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zakharov posted:I don't get the concept of MGTOW fan fiction that makes the guy look awful, but I'm just not on their level I guess. It really says something that for incel fanfiction it still comes across as the guy being a weenus. I'm sure in their head somewhere they think the girl in this story got owned but really she can just move on and find someone that's not a pile of garbage so she wins in the long run.
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May 10, 2020 19:26
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kru posted:Gale is totally fine Ehhh
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May 10, 2020 19:29
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for disowning my brother when he came out as gay, because of how he's treating his wife? It doesn't matter what his brother's sexuality is when he cheated on his wife with who knows how many people over a year, then puts his disgusting cheater failings on her when she isn't supportive!! What a loving rear end in a top hat.
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May 10, 2020 19:30
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You see a it's like a lock and key, is what an incel male coworker once told me. Key/penis opens many locks, is great key! Lock/vagina can be opened by many keys, is a poo poo lock! I once knew a girl who had a fairly abusive past, who did some sex work to survive, and was fairly open about it to her boyfriend, who just asked her if she ever needed anyone to talk to, he'd be happy to help pay for a therapist, otherwise her past was her past, and she was with him now. I am amazed at the 'don't want a boy need daughters' dude though. Like seriously, anyone with basic loving biology knows that there's no way to get one baby gender over the other, unless the dad only has one sperm type.
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May 10, 2020 19:31
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kru posted:Gale is totally fine It looks like the full name she's insisting on as a family tradition is gaylord and the compromise is to use gale as a nickname. Lol at the crystal husband though.
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May 10, 2020 19:31
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zakharov posted:The Gaylord post got an update and whoooooo boy does it get wild This is a weird one because obviously the husband and MIL are nuts and she should probably just get a divorce, but it's hard for me to completely side with someone who absolutely requires naming their child Gaylord. The fact that her family would disown her if she doesn't, and that she apparently thinks that's reasonable, is just so bizarre. Yeah, I get that people have family traditions and stuff, but what the hell.
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May 10, 2020 19:32
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Wait it's funny because idiots ignore scientists but people with PhDs are universally egotistical assholes who only got their degree because it looks good and know nothing that can be used in the real world? Lol strong antivaxx energy here
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May 10, 2020 19:37
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Any story where the key scene is a drunken sexy game of Truth or Dare or Never have I ever, I immediately think is 80% fake. Sounds like a lazy screen writing trope like horrorovie where a couple buy an old rural mansion to get away from the city and the dude is a writer with writer's block.
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May 10, 2020 19:44
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ArbitraryC posted:It really says something that for incel fanfiction it still comes across as the guy being a weenus. I'm sure in their head somewhere they think the girl in this story got owned but really she can just move on and find someone that's not a pile of garbage so she wins in the long run. Yeah, uh, even if it is a very fake story which it may or may not be and could very easily be real, I don't really see how OP got devastatingly owned or whatever weirdo incels imagine women's feelings to be like in their twisted minds. Assuming it's real, I'm sure this poor lady is sad but she can just move on and find a partner who isn't the dumbest idiot alive who treats her like a human being. Oh no, how terrible. Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 19:47 on May 10, 2020 |
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May 10, 2020 19:44
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wizardofloneliness posted:This is a weird one because obviously the husband and MIL are nuts and she should probably just get a divorce, but it's hard for me to completely side with someone who absolutely requires naming their child Gaylord. The fact that her family would disown her if she doesn't, and that she apparently thinks that's reasonable, is just so bizarre. Yeah, I get that people have family traditions and stuff, but what the hell. Yeah, it's important to keep in mind that the "lying to me for 4 years" was "his promise to allow his first born to be named Gaylord". And honestly I'm having a hard time with a hard sever on this one. He didn't endanger her life, and it sounds like what he did was fairly innocuous. It's kinda poo poo that he hid the reasoning from her... but this is pretty parallel too "Our church back home kept praying for a girl instead of a boy." or whatever. Honestly I am surprised it turned out like this though. I thought for sure that Gaylord was a placeholder and it was something like Adolph or whatever and her family were going to turn out to be huge neo nazis or something. I'm having a hard time believing that "Naming our son Gaylord is a condition of marriage" was ever quite as explicitly stated like that.
