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Mr. Lobe posted:what if a utilikilt, but the whole body That's a muumuu
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AITA for not making coffee how my fiance wants me toquote:Weird title, I (23f) know, but this has been a point of contention for a while. My fiance (25m) is a foodie and is extremely particular about a few things, one of them being coffee. We use a manual grinder, get distilled water (the water in our area is really hard and according to him affects the taste, but I don't notice anything), and we have an Aeropress and a metal coffee filter to make the coffee. I'm very much not a foodie (unless being a Sour Patch Kids connoisseur is a thing). My fiance weighs his coffee beans to make sure that he's using the exact right amount, changes the setting on the coffee grinder depending on whether he's using the Aeropress or the metal coffee filter, measures the water, and if he's using the Aeropress lets the coffee grounds and water brew for a certain amount of time before actually making the coffee. On the other hand, I use a scoop to measure my coffee beans, use whatever setting the grinder is on, will usually just use tap water, eyeball the water instead of measuring it, and don't let it sit to brew. And y'know what? It's fine. It tastes fine. It makes me happy. The end. Thank you for coming to my TedTalk. Predictably, the second highest comment on Reddit advised her to call off the wedding and break up with him.
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# ? May 22, 2021 19:31 |
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Don't talk to me or my decaf ever again
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# ? May 22, 2021 19:48 |
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AITA for feeding my friends baby soda?quote:Hey everybody.
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# ? May 22, 2021 19:53 |
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My Girlfriend (27f) has been giving me(29m) the silent treatment for two days because i follow a female comedian on Instagram.quote:She and i have been dating for 3 years. She keeps on checking my following and followers list almost every week and has always been passive agressive if i follow any women (be it a comedian, digital artist, general content creator) on instagram other than my friends circle(these are not even lewd accounts, maybe a girl who just sings or cracks jokes) and I'd just unfollow them so she'd start talking to me again. It has been happening over and over again and I'm thinking to myself what's even wrong if its a woman, I'm not remotely attracted to them and on top of that they're unknown. Me and my girlfriend live together and she hasn't even interacted with me for two straight days as i still haven't unfollowed this comedian. The last silent treatment from her was for four days and then i unfollowed those accounts and apologized for it. I do love her but I don't know how to proceed with this.
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# ? May 22, 2021 19:59 |
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DemoneeHo posted:My Girlfriend (27f) has been giving me(29m) the silent treatment for two days because i follow a female comedian on Instagram. Well she wipes front to back what else is he supposed to do?
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AITA for how I reacted to my BIL lying to my sisterquote:So I am (26m). My sister is (28f) my BIL is (30m) and my wife is (28f).
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# ? May 22, 2021 20:23 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for how I reacted to my BIL lying to my sister YTA for not yelling more obscenities or going over and murdering BIL
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# ? May 22, 2021 20:40 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for how I reacted to my BIL lying to my sister Just another man in the process of abandoning his sick wife, nothing to see here.
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for feeding my friends baby soda?
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# ? May 22, 2021 20:47 |
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Babies can have a little sprite, as a treat
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# ? May 22, 2021 20:50 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for how I reacted to my BIL lying to my sister Kill BIL
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# ? May 22, 2021 20:50 |
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Hughlander posted:he wanted to go to a friends house and party For three loving months?!?
