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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for asking my ex to consider signing over rights to my wife? lmfao he didn't even ask his wife beforehand, fuckin genius My [24F] boyfriend [26M] of 5 months yelled at me and started a huge argument because I'm helping a friend sue someone quote:My boyfriend Tyler and I haven't been together that long so I wanted to see if other people think his behavior is a red flag and something to watch out for.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 05:54 |
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Miss posted:lmfao he didn't even ask his wife beforehand, fuckin genius If I've learned anything from the SA legal advice thread its that 95% of the times lawyers are basically there to say "no don't do that it is illegal" to clients who dont listen even while paying $400 an hour to listen to it. Gonna be real fun when OP gets a court summons and all her "letters" are entered as evidence of harassment and intimidation.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:03 |
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Miss posted:lmfao he didn't even ask his wife beforehand, fuckin genius I don’t see any yelling but this lady is a dumbo. Filing small claims papers is one thing demand letters and poo poo is a whole different ball game lol.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:07 |
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MarcusSA posted:I don’t see any yelling but this lady is a dumbo. The comments, most having been deleted, all focused on telling her to seriously ask her BF why he is so upset over her "helping a friend" and that he's probably a deadbeat who also owes people money.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:09 |
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pentyne posted:Gonna be real fun when OP gets a court summons and all her "letters" are entered as evidence of harassment and intimidation. Oh cool you're the boyfriend from the story!
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:12 |
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Tomfoolery posted:Oh cool you're the boyfriend from the story! They ain’t wrong though. Helping with the small claims court paper work is fine. Sending fake legalese demand letters is lol and dumb.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:16 |
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MarcusSA posted:They ain’t wrong though. Helping with the small claims court paper work is fine. It might be dumb, but jumping straight to harassment and intimidation is exactly what the boyfriend did.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:28 |
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me (17M) hosed up by getting into a fight with my (32F) auntquote:I was in my room beating my monster meat and my aunt was listening at the door which was slightly creaky and opened just a hair, I had forgotten to latch the little hooky thing that makes it close all the way (it's drafty and no permanent locks because my Mom doesn't like them, she likes to burst in on me randomly to see what I'm up to or offer me cooked food / sandwiches from the kitchen) so anyways I'm slamming that donkey for a clam chowder explosion and my dubiously full named aunt "Felyenmahne Phuiz Chalk" is moaning from the other side of the door. Every time I start stroking the badstick I have to stop because incest is not my groove and it's breaking up the flow of my solo dance with one eyed Solomon. So it's 1 pump, 2 pump, moan, look of disgust on my face, stop, wait, no moaning, 1 pump, 2 pump, moan - I can tell she's just trying to wait until I get close to splurting before she slams the door open and tries to gobble me down again, and I'm trying to have a magic mike moment to myself for once and climax into a teddy bear I cut a hole in using a jigsaw. (it just feels cleaner, im not into animals like that) eventually I get pissed off and I jump up from my bed stark rear end naked and open the door completely and lo and behold my aunt is totally nude riding some sort of makeshift dildo she crafted out of kitchen appliances and an electric egg whipper. Alright, so it's whipping a different type of egg, no big deal, its not my tools anyways it's my folks and she's gonna have to explain that one not me. Now I don't want to hear any of that "This is faaaaaaaaaaaake" poo poo. I 100% believe that a 17 year old wrote this.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:31 |
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I mean it is a threat, it’s just the normal, legal kind of threat instead of “pay me or I hit you myself, no middleman”
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:42 |
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MarcusSA posted:They ain’t wrong though. Helping with the small claims court paper work is fine. OP posted:I started with helping my friend write a demand letter... OP didn't send the letters, she helped her friend write them. Read the whole post.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 06:51 |
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mllaneza posted:OP didn't send the letters, she helped her friend write them. Read the whole post. Hey listen pal this is the r/relationships thread and we absolutely do not tolerate that kind if talk here. Going off half-cocked after reading three random sentences in two separate posts is our God-given right.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:20 |
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Can’t get along with my BFs parentsquote:I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 4.5 years - going on 5.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:29 |
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Lucrece posted:me (17M) hosed up by getting into a fight with my (32F) aunt
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:33 |
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MarcusSA posted:They ain’t wrong though. Helping with the small claims court paper work is fine. What is "fake" about letters saying "please pay me the money you owe me or I will take you to small claims court" when she intends on taking the person to small claims court if they do not pay the money they owe her?