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May 10, 2020 20:17
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ArbitraryC posted:It really says something that for incel fanfiction it still comes across as the guy being a weenus. I'm sure in their head somewhere they think the girl in this story got owned but really she can just move on and find someone that's not a pile of garbage so she wins in the long run. It's a Voight-Kampf incel test; only other incels would see him as the hero in that situation.
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May 10, 2020 20:21
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Excuse me, it's "Miss Jane Doe." "Ms." is not an appropriate title for someone in this guy's wedding for reasons we can only speculate. You're absolutely right, it's important to establish the intactness of her hymen in this situation
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May 10, 2020 20:51
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Gaylord Family of the bride and Crystal Magic Family of the groom deserve each other, I hope this marriage somehow survives
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May 10, 2020 20:51
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I'm mainly on the wife's side because the husband was both lame enough to report to his mom about their baby's conception, AND stupid enough to think eating certain food can make a woman have a daughter or son. Like she's a goddamn Sim. He could've just been a normal person and been upfront about the Gaylord name being a dealbreaker, but instead did magic spells and was shocked it didn't work. On the other hand, "let your family choose your child's name or face being disowned" is really fuckin dysfunctional, idc how much of a tradition it is.
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May 10, 2020 21:04
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Gale is a perfectly fine name. Just put Gaylord on his birth certificate and call the kid Gale forever. But I don't really think the name is the actual problem here. 
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May 10, 2020 21:13
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:It doesn't matter what his brother's sexuality is when he cheated on his wife with who knows how many people over a year, then puts his disgusting cheater failings on her when she isn't supportive!! What a loving rear end in a top hat. I feel like we've had variants of this story posted a couple times and I think even a goon mentioned their dad pulled it. Seen a genderswapped one too.
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May 10, 2020 21:14
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AITA for taking away my son's phone for a month?quote:First off, this is a throwaway account, if you didn't get that from the username.
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May 10, 2020 21:26
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May 10, 2020 21:27
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Gale is a perfectly fine name. Just put Gaylord on his birth certificate and call the kid Gale forever. But I don't really think the name is the actual problem here. The teachers at his school are likely only going to get his legal name, so if they do roll call on the first day, or a sub ever does it, everyone in his classes will know his name is Gaylord. He’s still hosed even with the nickname thing.
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May 10, 2020 21:31
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Cock carousel doesn't even make sense since you stay on the same seat for the duration of the ride. Thes are the kind of shaky metaphors you get when you allow alliteration to dictate your beliefs.
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May 10, 2020 21:31
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Ugly In The Morning posted:The teachers at his school are likely only going to get his legal name, so if they do roll call on the first day, or a sub ever does it, everyone in his classes will know his name is Gaylord. He’s still hosed even with the nickname thing. They will know.. that he is the lord of the gays. 
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May 10, 2020 21:32
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ArbitraryC posted:It really says something that for incel fanfiction it still comes across as the guy being a weenus. I'm sure in their head somewhere they think the girl in this story got owned but really she can just move on and find someone that's not a pile of garbage so she wins in the long run. They... they think this guy is a Pete. They think that a dude who dickworried himself out of a stable monogamous relationship with a loving, sexually adventurous, resilient woman is some kind of actual Pete.
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May 10, 2020 21:34
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Piell posted:AITA for taking away my son's phone for a month? It's been established when you punish minor infractions with extreme responses it desensitizes the punished kid to not care about the consequences and it encourages them to lie about literally everything since they expect a huge punishment for even something simple. That said, being so weak willed you run to reddit to ask them if your angry 15 year old might be correct, you have a spine of jelly and probably cave the moment you have to be a responsible adult and enforce actual consequences. elise the great posted:They... they think this guy is a Pete. They think that a dude who dickworried himself out of a stable monogamous relationship with a loving, sexually adventurous, resilient woman is some kind of actual Pete. Pete is the guy who broke up with the girl who refused to not go on a 2 week euro vacation with an ex bf right?
