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Sisal Two-Step posted:I disagree and here's why, why do you hate me
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spouse posted:If you're trying to make a prescriptive claim, you really should be able to argue any position from a non-emotional perspective, using data to trace a logical path to substantiate your claim. I have found the sort of people who demand this sort of thing are generally incapable of following it anyway, in addition to starting, themselves, with all sorts of emotional priors and prejudices they straight up refuse to acknowledge because it might reveal their motivated reasoning. Also, they usually use the "logic required" thing to dismiss not just emotions but *any* sort of initial value judgement held by the other person which is... prescriptive claims can only exist within a value defined context. You can't do logic without a starting point. I frequently get frustrated with people's inability to understand, articulate, ot lay out the logic behind their arguments, but "logician" bros are always, without exception, worse on all those fronts than a normal person.
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# ? May 24, 2021 00:32 |
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GlyphGryph posted:I have found the sort of people who demand this sort of thing are generally incapable of following it anyway, in addition to starting, themselves, with all sorts of emotional priors and prejudices they straight up refuse to acknowledge because it might reveal their motivated reasoning. Logic and emotions are not opposites, but in fact cannot exist without each other.
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# ? May 24, 2021 00:36 |
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GlyphGryph posted:Also, they usually use the "logic required" thing to dismiss not just emotions but *any* sort of initial value judgement held by the other person which is... prescriptive claims can only exist within a value defined context. You can't do logic without a starting point. Agreed, I meant you should be able to separate emotions from the logic of your position (at least until you hit axiomatic values, anyway), not discard their value. Speaking of axioms, this is incredibly online of me, and no one here has to watch it, but the OP this whole discussion is based on reminded me so much of this video: https://youtu.be/-nMdgzMF8Bc "Do you know how loving stupid you sound when you say that?" Healthy relationship lol.
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# ? May 24, 2021 00:40 |
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Kenshin posted:Logic and emotions are not opposites, but in fact cannot exist without each other. Logic and emotions are perfectly separable, it's just that they each have severe limitations when used independently of each other. Also, when talking about the complex world we live in we can never have all the facts required for whatever pure logic debatebeings think is possible to reach meaningful conclusions, not to mention that how others feel is also a fact that would have to be taken into account. On the flip side the "I feel it in my gut and you'll never convince me otherwise" people are just as bad. Their opinions are more easily dismissed since they're more transparent, but their level of self absorption is not much different.
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# ? May 24, 2021 00:51 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:My computer has emotions? Logic and emotions and whether they are separable is an active philosophical debate, and I favor the position of Dr. Robert Solomon who argues that they are strongly reliant on each other and cannot be fully separated. Pure logic cannot make decisions--at some point if you dig deep enough, a sort of preference for one result or another must be present for decisions to occur, and preferences do rely on our emotions.
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# ? May 24, 2021 00:58 |
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Kenshin posted:a sort of preference for one result or another must be present for decisions to occur, and preferences do rely on our emotions.
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# ? May 24, 2021 01:23 |
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I gently caress my computer and cum in it
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# ? May 24, 2021 01:24 |
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Ed. Ehhh I don't need to do this
betaraywil fucked around with this message at 01:57 on May 24, 2021 |
# ? May 24, 2021 01:26 |
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Tetramin posted:I gently caress my computer and cum in it :gb2yospos:
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# ? May 24, 2021 01:31 |
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I (28F) think my dad (62M) and husband (29M) conned me into marrying him.quote:My dad has personally picked all of my siblings’ spouses. When I was 20, I had a boyfriend who I believed was the love of my life, I wanted to marry him but my dad didn’t approve. He didn’t like his family, didn’t like his career aspirations and didn’t think he was “man enough”. He ended up driving him away. After that, I vowed to myself that I would never marry the man my dad picked for me.
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# ? May 24, 2021 01:36 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:I (28F) think my dad (62M) and husband (29M) conned me into marrying him. Yeesh, I mean, if dad just pretended not to like the guy because he liked him, then he's just clever. She said it herself, dad hating him made her like the husband more. If there's a secret plot about the dad setting them up and the husband pretending not to know, I look forward to the Hallmark movie next year or the double homicide trial covered by Nancy Grace.
