Sounds like it's ripped straight out of some tv drama. What a fragile baby.
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Sep 24, 2020 20:03
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I missed the thread title change - anyone know what page a toilet chicken story was on??
My (22M) girlfriend (23F) is "mortified" and "enraged" because I thawed the frozen chicken up in the toilet. (The top part not the bowl part.)
quote:So we were going to have a chicken for dinner, but the chicken was frozen. I read online that a good way to thaw meat quicker is to submerge it in water, bagged up in ziplock or whatever. Sure, sounds good. Only we didn't have a bowl that could fit the chicken.
Or DID we? I remembered that the water in the top section of the toilet is clean. I am NOT talking about the toilet bowl itself. The top part that stores water. It's clean.
So I removed the lid, and I double bagged the frozen chicken, and I submerged it into the top part of the toilet. Some water overflowed to the ground, but I cleaned it up. I put the lid back on. Boom. Done.
When my girlfriend came home I thought she'd be impressed by my solution. I told her the chicken was thawing, but forgot to tell her where it was thawing.
Suddenly, I heart her shouting in the bathroom. That's when I realized my blunder. She must have flushed the toilet, and when the top refilled, it overflowed a bit again because of the chicken in the toilet. Oh jeez. I opened the door just as she was lifting the lid on the toilet top and seen the chicken.
I began to apologize for not telling her, but suddenly she became irrationally and stunningly livid. I was dismayed and astonished. I tried to explain but I could hardly get a word in. I went to feel the chicken to see how thawed it was and said it needed maybe another hour and she said she would never eat the chicken.
Now, I was more shocked than ever. Why would she not eat the chicken? It was perfectly fine. The water is clean, and besides, it's in two layers of bag. I explained this to her perfectly but she wouldn't listen.
I cooked the chicken up later and she would not have any of it, she ordered take-out to be spiteful.
We are currently not speaking but I would like to work this out with her.
Before you post, also please make sure you are thinking of the toilet chicken with rationality and not pure emotion. If we look at the actual logic, we can see there is nothing wrong with thawing a chicken (or other meats) in the top part of the toilet, it is literally NO different from putting in any other bowl of clean water. Please I am begging you to understand that before you comment. Please
TL;DR - I need advice because my girlfriend is mad at me just because I thawed the chicken in the toilet.
quote:You don't have a sink?
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Sep 26, 2020 19:47
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for journaling in binary so my husband can't read it?
quote:He says nice things to me sometimes; he'll tell me I'm pretty, talk about how much he loves my cooking, ask how my day was. I also enjoy it when he decides it's okay for us to cuddle, or when he gets water for me before bed. If it was all bad, I wouldn't have so much of an issue deciding whether or not it's worth sticking around for. We've been romantically involved since 2011, so he's very familiar to me as well, which is part of the complication.
Relationship seems not worth continuing. And he cheated on her before they were married. Throw that man away.
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Oct 3, 2020 20:32
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From The Guardian
His adult children act as if I don't exist – what can I do?'
quote:I’m 26 and my partner is 61, we have been together for nearly four years now with our own home and everything has always been great, he is a successful businessman, and we have no problems, apart from his kids.
They are 25 and 27 and have never given me the time of day. I have never met them properly, and they express no interest in me at all. I have tried to make contact with his daughter which was ignored, and she subsequently complained to her dad that I had tried to make friends. He has made hardly any effort in resolving this, which really angers me as I’m sick of being treated like I don’t exist by two grown adults. I feel like I’m coming to the end of my tether with this disrespect, every time I mention it he says he is sorting it but nothing ever changes. What do you recommend?
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Oct 19, 2020 22:23
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My (28M) girlfriend (26F) thinks everyone is trying to poison her
Postpartum psychosis? She needs professional help not random Reddit people.
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Oct 28, 2020 22:26
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- Sodium Chloride
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AITA for taking back my nephews Christmas present and giving it to my son.
quote:My sister and I have always had a strained relationship. I usually just let things go and try to keep the piece. We both have sons who are around the same age. My nephew is 13 and my son just turned 11. For my sons birthday I bought him the new gaming system he has been wanting. He was absolutely thrilled and he plays nonstop.
My sister is bad with money. I usually have to lend her money for bills and stuff for my nephew. I know my nephew doesn’t always get the best Christmas gifts so this year I went a little crazy and I purchased the same gaming system for him for Christmas. I already had it ready and wrapped under my tree.
Yesterday my sisters family came to visit. My son asked me if they could go play video games. I said yes and reminded them to be careful. About 30 minutes later my son comes running to me crying. I asked him what was wrong and he led me to the front hall. When we get to the stairs I see the new system smashed on the floor. Someone had thrown it from the upstairs and it was now smashed to pieces.