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May 10, 2020 21:34
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Ugly In The Morning posted:The teachers at his school are likely only going to get his legal name, so if they do roll call on the first day, or a sub ever does it, everyone in his classes will know his name is Gaylord. He’s still hosed even with the nickname thing. I hope you realize there is such thing as meeting with teachers and administration ahead of time if they're so stuck on the name. It's very, very common for parents to deal with teachers for their kid who prefers being called Katie when her given name is Catherine or Jack vs Jacob etc. Gaylord is a lovely name, but it's also way easier to work with than if your family's generational name is Gertrude or Maureen. Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 21:43 on May 10, 2020 |
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May 10, 2020 21:39
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Cowslips Warren posted:Why brush teeth before you eat? I've heard is that you want to brush your teeth before eating breakfast so you don't smash all the bacteria and plaque and crap from overnight deeper into your teeth by chewing. No idea how valid it is, I've never bothered asking my dentist.
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May 10, 2020 21:41
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AITA for closing curtains to make my wife's acne scars less visible?quote:The title says it all. My wife has very visible acne scars. Obviously, I love her all the same, and I find her stunningly beautiful - but ofc I'd prefer her without the scars. I never told her that because she can't make them go away and it'd be pointlessly rude, of course.
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May 10, 2020 21:42
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:I hope you realize there is such thing as meeting with teachers and administration ahead of time if they're so stuck on the name. It's very, very common for parents to deal with teachers for their kid who prefers being called Katie when her given name is Catherine or Jack vs Jacob etc. Gaylord is a lovely name, but it's also way easier to work with than if your family's generational name is Gertrude or Maureen. I mean, I know talking to teachers is a thing in advance but when I was in school it always took like a week for teachers to remember what kids wanted to be called. It’s likely a bit different when your name is to middle school bullying like a nail is to a hammer but I don’t know if I’d want to count on that approach working.
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May 10, 2020 21:45
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Solus M.D. posted:AITA for closing curtains to make my wife's acne scars less visible? My God, someone give this man a medal for loving a person with some scars.
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May 10, 2020 22:01
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Little Bobby Tables never stood a chance at school, poor guy. That acne story hits all the "aww akward sweet" spots, but there are alarms going off in my head.dude should really work through his feelings on that.
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May 10, 2020 22:02
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AITA for accepting a Mother’s Day gift from my ex-husband?quote:The whole story is in the title.
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May 10, 2020 22:31
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LadyPictureShow posted:AITA for accepting a Mother’s Day gift from my ex-husband? Now she knows her ex-boyfriend is an incredible moron. Hooray for Mother's Day!
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May 10, 2020 22:40
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This made me think of this thread for some reason I guess r/relationships is kind of like an advice column. More like an advice forum
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May 10, 2020 22:44
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LadyPictureShow posted:AITA for accepting a Mother’s Day gift from my ex-husband? Is there a hallmark card for "thank you for pushing me out of the way of that bullet"
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May 10, 2020 22:50
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LadyPictureShow posted:AITA for accepting a Mother’s Day gift from my ex-husband? Man, I see someone being on good terms with their ex as a good thing, it means that even when things got bad they didn’t end up having them get so bad they completely couldn’t stand each other anymore. That says some pretty positive stuff about their character.
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May 10, 2020 22:53
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wizardofloneliness posted:The boyfriend just sounded like one of those weirdos who gets jealous over a pet for taking their SOs attention away from them. The dude has two cats, he just loving hates dogs and doesn't want his partner to have them.
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May 10, 2020 22:58
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AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to bleed all over the sheets (again)?quote:My gf gets a heavy period the first 2-3 days. I have nothing against periods, they’re natural and if leaks happen they happen.
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May 10, 2020 23:15
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to bleed all over the sheets (again)? Who are these people that just feel their period come on? I end up getting mine at work half the time and I never find out till i use the bathroom. Is... that normal oh God I'm gonna regret saying this on SA aren't I
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May 10, 2020 23:27
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I think the key thing in the update post is that the husband refuses to allow Gaylord as even a middle name, which imo is p. unreasonable.
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Dixville posted:Who are these people that just feel their period come on? I end up getting mine at work half the time and I never find out till i use the bathroom. Is... that normal oh God I'm gonna regret saying this on SA aren't I Nah, you're not weird. It's the same for me most of the time (or the opposite where I think I started my period, go check, and nothing). I always heard about people feeling it come on, but that was never the case for me.
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