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# ? May 22, 2021 21:15 |
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This one comes with a fun little surprise. Someone I follow on IG posted a story of himself driving 170 mph on the freeway. Can I report him? quote:The person driving the car lives in Los Angelas, CA which is a different state from me. I screen recorded his video for proof, but his license plate is not in the video. I also don’t know his full legal name - just his last name. Sounds super reasonable, right? Let's go into the comments, where the question of "who is this guy and how do you know him" comes up. quote:He’s my ex’s friend who I follow through a fake account as I follow every guy she follows. Would love nothing more than to send her friends to prison. Keeping the highway safe from morons is just a plus. quote:I would just send the video anonymously with all the details that I know and hope they investigate on their own. I may give them my ex’s information saying that she knows who he is and can help them find him if she’s willing to cooperate. Would be funny to get her involved lol Huh. Let's have a look at his post history! I’m [31M] currently in talking/dating stages with two girls who I really like. Would it be immoral to establish exclusivity with both of them for at least a few months until I decide who I like more? quote:I was loyal in my last relationship and it ended badly, so I don’t want to put all my eggs in one basket ever again - at least until marriage. Would it be immoral to have multiple girlfriends at once (2-4)? quote:But relationships usually fail.. I don’t want to be in the situation I was in a few months ago where I was ready to commit to marriage and prioritized my gf over everything and she still left me because all of a sudden she felt like she didn’t love me anymore. I need a backup incase I get broken up with again. Worst case scenario, neither breaks up with me and I have to end things with someone BUT - they are both pretty, sweet girls who will have no problem finding someone else. It’s harder for guys, so I need to solidify as many exclusive relationships as I can. quote:Yeah it’s not natural for me either but it seems like the most logical, game-theory solution for a guy looking for a serious relationship.. just get as many girlfriends as you can (with girls you can see yourself with long term), and chances are one of them will work out. Worst case scenario is that they all work out and you have to break someone’s heart. But they’re both 5 years younger than me so they’ll have more time to find someone else. AND they’re attractive girls, so it’ll be super easy to replace me. quote:Im very good about being discrete. Highly unlikely she would ever find out. quote:They live 30 minutes apart and have no common friends. It’s impossible. They won’t find out unless I tel them. quote:I don’t want them seeing other guys and one of them has a weird name so I want to start calling her “babe” as soon as possible. Wait, what's that about a weird name? One of the girls I’m dating has a really weird name and doesn’t go by a nickname. Is this a legitimate reason to stop talking to her?(self.relationship_advice) quote:She’s a great girl and very pretty and sweet, but she has an extremely bizarre name that’s not feminine at all which is a huge turn off for me. The worst part is that you can’t even shorten the name to something simple, and she doesn’t have any nick names. The comments are as sane as you'd expect: quote:I agree it’s shallow but a name is something that will come up daily.. referring to her when talking about her, introducing her to people, etc.. I don’t know if I can handle going through that uncomfortable experience over and over again. If she had a nickname or a shortened name it would be fine, but she goes by her full name.. I don’t mind foreign names at all, but hers sounds SOO strange and masculine. quote:It’s not ridiculous. What if you met a great girl and then found out the name she wants to go by permanently was SpiderMan? Youd still want to date her? quote:The name shall not be spread. It will die with her. When she dies, so too will the name. And most recently: What can I do to get over my ex who dumped me 4 months ago?(self.relationship_advice) quote:For context, my [31 M] ex [26F] dumped me just before we were supposed to move in together because she lost feelings for me after an argument we had about one of her friends. I felt that she was taking her friends side over mine, so I was more contentious than usual but it never went beyond arguing. We haven’t spoken since breaking up. We also unfollowed each other on social media. I love how casual he is about stating this.
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Irukandji Syndrome posted:This one comes with a fun little surprise. These are the posts of an ranting controlling madman, like he clearly has not come to terms at all with getting dumped and is stalking this poor woman as a result
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The baby one, the reaction seems a bit extreme. a bit of sprite isnt gonna actually hurt the kid, firmly informing the person that they aren't to do it again seems like it would have been sufficient. But I get a feeling they might have done exactly that and OP is the one that got defensive and responded poorly....Gats Akimbo posted:For three loving months?!? I've never been to a party thay can maintain its momentum after the two week mark, this is obviously just another lie to cover up the fact that he's staying as his mistress's house.
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# ? May 22, 2021 22:21 |
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Is it really a party if he's not gonna get busted at work for skipping out?