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:34 |
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Lucrece posted:Can’t get along with my BFs parents What a bunch of losers, enjoying popular things and going on vacation popular for 12 year olds with their 12 year old.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:36 |
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If your daughter is literally fleeing the country (all the way to France) to escape living in your house, that should be a sign of how bad things really are. Then again, if that guy was a (ex) cop, I'm not surprised.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:40 |
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AITA for telling my niece she sounds like a cartoon character when she speaks Japanese?quote:My niece (16F) is super into Japanese anime. Has a little group of friends that are all super into it. Draws characters and all that jazz. I watch anime too and speak Japanese conversationally fluent but no means can pass as a native speaker.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:40 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my niece she sounds like a cartoon character when she speaks Japanese? Gonna go with NTA. He didn’t berate her for it or anything and he showed her clear examples of what she was doing / should be doing.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:43 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my niece she sounds like a cartoon character when she speaks Japanese? Wasted opportunity not taking a trip with her. My family on the other hand told my very gringo Dad that “embarazada” meant what an English speaker thinks it would so that when we went to Mexico we could soak in the baffled/alarmed looks and dios mios when he kept telling people my youngest (14) sister was too pregnant to use her Spanish.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:49 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my niece she sounds like a cartoon character when she speaks Japanese? NTA. I watched my stepfather hit some poor dude at a Pemex in Mexico with his perfect school boy Spanish and get a response of "What the gently caress did you just say?". How you speak is important anywhere you go and any language you speak in any nation on Earth.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:52 |
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Yeah. Better to learn that early
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:54 |
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I think he could have stopped before playing English cartoons and saying "that's what you sound like." Surely she got the point when he said that people in Japan don't actually talk like anime and showed her examples. But it is better to learn that than not, absolutely.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 07:59 |
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SirSamVimes posted:What is "fake" about letters saying "please pay me the money you owe me or I will take you to small claims court" when she intends on taking the person to small claims court if they do not pay the money they owe her? A letter before action is standard protocol for a court claim in the UK. You basically have to send one before you try to sue. There are templates and stuff available https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/law-and-courts/legal-system/taking-legal-action/small-claims/making-a-small-claim/
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 08:02 |
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My lawyer in CA just sent one on my behalf, it was some kind of letter of intent. The way he worded it in the emails made it sound like it was standard procedure for this sort of thing. Basically it tells them pay up or waste a bunch of time in court over whatever relatively small amount of money. In my case it worked, it was for like half a month of rent that they owed and even if they were right (they weren't) I don't think it's worth bothering their lawyers about and going to the court and all that.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 08:21 |
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life is a joke posted:My lawyer in CA just sent one on my behalf, it was some kind of letter of intent. The way he worded it in the emails made it sound like it was standard procedure for this sort of thing. Basically it tells them pay up or waste a bunch of time in court over whatever relatively small amount of money. In my case it worked, it was for like half a month of rent that they owed and even if they were right (they weren't) I don't think it's worth bothering their lawyers about and going to the court and all that. Landlords rot in hell
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 08:26 |
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Ziv Zulander posted:Landlords rot in hell Woah! What's with this sudden disdain for landlords???
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 08:30 |
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Ziv Zulander posted:Landlords rot in hell in this of all decades, that is more possible than ever
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 08:33 |
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pay half a month of rent or we'll sue you. gently caress landlords.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 09:26 |
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Congratulation to your inheritance! My stepfather (60) with a compromised immune system is going back to work amid the virus currently. He’s a hardcore MAGA person and thinks this is all just a hoax and nonsense As said above my stepfather is a diabetic with a compromised immune system who is going back to work Monday. He thinks the virus is a bunch of BS and doesn’t expect to get it, even after the local government predicts 75% of my local population to get it. Me and my mother are preparing for quarantine as she could very easily get the virus. How do we convince him this is more serious than he actually thinks it is ??? (Note: he only believes in what Fox News/trump says and that’s it)
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 09:42 |
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I [29 F] love my boyfriend [34 M]... but there is an extreme cleanliness problemquote:TL;DR: My boyfriend doesn't wipe enough "back there" to an extreme degree and it has affected our love life. I am worried that my disgust will doom our intimacy and also the relationship, and this situation is making me very depressed. I love him so much and feel so shallow for having this be the reason the relationship fails.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 09:47 |
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Boomer energy spike detected AITA for telling my Dad it was “not his place” to tell me that I should go into work? Not the A-hole Pretty short story I guess. I was talking to my Dad. I decided to work from home (which my boss was OK with) for a lot of reasons. My Dad said, “what, you’re working from home again today?” After the first day. I said yes. He said, “and your boss is still coming in?” I said yes. He said, “That’s absolutely ridiculous, you need to go in next week...If the boss is in you’ll be in.” I guess I was frustrated about this because he acts like he knows everything about my boss and my workplace environment without knowing anything about it. I said, “I’m an adult. It’s not your place to tell me when I should or shouldn’t go into work.” He was furious and said this was an extremely rude thing to say, and blocked me. Was it really that rude? The reaction was really strong.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 10:15 |
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Hm... this is kind of why I've stopped calling mom recently. Yeah gently caress that noise
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 10:53 |
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Lucrece posted:Can’t get along with my BFs parents World famous not just in Boise, but in the entire Boise metro area.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 11:26 |
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Shasta Orange Soda posted:World famous not just in Boise, but in the entire Boise metro area. Not only that, he plays trombone
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 11:28 |
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AITA for telling my dad he's not *cool*quote:I'm 17 and my dad always sends me memes that aren't funny or he clearly doesn't know what they mean. His favorite one is Kermit drinking tea. It was not funny through first ten times. He still thinks I play Minecraft too. I think he's trying to be the cool dad but it's just corny and lame.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 12:00 |
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In the Boise Trombone story, whose 12 year old daughter are his parents taking on trips if her boyfriend is their only child?
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 12:07 |
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Barudak posted:In the Boise Trombone story, whose 12 year old daughter are his parents taking on trips if her boyfriend is their only child? "They are well off and have no other children in higher education"
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 12:13 |
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Licarn posted:"They are well off and have no other children in higher education" Well yeah, it says their anti weed in the OP
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 12:15 |
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Licarn posted:AITA for telling my dad he's not *cool* I’m like 80% sure I understand what he is saying in his edit.
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# ? Mar 22, 2020 12:17 |
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Licarn posted:"They are well off and have no other children in higher education" Oooooh. I was reading that as they have no other children at all, because why else would she get bent out of shape but, you know, rest of post I guess.
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