I asked my son what happened and he sobbed and pointed at his cousin. I asked my nephew if he did this and he started to laugh. He said that it was a “stupid baby toy” and that he saw people break them online.
My sister came in and I told her what happened. I explained that this was an expensive system and that her son needs to be disaplined for what he did. I told her I wanted her to pay for what her son broke.
She laughed and said no. She says I shouldn’t have let them play unsupervised. That it was my fault and that I am a bad parent. She said my son will get over it and that it was not important.
Seeing my son sitting on the ground next to his broken system trying to put the pieces back together tore my heart out. I walked over to the Christmas tree and grabbed the system that was meant for my nephew. I pulled the gift wrap off and it gave it to son and told him to go upstairs and set it up.
My sister asked me why I was making such a big deal when I had another one already. I than laughed and told her that was her sons Christmas gift. That since it wasn’t important and it was just a stupid baby toy than they obviously won’t miss it. I than told them to leave.
My nephew realized what happened and began to cry that my son had stole his system. I said no his was the one that he smashed. My sister was livid and told me that I will never see them again. I just said okay and slammed the door.
Other family members have now been calling me nonstop and saying I am an rear end in a top hat and that I ruined my nephews Christmas. I don’t think so though. My nephew is 13. He is not a stupid kid and he knew what he was doing. I don’t care that it was over jealousy, he is old enough to know better. My sister was not going to make the situation right so I just did what I had to do.
They all think I should buy another new system for him but I don’t have that kind of money. I’m starting to feel bad about this and I am wondering AITA?
If the extended family is so concerned then they can buy another console for the brat.
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Nov 15, 2020 21:30
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There was an update to WIBTA if I asked my mom if she lied and I had an older brother who died? but it got removed. drat.
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Dec 7, 2020 20:27
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AITA for not giving up my room because my half sister wanted it as a “christmas gift”
These sort of stories (parent remarried and have a new family and I'm the odd one out) are really upsetting. OP needs to start making an escape plan.
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Dec 28, 2020 20:59
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AITA for not taking in my BIL who peed on my stuff and blamed my cat
quote:My (29F) husband Ted (34M) and I have been together for 10 years. We met early in college and dated all throughout. I graduated before him and took a semester for travelling while he finished so we could move to another state, he ended up having to repeat some classes so when i came back we couldn’t move yet and i had no place of my own, so i moved in with him and his roommate/brother Ash (32M) while Ted finished school.
Before moving in i made sure that Ted cleared it with Ash that I was bringing my male cat with me. They had a dog who was old but Ash said he was fine with it.
About 3 weeks after moving in i started noticing that our bedroom started to smell a lot like pee and we couldn’t figure out where it was coming from. My cat is toilet trained so i knew it wasn’t him, and the dog couldn’t go into our room because it was on the 2nd floor and he had hip problems. I started finding clothes on the floor smelling like pee.
I asked Ted and he said he had no idea. After 3 months of frustration and this happening about 2x week I asked Ash if he was bringing the dog upstairs, he said no. At this point i’m fed up, i stopped leaving clothes anywhere but i was still finding pee in my shoes, my throw pillows, things like that. After breaking down one day Ash suggested it was my cat marking his territory as male cats are known for doing that, he said it made sense as it was only on my things and it was a new place. If any of ya’ll have cats you know that cat pee smells different than human pee.
I trust my cat with my whole heart, so i set up a camera in our room, i was paying rent, boyfriend knew about it so i figured this was the way to find out where the pee was coming from. Lo and behold, Ash was coming into our room AND PEEING ON MY STUFF. When i saw the video i packed my things and cat, and went to stay with a friend until Ted finished college and we moved. When all of this happened I refused to confront him because EW and Ted dealt with that.
I haven’t really spoken to Ash since, he was a best man at the wedding but we tend to keep clear of each other at family gatherings and such. With the pandemic Ash lost his job and apartment and is honestly struggling financially. He asked if he could move in with us and I honestly don’t want to because HE PEED ON MY STUFF. He was 25 years old when it happened, he was a grown rear end man. Now their whole family is calling and texting telling me i’m an rear end for leaving him homeless in the middle of a pandemic but it wasn’t their stuff getting peed on.
AITA? Am i holding a grudge because HE PEED ON MY STUFF, but he is losing his home, and his cat deserves a home but it was made very clear that i cannot just take in his cat and leave him to the elements. I know i'm justified but now Ted said that he couldn't do that to his brother and the job market is better here for his type of job.
EDIT#1: ooh thank you all for taking the time to read my current dilemma. I’m currently at work so Had to stop answering for a while but I will get back to everyone in the morning!!