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# ? May 24, 2021 01:44 |
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I’m confused he hated a dude the first time and it worked, but he completely changed tactics because of a vow she made to herself?
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# ? May 24, 2021 01:47 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:Land makes people lose their loving minds. In this case, "give me 1/5 the inheritance" is the exact wrong solution because you cannot sell it at 1/5 size. You need to sell it and then split the proceeds. For some reason, insane heirs cannot be talked into doing this, at least in my experience. Even if the kids don't hate each other, you just can't get them to understand that it would be vastly easier to sell the normal-sized parcel of land and split the money vs splitting it into unusable bits that nobody wants. me and my siblings have a fairly involved inheritance in common and we're all stepping verrry carefully to not end up hating each other.
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# ? May 24, 2021 01:56 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:There must be something more, because their birthdays are in different months. Wouldn't it be easier to guilt the older sister into babysitting by giving her her own party on her own day, and then saying "well, today is your sister's day so you have to xxxx" rather than making the day be supposedly about both? I am guessing the "something more" is that the parents can't be arsed to have two separate "inconveniences" but know they need to do SOMETHING to keep up appearances.
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# ? May 24, 2021 02:26 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:There must be something more, because their birthdays are in different months. Wouldn't it be easier to guilt the older sister into babysitting by giving her her own party on her own day, and then saying "well, today is your sister's day so you have to xxxx" rather than making the day be supposedly about both? This presupposes that the average bad parent is some cynical mastermind who gets their way through thoughtful manipulation instead of a big lovely moron who gets their way by making angry chimp noises at the smaller weaker morons until they comply
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# ? May 24, 2021 02:43 |
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"Enjoys going back to sleep", what the f. Me [24F] with my boyfriend [27 M] of two years, he destroyed the painting I made for him because it was a "cheap gift". quote:My boyfriend John is extremely difficult to buy presents for. He came from an affluent family and has a great job, and buys everything he wants whenever he wants it. I am lower income. I lost my job a few months ago and had to take on other one, which pays less, and I am struggling to pay my part of the rent and pay off my student loans. It is difficult for him to understand this most of the time.
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# ? May 24, 2021 04:15 |
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How about a return to inheritance bullshit with some pointless attempts at emotional blackmail and toothless legal threats. AITA For Not Paying For My Stepchildren's College? quote:Throwaway Account
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# ? May 24, 2021 04:29 |
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I like how life insurance is an entirely separate system from the estate or normal inheritance proceedings-- it's a contract with a company to pay specific people if you die, and doesn't get tangled in lawsuits.
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:16 |
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Scaevolus posted:I like how life insurance is an entirely separate system from the estate or normal inheritance proceedings-- it's a contract with a company to pay specific people if you die, and doesn't get tangled in lawsuits. Reminds me of companies taking out life insurance policies on their employees.
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:21 |
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Scaevolus posted:I like how life insurance is an entirely separate system from the estate or normal inheritance proceedings-- it's a contract with a company to pay specific people if you die, and doesn't get tangled in lawsuits. I'll still gently caress with my heirs from beyond the grave by borrowing against it and giving the money to one son, so the other son knows that his brother has robbed him of "his" money.
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:27 |
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I recently discovered my current gf is one of these people and I dunno how to proceed. If it ever gets to the stage of moving in together I'll probably suggest keeping separate bedrooms so we don't need to sleep together on a night she's working.
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:36 |
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Minrad posted:I recently discovered my current gf is one of these people and I dunno how to proceed. If it ever gets to the stage of moving in together I'll probably suggest keeping separate bedrooms so we don't need to sleep together on a night she's working. Separate bedrooms is the poo poo, and when you sleep together, separate blankets. My girlfriend gyrates like a fish in the night so I usually only sleep in her bed a few times a week, and the separation of space has really been dope. While it probably would be cheaper if we rented a one bedroom, a two bedroom is marginally more expensive where I live and oftentimes cheaper. So, it's a win-win arrangement that I thought would be weird at first but has been absolutely excellent. YMMV.
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:49 |
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AITA for telling my husband's cousin that she can't compare her loss to mine? quote:My 2-year-old daughter passed away early last year. It has been hell on my husband and I. We’re slowly putting the pieces of our lives back together but I know it’ll never be the same. Most people in our lives have been great, others say things they think are helpful but honestly aren’t. I try to ignore them for the most part because I know they’re well meaning.