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theflyingexecutive posted:🎶 you can tell by the way I use my walk lmao
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Gats Akimbo posted:For three loving months?!? Let ye who has not partied hard straight through an entire fiscal quarter throw the first stone. AITA for reporting my mom for identity faud quote:I(24M) and my gf put in an application to rent a condo and found out my mom borrowed $43K with my social insurance. I talk with a lawyer and he tells me I can either report my mom for identity fraud or pay it off(or declare bankruptcy). I confront my mom and she begs me not to do it and just pay off the debt. I don’t have anywhere near that money and decide to do what the lawyer recommended. The lawyer told me filling out the police report is not the same as pressing charges but I’m still scared what might happen to her.
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Funky Valentine posted:Let ye who has not partied hard straight through an entire fiscal quarter throw the first stone.
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John Wick of Dogs posted:Babies can have a little sprite, as a treat In Europe this is very normal.
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# ? May 22, 2021 23:27 |
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MrJazzels posted:These are the posts of an ranting controlling madman, like he clearly has not come to terms at all with getting dumped and is stalking this poor woman as a result Definitely. Also though that guy posting videos of doing 170mph on the freeway needs to lose his legal ability to drive
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Silly Burrito posted:This is my theory for my upcoming line of colognes/perfumes that smell like:
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AmiYumi posted:I’m not seeing “Mom or anyone else in the family apologized”, or “Mom offered to help/pay back in any way”, so as far as I’m concerned OP is still being too nice. With the police report and the family voluntarily cutting off contact, this is a solved problem. It doesn't even say what the mom took out the loan for. I mean obviously it's lovely either way, but there's a gulf of difference between taking out the loan to buy a lambo vs taking out the loan to avoid losing her house.
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Going back to inheritance chat, evenly splitting a confusing estate, where some objects are indivisible and have different values for different heirs, is actually a problem you can solve with math, no matter how many claimants there are. Its a bit tricky to just rattle off the algorithm for 3+ people, but for two heirs it's simple: one heir proposes a split, and the other heir chooses which half they want. The second heir is guaranteed to get the half they prefer and the first one is incentivized to split as evenly as possible to avoid getting a bad deal Of course none of this accounts for heirs who want an uneven split, requires weird language in the will, and assumes people aren't idiots. But following one of these strategies would help at least some families.
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cheetah7071 posted:Going back to inheritance chat, evenly splitting a confusing estate, where some objects are indivisible and have different values for different heirs, is actually a problem you can solve with math, no matter how many claimants there are. Its a bit tricky to just rattle off the algorithm for 3+ people, but for two heirs it's simple: one heir proposes a split, and the other heir chooses which half they want. The second heir is guaranteed to get the half they prefer and the first one is incentivized to split as evenly as possible to avoid getting a bad deal The whole "no give me 1/5 of the plot of land" aren't people who are concerned in the slightest over getting a fair value at the time, it's all about making sure no one else gets the "good" inheritance or convinced that owning the a fraction of a total land plot land will be their future lottery ticket.
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# ? May 23, 2021 02:11 |
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Soysaucebeast posted:It doesn't even say what the mom took out the loan for. I mean obviously it's lovely either way, but there's a gulf of difference between taking out the loan to buy a lambo vs taking out the loan to avoid losing her house. There is not. Defrauding your adult children and actively attempting to ruin their lives is lovely no matter what you're spending the money on.