A few questions that have popped up a couple of times:
•Is he in therapy? He was last I checked, after peegate his mom made him go. That’s how we found out:
•why did he do this? Ash and Ted were and are best friends and me coming into Ted’s life was threatening enough that he wanted to break us up. Clearly it didn’t work and it only made Ted go NC for a time. His therapist suggested that Ash had to make amends with his brother (according to my MIL who is the one who reconnected them) and ask for forgiveness for his actions. They reconnected and as long as i didn’t have to be with him and he never stepped into our home I could live with it.
•why was he in the wedding? when we were getting married the party was more for our parents, we didnt mind the courthouse but my parents wanted a big wedding because I’m the first of my sisters to get married. All of my sisters and all of Teds brothers were bridesmaids and groomsmen and we couldn’t exclude him, Ted and Ash are best friends after all and as long as I didn’t have to take pictures with peeman himself and he didn’t give a speech I didn’t care.
•why can’t any in his family take him? We live in the east cost. The rest of the family lives in the west coast. After many comments I’m starting to doubt this next part but I’ll say it still because it’s the information I have: Ted’s profession is much more employable in the east coast than in the west, so him moving across would diminish his chances of finding a new job in his field. I am in the process of convincing all of the brothers (there’s 8 more) to pitch in a bit so between us all he can stay there.
•Why do they think I’m an rear end? His whole family is very very forgive and forget, they have forgiven things that are appalling to me (car stealing, faking a college degree and keeping the money, etc). So they really think that this was just a one time thing and he’s outgrown it and I just need to get over it.
•Did he apologize? He apologized to Ted but never to me which I am a bit bitter about. I was considering accepting an apology but you guys are right and that would be self serving of him and a way to get back into my house and potentially give me peetsd (I’m sorry I promise I’m not making fun I just saw a chance and had to take it)
•Did he pay for the stuff he peed on? Well, since I didn’t know where pee was coming from I just kept washing the pee things. After the video I did throw out everything that I remember had been peed on that did not hold sentimental value but there’s 2 pairs of shoes currently in my home who have been golden showered. He did not pay for the stuff I threw out, and honestly it never occurred to me to ask him to I just cut my losses.
•what is your husbands stand on this? Ted is the best human in the universe and he honestly puts up with enough of my shennaningans that I would legit let peeman move in if it made Ted happy. As soon as everything happened he was disturbed and cut him off completely but after his mom said the therapist thought it would help him to make amends they made up. Ted has never once pressed me to be with Ash or for him to come to our house. When we got married he told me it was absolutely okay if I said no to Ash being the best man but I love him enough to deal with him when it’s necessary such as Christmas (except 2020) and big family events.
•Can I see the video? I’m sorry to disappoint you but no. As pissed (hehe) as I might be at the man I do believe in privacy. When it happened I only sent it to Ted so he would believe me (because I honestly wouldn’t believe me if he told me one of my sisters was peeing in his stuff). As far as I know he has only shown it to his parents to provide proof that we weren’t making things up, and 2 of the older brothers because idk they’re guys and curious.
I want to thank you for my awards!!! They’re lovely and shiny and make me feel like I just won the olympics. You guys are the best.
I also want to say thank you for the amazing jokes and nicknames, if I lose this battle and he moves here I will be leaving him a litter box and puppy training pads in the guest room, just to rub his nose in it (hehe)
You guys are the best and I promise to keep answering comments and messages as soon as I can!!
EDIT #2 mini update: So pee has hit the fan in the family and my day has been awful. Some of the other brothers saw this post and all of your comments and the family didn't have the whole story and apparently neither did I. Brothers #3, #4 and #8 are on their way here to deal with it because I'm way over my head.
I'd like to give a big F you the the messages telling me that i probably had it coming, that i wanted it, or that i deserved it. I hope the peeman visits you and pees on your toothbrush.
Thank you for your concern and nice comments, thank you for the reality checks, thank you for opening my eyes to my many faults. Things suck right now but hopefully i'll be able to give you guys closure or at least more answers in a couple of days.
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AITA for telling HR that a woman in my office doesn’t wash her hair?
Some of their other posts:
AITA for taking my kids friends phone when he was over?
AITA for challenging a friend’s beliefs on abortion?
AITA for telling my friend to please put a bra on when my kids come over?
AITA for refusing to pay for a new screen door that my kids supposedly broke?
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AITA for giving my little brother controversial self-improvement books for his birthday?
14 and lives at home? What a loser.
Not surprised the op is a piece of poo poo.
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My M 31) Wife (28) Wants A Divorce Because I Live An Entirely Different Reality With My First Love (F29) In My Dreams
I don't know that the op thought would happen. No one is going to be please with their partner constantly fantasizing about someone else.
At least it reminded me of this old song that I haven't listened to in ages:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PunwzrsdBnY
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AITA for running the dishwasher while he is in the shower?
Huh there are dishwashers that connect to hot water instead of heating up cold water themselves.
I don't know how anyone could put up with that for three years. Most people would do something sooner. Husband is a real piece of poo poo.
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