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:52 |
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one of those people... who has to have an alarm go off every hour all night long? how is that a thing?
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:54 |
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I like waking up and realizing I can go back to sleep enough that I did it for awhile, but apparently it's not good for you so now I only do it once in a blue moon
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# ? May 24, 2021 05:56 |
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I'm almost 100% sure that twitter post about alarms is a joke.
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# ? May 24, 2021 06:39 |
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I assume its a joke but its such a vile one Im still mad
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# ? May 24, 2021 06:47 |
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I always set three alarms. One for when I should get up, one for when I have to get up, and one in the middle of them. I usually get up at the first one, but I am a super heavy sleeper and the extra security from multiple alarms has saved my rear end more than once.
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# ? May 24, 2021 06:58 |
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The Chad Jihad posted:I like waking up and realizing I can go back to sleep enough that I did it for awhile, but apparently it's not good for you so now I only do it once in a blue moon I used to enjoy working my snooze button for an hour or so. I effectively got extra REM sleep in 15 minutes intervals. Doing it with a set alarm for hours, and when you aren't sleeping alone, that's just cruel to your partner.
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# ? May 24, 2021 07:03 |
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Serephina posted:I'm almost 100% sure that twitter post about alarms is a joke. it's not, there are literally people who punch snooze every 15 minutes for hours instead of just setting an alarm for when they want to wake up
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# ? May 24, 2021 07:09 |
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Snoozing or setting two alarms tops is fine, but alarms every fifteen minutes for hours is loving insane and how are you getting any decent sleep????
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# ? May 24, 2021 07:14 |
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Serephina posted:I'm almost 100% sure that twitter post about alarms is a joke. What about all the replies going "Oh yeah me too" sprinkled among the "What the gently caress"s? teen witch posted:Snoozing or setting two alarms tops is fine, but alarms every fifteen minutes for hours is loving insane and how are you getting any decent sleep???? He says the best part of sleeping is... uh, falling asleep after being woken up? Which is the world's most alien concept to me. He actively does it because he wants to wake up and then fall back asleep, not because he has any trouble waking up. Midnight Voyager fucked around with this message at 07:37 on May 24, 2021 |
# ? May 24, 2021 07:33 |
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Serephina posted:I'm almost 100% sure that twitter post about alarms is a joke. Barudak posted:I assume its a joke but its such a vile one Im still mad Pretty much this. However I will say I won't share a bed with someone that needs more than 2 alarms in the morning. You get one hit of the snooze and that's it. Content. Six years ago... Got into a verbal argument with my (30F) SIL (38F), went to bed, woke up to her cutting my hair. quote:She has been my sister-in-law for a year and we have never gotten along. She has always been rude and condescending to me. My husband wanted to visit his sister the day (Monday), and I reluctantly agreed. I tried my best to be civil, but she kept picking fights. She eventually started a verbal disagreement about how my husband could have done better than me etc. I tried to keep my cool and ignore her, but she eventually started screaming and my husband had to tell her to calm down and intervene. DeadMansSuspenders fucked around with this message at 07:41 on May 24, 2021 |
# ? May 24, 2021 07:37 |
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I'ma guess that doing that for years fucks your sleeping habits up somehow even worse than mine.
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# ? May 24, 2021 07:42 |
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My (34F) new boyfriend (40M) of 2 years asked me what I would do if my deceased husband came back to life, and didn't like my answer.quote:My husband passed away 7 years ago in a freak accident. This is the first guy I have seriously dated since.
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# ? May 24, 2021 07:48 |
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4 years ago. A text I sent to my (M24) GFs friend (F23) might have costed me my relationship because I was "rude" quote:Hi all, sorry if this is long in advance,
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# ? May 24, 2021 07:53 |
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:4 years ago. Can't even find any humor in this, just an ugly situation, yikes.
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# ? May 24, 2021 08:15 |
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:4 years ago.
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Snuff Melange posted:Can't even find any humor in this, just an ugly situation, yikes. She definitely values the friendship with the trash fire of a friend over the 4 year relationship with her BF. Hopefully they broke up.
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