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Silly Newbie posted:There is not. Defrauding your adult children and actively attempting to ruin their lives is lovely no matter what you're spending the money on. Thank you for clarifying there is no difference between the two listed scenarios, you are very smart and definitely thought this through
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cheetah7071 posted:Going back to inheritance chat, evenly splitting a confusing estate, where some objects are indivisible and have different values for different heirs, is actually a problem you can solve with math, no matter how many claimants there are. Its a bit tricky to just rattle off the algorithm for 3+ people, but for two heirs it's simple: one heir proposes a split, and the other heir chooses which half they want. The second heir is guaranteed to get the half they prefer and the first one is incentivized to split as evenly as possible to avoid getting a bad deal Land makes people lose their loving minds. In this case, "give me 1/5 the inheritance" is the exact wrong solution because you cannot sell it at 1/5 size. You need to sell it and then split the proceeds. For some reason, insane heirs cannot be talked into doing this, at least in my experience. Even if the kids don't hate each other, you just can't get them to understand that it would be vastly easier to sell the normal-sized parcel of land and split the money vs splitting it into unusable bits that nobody wants. It's divisible easily if you take a single step. They won't because MAH LAND
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I cyberstalk my dad online as best I can because he's too stupid to use a computer, specifically so I can find out when he finally loving dies and I can appear like a dark storm and challenge every part of his will. I'm pretty sure his new family doesnt even know I exist so I hope they're already buckled up because I'm turning his inheritance into a complete poo poo show.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for how I reacted to my BIL lying to my sister Is her BIL Newt Gingrich
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AITA for telling a woman I'll donate to her sick kid's funeral costs?quote:Ask me for more details if needed. Many parents would be thrilled to have their child grow up to be the next Steve Jobs. This parent isn't willing to wait. (In the comments OP is quickly convinced to call Child Services, which has stepped in before in similar cases.)
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Silly Newbie posted:There is not. Defrauding your adult children and actively attempting to ruin their lives is lovely no matter what you're spending the money on. I literally said that in the post you quoted? Soysaucebeast posted:It doesn't even say what the mom took out the loan for. I mean obviously it's lovely either way, but there's a gulf of difference between taking out the loan to buy a lambo vs taking out the loan to avoid losing her house.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:Demeter chocolate chip cookie. You definitely want to sample before buying, but Demeter's scents are amazing. I'm fond of their Grass (no, not that kind) and their Tomato Leaf. Well dang I knew I should've patented my idea first! But man, some of those scents are a little puzzling (crayon, earthworm, funeral home, fuzzy balls, glue, play-doh, turpentine????). And while they may not have crawfish, they do have lobster so I feel somewhat vindicated.
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Danaru posted:I cyberstalk my dad online as best I can because he's too stupid to use a computer, specifically so I can find out when he finally loving dies and I can appear like a dark storm and challenge every part of his will. I'm pretty sure his new family doesnt even know I exist so I hope they're already buckled up because I'm turning his inheritance into a complete poo poo show. is this one of those where you are completely ignored in the will, so it's the ripest ripe it could be for a challenge? I love how every piece of advice I've seen about it says something like "give anyone with a claim a token amount, like $100, so it's proof you didn't 'forget' them in the will" because wills and estates are a mess when more then one person has a claim much less estranged heirs. Reminder that Prince's entire estate is still being fought over by all his siblings, including them selling "shares" in the estimated estate to either pay for the years long legal battle or just for a quick cash payout.
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pentyne posted:is this one of those where you are completely ignored in the will, so it's the ripest ripe it could be for a challenge? Yep, and knowing my dad he'll be too spiteful/stupid to give me even a token amount I dont even want anything, I just want to be an obstacle and an old shame that refuses to go away one final time
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Boyfriend [27M] wants to keep drinks on the floorquote:I know the title sounds obscure, but it's pretty much exactly what it says.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Boyfriend [27M] wants to keep drinks on the floor As big as I am in minimalism for living spaces, constantly leaving drinks on the floor is not a feature of that. Arguing over basic furniture needs like not throwing clothes on the floor (why the gently caress was this ever acceptable for even 2 seconds?) isn't "ultra-minimalism" is laziness and possibly the mental illness extreme cheapskate poo poo.
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AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend for mixing all my spices and putting them in one container?quote:AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend for mixing all my spices and putting them in one container?
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teen witch posted:AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend for mixing all my spices and putting them in one container? This is either bait or exhibit A for the defense in a murder trial next year.
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